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| Lila | Posted: 25 June 2022 - 05:00 PM |
hi SubC! Sounds like a nice day, with the tunnel and the bread etc, yum! I went to see the Tots and had a nice visit but forgot to take over a couple of things, so only stayed an hour. I will go back in a bit and take my big girl Tot out for ice cream. Also, I got the curtains out of the dryer damp and hung them back up myself! I have never done it alone before. There are 4 floor length, heavy panels and they have like a dozen tiny alligator clips per panel on the rod to attach. But I got up there and did it! It looks nice and smells very fresh in my living room. I dusted a bit but have not gotten it all done yet. I did clean the windows and the windowsills and rods before I hung the curtains. There is still much to do and I will try and dust a bit before I go back over. I wish I had energy like I had this morning every day! I would have a clean house in no time! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 25 June 2022 - 09:44 PM |
Nice work Lila! I ran over something- Rock? Metal? No idea. With the lawnmower and threw it and sliced my hand and my forehead. Hand is just below the lowest knuckle of the index finger, which is swelling and becoming useless, and forehead needed two butterfly bandages and will most likely scar. Milking should be fun tomorrow and cheese making is cancelled. (I'm utd on tetanus shots.) I insisted on Dh taking me to an event in a nearby town anyway, and he insisted I wear a hat. We ran into a couple we knew from long ago - our 14 y.o. had a huge crush on their 13 y.o. And theirs seemed at least interested back - and then they promptly moved to another continent for a job. We caught up a bit and exchanged numbers (they are in the country until November.) I told the child in question we ran into them and the response was "it's not too late for me to get a divorce." Sadly, the crush is living in yet another foreign country and engaged, so my child agreed it would be wise to hang on to their spouse. Very tired now. Also achey. Going to try to sleep. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 25 June 2022 - 09:44 PM |
Nice work Lila! I ran over something- Rock? Metal? No idea. With the lawnmower and threw it and sliced my hand and my forehead. Hand is just below the lowest knuckle of the index finger, which is swelling and becoming useless, and forehead needed two butterfly bandages and will most likely scar. Milking should be fun tomorrow and cheese making is cancelled. (I'm utd on tetanus shots.) I insisted on Dh taking me to an event in a nearby town anyway, and he insisted I wear a hat. We ran into a couple we knew from long ago - our 14 y.o. had a huge crush on their 13 y.o. And theirs seemed at least interested back - and then they promptly moved to another continent for a job. We caught up a bit and exchanged numbers (they are in the country until November.) I told the child in question we ran into them and the response was "it's not too late for me to get a divorce." Sadly, the crush is living in yet another foreign country and engaged, so my child agreed it would be wise to hang on to their spouse. Very tired now. Also achey. Going to try to sleep. | |
| Beck13 | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 11:59 AM |
Good morning subclinical, Thank you for the sweet comment About lemonade. I try to be positive, Yet I'm accually guite overwhelmed. Taking a break after selling my beloved mountain Good job at the camp.I love children. What My baby's are 10 weeks.Main Coons are amazing. I'm not a breeder. But ended up with I used to have big gardens years ago. Now I have a bunch of house plants. This house is my big downfall. Just want to So happy to have found this website Becky | |
| Lila | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 01:13 PM |
hi all! Well I definately skipped the party, and have been busy, as my new little tot was born! Healthy and happy and a great experience! They are coming home today so I will be busy holding my new little grandtot many days! The carpet cleaners came and so I had to move all the furniture except big stuff to the dining room and it is mostly still there. I would like to clean it all before putting things back. Everything is exceptionally dusty. Road, you did great! I feel the same way about doing things just so I can come and tell you all about it. This group is a motivator and I am happy you're all here. Before the totarrival I did get one corner of the kitchen counter cleaned. I even moved all the appliances and scrubbed the edges of the counter with a toothbrush. I cleaned the crock pot, blender and other things on the counter in that corner. Yes the rest of the kitchen is a disaster, but there is one very clean corner. lol. Today I plan to dust the living room before putting furniture back in. I think I will wash the drapes... they are covered in dust and dog hair. It's a big job taking them down and putting them back up. I will do one window at a time. As I put items back I will decide if I REALLY want to put them back, or donate them. Thank you for all the support you guys! | |
