Diane: I hope today feels less lonely. Hugs. Hope the new sprayer works out well for you. One of the things I need to do in the upcoming week is work on "driveway weeds," so I'll be thinking about you when I do it. : )

Tillie: Enjoy your reading and your candy and any other positive stuff you have planned. Bummer about the dust, after all that work!

Goals for today: As I already stated, I plan to add to my gratitude list. I also plan to read some in my book I purchased on Thursday, to be at the chat tonight, and to spend at least 20 minutes on some general cleaning/straightening. This being a holiday, I am not making major dejunking/cleaning plans for the day.

Tillie, your lilacs sound so wonderful. Mine are still just buds, watered them well yesterday, maybe they will open today. Your yard sounds like such fun with easter bunnies etc. and blinders for the junk.
I made "to do" lists through Wednesday, then forgot and just realized that is why I am jumping from thing to thing. Several times yesterday I asked myself what is most important to do now, so watered etc.
My goal today is to do all the dishes, make soup, clear off more unessential things off deck including a huge heavy ladder. Do one load laundry and hang.
This morning I sorted all paint brushes, rollers, pads, then realized I need to focus on essentials, and stop doing things that don't accomplish my goals of reclaiming entire deck. It is looking so much better, worked on junk on deck all week. Did go into Bend and got $200 worth of food on the day it rained, Thursday I think. So now have a great supply of my favorites.
I bought a backpack weed sprayer, since my yard I don't use and driveway are huge and full of weeds. I thought the sign said $49, then got home and saw it was $79, haven't opened it yet thought maybe needed a coupon, already though away coupon book. I guess in reality it is worth 80 to be able to take care of yard much quicker. It is 4 gallon and very manageable with the straps, and has a wider spray than 1 gallon sprayer, and I almost got it last year. Things like this really throw me for a loop, and off track. My property is 1/2 acre, so is really time consuming with small sprayer, help!!!
Yesterday I experienced loneliness for the first time in ages, told friends I would call them back in a few weeks when I got caught up on projects, they called last time, maybe a week to 10 days. ago. I think my projects will never end, and I have to make time for friends. So afraid of doing or saying something that will end friendship, find it easier to hide, then was surprised to feel loneliness. Enough already. Now will read all your posts, See you at 5pm

Good morning :)
I've been eating candy :D
Also been doing computer maintenance stuff like downloading & installing updates and deleting cookies and temporary browsing history and now doing disc defragmentation.
When this is all done I will check to make sure I can still get into chat.
Soon I will get dressed.
That is all I have planned for today.
Will probably read a bit.
Winds were really blowing hard yesterday and I hope they don't start up again. Right now it's just breezy.
Everything in the house now has a thick coating of dust, even the kitchen counter I wiped down last night.
The lilacs are so beautiful, heavy with blooms and you can smell them even inside the house. :)
At night the yard fills up with teeny tiny baby cotton tail bunnies. The Owls are eating well.
Haven't seen any snakes yet this year. Happy we have so many Gopher snakes residing here because due to the drought, Rattle snakes have been seen moving in to residential areas. The Gopher snakes help keep them away, a territorial thing.
Have killed a lot of yellow jacket wasps that had started to build nests around the house, especially under the eaves.
Weed & feed took care of the dandylions in the lawn and now the grass is green and recovering from it's winter sleep.

"Hi" to all who posted :D
"Hi" to all who just read :D
Special "Hi" to all we miss hearing from. :D

Happy Easter. :)

Good morning, everyone!

Karl: Glad you able to find a way to get to and from the party! See you at the chat tonight, I hope.

Barb: Hope your plants end up being OK. I get the feeling of discouragement about the "multitude of tasks." About three years ago, I was really, really discouraged about that sort of thing. I just couldn't imagine all the tasks I needed to deal with ever getting done. I sent myself this text: "It's gonna get done." It wasn't as much a statement of determination as it was of faith and hope. I kept that message on my phone, and rereading (and rereading it and rereading it over time) helped me a lot with the discouragement, for some reason. It's been interesting how many of the tasks have gotten done since then, and some by means of help I never would have expected. Hugs as you deal with yours.

Tillie: Hope you enjoyed your day yesterday.

Roxie: Glad you're able to keep posting! Continuing to think about you!

I was able to do my posted goals for yesterday. I was pleased to find that it didn't take me as long to "get my clothing items together" (see earlier post) as I had thought it might. Turns out that I actually at one point in time had actually "organized" those needed items and they were already all together in one place! (What a concept!)

My plans for today are a tiny bit up in the air because of an illness in my extended family. Nothing life-threatening, just possibly schedule-changing. More than likely, I will be home and available for the chat tonight. One for-sure goal is to add to my gratitude list.

Have a great day, everyone!

Great to hear from everybody. I am really glad that you are able to post, Roxie; so good to get updates from you.

Am on the run, so I'll save comments for another time. Hugs to all.

