| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 September 2019 - 06:50 AM |
Good morning and coffee clinks!!! Starting Phase 12! Happy Autumn! There's a proverb that says, Life starts anew when it gets crisp in the fall. Let's do this!!!! | |
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| Tatoulia | Posted: 06 October 2019 - 08:51 PM |
I'm suspending the badger's phone privileges! Glad to read your posts! Lovely that you had a visit with your neighbors and trying like heck not to say NEIGHbors when referring to the horses. When I was in VT my friend baked a tart with apples from her yard. Yummy! And the fresh farm stand apples sound delightful, SubC. Closet needs two hours. Must do tmr so as to get garbage out. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 06 October 2019 - 06:06 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone Hi Subclinical It does seem that you have spent a lot of time patching up the fence. WTG! for excellent budgeting during Summer break! How is Fraidy goat? hope he is no linger afraid & nervous. Hi Tatoulia Good luck dealing with all the ghosts, monsters and skeletons. Watered lilac bushes, garden and grass today. He will pitch a fit just because I moved them to the side yard where there is already a massive hoard of his other wonderful "stuff" that he has never used or had a use for. Made a grilled cheese sandwich with dill rye bread and pepper jack cheese. Very tasty. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 06 October 2019 - 01:26 PM |
Tatoulia, just think how hard it would have been to let them into your closet before all of your hard work! You have come a long way! Be proud of yourself! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 06 October 2019 - 11:27 AM |
Hello! Well I am going to have to work on my closet because the phone company needs to do work here and it's all in a closet. I'm so upset. They will be here Wednesday. I say I am upset but I am not. It will force me to deal with the monsters and the skeletons in my closet. Garbage goes out tmr night. So it's today and tomorrow. I am upset but I'm not. I will face this. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 06 October 2019 - 06:28 AM |
Thanks! Tillie, these are not my apples. I have two apple trees, but the critters always get all the apples before they are ready. We went picking at a local orchard that has been in business for over 100 years. I started taking the kids there when they were little. I didn't patch the fence yesterday. It is so bad that I just moved them to the other field. I think it is time to replace some of the fence. I need to save up some money though - I had $160 left before I got paid. (Don't worry, we have savings and dh covers most of our needs.) That is farm/pottery/things I want money. Except the mortgage. I pay that. But I only get paid October-June, so the $160 means I budgeted pretty well. Even with buying the new goat. I think badger wants IN to the closet. good luck Tatoulia! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 05 October 2019 - 10:55 PM |
Good Evening Everyone HAPPY BIRTHDAY WEEK Subclinical! Yes, I made the Lonely Cricket post. It's so nice that your teaching job brings you so much enjoyment. YEA! for repurposing those Tshirts! Hi Tatoulia Badger, Badger, Badger is in the closet and demands that you let him out! Was a very nice day here today. Hello CriticalMass 🙂 | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 05 October 2019 - 09:37 PM |
SubC, Happy birthday 🎈🎉🎁🎂🎊! What a great time of year for a birthday! Nice and cool here. Beautiful sunny day and I walked around quite a bit then came home and napped. Then I got up to visit mom. I'm keeping up with everything here e Celt my goal to work on my closet. I wonder what is wrong with me. One thing I've started to do is finish something. If I see something out of place, I put it in its place. Not a way-station along the way. Does anyone do that? You dongalf the job then decide to finish later? Example: I was closing my bedroom windows and the top windows had slid down so I couldn't lock them. I fixed one and in my mind I thought, I'll do the other one later. So I stopped myself and did them both. I do that a lot. Half-way. So I've been doing everything right away and I feel like a regular human being. Closet time in the AM! Let's do this! Tillie what will you be cooking??!!?? | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 05 October 2019 - 11:31 AM |
Hi Tillie, We're you the lonely crickets? I'm sorry i'm not around much these days. My "birthday week" has started and my oldest Dd is coming out to go apple picking with me this afternoon. It's a gorgeous fall day. I cleaned stalls this morning and I also need to mend fence and pick tomatoes. Dd likes tomatoes. Tomorrow is supposed to be rainy, so I will use it for my new October goal of getting my lesson plans done for the whole week. (Except I forgot some materials, so I will still have a bit of prep Tuesday night) i'm Excited about what is going on in most of my classes right nw, so it shouldn't feel like a chore. In fact, we have so many big projects happening, I might get two weeks under my belt. I'm also going to bake some apple cakes - one to freeze and one to eat. I used up five old t-shirts this past week for a project in one of my classes. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 05 October 2019 - 11:13 AM |
