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Ok, hopefully this will make a new thread that Everyone can find easily. If it works, I'll go put a note on the old thread. | |
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| Road | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 01:24 PM |
Lila, Great news about the stage 1. Big relief. Cm, good idea about the creative clutter. That's certainly a major category for me and I know it is for many people. I'm forgetting other things... Today so far I've worked on some genealogy stuff and then looked up some recipes and started prepping stuff for dinner. I am an intuitive cook and don't like following recipes, but now that I am dealing with some restrictions I find I have to try a lot of new recipes so I feel like I'm not deprived - especially of Thai/Vietnamese since it's typically at9mic levels of sodium. I'm trying lemongrass tofu. So far I've pressed the tofu and chopped up the shallot, lemongrass, garlic, ginger, bell pepper and cilantro... watched a few different videos on YouTube. Mine will be kind of a hybrid. Leave it to me to unnecessarily complicate things. Haha The H took my son to his bro's to swim in their pool today so I'm sure he's having a blast. One of his cousins on that side has been in the hospital for more than two weeks with eating disorder stuff. I know the mom has been staying there and has gotten a crash course so I hope they will be able to take care of her when she does come home. Sounds like she's going to an inpatient program next. She hasn't been able to eat/drink enough to get the feeding tube removed so it's a very serious situation. I'm looking around my room right now trying to figure out what I can do... maybe I'll start with bringing up the laundry... Lila, please do "serial post." It helps me, too. Over and out, | |
| Lila | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 02:38 PM |
Road, I do the hybrid recipe thing too! I like to cook, but I look at several recipes and figure out what will taste best from each one. It's fun. I hope yours turns out! Sounds delicious. I have really worked! I got called to do some emails and calls for a problem with the place I volunteer for, got that done. Then I: -cleaned out the microwave I am taking a rest and will eat lunch and then do something else. | |
| Lila | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 02:38 PM |
Road, I do the hybrid recipe thing too! I like to cook, but I look at several recipes and figure out what will taste best from each one. It's fun. I hope yours turns out! Sounds delicious. I have really worked! I got called to do some emails and calls for a problem with the place I volunteer for, got that done. Then I: -cleaned out the microwave I am taking a rest and will eat lunch and then do something else. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 02:39 PM |
Lila, I am very relieved about the stage one! I have a bunch of "lipomomas" which are "fatty tumors" they are non malignant and basically just caused by your body deciding to store a ball of fat somewhere random. apparently they are common, but most people get them in their butts so they don't notice. Road, I am sorry about your niece. Your dinner sounds amazing! I have cleaned up some dirty dishes and picked the spinach and cleared some space in the garden to plant pumpkins and edamame with Bean. He should be here soon. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 02:39 PM |
Lila, I am very relieved about the stage one! I have a bunch of "lipomomas" which are "fatty tumors" they are non malignant and basically just caused by your body deciding to store a ball of fat somewhere random. apparently they are common, but most people get them in their butts so they don't notice. Road, I am sorry about your niece. Your dinner sounds amazing! I have cleaned up some dirty dishes and picked the spinach and cleared some space in the garden to plant pumpkins and edamame with Bean. He should be here soon. | |
| Road | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 03:03 PM |
Subc, I am riddled with lipomas the little jerks. None in my butt that I know of... 🤓🤔 Lila, fantastic job in the kitchen, especially the fridge. I consider that level 2 cleaning... "advanced" if you will. You get bonus stars for that! - changed the laundry over and brought a basket up to fold That's my afternoon report, people. Such excitement! | |
| Road | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 03:03 PM |
Subc, I am riddled with lipomas the little jerks. None in my butt that I know of... 🤓🤔 Lila, fantastic job in the kitchen, especially the fridge. I consider that level 2 cleaning... "advanced" if you will. You get bonus stars for that! - changed the laundry over and brought a basket up to fold That's my afternoon report, people. Such excitement! | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 11:13 PM |
Hey... I had this idea 💡 Since I'm looking for other topics to post about, I thought maybe a thread about creative clutter might appeal to some of us and others who find this Daily Chat section. So I made one. If you're interested, check it out: | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 11:13 PM |