I'm learning I'd better post some goals every day. Yesterday, I didn't post my goal of adding to my gratitude list, and I didn't add to it.


Goals for today: Add to my gratitude list, spend time with friends, get clothing items together to wear for a special event tomorrow (instead of scrambling tomorrow morning to get them together, as can sometimes be my habit).


Wishing you all a good day.

Happy Easter weekend, everyone.
Roxie: so glad to see your gratitude posts everyday. It must be difficult for you to peck it out after your surgery. I hope you are doing well today and will be able to be pain free soon.
Tillie; I always look forward to your posts. You manage to get things done every day and encourage the rest of us to keep at it.
LR: Enjoy the weekend. You have been working hard and deserve to focus on celebrating.

It is 67 and sunny today so I am going to work a little outside cleaning up the backyard.
The new floor mats look great in the kitchen. I'll see how easy they are to keep clean and how long they last. At least I won't have to shake out rugs and run them through the washer.
When I went to spritz my little seedlings with water this morning, I saw that one of my housemates had knocked them out of the window. I don't know how many are left as they have not yet started to sprout. I may have to start over with a new batch.
Yesterday, I got really discouraged at the overwhelming number of tasks I have left to do. But I can't let that stop me. I have to keep plugging away at it every day.
I got my roommate assignment for my Albuquerque trip. It's going to be good for me to get away from this house for a little while.
Have a joyful and peaceful Easter weekend.

Good morning everybody :)

Miss hearing from those who have gone silent :(

My plans for today.....
Do nothing, go nowhere.

Wishing you all some fun today. :D

Roxie, so glad to hear from you after your surgery. Best wishes for your recovery.

Tillie, you indicated you have an "itch" to declutter after seeing your other half's stuff. Too bad you don't live close by me. I'd love to have you around to help "scratch out" some of my clutter! : ) Thanks for the Good Friday wishes.

Barb, I read your posts on the spirituality thread and have benefited from them. Looking forward to reading more of them.

I didn't post any goals today, but I did have a plan and followed it. Nothing elaborate. Worked some more on cleaning out my vehicle, met a friend for lunch, got some more paperwork into the mail, and touched base with the management on an ongoing maintenance problem I'm having. The latter part is really good for me, because in the past I might have just put up with it or might have delayed reporting the issue.

I probably won't get much decluttering done this weekend because of special holiday activities and other special scheduled events. I have two pretty full days ahead.

I hope everyone has a great weekend.

Good morning :)

Hi Roxie :)
Thank you for letting us know how you are.
Happy the surgery is all over with now.
Take care and heal well now. (((hugs)))

Hi Barb :)

Hi LR2014 :)
YEA!!! WAY TO GO!!! for buying Buried In Treasures! :D

My plans for today are few and simple.
Wash some dishes, wash my hair.
As always, cat related tasks like scoop litter boxes, fresh water and filled kibble bowls.
We sent a lot of time outside yesterday then all the cats went inside and took long naps.
Want to find some things to donate to the charity thrift shop. Keep looking around through everything but not having much luck finding anything much to donate.
Living with and looking at all his stuff makes me want to declutter but I can't declutter his stuff and all my stuff has already been evaluated, sorted and organized.
I have to be careful because some years ago I had reduced all my stuff down to just the bare minimum and I was not happy living like a refugee with owning nothing much.

Happy Good Friday! :D

Roxie: I'm glad your surgery went well. Take care of yourself.

Hi, all. Thanks for the "forgiving" spirit (re. yesterday's post). In case you don't know, that was only one goof from yesterday. When I went back later in the day to post my day's goals, I first started reading something on another thread. Then I accidentally posted my goals for yesterday on that thread instead of posting them here. I'm glad that one of my goals for yesterday was to not criticize myself!

Barb, after all that hard work you've been doing, I can only imagine the feeling of coming home to the Great Kitty Caper. I confess that I couldn't help but chuckle at the image of them doing all that mischief, but I'm sorry you had to deal with the aftermath of it!

Tillie, I like the image of your blooms doing "the wave." I do hope you feel better soon.

I already did laundry and a few other things this morning. My "biggie" for the day so far is that I bought a copy of "Buried in Treasures." I'd heard many of you speak well of it. I'm finding that it is "out of stock" at most of the bookstores around here (and I'm near a big metropolitan area), so getting my hands on a copy was no small feat (and now that bookstore is out of stock as well, since I bought the last one they had). Yes, I know I could have ordered it online, but I wanted one in hand.soon.

Goals for the rest of the day: Add to my gratitude list, put away the laundry, and continue to work on cleaning out my vehicle.

Have a good day, all.

