| Tillie | Posted: 19 May 2014 - 09:54 AM |
Lets see if a new thread will help solve some of the posting issues we have developed in the first, long running thread 😀 | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 03 September 2014 - 10:52 AM |
Good Morning 🙂 Started the watering outside, fed the cats their breakfast. Off I go..... | |
| diane | Posted: 02 September 2014 - 10:36 PM |
I just wrote a long note and it disappeared, darn it x 2. Basically worked all day mostly in big bedroom. Has a storage area that is hoard to ceiling. Mice took Mollys food up in purses, she has been gone since November, so old food, I jumped and the hoard fell on me, only a few scratches. really sad how much crap I stuffed in there. at this moment, I never want to go in there again. | |
| Dianne | Posted: 02 September 2014 - 11:28 AM |
Diane, what an AMAZING amount of work you did on your car!! That is so inspiring!! Decades ago I had a little kelly green Datsun. Two friends from work and I went to a drive thru lunch one day. When they finished eating they literally tossed their trash in the back driver's side and laughed. I was humiliated. My car did have a lot of trashy junk in it and even the passengers felt they could treat it like a trash can. Another day I had to go to someone and say, "Hey, you dented my car when you opened your door into it. I saw the green paint from my car on your car door." She laughed too and said, "So what? Everybody knows your car is a wreck anyway." Most times after that that I kept the inside cleaned out on a daily basis. It was much harder with kids. Today I have a routine of every Wednesday making sure the vehicles are cleaned out, gassed up and have whatever I need replenished. Cleaned out just means taking stuff out that shouldn't be there, not really cleaning. But I never wash them, just figure the rain does a good enough job. (Clearly it doesn't.) The grandkids were in my car recently and immediately commented on how dirty it was and how much animal hair and how badly it smelled. I had just put febreeze car fresheners in and Jakey said, "Well you better get your money back, it's not working at all." So I still have hoarder eyes and hoarder nose. I literally don't see or smell a problem. Bummer. Diane, reading everything you did is encouraging me to at least get those vehicles washed. And I can vacuum the inside. I'm still too lazy to do deep cleaning but baby steps there too. 🙂 Think how far you've come in the past year. Such huge progress!!! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 02 September 2014 - 10:32 AM |
Good Morning 🙂 Hi LR2014 🙂 Wish my hoarder would do some cleaning on the truck. I have no "have Tos" to do today except the usual cat related tasks. TTYL 🙂 | |
| LR2014 | Posted: 02 September 2014 - 07:03 AM |
Good morning. Following up on my goals from yesterday: I did eventually get them all done. I ended up bringing home four boxes from storage to go through, and while I was at that storage place I rearranged some things to make the other boxes more readily accessible. I was able to reduce the four boxes I brought home down to one. I was able to make quick work of it once I got started. Some boxes took as little as five minutes to deal with! Most of the contents of the boxes were old papers that can now be shredded. I feel good about having finally started this project. It's been on my personal "to do" list for months. Hearing diane talk about her car project reminded me that the inside windows of my vehicle needed attention, especially the windshield. While my supper was cooking in the microwave last night, I grabbed a paper towel and some vinegar and wiped part of my windshield (inside of driver's side). Dirt and dust had been building up there, and it had been getting harder to see out of it at certain times of the day (when the sun would hit it at a certain angle). I need to do more cleaning there later, but at least for now, I can drive a little more safely. I'll probably post more later, but it's time for breakfast right now. I did make some fresh tea yesterday, Roxie, so . . . iced tea clinks to your coffee cup! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 10:02 PM |
Hi Tatoulia 🙂 Hi Fluffychild 🙂 The hoarder that I live with recently bought 8 EIGHT big heavy umbrella stands. Just because something is a "good" price/deal, even free, we must all keep in mind that having clear living space in our homes is priceless. | |
| fluffychild | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 09:13 PM |
When I get my free things, I never know how much I should keep. Within the last couple of weeks, I got 36 8 oz containers with screw on lids and 36 6 oz containers with screw on lids. How many of each do I keep. I have already used a few. I have lots of spiral notebooks - I do use them at work, but when they were on sale, I was buying 18 at a time. I need someone to tell me a number. My helper had set a limit of 10 paper bags and that is what it is kept at. How do you set limits? | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 08:42 PM |
Tillie, you are so dear--growing like weeds! Was happy to hear from you, Roxie. Keep up the good work but don't push too far, too fast. Rebuilding health and strength take time. Giant thanks to Diane and LR. I joined chat today and got started on the closet. At last. Not nearly that bad. I took out three large trash bags of essentially bags. All sorts of bags-- plastic, paper, reusable grocery bags, flannel bags that came with purses, garment bags from long defunct boutiques, boxes from stores that closed long ago, watch boxes, Christmas boxes. Okay, I've gone too far here--if you're still reading, sorry for that! Managed two recycle bags of plastic hangers and have one large bag for goodwill. Two pretty black coats are in it--one is cashmere but I have so many coats and I'm letting it go. NO BUGS OR CREATURES ENCOUNTERERD! Yay! Still have a lot of work to do on closet but I faced my fears and got in there! Thank you everyone! I'm hoping to find a hundred dollars So far found three, only $97 to go! Did find two bags of change, will take to bank tomorrow. Keep up the good work! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 05:18 PM |