Hey... I had this idea 💡 Since I'm looking for other topics to post about, I thought maybe a thread about creative clutter might appeal to some of us and others who find this Daily Chat section. So I made one. If you're interested, check it out: | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 10:52 AM |
Good almost afternoon. Road you are ticking off the boxes! Go girl! That electrodes thing sounds like it is going to be a nightmare. We went to a baseball game in a nearby city with dd2 last night. It was fun, but we got hone at midnight. All of the weight of everything just crashed down in me and I slept until 11:30. (I put the does in with their kids last night so I wouldn't have to milk this morning) I've got about 5 hours before Bean shows up for a two day visit (double overnight - it's his parents' anniversary) CM, I like your thread, I like the idea of splitting things up - I think this thread chases people away sometimes because it's a lot and maybe they feel like outsiders and don't know that we're like the theme song from Cheers. It may be a bit before I come by though. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 10:52 AM |
Good almost afternoon. Road you are ticking off the boxes! Go girl! That electrodes thing sounds like it is going to be a nightmare. We went to a baseball game in a nearby city with dd2 last night. It was fun, but we got hone at midnight. All of the weight of everything just crashed down in me and I slept until 11:30. (I put the does in with their kids last night so I wouldn't have to milk this morning) I've got about 5 hours before Bean shows up for a two day visit (double overnight - it's his parents' anniversary) CM, I like your thread, I like the idea of splitting things up - I think this thread chases people away sometimes because it's a lot and maybe they feel like outsiders and don't know that we're like the theme song from Cheers. It may be a bit before I come by though. | |
| Lila | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 11:58 AM |
It's been a bit, but here I am, checking in, and doing better. The new testing and specialists determined I am stage 1 and the other tumors are not cancer (but still, hmmm). Anyway, they are just going to watch and wait, keep an eye on it. Good news! Catchng up on posts: SubC, I am trying to imagine the 4 square graph because it sounds very helpful. I am going to google it. I might be able to use that in my planner. Thanks for the suggestion. SubC, I am sorry you are so worn out. I hope you can take some time off soon to take care of yourself. It can get so hard when we are overwhelmed. I find sugar so comforting... going to get back onto the healthy eating train today and post on the other thread. Tatoulia, can you please explain orient to the task and not the result? Tatoulia, omg, your mom eating a Tide pod. Good for you staying calm and not overreacting. I'm glad she is ok. Mar, when I used to sanitize my purchases, I got an aerosol disinfectant and kept it by the door and misted it all on the front porch. Had a box inside the door to carry things n after they were sprayed. This is just an idea, so ignore if you prefer! CM, hugs, I will pray for you. Thanks for letting us know. hi Road! Nice to see you and I hope all the medical stuff calms down! You are getting things done for sure! I need a minute to gather my thoughts about what I want to get done today, but if you all don't mind I will post that here for accountability and I hope to hear what YOU are working on today. I am waiting for Tot the Second to be born any day 🙂 | |
| Lila | Posted: 11 June 2022 - 11:58 AM |
It's been a bit, but here I am, checking in, and doing better. The new testing and specialists determined I am stage 1 and the other tumors are not cancer (but still, hmmm). Anyway, they are just going to watch and wait, keep an eye on it. Good news! Catchng up on posts: SubC, I am trying to imagine the 4 square graph because it sounds very helpful. I am going to google it. I might be able to use that in my planner. Thanks for the suggestion. SubC, I am sorry you are so worn out. I hope you can take some time off soon to take care of yourself. It can get so hard when we are overwhelmed. I find sugar so comforting... going to get back onto the healthy eating train today and post on the other thread. Tatoulia, can you please explain orient to the task and not the result? Tatoulia, omg, your mom eating a Tide pod. Good for you staying calm and not overreacting. I'm glad she is ok. Mar, when I used to sanitize my purchases, I got an aerosol disinfectant and kept it by the door and misted it all on the front porch. Had a box inside the door to carry things n after they were sprayed. This is just an idea, so ignore if you prefer! CM, hugs, I will pray for you. Thanks for letting us know. hi Road! Nice to see you and I hope all the medical stuff calms down! You are getting things done for sure! I need a minute to gather my thoughts about what I want to get done today, but if you all don't mind I will post that here for accountability and I hope to hear what YOU are working on today. I am waiting for Tot the Second to be born any day 🙂 | |
| Road | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 07:28 PM |