| Lila | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 01:13 PM |
hi all! Well I definately skipped the party, and have been busy, as my new little tot was born! Healthy and happy and a great experience! They are coming home today so I will be busy holding my new little grandtot many days! The carpet cleaners came and so I had to move all the furniture except big stuff to the dining room and it is mostly still there. I would like to clean it all before putting things back. Everything is exceptionally dusty. Road, you did great! I feel the same way about doing things just so I can come and tell you all about it. This group is a motivator and I am happy you're all here. Before the totarrival I did get one corner of the kitchen counter cleaned. I even moved all the appliances and scrubbed the edges of the counter with a toothbrush. I cleaned the crock pot, blender and other things on the counter in that corner. Yes the rest of the kitchen is a disaster, but there is one very clean corner. lol. Today I plan to dust the living room before putting furniture back in. I think I will wash the drapes... they are covered in dust and dog hair. It's a big job taking them down and putting them back up. I will do one window at a time. As I put items back I will decide if I REALLY want to put them back, or donate them. Thank you for all the support you guys! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 08:00 PM |
Hooray for the grand tot! I strongly support deep cleaning the rest of the room and only putting back things you really want! Becky, you have been through a lot lately! In my regular teaching job I have ages 5-18. For camp, 5-12. First week of camp is over. We had a great day today with an ice cream party and an art show. After camp we had a staff meeting to discuss the week and rough out plans for next week. It started with "beer's in the fridge" and included "so what do you guys want me to get you (supplies) for next week?" I came home happy and less tired than any Friday in the last year of my regular job. Ran a load of wash. Working on the dishes. Dd has to work tomorrow, so dsil is bringing the Bean out here. He is missing his respite care days. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 08:00 PM |
Hooray for the grand tot! I strongly support deep cleaning the rest of the room and only putting back things you really want! Becky, you have been through a lot lately! In my regular teaching job I have ages 5-18. For camp, 5-12. First week of camp is over. We had a great day today with an ice cream party and an art show. After camp we had a staff meeting to discuss the week and rough out plans for next week. It started with "beer's in the fridge" and included "so what do you guys want me to get you (supplies) for next week?" I came home happy and less tired than any Friday in the last year of my regular job. Ran a load of wash. Working on the dishes. Dd has to work tomorrow, so dsil is bringing the Bean out here. He is missing his respite care days. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 June 2022 - 09:06 AM |
Hello everyone, Happy Saturday! Congratulations on the new grand tot, Lila! I do like the idea of deciding what goes back into the room. Now is a good time. See what you can do, if it becomes overwhelming then stop. But why not reassess? You could gain some space! I am making a goodwill run today. I have a bag of stuff to go. I have the kettle on and so will enjoy some freshly brewed coffee in a few minutes. I'm going to make a list. It's been helping me lately. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 June 2022 - 09:06 AM |
Hello everyone, Happy Saturday! Congratulations on the new grand tot, Lila! I do like the idea of deciding what goes back into the room. Now is a good time. See what you can do, if it becomes overwhelming then stop. But why not reassess? You could gain some space! I am making a goodwill run today. I have a bag of stuff to go. I have the kettle on and so will enjoy some freshly brewed coffee in a few minutes. I'm going to make a list. It's been helping me lately. | |
| Beck13 | Posted: 23 June 2022 - 11:41 AM |
Good morning guys. Great hearing about Your days. So I'm using my love for rock as a inspiration to clear kitchen counters. I have agate,crystals,fool's gold specimens etc. I can enjoy them if they are all boxed up. Need to get more shelving. My true loves are my Also removing stuff that should not be in the house. A ladder,boards,tree root system.buckets I'm in Colorado. I have 3 kittens,main coon mixes. You guys are amazing. Love the sight. Becky | |
| Beck13 | Posted: 23 June 2022 - 11:41 AM |
Good morning guys. Great hearing about Your days. So I'm using my love for rock as a inspiration to clear kitchen counters. I have agate,crystals,fool's gold specimens etc. I can enjoy them if they are all boxed up. Need to get more shelving. My true loves are my Also removing stuff that should not be in the house. A ladder,boards,tree root system.buckets I'm in Colorado. I have 3 kittens,main coon mixes. You guys are amazing. Love the sight. Becky | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 23 June 2022 - 06:25 PM |