Good Morning | |
| Tillie | Posted: 04 October 2019 - 11:01 AM |
Good Morning Everyone I thought the cricket post was cute but I guess somebody thought it was spam and deleted it. ;p Hi Tatoulia Some days we just need to let life to go on around us without participating. Would have enjoyed going into town this morning but he has the car blocked in the driveway with his truck. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 04 October 2019 - 07:15 AM |
Good morning, Tillie, Scooter, Twinkles and Jack. And hello crickets! I had an unproductive day yesterday. I didn't go to work, I didn't get dressed, I didn't work on my closet and I didn't walk. But I did get showered and dressed at 5 to go visit a neighbor whose son had died suddenly and unexpectedly. BF made a large platter of cheese, fruit, crackers and nuts and we both went over. I ended up staying for a few hours. Very sad situation. I'm late for work. Tillie it has been significantly cooler here and more like fall. Last night was a bit drizzly with much cooler air. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 October 2019 - 11:26 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Supposed to get up to 70 degrees today, YEA! My kitchen is a mess so today I will do something about that. Scooter has been pestering Twinkles and it was getting worse. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 02 October 2019 - 06:16 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone Hi Tatoulia YEA! for working on a closet. Any amount of time spent is good progress. Very glad your class went well! 🙂 Hope the new product removed that very old spot for you. How nice it will be to sleep in your fresh clean professionally made up bed tonight. WAY TO GO!!! Miss Kitty! ;D Hi CriticalMass WAY TO GO!!! with your quilting!!! Great getting donations all ready to drop off. Good luck next week after all this sitting this week getting your room sorted out. 🙂 Was frigid over night but warmed up quickly after the sun rose. Let Twinkles go out this morning. My Ash tree is gorgeous. All decked out in gold leaves. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 02 October 2019 - 03:56 PM |
Drive by Sitting for my lady this week. Yesterday was the busiest day w/quilting a.m., holy hour afternoon, & sitting p.m. Today quilting a.m. - pleased how fast and productive I was, I think I must've quilted nearly 10 feet! Sitting again tonight. Tomorrow is payday! Then sitting in the eve again and on Friday all afternoon and Saturday early till midafternoon. Been doing small projects around the home too. Pulled donations in van together to be ready for dropping off. Next week will go all out on reclaiming bedroom. I could try flipping mattress again. Roommate had a foam topper thingy on it but I'm a terribly restless sleeper and it annoyed me. So when hers had to be tossed I gave it to her. Maybe I should just tie a pillow around my butt, LOL. I thought I had ample padding but it's something how hip bones are pretty close to the surface even on non-skinny people who side sleep. In a couple weeks I go back to the doc & I sure hope I will have gone to the gym finally. Plus she is going to try the adjustment if something's out of alignment. Tillie, I wish I could help you get Medicare, Medicaid, or both. I helped a friend with paperwork to get her Social Security Disability. I can go into my "talk like a lawyer mode." It's an app in my brain I can switch on, borne of being an English major and knowing them highfalutin' words, plus what others (including my attorney) have told me and I've studied re disability. Tatoulia, lil kit is special. SubC, three cheers for papa goat to be! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 02 October 2019 - 10:46 AM |
Washing my thin white quilt. I have a new product to take out stains and I'll be interested to see if it can take out a tiny little blood stain from a bloody nose so many years ago. I've stripped the bed for the cleaning ladies. I'm working and trying to get things done. My four/legged intern is helping. In her mind. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 02 October 2019 - 09:22 AM |
Tillie I am sickened by your treatment. I have heard horror stories about trying to get benefits and your is certainly the worst. When I used to fight for my brother's benefits, I'd frequently ask, what do people without advocates do? The treatment and attitude are sickening. As a side product of reducing my life, I have had to give up the idea that I need to save everyone, and that has proved to be so helpful. But I still advocate for my elderly neighbors such as helping to get a wheelchair for my neighbor when his was stolen, and helping another neighbor with his groceries and medications. I'm happy to get them what they need. But I'm no longer ?taking on new patients'. Ok I worked on one closet last night. Not the 30 minutes but a good deal of time. Today I completely forgot that it's the cleaning lady day. I'm pretty excited. I'm dressed, which is what I need to do if I want to be productive. My class went well and I stayed at work late last night, then passed by a store to buy the knife I need. I'll make my squash tonight as I don't know what time the ladies are arriving. I need to brush my kitty more. Her neck is a little lumpy. Let's see if she'll let me!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 October 2019 - 10:23 PM |