HAPPY SEPTEMBER! 🙂 Hi LR2014 🙂 Hi Roxie 🙂 Hi Tatoulia 🙂 Hi Diane 🙂 Was so tired last night and knew it would be an early day today so got a good night's sleep. Everybody has started out this new month in beautiful style. | |
| diane | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 05:15 PM |
The online chat work sessions are so great. Helps me see things differently. I am pretty tired now, so may not do any more today. | |
| diane | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 04:42 PM |
Happy you are getting stronger Roxie. Tat, getting rid of credit cards is a priority, and you are doing it!! LR, very balanced work load today, good for you, and thanks for the support this am. I was making up reasons not to wash car. You talking about cleaning your car and that you do not mind washing yours, really helped. I washed car, then waxed it, looks great, then decided to vacuum inside. Saw the spilled coffee and other junk with new eyes, so took everything out and I mean everything, mats, blankets,pillow, coat, tire pump, spare tire, trunk liner, vacuumed it all inside. still have to wash mats, they are gross. This was not fast, took hours. Opened hood and checked all fluids, hoses etc, all fine. Started washing inside and finally ran out of energy. I bought the car in 2006 new, and have never took everything out before. Cleaned door jams maybe twice. Never washed floor mats. Never checked spare, jack etc before today. You would not believe all the food under the seats, in trunk etc, but not one critter. I have experienced cleaning thoroughly in here, so thought I would try it out on the car. Still need to wash interior windows and some other little areas, need toothbrush to reach. It feels nice to know I will not be embarrassed when I put clinic supplies in or take workers in car. I semi cleaned last year before clinics, but hid stuff under blanket, now so much better. I wanted to do anything other than wash the car this morning, and now so happy I got on chat and talked with LR about cleaning cars. Hope all is well with you today. | |
| Roxie | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 01:45 PM |
Coffee clinks to all. I just woke up so the sleeping pill I took last night must have really worked! I have success in some self-care each day and am lousy at others. Well, I am impatient with myself and everyone tells me SLOW DOWN. I am walking better, for sure, which is exciting. I plan to just keep walking around in the house often to rebuild stamina. I'm so glad to see each bit of progress in any area for each of you. Together we are strong. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 11:01 AM |
I haven't posted much either but have been keeping up with everyone's posts. Good to see you even for a minute last night, LR. I have been maintaining my clean and cleared spaces and have been talking myself down from buying stuff. Today is the perfect day for me to implement the excellent suggestions re dealing with that closet. It's really the last frontier before I deal with storage space. Today no work AND it's trash night. I have all the supplies I need--gloves, mask, bug spray, trash cans and it appears I am out of excuses for ignoring it. Getting rid of the clutter is helping me deal with my financial problems, which really started piling up in the last five years. Have now paid off two credit cards and have a plan in place for the third and final card. Very excited. I also feel I can start dealing with my weight. (Also packed on in the last 3-5 years). I am so happy to find you all. You are helping me to make positive, measurable changes in my life. You have helped me find the strength to deal with the tough stuff. How lucky am I? Hope you are all well. I appreciate your friendship and support. | |
| LR2014 | Posted: 01 September 2014 - 09:38 AM |
Good morning. As I mentioned at chat last night, although I haven't posted much this past week, I have been reading your posts. Great to hear from you all. Iced water clink to your coffee cup, Roxie! (I need to make some fresh tea.) One of my goals for today is to get a couple of boxes out of storage, put them on my back patio, and at least begin to sort through them. (I'm hoping that most of what I find inside will be things I can now trash or shred.) I also plan to add to my gratitude list, get some bills paid, and spend at least fifteen minutes organizing some of my financial paperwork. Have a good day, everyone. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 31 August 2014 - 11:55 AM |
Good morning 🙂 Hi Dianne 🙂 Not much happening here today. Hoping to "see" everybody in chat tonight 😀 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 August 2014 - 08:01 PM |
WAY TO GO!!! Roxie 🙂 You are doing GREAT, scooped litter box and food and self care. You are doing everything that is important! 😀 | |
| Roxie | Posted: 30 August 2014 - 12:12 PM |
Just a quick "hi" to say I'm here and reading, and enjoying the posts. I did get the litter box scooped yesterday, finally. And my friend went grocery shopping for me, so I am okay on food. Hanging in here trying to do daily personal care. Hugs to all | |
| Dianne | Posted: 30 August 2014 - 10:40 AM |