Hi :)

Hi Roxie (((HUGS))) :D

Hi LR2014 :)
We all make posting mistakes. Even though this message board is not forgiving (we can't edit) the readers here are all very forgiving. ;)

Hi Barb :)
What fun! Watching the seedlings grow in their tiny pots. :D
Life without our fur babies would be miserable, sad and lonely. But they can be exasperating at times. LOL :D
Good luck with your plans for today and WAY TO GO! for doing enjoyable activities. :D

Hi Everybody!!! :D

Thanks for the well wishes. :)
Still having to lay low.
My lilac hedge blooms in a wave, starting at one end and moving along the line to the other end.
I keep a fresh sprig inside here in a small glas of water.
So many wonderful memories of Granma and me together are brought up fresh and true by the scent and sight of lilacs.
My plans for today are for me & the cats to get outside once it warms up a little and enjoy the fresh air & sunshine together.
The cats usually don't stay out very long. I come in to find them all napping in their favorite spots. Silly animals. :)

Have a GREAT Thursday everybody! :D

Good morning, all.
Hope you feel better soon, Tillie.
I'll be thinking of you, Roxie, as you go through your surgery praying all goes smoothly.
LR, that's OK. It added a bit of humor to our day.
Karl, I'm glad you are getting out and about for events.

Well, yesterday did not go well for me. The return of winter weather had me feeling sluggish and achy.
I have to start back in the kitchen again this morning. I let the dishes pile up. While I was at the grocery store, the dogs got into the garbage and spread it all over the floor. They cannot open the cabinet to get to the bin, so I know Frank Kitty, who is adept at opening cabinet doors, was in on the caper. A new box of scouring pads was opened and I am finding them all over the house. I am sure they looked like some kind of new cat toys to him.
I took my little boy dog to an obedience class last night and he did very well. I needed to be out with other people who enjoy the same activities that I do. That put me in a better attitude to begin today.
The trash men picked up what was in the toter, so I can begin filling it again.
My reward today is planting the tomato and tomatilla seeds in their little peat pots. I will cover them with a dome and place them in a sunny window.

Just saw your post, Tillie. Hope you feel better soon! I like your idea about "talking back" to those negative voices from the past. Helpful concept.

That was embarrassing. Explanation...

I'd copied the last few posts into a Word doc on my computer so I could read them offline, make comments, write my stuff, then delete it. Then I got a phone call (lengthy conversation) while in the middle of doing my writing, so I saved the doc in a temporary spot (is deleted by now) and shut down the computer. When I turned it back on and finished my writing and did a copy and paste, without noticing I copied and pasted the whole thing! (It's what I get for not proofreading.)

Oops. Sorry about that.

Roxie Posted: 16 April 2014 - 05:59 AM
I went for the pre-op, stopped to sell my soda cans, and stopped at the health department to inquire about assistance in quitting smoking. They gave me a phone number to call.

I finished unloading things from my car from the other day, then I loaded some recycle materials into my car for later today. I stopped at Big Lots and found another tall kitchen garbage bin to use for plastic recycling. Also got a new litter box, some microfiber rags, a kneeling pad to protect my knees.

Today I need to unload the dishwasher, sweep the floors, fill the new litter box, and mop part of the kitchen floor. In a few minutes I will round up remaining garbage to take to the outside bin, then wheel the bin down to the street before pickup today.

I have a dental appointment this afternoon which I'll combine with filling up my gas tank and going to the recycle center.

How is everyone?

Karl Posted: 15 April 2014 - 03:28 PM
I have plans for tonight, so I won't be at tonight's chat. Hope there's critical mass without me.

Roxie Posted: 15 April 2014 - 09:04 AM
Today my only real plans are to go to the pre-op appointment this afternoon. I'll see what else I can get done. Feeling tired and groggy, too.

Barb Posted: 15 April 2014 - 08:43 AM
Good morning, all!
I woke up to snow on the ground this morning. It isn't nearly as beautiful in April as it was the first of December.
Karl: I am glad you found your recovery disks for your computer and hope you can get it up and running again. A few years ago I had to get a cell phone for my job traveling all over the state and having to travel one lane back-country roads in treacherous weather conditions. Some of the roads have deep, wooded ravines on one or both sides. I was using the cell phone more and more and the house phone less and less. Today I only use the cell.
You will do what is most cost effective for you. A cell phone carrier can usually transfer your old house phone number to the new cell.
It is something to consider.
Diane: I turned 60 last year and am still working on self-talk issues. Both my parents had low self image problems and, parenting the only way they knew how, passed that along to all their children. It is daily work and a conscious effort to stop the bad messages midstream and rephrase them in a positive self-affirming light. Having a cognitive behavior based mental health counselor help you list your worst broken records and practice phrases to replace them can be a big help. It has helped me, even though I am still a work in progress.
You are a beautiful, talented, unique person who deserves to live a comfortable, enjoyable life. You have been such a blessing to this message group.
Back to cleaning my entry! Have a great day, everyone!



Good morning, everybody.

Barb: Your comments to Diane yesterday were helpful to me, too. Thanks.

Roxie: Will certainly be thinking about you tomorrow (and in the days following as well, of course)! Yea for steps toward quitting smoking. Best wishes with everything!