It was cold all day, tomorrow is supposed to get up to 60 degrees. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 October 2019 - 11:50 AM |
Good Morning Hi Tatoulia With the two of you helping Mom up & down the steps Starting now it will be even harder to resist all those holiday sweets. Hi Subclinical Hope the medication halts the progression for your macular degeneration! WTG! Billy Goat!!! ;D Without any health insurance I have not gone to a doctor since 1989. Anywho...Another very chilly day but last night was just a tad warmer than the last few nights. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 01 October 2019 - 06:21 AM |
Tatoulia, Way to go on being ready for your class! I have today covered and am working on tomorrow. Eventually I want to be ready for the whole week on Monday night! Actually, that is a good October goal. Tillie, I hope you start feeling better. I'm sure you are ruling out anything you can do medically, right? I went to the eye doctor yesterday. I have macular degeneration starting, but they have come so far since my dad was diagnosed that the dr. put me on twice daily meds and said there is a better than 90% chance that if I take them, the degeneration will never get bad enough for me to notice! Also I ordered new glasses. My little buck finally figured out his job this morning, so hopefully babies end of feb/start of March. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 10:39 PM |
Tillie, I'm so sorry that you are exhausted. I am so sorry. And exhaustion is both physical and mental. I'm just so sorry. My mother, although decades older than us, wakes up tired. She's in physical pain (like you) and I think the dull rhythm of her days are also exhausting. I'm grateful she has s new little buddy cat. The opening of the door seems to spook the car. I have to knock whether it's locked or unlocked, and thevteo things seem to send her flying. Maybe I'll start saying her name or mom's name when I walk in, so she gets used to it. I love that she came out and meowed three times. Kitty is now eating on the table we set by the door. I bought this for our other cat. This way mom doesn't have to bend down to feed her/change her bowls. Mom was very much restored from our baking adventure at our friend's house. My friend is very heat and very clean and her place is decorated so cutely. We didn't leave the kitchen but there is so much room. Mom seemed so happy and it's such an easy thing to be with my friend. We are going to do Christmas cookies next time around. There are three steps mom needs to take to get in. It is very difficult for her but we help her and make sure she takes her time. Cm I didn't realize you've been sleeping on the couch. I do hope you can clear off your bed and get s new mattress. I want you to be able to sleep peacefully and hopefully your pain will resolve. I've been stiff lately and I can tell I've gained weight by how my clothes fit. So that's a good reminder to lay off the sweets!! Going to bed now. Running a second dishwasher load now, as I managed to use an inordinate amount of pots and pans while cooking tonight. Goodnight, everyone. Thank you for listening to my ramblings. I'm sorry I'm a bit obsessed with mom's cat. She seems to extraordinary to me. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 09:28 PM |
Good Evening Everyone Good luck with your class Tatoulia. I am just so tired last few days. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 09:05 PM |
Garbage out, cat box cleaned. Made dinner. I over cooked the shrimp. Going to take recycling out then call it a day. I'm ready for class. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 06:57 PM |
I cleared off the few items on the hallway table. Thanks for the reminder, Tillie. After work I went to make a return, then I stopped to buy a new dustpan, then I went to get knives and a peeler. Not s good selection of knives st all. I might pass by Macy's on my way home tmr night. I'm running errands with BF now. Okay my October goal looks like this: I must get dressed every morning. I can make my coffee and log in to my computer but by the time I'm sipping the coffee, I need to be dressed. I need to work on a closet, any closet, for 30 minutes each day. No cheating. I have to face the monsters and the skeletons in my closet. That's the goal. I'm going to make it something I have to check off on my phone, the same that I have to check off my second set of medications every day at 10 AM. Mom's dishes should be done by the time I get home. My goal is to be home by 9:30. I also have to deal with my garbage and my cat box. Also I'm hungry so I need to give that some thought. I need to get ready for my class. I still haven't figured out if I can make it work in three classes or not. Might be a bit tough. I haven't timed my lectures in a while. Last time I taught it, I did it over five. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 03:43 PM |