Hi errrbody Hope everyone is accomplishing some of their day to day goals and if their bandwidth is all used up, that you're taking care of yourself... My little accomplishment today was picking my way though a stale shopping bag full of genealogy research. I kind of dove back into things last week after not doing much for a few months. I've had some weeks months where I was mostly doing stitching in my spare time and some weeks months where I couldn't even do that. I got some new dna hits on my welsh line which was exciting because I couldn't confirm anything on that line beyond ggparents by dna. The matches were from connections 6 generations back and it's the male Line surname which makes it more interesting for the relatives. (Sexist and annoying but that's how it is)... it's not fool proof but this type of thing generally confirms that your research is correct so yay! But anyway, I got through the end of the bag - about two reams worth? I was able to toss maybe half a ream of garbage and because the bag waS kind of gross and stained I tossed that as well. Since bins and bins of paper are one of my main categories, it's always good when I can get to the bottom of any container and throw some stuff away. Saved my laundry just in time. So clean clothes inthedryer right now. Also scheduled my sons 5 day EEG thing lawd help us. (He has to wear the electrodes for 5 days straight)... never mind that the place called me so it was totally passive on my part but I am still going to pat myself on the back for it. Haha. Went to the nutritionist appt. and went to the gyne. Now most of my stuff is done and I will shift back to my son. The H is getting all his health stuff checked off too. He said at dinner this is the first time in his life he's ever watched what he was eating. Can all of us women just take a collective sigh and eye roll? 🙄😂 meanwhile I got to -17 lbs. down then bounced back up again to -13. Hoping it starts going down again tomorrow. Aiming for -30 total by the end of summer. Long way to go beyond that but that's what I'm focused on. Bike is ready to go so I can start doing short rides. So good to read everyone's updates... | |
| Road | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 07:28 PM |
Hi errrbody Hope everyone is accomplishing some of their day to day goals and if their bandwidth is all used up, that you're taking care of yourself... My little accomplishment today was picking my way though a stale shopping bag full of genealogy research. I kind of dove back into things last week after not doing much for a few months. I've had some weeks months where I was mostly doing stitching in my spare time and some weeks months where I couldn't even do that. I got some new dna hits on my welsh line which was exciting because I couldn't confirm anything on that line beyond ggparents by dna. The matches were from connections 6 generations back and it's the male Line surname which makes it more interesting for the relatives. (Sexist and annoying but that's how it is)... it's not fool proof but this type of thing generally confirms that your research is correct so yay! But anyway, I got through the end of the bag - about two reams worth? I was able to toss maybe half a ream of garbage and because the bag waS kind of gross and stained I tossed that as well. Since bins and bins of paper are one of my main categories, it's always good when I can get to the bottom of any container and throw some stuff away. Saved my laundry just in time. So clean clothes inthedryer right now. Also scheduled my sons 5 day EEG thing lawd help us. (He has to wear the electrodes for 5 days straight)... never mind that the place called me so it was totally passive on my part but I am still going to pat myself on the back for it. Haha. Went to the nutritionist appt. and went to the gyne. Now most of my stuff is done and I will shift back to my son. The H is getting all his health stuff checked off too. He said at dinner this is the first time in his life he's ever watched what he was eating. Can all of us women just take a collective sigh and eye roll? 🙄😂 meanwhile I got to -17 lbs. down then bounced back up again to -13. Hoping it starts going down again tomorrow. Aiming for -30 total by the end of summer. Long way to go beyond that but that's what I'm focused on. Bike is ready to go so I can start doing short rides. So good to read everyone's updates... | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 04:28 AM |
Ok. Evaluations are due today. I have 8 left. I got a lot of weeding done in the garden yesterday. My body is sore. Also my farm sitter and her sister came by to hang out for a couple of hours with their kids - 4 of them ages 16 months to almost 5. They're adorable. I used to teach the sister a long time ago and she has moved away. It was nice to see her. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 04:28 AM |
Ok. Evaluations are due today. I have 8 left. I got a lot of weeding done in the garden yesterday. My body is sore. Also my farm sitter and her sister came by to hang out for a couple of hours with their kids - 4 of them ages 16 months to almost 5. They're adorable. I used to teach the sister a long time ago and she has moved away. It was nice to see her. | |
| Road | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 06:16 AM |
Hi all, Time got away from me. Hi Mar! And welcome back. Will try to check back in later after I catch up. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 10:17 AM |