Bitsy, Diane, I laughed out loud reading you comparing us to fire ants!!! haha!! Tough little critters. Great job sticking with the roof! Your hard work will really be rewarded when harsh weather blows in. Tillie, glad your power loss didn't last long and that your project is completed. I love hearing the train whistles in the distance! We hear them at my grandkids' house and I always tell them to hush and listen. You're so blessed with the variety of creatures around you! Even the packrats seem to be part of a little ecosystem that functions well. When I was in 3rd grade I read about kangaroo rats and was so excited to tell my teacher and the class. She laughed at me and told me there was no such thing as a kangaroo rat. My Dad said don't bother to take the book in and prove her wrong; just keep reading and learning for my own enjoyment. So I have a bit of fondness for some kinds of rats. 🙂 So far so good here. Maintaining well. I was in Costco the other day and picked up some Christmas gifts. As in the *days of old* when I was an organized person, I started a list of gifts so I won't overbuy. The other good thing is now that the gifts won't get lost in the piles of clutter I won't need to out and buy more. As for gifts for me I've asked people to please stick to the Food For The Poor website and buy some chickens or a goat to provide a family with a sustainable source of food and income. Have a great holiday weekend everyone! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 30 August 2014 - 10:11 AM |
Hi 🙂 So many strange new animal sounds out there this morning. I think someone has a new mule. There is a different sounding rooster crowing. TTYL 🙂 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 August 2014 - 08:23 PM |
WAY TO GO!!! Diane 😀 I finished my project and was just getting the vacuum out to suck up all the feathers when the power went out. Pleasant dreams (((hugs))) | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 August 2014 - 07:31 PM |
| diane | Posted: 29 August 2014 - 06:44 PM |
Today was the big day, I attached the roof ridge cap, not great, but ok. Then I patched all the areas I could until I was exhausted and the wind started really blowing. There is one little area that I do need to finish tonight, looks like rain is blowing in, at least it is finally in low 80's and will be in 70's this weekend. Have so much more energy when it is cooler. I was so sad my dog sitting days were over then today I find out Nellie is coming here in a few weeks and Max will be here end of Oct. so happy to have that to look forward to. Short visits but comforts me to have them here. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 August 2014 - 11:39 AM |
Good Morning Everybody 😀 Only 8 more "pockets" to fill and sew up on the comforter. Everybody take care and find something today to laugh or smile about. 🙂 | |
| bitsy | Posted: 29 August 2014 - 11:07 AM |
Roxie, I am glad your home and doing a little better. | |
| diane | Posted: 28 August 2014 - 11:51 PM |
Tillie, I smiled ear to ear seeing feathers flying and thinking the cats probably thought you had gotten some birds for them to play with. Roxie, happy to know you have friends to get groceries etc. When I had hip surgery, living alone, saw an article in paper that there is an interfaith volunteer group that puts up railings for steps, which I had done. they also offered to do other things for me, but I was ashamed of hoard so said no. Wonder if there is a similar group there. Life is difficult alone when recovering, so I hope you check out sources of assistance. good you hired people to declutter. | |
| Dianne | Posted: 28 August 2014 - 07:02 PM |
Thanks Tillie, hugs to you too! The down comforter will be so cozy this fall and winter. I bet the kitties love it also. 🙂 Good for you Diane, giving yourself a couple hours to reflect then declining the invitation. WTG for taking care of yourself! Thinking of you Bitsy. Decisions are hard when there are so many at once. Roxie, I wish I was close enough to help you. Take good care my friend. | |
| Roxie | Posted: 28 August 2014 - 01:58 PM |
It is so good to read all the posts. Welcome, Melody. Bitsy, I hired professional help. It took 2 days in my case at $2500.00. However, they did not include deep cleaning and that has been a problem for me to even find anyone to do. But it was worth it. I had two companies to choose from and chose the one most professional and kind in addressing me. Feeling really unwell today so I'm tying to figure out priorities and trying to be content with that. I have so many medications that it is a battle for me just to set up my weekly medicine box correctly. Bah. I've been nauseous a lot but I do have anti-nausea medicine to take. I think this may be gall bladder related somehow. However, I've lost my appetite and groceries are also low, so I try to rehydrate and to eat something like chicken soup that might stay down. I need to ask for grocery help again. More later. Love you all. | |
| bitsy | Posted: 28 August 2014 - 10:47 AM |
Getting started is the hardest. Not being able to make decisions about where to put what I decide to keep. storage unit? Buy another storage shed? Now since son won't be working for a while we may be trying to just move to North Carolina. just indecision and confusion. Dianne, | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2014 - 10:18 AM |
Good Morning 🙂 Watering everything this morning then I will get back to doing what I started doing yesterday So, what adventures have you been getting up to? | |
| diane | Posted: 27 August 2014 - 05:10 PM |
Good afternoon all. Thanks Karl for suggestion. Just paid bills online and checked to make sure, and it appears bank paid bill on time, so I will call. | |