I don't have my October goals yet. Working on them. I stopped up at mom's to change litter. As soon as I walked in, kitty ran to hide. The. She came out, came toward me, and meowed. I love her so much. So I snuggled then fed her. I picked up mom's dishes and I've loaded the dishwasher. Her new blanket has an odor. I've washed it once at her place and I brought it home to wash it again. I put in two tide pods and I think I'll use someone's bounce sheets. I have them but they are the unscented ones. I don't like dryer sheets but have them for when I wash kitty cat's things. My hall table has a bit of mail on it right now. Mail I am shredding, probably only two pieces left. The dish for my keys has two checks I need to deposit, in addition to me keys. My blue scarf is also there. Not bad. But not perfect, so I'll get on that. Unless BF wants to run errands, I think I'll go buy my knife and peeler tonight. Tillie a lot of my knives were at my brother's house because I'd do the holidays there. Time to buy some knives!!! Okay back to work. I completely forgot I'm teaching tmr. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 11:00 AM |
October goals... My main goal for October will be to do a good job winterizing the house. So, what are your October goals? 🙂 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 10:51 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi CriticalMass So Badger let you buy only two old Barbies. Looking forward to when you find the UFO books. WAY TO GO! for working on the clutter and the unhappy boxes and getting your bedroom sorted out! Hi Tatoulia YEA!!! for the tables & dresser top being clear & clean. So cold here. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 09:32 AM |
I enjoyed the posts, Tillie and CM! Tillie, thank you. I will keep track of my headaches. I'm also starting to wonder if it's a chocolate thing. That's something I've started to notice. My mother used to get migraines from chocolate and all of a sudden I think I know what she went through. I will keep a diary. My dr appt is on Veterans Day. I noticed today that my dresser is always clear now too. Isnt that funny? I've been keeping it clean and clear, and my cleaning ladies are keeping it dusted, so I just never notice that it's clean. This is good progress as I think it means I'm shifting away from having an area clean and cleared as being an aberration and having it be the norm. If I should put something on my bedroom chair, I now notice it and take the step to put it where it belongs. My cleaners have created a Rubbermaid tote under my bed for my day to day shoes, and I use it! In fact I love it. My dining room table is forever clean and clear. Cm I liked hearing about your day and the different thought processes you have regarding the categories of paperwork. Good progress! To the extent you can, avoid fast food. I haven't had it in years and years because it's a ball of salt. I know how tough it can be to plan food. I try to have a juice or a box of raisins on hand til I can get home and make something to eat. It's not easy! Never is it easy. I bought a butternut squash yesterday and realized I just don't have the correct knife so I'll go buy a knife today. I was also using the vegetable peeler at my friend's house and I need one of those too. I'll go for a walk tonight and buy both of those things. Ive needed them for a long time and now I want to eat the squash. In furtherance of my goal to get more done, I got dressed this AM instead of sitting around in my jammies. Coffee clinks!! Let's have a great day!!! | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 30 September 2019 - 12:08 AM |
This post may be disjointed and rambly... Glad we have a new thread - I had a hinky thing or two with the old one. Sorry you lost that post, though, Tillie. I got a kick out of the account of Scooter's consternation over your confiscating his fun new toy. Tatoulia, more and more happy about how well the new baby is settling in with your mom. The latter part of this past week I was making random progress pulling more things out of my bedroom. I knew there was just too much stuff in there and has been for a long time. I am seeing more floor. Realizing how jam packed the room was... it hasn't been so much denial as avoidance that's kept me from doing more about it. Well, that and sheer terror, LOL. Several bundles of stuff in there were ones I had brought over from storage at various times thinking I was ready to go through them and enter a few things in the computer on some, and ultimately shred all - only to find myself quickly sidetracked, and the bundles forgotten till they became parts of larger messy piles. So, I made the imperfect decision that for now, some of it's going back to storage. Over there is the Sad Box. That contains paperwork from the house foreclosure and I'm going to need some real successes under my belt to tackle it. I did get it pared down from several boxes at the time I transferred from the storage unit across town, though. And the motivational successes will come. I