Thanks SubC for the correction! I appreciate it and you are right! Many years ago, I would've been in my thirties, and I tracked down two of my teachers to thank them. I had been a very confused teen and they tried really hard with me. Becky, keep working on getting the stuff out of your house! The kitty cats will appreciate it! I'm so glad you are here. I did my sheets and also a load of darks. Just a little pick me up. I had to fold the sheets and the darks are hung up. Very beautiful day here. We had a few minutes of rain but otherwise cool and sunny and breezy. So pleasant. I'll gather up my recycling and clean kitty's litter box soon. May stop by mom's. I cannot tell you the peace that has washed over me, knowing that she's losing her marbles and not just lying. It's changed a lot for me. She was a bit of liar to start with. Now that I know her lies are her attempt to make sense of things in her own brain, I'm good with it. She's doing what she can. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 23 June 2022 - 06:25 PM |
Thanks SubC for the correction! I appreciate it and you are right! Many years ago, I would've been in my thirties, and I tracked down two of my teachers to thank them. I had been a very confused teen and they tried really hard with me. Becky, keep working on getting the stuff out of your house! The kitty cats will appreciate it! I'm so glad you are here. I did my sheets and also a load of darks. Just a little pick me up. I had to fold the sheets and the darks are hung up. Very beautiful day here. We had a few minutes of rain but otherwise cool and sunny and breezy. So pleasant. I'll gather up my recycling and clean kitty's litter box soon. May stop by mom's. I cannot tell you the peace that has washed over me, knowing that she's losing her marbles and not just lying. It's changed a lot for me. She was a bit of liar to start with. Now that I know her lies are her attempt to make sense of things in her own brain, I'm good with it. She's doing what she can. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 04:49 AM |
Good morning! Becky, will you put some of your ricks out as decorations on the counters when they are clean? When you say you have three kittens and you get calls - are you a breeder for the Maine coon cats? I had a friend years ago who really wanted one, but they were so expensive. Tatoulia, I am glad you are finding peace. You are one of the most "make lemonade" people I know! Last day of the first week of camp today - so halfway through. I have such a list for my weekend - including that if I work on the basement I can take a trip to the big recycling center after work on Thursday. It is only a 15 minute trip from work, and then no longer to home than from work to home, so it would be very sensible to get that done. But then there is the garden, and the stalls, and the cheese making, and the house is such a mess.. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 04:49 AM |
Good morning! Becky, will you put some of your ricks out as decorations on the counters when they are clean? When you say you have three kittens and you get calls - are you a breeder for the Maine coon cats? I had a friend years ago who really wanted one, but they were so expensive. Tatoulia, I am glad you are finding peace. You are one of the most "make lemonade" people I know! Last day of the first week of camp today - so halfway through. I have such a list for my weekend - including that if I work on the basement I can take a trip to the big recycling center after work on Thursday. It is only a 15 minute trip from work, and then no longer to home than from work to home, so it would be very sensible to get that done. But then there is the garden, and the stalls, and the cheese making, and the house is such a mess.. | |
| Beck13 | Posted: 24 June 2022 - 11:59 AM |
Good morning subclinical, Thank you for the sweet comment About lemonade. I try to be positive, Yet I'm accually guite overwhelmed. Taking a break after selling my beloved mountain Good job at the camp.I love children. What My baby's are 10 weeks.Main Coons are amazing. I'm not a breeder. But ended up with I used to have big gardens years ago. Now I have a bunch of house plants. This house is my big downfall. Just want to So happy to have found this website Becky | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 23 June 2022 - 04:45 AM |