Mar! Good work on the table! Keep going! Enjoy that sense of pride and accomplishment. SubC you are getting through the evaluations! Interesting exercise you did yesterday! I don't think that way so I found it fascinating! Road - thanks for checking in! And hello,CM and Lila! I have PTO today and it is a beautiful day. I have to gather up the garbage and shower. Meeting BF at 12:30 to go to the museum. My flower boxes look nice in the windows. Mom had a different incident last night, involving a hallucination. She though a rat bit her ankle. She was insisting on an ambulance. Her ankle was fine and the swelling she described (after having thought the bite happened several hours earlier) wasn't there. The foot was cool to the touch. So I redirected her and we watched tv together. The poor thing. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 10:17 AM |
Mar! Good work on the table! Keep going! Enjoy that sense of pride and accomplishment. SubC you are getting through the evaluations! Interesting exercise you did yesterday! I don't think that way so I found it fascinating! Road - thanks for checking in! And hello,CM and Lila! I have PTO today and it is a beautiful day. I have to gather up the garbage and shower. Meeting BF at 12:30 to go to the museum. My flower boxes look nice in the windows. Mom had a different incident last night, involving a hallucination. She though a rat bit her ankle. She was insisting on an ambulance. Her ankle was fine and the swelling she described (after having thought the bite happened several hours earlier) wasn't there. The foot was cool to the touch. So I redirected her and we watched tv together. The poor thing. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 12:17 PM |
Tatoulua, I wish I did not think that way. Every thing is accompanied by a subtext about how I suck because this thing has not been done already and I can't keep up with anything and I am lazy and I put stuff off and I am incompetent, so I am constantly being battered by a little invisible demon with a clipboard in my head. I'm glad you were able to distract your mom from the imaginary rat bite! That sounds awful! The evaluations are done and turned in! Celebratory salad! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 June 2022 - 12:17 PM |
Tatoulua, I wish I did not think that way. Every thing is accompanied by a subtext about how I suck because this thing has not been done already and I can't keep up with anything and I am lazy and I put stuff off and I am incompetent, so I am constantly being battered by a little invisible demon with a clipboard in my head. I'm glad you were able to distract your mom from the imaginary rat bite! That sounds awful! The evaluations are done and turned in! Celebratory salad! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 06 June 2022 - 10:04 PM |
Hey everyone! Hello new baby goat! Cm I like your plan! Definitely would be great if you could stay engaged! SubC great thrift shopping! The post about mom's hallucinations was that she saw 15 cats in the hospital. Good for her! I got a full bag to the car this weekend for goodwill. I got my flower boxes done, too. A colleague will be in town next week for work stuff and we are having dinner one night. We will either eat at a pub down the street or we will get takeout and I'll have her here. She's never been to my house before. I wanted to make sure my flower boxes were done before she gets here. I told her we can stop at liquor store since I have no idea how to buy wine for anyone. Ok off to bed. I had terrible stomach pain yesterday and all night tried to keep from throwing up. It was brutal. I had to have a bag by my bed all night. I don't think it was actual food poisoning but man that meal made me sick. I I'll go to bed now. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 07 June 2022 - 06:51 PM |
Tatoulia, thank you for not taking away your mother's hospital cats. CM, do what works for you! I gad a good day with Bean, but I am tired. We made bread and worked in the garden. He liked the baby goat. He also voluntarily touched the fuzzy wall hanging - which is a big deal. I have found three pairs of jeans with holes in them that can go. Unfortunately none of them can be cut off for shorts. Dd gave me a pair of shorts, so I literally have one decent pair that fits. The rest are too tight or too ratty to wear in public. I don't want to do camp in skirts in two weeks. I tried to go to the local goodwill on my way home, but they still have no changing rooms and will only give store credit for returns. I need to do some useful things. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 07 June 2022 - 06:51 PM |
Tatoulia, thank you for not taking away your mother's hospital cats. CM, do what works for you! I gad a good day with Bean, but I am tired. We made bread and worked in the garden. He liked the baby goat. He also voluntarily touched the fuzzy wall hanging - which is a big deal. I have found three pairs of jeans with holes in them that can go. Unfortunately none of them can be cut off for shorts. Dd gave me a pair of shorts, so I literally have one decent pair that fits. The rest are too tight or too ratty to wear in public. I don't want to do camp in skirts in two weeks. I tried to go to the local goodwill on my way home, but they still have no changing rooms and will only give store credit for returns. I need to do some useful things. | |