feel it. The stuff I will take back, I will put in maybe a Blah Box or Lethargic Box - first I'll need a box! They're not depressing or difficult enough to qualify as Sad Box stuff. This is all goofy, I know. But giving the boxes these dumb names is my way of declaring they ARE on their way out, just not today. And it beats just dumping them in an amorphous pile. There'll come a time I'll know I'm ready to deal with a Blah Box. Fall temperatures are coming, hot muggy days are still around but loosening their grip. I'm doing what I can to keep my schedule free to be able to plunge into the work at storage which is so very integrated with decluttering going on at home. Two battlefronts. There's also quilting fabric, not too much, that'll get stored, because I am behind in getting going on Quilt #2. These were fabrics that I considered for it but didn't need - but since they harmonize they can go in Quilt #3 or 4 etc. Also have a new donate sack started and will be looking to add to it. Here's an amusing tidbit: I've been looking for two of my UFO books (research reference for that one novel). It's like aliens abducted them! I have looked so many times here and at storage. When I find them I'll know I've really made progress, so when I post "Found my 2 UFO books!" it'll be a happy day. Thursday evening I had my Inkscape computer class at the library. Enjoyed it. It's just the beginning - they are hoping to offer a Part 2. And I will practice on my own. My back and hip pain have pretty much resolved themselves and I'm thinking I may know why. Since my room's got stuff on the bed I've been sleeping in the living room on the sofa. The bed mattress I realize really is hard, and a spring sometimes pokes me, and there had come to be junk in the bed AGAIN 🙁 When all that's clear, we'll see. Roommate indicated we could maybe purchase a different mattress as that one may be getting past its prime. Yesterday we had rain here, more on the south side where I was driving. I was on my way to the doll show. The selection was different this year - fewer contemporary Barbies, hence less temptation to buy several because it can be an overwhelming variety. From the 90s on, they made so many. I went for vintage Barbies instead. One blonde and one brunette with "bubble cut" bouffant hair like the very first ones I had as a kid, from a family owned doll shop in this state. Very reasonable price, and it was cool picking out which ones - it was like I could look at a doll and say she did or didn't resemble the one I had - over 50 years ago! This was simple and within my budget. I'll sew them period outfits. This coming week I'll be cleaning my room more, and sitting for my homebound lady some evenings or half days. SubC I'll continue to pray for the young man, his sister, and all family and friends. The pottery is lovely. All of us with weight loss goals and stressed fast paced lives must first try to find a calm center, methinks. I desire right now to eat less, and nothing too rich. Thursday at the Inkscape class I had to rush out as soon as it ended because of my tummy reacting to the fast food I had on the way. I can avoid such discomfort if I plan ahead better and eat things that are nourishing and easy to digest, in small portions. Well, by rambling I think I've caught up, for now. Wishing everyone a good week. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 September 2019 - 10:53 PM |
Having a good feeling is a wonderful reward. I have a good feeling when I see my kitchen counter is clear and clean. Cookie baking sounds like it was a lot of fun! 😀 Keep looking for those rewarding good feelings. Please keep a diary of your headaches to give to the doctor your next appointment. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 29 September 2019 - 07:11 PM |
I enjoyed the thoughtful discussion of goals/rewards. Thank you. Today was another productive day for me. I got up, enjoyed my coffee, walked to the grocery store (got groceries AND a walk), showered, picked up mom, and we went to my friend's house to bake cookies. Delightful. And on the way home I stopped at a store to get mom's Milk and other perishables and I put them in an insulated bag. I brought home zero cookies. Mom took a plate and I took a plate for BF. I ate my share while I was there. Delightful in every way. I had bought mom and friend aprons from Etsy and I'd brought my own apron with me. Now I'm home, just had dinner, and I have a headache. Oh! I didn't make change my sheets last night so I did this AM So I feel that by getting up early and getting out of the house, I am accomplishing a lot more and feeling a lot stronger and happier. I'd like to tie this feeling into my goal. I also need to continue to reduce, reduce, reduce. Body and possessions. Possessions and body. I'll find a way to set this into a goal and the payoff will be this feeling. Today I realized I have kept my coffee table free and clear for a while now. That is a very good feeling. So I'll hunt for these feelings. I may make it my goal to get up early each weekend day, get dressed, and walk. I took a bag to car for goodwill today. That's a great feeling. Things I still like are in there. And I did it! | |