Oh my, no tatoulia! Done properly the job is hard work, but the life is not hard! A pizza delivery person's life is hard. Working on a road crew is a hard life. That was not the takeaway from that at all! I wish teaching paid well enough that more teachers had a choice about working for pay in the summer. I wish more schools would just let teachers teach and not inflict so much administrative nonsense on them. I wish everybody had small classes like I've so that they could focus on their students better. but it is not a hard life! I love my job, and In july and august i will be in charge of my own time for 57 consecutive days! One day last spring, I told some of my students that I was going to have to leave on time (they tend to linger after school) because I had a summer job interview, and one of them asked "what's a summer job for a teacher?" Another one snapped back with "the thing that puts food on the table all summer." The first one said "no, I mean, like, what do you do?" I told them "my garden puts food on the table all summer. But I'm interviewing for a camp job." One of our English teachers tends bar on weekends. She ended up moving into her friend's basement during covid. She is amazing and would make more money in public school, but she won't leave our program. We have so much more freedom and joy than a "real" school. At one point two of my kids were double majoring in education and something else (neither became a teacher after graduation, but both married teachers) my youngest was still at home and would clearly not be following her father's career path. Dh complained "how did we end up with two teachers and no (his better respected, better paid job)?" The youngest proceeded to do impressions of how each of us came home from work. - basically I made my job look fun, and he made his look awful. (Ironically, the youngest did not major in education, but coaches and teaches swimming as her second job.) Camp should be easy today - lots of finishing things. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 23 June 2022 - 04:45 AM |
Oh my, no tatoulia! Done properly the job is hard work, but the life is not hard! A pizza delivery person's life is hard. Working on a road crew is a hard life. That was not the takeaway from that at all! I wish teaching paid well enough that more teachers had a choice about working for pay in the summer. I wish more schools would just let teachers teach and not inflict so much administrative nonsense on them. I wish everybody had small classes like I've so that they could focus on their students better. but it is not a hard life! I love my job, and In july and august i will be in charge of my own time for 57 consecutive days! One day last spring, I told some of my students that I was going to have to leave on time (they tend to linger after school) because I had a summer job interview, and one of them asked "what's a summer job for a teacher?" Another one snapped back with "the thing that puts food on the table all summer." The first one said "no, I mean, like, what do you do?" I told them "my garden puts food on the table all summer. But I'm interviewing for a camp job." One of our English teachers tends bar on weekends. She ended up moving into her friend's basement during covid. She is amazing and would make more money in public school, but she won't leave our program. We have so much more freedom and joy than a "real" school. At one point two of my kids were double majoring in education and something else (neither became a teacher after graduation, but both married teachers) my youngest was still at home and would clearly not be following her father's career path. Dh complained "how did we end up with two teachers and no (his better respected, better paid job)?" The youngest proceeded to do impressions of how each of us came home from work. - basically I made my job look fun, and he made his look awful. (Ironically, the youngest did not major in education, but coaches and teaches swimming as her second job.) Camp should be easy today - lots of finishing things. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 06:48 PM |
Road good job on the sorting out and discarding! I'm glad you're getting some "normal". Heat advisory again today - and a horrible storm on the drive home so I couldn't roll the windows down to cool the car. The heat really wears me out. Hi Becky, hi CM, Hi Tatoulia! Hi "actually Lila" - lol! I do get vacations, but not paid. My regular job ended May/June - classes were out the last week of May and evaluations were due June 10. I had a week "off" to catch up with stuff around the farm, and then my camp job started the 20th. That goes through July 1, and then I don't plan to get paid again until school responsibilities officially start Aug 28, but I'll spend time doing planning and prep and I have work to do on my classroom over the summer. We are going to take an actual vacation this summer in July as my Dad has rented a beach house for a week and invited all of my family and my brother's family. (I have the one brother and no sisters) | |
| Road | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 04:03 PM |
Hi all, This am was the first "normal" day for quite awhile. I just started doing some work outside and thought of you all and kept doing stuff JUST so I could come here and tell you all about it. - three broken hose in the garbage. This am was the first "normal" day for quite awhile. I just started doing some work outside and thought of you all and kept doing stuff JUST so I could come here and tell you all about it. - threw broken hose in the garbage. I'm forgetting a couple things but that's it for now. Hope to come back later! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 09:26 PM |