Karl: Missed you at the chat last night, but having plans is cool. (Hope they were fun ones.)

Me: Following up on yesterday. it was kind of a rollercoaster day in terms of emotions. Yesterday started off OK. Then later in the morning, I discovered a couple of (very fixable) paperwork items that needed to be taken care of that I'd overlooked. That, plus another small thing or two, seemed to set off a barrage of negative thinking. Life seemed doom and gloom (an exaggeration of reality, of course, but that's the way I felt at the time). Things got better later in the day, though.

Had a fun lunch with a family member, and that helped. A local repair shop finished putting that tool (see April 12 story) back together. for free! Works now. (Yea!) Then I went to storage unit to pick up a box of things I want to go through (with an eye toward what I can discard, loan out, sell, or give away). I eventually finished my posted goals, including getting a decent-sized bag of clothes ready for Goodwill. The best part about the clothes is that some of those items were clothes I've had for (literally) decades; in the past had always found some not-good excuse to hang on to them. This go around, I was able to be much more objective, and now I have a little more closet space (and more empty hangers)! I also was able to get myself to make a phone call I was dreading making. (It wasn't a bad phone call. I just sometimes dread business-related phone calls, period.) After all was said and done, I felt like I'd made progress yesterday.

Will post today's goals later.

Have a great day, everyone!

Good morning :)

Hi LR2014 :)
Hope all your plans are going as planned. :D

Hi Barb :)
Happy your seeds have arrived and you didn't have a migraine.
Sorry about the cold snap. :(
Give Frank Kitty a hug for me. :)

Hi Diane :)
WAY TO GO!!! :)
For all you are accomplishing!
When negative voices are in your head, drown them out by repeating positive phrases over and over again to yourself.
Eventually this will become a habit that you will do every time those negative voices start up.
I do this every day to shut up my mother's negative destructive voice. Talk back. (((hugs)))

Hi Karl :)
Hope you had fun last night. :D
Good luck finding a truck or station wagon to get that cabinet.

Hi Roxie :)
WAY TO GO!!!! :D
You sure have accomplished a great deal.
Do you have all the food and beverages you need in the house?
Please try to peck out a message to us to let us know how you are doing. (((HUGS)))
Best wishes and we will be thinking of you.

So happy to be able to post today! :D
Was not feeling well at all.
Lots of things need doing around here but I am still not up to doing them.
Have been enjoying watching the lilac hedge bloom. :D
Wishing you all a pleasant Wednesday! :D

Good morning, all!
I woke up to snow on the ground this morning. It isn't nearly as beautiful in April as it was the first of December.
Karl: I am glad you found your recovery disks for your computer and hope you can get it up and running again. A few years ago I had to get a cell phone for my job traveling all over the state and having to travel one lane back-country roads in treacherous weather conditions. Some of the roads have deep, wooded ravines on one or both sides. I was using the cell phone more and more and the house phone less and less. Today I only use the cell.
You will do what is most cost effective for you. A cell phone carrier can usually transfer your old house phone number to the new cell.
It is something to consider.
Diane: I turned 60 last year and am still working on self-talk issues. Both my parents had low self image problems and, parenting the only way they knew how, passed that along to all their children. It is daily work and a conscious effort to stop the bad messages midstream and rephrase them in a positive self-affirming light. Having a cognitive behavior based mental health counselor help you list your worst broken records and practice phrases to replace them can be a big help. It has helped me, even though I am still a work in progress.
You are a beautiful, talented, unique person who deserves to live a comfortable, enjoyable life. You have been such a blessing to this message group.
Back to cleaning my entry! Have a great day, everyone!

Karl: Funny about the AT&T truck. Keep us posted!

Diane: Glad you are reminding yourself that you deserve love and respect. A friend of mine sometimes points out that at times I say mean things to myself that I would never say to another person. She has a point. I am slowly but surely learning the truth that I am loveable just as I am.

Barb: Hope the headache never did come. Yea for the seeds coming in!

Some of my goals for today: Add to my gratitude list, select some outgrown clothes to go to Goodwill or a charity clothes closet, pay certain bills, join tonight's chat if possible, "consult" the plans for the week I started working on yesterday.

Hello ladies. Today was the last warm day so tried to finish things outside. I finished 2nd coat of white roof coating over patched areas. I sprayed bug killer on ground around deck and vines that always get bugs. I made wells around all bushes and trees and watered all. It was a weird day, warm and but high overcast, looked like rain at times, none forcast. I worked all day doing small things. In chat last night Tillie said we deserve love and respect. I repeated that "I deserve love and respect" today. In order for me to have a clean organized life, I need to change my inner talk, it feels like work to me, to change my inner thoughts. All in all it was a good day.