| Mar | Posted: 08 June 2022 - 05:22 PM |
Hi SubC, Tatoulia and CM! [color/] SubC, thanks for wish me good luck. CM, good plan. I hope things go better for you. I've continued working on the table. Part of the surface of the table starts to being visible! | |
| Mar | Posted: 08 June 2022 - 05:22 PM |
Hi SubC, Tatoulia and CM! [color/] SubC, thanks for wish me good luck. CM, good plan. I hope things go better for you. I've continued working on the table. Part of the surface of the table starts to being visible! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 09 June 2022 - 05:18 AM |
I did an exercise yesterday morning. During the hour in which I started some laundry, picked the cherries, milked the goats, and emptied and partially loaded the dishwasher, I also jotted down every task that jumped out at me - you know, when you are doing a thing, and you see another thing, and you think "I need to.." 86. 86 things. In one hour. Ranging from "put those jars in the dishwasher" - which I did, to "clean out the stalls" which I did not do. This may be part of the reason I am constantly exhausted. It probably would have been a higher number if I had not spent the time jotting all those things down. I went to my pottery class early yesterday to catch my coteacher for summer camp so we could talk about the weeks I am working since she has not emailed me as she said she would. (Camp started May 30, but I am only working two weeks of it) Apparently she notified the camp at the last minute - after being sick for four days - that she would not be there because of covid and has not communicated further or responded to the camp director, so she is either hospitalized, dead, or fired. The camp director told me to go ahead and plan my weeks and she will either be my coteacher or find me one. This is not really what I expected. But I guess it will be fine. The camp director offered me the third week I had applied for (which was filled) - since it is now down one teacher. I am thinking about it. Gas is so expensive though, and the studio is so far - I will lose 25% of my pay to gas. Plus the time commuting. Otoh, there are things I can do on the way there or home that are a detour of a couple hundred feet. It's going to be a gorgeous day to work in the garden, but I have 19 more evaluations to do and I'm afraid to put many off for tomorrow. I found another pair of jeans to get rid of. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 09 June 2022 - 05:18 AM |
I did an exercise yesterday morning. During the hour in which I started some laundry, picked the cherries, milked the goats, and emptied and partially loaded the dishwasher, I also jotted down every task that jumped out at me - you know, when you are doing a thing, and you see another thing, and you think "I need to.." 86. 86 things. In one hour. Ranging from "put those jars in the dishwasher" - which I did, to "clean out the stalls" which I did not do. This may be part of the reason I am constantly exhausted. It probably would have been a higher number if I had not spent the time jotting all those things down. I went to my pottery class early yesterday to catch my coteacher for summer camp so we could talk about the weeks I am working since she has not emailed me as she said she would. (Camp started May 30, but I am only working two weeks of it) Apparently she notified the camp at the last minute - after being sick for four days - that she would not be there because of covid and has not communicated further or responded to the camp director, so she is either hospitalized, dead, or fired. The camp director told me to go ahead and plan my weeks and she will either be my coteacher or find me one. This is not really what I expected. But I guess it will be fine. The camp director offered me the third week I had applied for (which was filled) - since it is now down one teacher. I am thinking about it. Gas is so expensive though, and the studio is so far - I will lose 25% of my pay to gas. Plus the time commuting. Otoh, there are things I can do on the way there or home that are a detour of a couple hundred feet. It's going to be a gorgeous day to work in the garden, but I have 19 more evaluations to do and I'm afraid to put many off for tomorrow. I found another pair of jeans to get rid of. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 06 June 2022 - 10:04 PM |
Hey everyone! Hello new baby goat! Cm I like your plan! Definitely would be great if you could stay engaged! SubC great thrift shopping! The post about mom's hallucinations was that she saw 15 cats in the hospital. Good for her! I got a full bag to the car this weekend for goodwill. I got my flower boxes done, too. A colleague will be in town next week for work stuff and we are having dinner one night. We will either eat at a pub down the street or we will get takeout and I'll have her here. She's never been to my house before. I wanted to make sure my flower boxes were done before she gets here. I told her we can stop at liquor store since I have no idea how to buy wine for anyone. Ok off to bed. I had terrible stomach pain yesterday and all night tried to keep from throwing up. It was brutal. I had to have a bag by my bed all night. I don't think it was actual food poisoning but man that meal made me sick. I I'll go to bed now. | |