Quick check in. Road, great work! Lila, I'm exhausted these days, too. I wake up and get up but my brain isn't awake. Very weird feeling. Hello CM and Becky! I was at office today and stayed fairly late. Did a quick stop at mom's to see how clean her space is (cleaners came today). Now I'm showered and ready for bed. I do love my clean sheets nights. My house is very clean. I never would have gotten to this point without your help and some help from friends. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 09:26 PM |
Quick check in. Road, great work! Lila, I'm exhausted these days, too. I wake up and get up but my brain isn't awake. Very weird feeling. Hello CM and Becky! I was at office today and stayed fairly late. Did a quick stop at mom's to see how clean her space is (cleaners came today). Now I'm showered and ready for bed. I do love my clean sheets nights. My house is very clean. I never would have gotten to this point without your help and some help from friends. | |
| Beck13 | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 11:10 AM |
Good morning I got so wired from Al the new info Plus my daughter finaly reached out. She keeps herself quite distanced. Which Drives me crazy. Tatoulia, Great job at the camp. I sure Miss kids.I have a close girlfriend who Is being passive,aggressive. I call,she doesn't. So I am pulling back. Have a nice day,Becky | |
| Beck13 | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 11:10 AM |
Good morning I got so wired from Al the new info Plus my daughter finaly reached out. She keeps herself quite distanced. Which Drives me crazy. Tatoulia, Great job at the camp. I sure Miss kids.I have a close girlfriend who Is being passive,aggressive. I call,she doesn't. So I am pulling back. Have a nice day,Becky | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 12:13 PM |
Very quick drive by - greetings to all and welcome to Becky. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 12:13 PM |
Very quick drive by - greetings to all and welcome to Becky. | |
| Actually Lila | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 01:48 PM |
hi all, SubC do you get a summer vacation time? I am looking at my own calendar and wondering why everyone else who actually is employed where I volunteer gets weeks of vacation time, while I stay and work while everyone is gone, and then when they come back I keep right on working to support what is going on. Which means, in 4 years I have taken one week off, twice, in the whole time, plus the week I had covid and the week I was dealing with cancer. And I am a volunteer. I need to actually schedule myself a break in the summer but I have a lot going on. I was so tired this morning I could barely drag out of bed. I think I will skip the party thing tonight and stay home. I actually went and got an energy drink on the way home because I can't afford to have another day wasted lying around. I HAVE to get some cleaning done. It is getting the the point of gross around here, and embarrassing. So I am sipping the energy drink now, waiting for it to kick in (which it will since I haven't had one in months) and hope I can get the kitchen and living room clean. The bar/counter between them is another story entirely so I won't worry about that until I get the main areas done. Goals: I will let oyu know how it goes. | |
| Actually Lila | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 01:48 PM |
hi all, SubC do you get a summer vacation time? I am looking at my own calendar and wondering why everyone else who actually is employed where I volunteer gets weeks of vacation time, while I stay and work while everyone is gone, and then when they come back I keep right on working to support what is going on. Which means, in 4 years I have taken one week off, twice, in the whole time, plus the week I had covid and the week I was dealing with cancer. And I am a volunteer. I need to actually schedule myself a break in the summer but I have a lot going on. I was so tired this morning I could barely drag out of bed. I think I will skip the party thing tonight and stay home. I actually went and got an energy drink on the way home because I can't afford to have another day wasted lying around. I HAVE to get some cleaning done. It is getting the the point of gross around here, and embarrassing. So I am sipping the energy drink now, waiting for it to kick in (which it will since I haven't had one in months) and hope I can get the kitchen and living room clean. The bar/counter between them is another story entirely so I won't worry about that until I get the main areas done. Goals: I will let oyu know how it goes. | |
| Road | Posted: 22 June 2022 - 04:03 PM |
Hi all, This am was the first "normal" day for quite awhile. I just started doing some work outside and thought of you all and kept doing stuff JUST so I could come here and tell you all about it. - three broken hose in the garbage. This am was the first "normal" day for quite awhile. I just started doing some work outside and thought of you all and kept doing stuff JUST so I could come here and tell you all about it. - threw broken hose in the garbage. I'm forgetting a couple things but that's it for now. Hope to come back later! | |