My garden seeds came today! I have little peat pots to start the tomatoes in.
This morning started well. Then the temperature began to drop. I do not do well with extreme falling temperatures. We had 70 degrees yesterday and it will reach 28 by tonight. Snow is predicted. So far we have just had rain. I put on a sweatshirt and started the furnace. At least I don't have a migraine or migraine aura this time, so it will be OK. I just don't have the energy and focus that I have when the weather is sunny and warm.
The entry cleaning did not get finished. I will start in again tomorrow.
I roasted a turkey breast to eat on this week. It took about 3 1/2 hours to cook and the oven helped keep the house warm.
Frank Kitty has been very needy today. He goes through spells when he wants to be picked up, talked to and cuddled. Other times he goes off and sleeps for hours in the bottom of the closet. He is a neurotic little boy, but I love him.

Good luck with your "natural remedy" search, Tillie. Thanks for all the encouragement you give to me.

Goals for today: I'm splitting my list into two parts. I didn't post "Part One" this morning, because I was busy doing it. I needed to get some essential paperwork finished and put into the mail, and I did that already. I also needed to go to the grocery store and get some more healthy food that I had run out of; had been eating too much food that's not-so-good for me the last couple of days simply because I hadn't yet been to the store to get a better selection. That's done now, too. Just got home. "Part Two" of my goals: Cook and eat some of that food I just bought, add to my gratitude list, and then work on creating my list of goals for the next several days. I need to think about setting those goals, but not over-think about setting those goals. Overthinking is one of the things that has gotten me into a lot of trouble in the past. I can spend so much time trying to figure out what I "should" do or the "best way" to do it or the "best order" to do it in that I wear myself out just thinking about it! I get tired, bummed, and overwhelmed, and nothing really gets done. So for me, no "overthinking" today!

Have a great day, everybody!

Good morning everybody :)

YEA! Roxie :)
You are doing a lot of really great preparation. :D

My brain is foggy and my body feels all rubbery like Gumby.
Need to clean this house up some but just want to sit and stare. lol
Been reading some articles online about natural remedies for bug and pest control. Some suggestions are pretty funny, like getting owls to come eat your mice. HaHaHa
Thinking that I will focus my tasks today to the very basics and if I get more done then great.
Will clean the bathroom for sure and sweep and vacuum the floors.
Hoping to wash the floors and vacuum dust off some things too.
I guess I should get dressed & brush my hair and all that kind of stuff too.
Will probably fall asleep if I sit down any time today.

You all have a GREAT Monday! :D

Wow, Roxie. You really sound like you're getting things together for this surgery. Glad you're not squeamish. (I am usually pretty squeamish about some types of things.)

I do agree with you about the cramping/hydration thing. I have been trying to buy some of those sports drinks a little more often lately (Gatorade-type drinks). The main problem with my foot seems to be something I've had before (on the other foot) called "turf toe." I'll leave you to look it up if you wish. I know some of the things I'm doing that are aggravating that. I just have to remember to not do those things!

Good morning, everyone!

Wow, Diane. "Car load to Goodwill." That is very inspiring to me!

Barb: Yea for the productive work day!

Tillie: I hear ya on the Benadryl. Funny. I actually listed "Benadryl" on my gratitude list yesterday!

Following up on my goals from yesterday: I did all of them except one. I spent more time than expected with my friend, and that's a positive thing in my book. (Yes, Tillie, we did have a good time... or at least I did. Thanks!) The one goal I didn't do can get put on my list for tomorrow or Wednesday; I was getting sleepy last night (probably from the Benadryl) and was feeling relaxed by the time 9pm rolled around, and I decided to hit the sack really early.

Goals for today: Spend time with family, work toward getting an important piece of paperwork ready to go into the mail, add to my gratitude list, and be at the chat tonight if possible.

Have a great day, everyone!

Good morning all. Tillie, yes pollen is really bad, hope you do ok with drowsiness.
Another beautiful day today. Still only 27 degrees, so too cold to do anything outside so may just have to vacuum, one of least favorites, really dislike the noise. Will also do dishes from yesterday. I have so much more energy when it is sunny, like today. Hopefully my list will keep me focused on priorities.
Thanks for all the posts. Enjoyed reading about priorities, and doing things we dislike, preferring to do things we dislike even if priority is thing we dislike, made me want to vacuum just to get it over with.
See you all tonight.

Good morning :)

Hi Diane :)
WAY TO GO!!! :D
for all you accomplished!
Wonderful that you got out too. :)
BIG (((hugs))) for passing up the thrift shop. ;)
Great idea, a bathing suit to solve the bra problem for Roxie. :)

Hi Barb :)
WAY TO GO!!! :D
So happy you were able to get outside to enjoy working on your yard.
After this last Winter, we all need to spend time outside playing/working to recover. :D

Hi LR2014 :)
Hope you had a wonderful time visiting with your friend. :D

Finally had to break down and take Benadryl for the allergies. That makes me very sleepy and goofy and scatter brained.
Need to take more today.
My plans for today are simple but will be hard for me to do since I can't concentrate. LOL
His laundry, 3 washer loads.
Water the grass.
Clean the kitchen, wash dishes, wipe counter. etc.
Will probably fall asleep but hope to be awake and alert for Sunday night chat. :D

Keep up all the GREAT progress and enjoy all this lovely Spring weather.

Wow, sounds like everyone is really busy and getting things done.
Roxie, do you have any swim suit tops? the kind with permanent straps and built in bra, goes to waist? I can step into mine and pull up and put arms in arm holes. I discovered this when I had rollers in my hair.
I have been so busy getting things done. I have worked lots of hours spraying weeds, reclaiming my deck, took car load to goodwill, bought roof coat at Home depot, across from goodwill, and have been putting it on the areas I patched previously with the black stuff. Roof coat is a thick white rubbery almost like paint, it is difficult to get off face and arms I have discovered. Went to visit my friend at a craft fair she was in today, came home without going to thrift store.
I wanted to go to another craft fair in Bend, but chose to come home and keep working on roof. The white looks so much better than the black and will keep trailer so much cooler this summer. I want to spray more weeds tomorrow, mow lawn, more roof coating, and be at chat at 5.
Have kept dishes done. 3 loads of laundry, organized more stuff. I have gotten quite a bit done and am physically tired, yes the good tired.

It has been a glorious, warm, sunny day. I had a very productive Saturday working outside. I put organic fertilizer on the front yard. I cleaned out the iris/lily/peony bed. I trimmed the bittersweet back and secured its trellis. The dogs romped in the backyard while I worked. I wanted to work on the raised bed, but that will need to wait until tomorrow. I am tired and hungry. It is a good tired from getting things accomplished.
Last spring my doctor and I were trying to find a medication and dosage to deal with my depression without side effects. I was always tired and had very little energy or motivation to do even the things I had previously enjoyed, including working in my yard and garden. I cannot believe how much better I feel this year and how much more energy and enjoyment I have.
Spring is working hard to make up for lost time. Three varieties of daffodil/jonquils are blooming. The trees and bushes are budding out. The grass is greening up. My friend Jami says her magnolia tree is blooming.
I will start back working inside on Monday. I have decided to work on 3 small areas---my entry, the laundry room, and the back hall. Unfortunately, I had started using the back hall to store things i don't know what to do with. There is just one bin and a puppy gate. The progress I make cleaning and decluttering those areas should help me to be able to tackle the larger areas of the bedroom and living room.
I hope to talk with you all tomorrow night in the support group. Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Tillie: Thanks for the info on the wasps. Sounds like you've really been getting lots done. Happy wasp/ant killing.

Karl: Hope you get the phone situation worked out soon!

Cory C.: I'm so glad to see that your company is expanding! I like that you have balance in your life. You work hard with your business(es) and accomplish a lot, but you also make family and rest a priority. I like that example that you set for us.

My goals for today: I plan to add to my gratitude list. I also need to get the dishwasher ready to run. I already went to the Laundromat and dried the clothes I didn't dry yesterday. Need to put those away. I think I will also follow my 10-minutes-at-a-time plan I mentioned in a post below to get some general cleaning done. Sometime this week, I will probably start posting on the "lost item" thread. I have more than a few things to put there.

I expect to be spending time with a good friend this evening, so I won't get too ambitious with my cleaning/dejunking plans for today.

Have a great day, all!

Good morning :)

Hi LR2014 :)
Thank you.
I have those plastic wasp traps that the wasps crawl into and then almost never figure out how to get back out.
YEA! for getting that wire out.

Hi Barb :)
I also will fixate on one area because it is so nice and fun to be in that space but then I will move on to another area to get it to the same level of "done-ness" so they all match. ;)

Hi Dave :)

Hi Karl :)
Good luck finding a phone to use to get your phone service working.
Hospitals and casinos still have pay phones here.

Hi Cory :)
WAY TO GO!!! and congratulations! :D
Have a wonderful day today. (((hugs)))

Yesterday I did a LOT of physical work.
Fertilized and watered everything.
Did a bunch more outside maintenance work too since I was already out there and dirty anyways.
After I showered I did 3 loads of laundry, hung it to dry and when it dried I put it all away.
Some aches & pains and tired & sore body but I am very happy with my accomplishments.
My plan for today is to wander around outside killing wasps and poisoning ants.
My lilacs are starting to bloom! :D
Have a fantastic Saturday! :D

Happy Saturday, we made it! Today is my day if rest. Need to do the general maintenance cleaning but then the family and I are going on a hike. Getting out in nature and breathing the fresh air revitalizes me.
After that come home and pack for my trip to Virginia tomorrow. If you are in or close to Ricmond Virginia, come meet me at our grand opening celebration of our new Steri-Clean Richmond location! Address is 237 Granite Springs Rd, Richmond, VA 23225. It's on Tuesday from noon to 2:00pm and food will be provided. Hope some of you can make it! Email me at info@HOARDERS.com for more details.

Reflections on my goals for yesterday:

I added to my gratitude list. It is worthwhile to note that I looked to see when my "gratitude list" computer file was last modified, and I saw I hadn't added anything to it since April 7. That tells me I need to go back to specifically listing my gratitude list as a goal each day. I see that adding to my gratitude list is not yet an automatic part of my daily routine.

In the afternoon yesterday, when I looked back at my posted goals, I noticed that I'd posted the phrase "finish putting steps into action" regarding repair of that deteriorated bathroom item." Ah, "finish!" By that time, it was 4:00. Rereading my goals prompted me to go ahead and finish the unfinished: I have now officially notified management of the need for repairs, and I expect the matter will be taken care of this coming week.

I did consult my instruction manual on my tool, and I did end up asking for help. A neighbor used his set of tools and got the wire out of it. I still have to finish reassembling the tool, but to keep my evening balanced, I chose wait and work on that part later.

The laundry? That part is a little more amusing. I'd done two loads that I needed to take to the Laundromat for drying. I had put the first load inside the non-working dryer at home just to have a place to put it until I went to the Laundromat. Later, when I dutifully arrived at the Laundromat, I noticed that my load seemed a lot smaller than I thought it should be. I didn't realize until I'd finished drying that load that I'd left half of the wet laundry in my non-working dryer. Too late to go back and get it; had too many other things to do. Oh, well, can't win ?em all.

I really, really procrastinated on the 20 minutes of paperwork. In the end, though, I did it, all because it was on my posted list.

Happy Saturday, all. More later.

Barb, I very much relate to the fixating on one area thing.

Dave, I relate to #2 and #3. I'll probably find I relate to the first one, too, if I think about it some more. This may not totally fit what we're talking about here, but the third one reminds me of what I call my "hierarchy of dreads." Sometimes, there may be a cleaning task (or other type of task) that I usually dread and put off. Although this isn't really one of my personal dreads, just for the sake of example, let's pretend I personally dread cleaning the toilet. Then something that I dread even more, like having to work on taxes, starts looming. Suddenly, the lesser dreads in my life start sounding appealing. I might scrub away at the toilet, because it seems almost like fun compared to something like doing the taxes. Sometimes all kinds of things get cleaned when I have something unpleasant that is pending (especially, like you say, if it's something that requires logistics I can't at that time work out in my head). Of course, sometimes I can also curl up into a ball when something dreaded is looming, and I just wish the world would go away (but that's not the topic here).

One thing that has helped me not over-focus on one area of cleaning has been to write out a list of areas to clean or tasks to be worked on. I put my list in a handy place and set a timer for 10 or 15 minutes. When the timer goes off, I tell myself I "have to" move on to the next thing on the list. When I get to the bottom of the list, then I can start back up at the top again. This helps me with both things.not over-focusing on a certain task and not totally avoiding some other task.

Doing this ten-minute thing has also helped me be aware of how distracted I can get while doing a certain task. Sometimes, rather than get hyper-focused and "hyper-cleaning" an area, I can do the opposite: flit from one task I started to another in a matter of a minute, starting this and then leaving it to do that (and really getting almost nothing accomplished). Sometimes it has taken a lot of discipline for me to keep at a given task for the whole ten minutes!

But yes, I really relate!

OK, LR, back to work!

Barb,

Thinking about your question a bit, I think of three things that would be possibilities for me.

1) Exercising a compulsion to acquire specific items relating to some objective. ie being so compulsion driven over something that I am mentally unable to set it as a lower priority, even though life events or current day needs would suggest that is an appropriate action at this time.

2) Undue attention to detail when that is not necessarily called for at a particular time. Example, while washing dishes to get functioning counter and range space, also washing range hood and cabinet doors above range hood. The excessive attention to detail on an "easy" or current task may often be done with reason three as an unstated and sometimes unrealized objective.

3) Avoiding another task; for a variety of reasons. It requires logistics I can't work out in my head. It requires emotional or mental strength I don't have at a specific time. ie being asked to do something in the evening when I would be able to do it better in the morning with a fresh mind. I am unable to think of a mental state in which I could accomplish that task at this point in my life.

It's good to read the posts from old friends and new.
Since I decluttered and cleaned my kitchen, I keep being drawn back to that room and finding other things to do there. Today I took the ceiling chandelier over the kitchen table apart and completely cleaned it and added new bulbs. It is much brighter in there.
But I really need to move on to other rooms and get them uncluttered and clean, too. And today would have been a good day to put fertilizer on the front yard since it is not windy.
Does anyone else have this problem---fixating on one area instead of moving on?

Roxie: Good for you for getting all these health matters taken care of; it's a good example for me to follow. Thanks for your concern about my foot. It's feeling fine at the moment, and that after having been walking a lot yesterday (with boots on) on a lot of uneven ground. Yes, like Tillie says, go for the one-finger posts when you feel like doing so; even if you can't do that, we'll know you're thinking about us and perhaps even reading our posts. Know that we are thinking about you. I will think about "something that makes me happy" to do today.

Tillie: Best wishes with the fertilizing. Thanks for all your encouragement. As for the wasp traps, do you have homemade ones or do you buy something?

Barb: I'm working on my tool repair in my kitchen. Feel free to bring your new floor cleaner over to my place when you finish. : )

I'll probably check back in later today to read more posts. That's one of the "something that makes me happy" things that I now do for myself.

Goals for today:

Add to my gratitude list. Finish putting steps into action that I started a day or two ago to get another deteriorated bathroom item replaced. Consult my instruction manual (see earlier story) and get help if necessary to fix my jammed tool so I can use it again soon. Do more laundry and put it away. Spend 20 more minutes on paperwork.

Have a good day, everyone.

Good morning :)

Hi LR2014 :)
Sounds like except for that darned wire you had a GREAT day and got a whole lot accomplished. :D
WAY TO GO!

Hi Roxie :)
I have a hard time opening those pull top cat food cans even with two hands to do it.
Maybe you could open a couple of cans of cat food, scoop them into a tupperware bowl, put them in the fridge and dish out the food daily as needed?
Yes, bras are a big problem after this surgery unless you can find someone to hook them for you.
Those sports bras don't have hooks but are hard to wiggle into. Most women find they just have to forget about bras for a while.
Make sure you get enough rest and stay hydrated during this very stressful pre-op time.
You can keep us updated here by posting using just one finger of your good hand. (((hugs)))

Hi Barb :)
WAY TO GO! steaming that floor! :D
A new mat will be a wonderful reward.
I wonder about the mail too. Mine does the same thing. Flies right over me and goes to California before coming back this way.


Well, today I am going outside to give everything some composted steer manure and a good watering.
Hate doing this task but the plants all love it.
Then I will hang my 4 wasp traps that I will bait with sugar water.
Then I will come back inside and take a good long hot shower.

Happy Friday everybody! :D

Good morning all!
I tried that new steam cleaner on my kitchen floor. It did get it nice and clean without harsh chemicals and is easy to use. The downside is the water reservoir holds less than a cup of water so it took three refills to finish my small kitchen. Also it leaves about 1/4 to 1/2 inch next to the baseboards, so I still have to get down on my hands and knees with a sponge to finish the job.
My reward will be a new kitchen mat for the area between the kitchen and the garage door. I had a throw rug there, but every time Frank and the dogs ran into the kitchen to be fed, they sent it flying, even with a grip pad underneath.
It got up to 70 degrees yesterday!Woo-hoo! So much more pleasant than the frigid cold we experienced last month. i want to prepare my raised garden bed this weekend. That's where the salsa garden will go.
My seeds are still not here yet. I do not understand the new US Postal service routing system where mail coming from the east coast has to go to 2 other states west of me before it comes to Indiana. I have been tracking them and it will end up taking 12 days. I'm glad seeds are not perishable.
Roxie, I am glad that you are getting the surgery you need.
Have a great day, everyone.

Hi, everyone. I haven't read all the posts yet. (I usually do that in the morning.) Looking forward to reading later what everyone wrote. Tonight, I need to write my post and get some sleep.

I got up pretty early and kind of hit the ground running this morning. Wanted to get out to that rural area I've talked about, in part to work on storm cleanup from last week. My original plan was to get back home by midday hit, get cleaned up, read posts, do a few other things, and then head off to another town about 40 miles from here for a once-a-month evening meeting I like to go to. Then I'd planned to go by a Laundromat on the way home from my meeting to dry some more clothes (since my dryer is pooped out, ya know).

Well, at least things started off according to plans. I got some of the storm cleanup done, got rid of some small, unwanted trees, and dealt with another item or two out there in that rural area. While there, I also unloaded some stuff that had been in my vehicle for months (some things I'd been debating what to do with) and trashed them. (Yea!) Problem, though: While working out there, I managed to get a piece of old wire caught up inside of one of the power tools I was using out there. Not a good thing, but seemed to me to eventually be fixable. Oh, well. I'd done all the work with that tool I'd planned to do for the morning, and I was getting hungry. Packed up, left, and grabbed a burger, and eventually headed home. So far, so good (except for the wire part).

Now here's where I don't know how to judge the rest of my day. The good thing is that I decided to not follow old habits when I got home. Instead of immediately going inside upon arriving home like I would normally do and save the vehicle unloading for that dubious "later" or "tomorrow," I decided to unload and clean out the vehicle right away. (I'm not saying it's clean. I just mean I cleaned up the part of the mess that I made this morning.) And then.

.I decided that instead waiting until that dubious "later" to fix my tool (the one with the wire stuck in it) I'd work on a new behavior and fix it right away. By this time, it was early afternoon (and it was starting to get windy). I decided that by removing certain screws, I could probably get down to the part I needed to get down to, remove the wire, and then hopefully my tool would be back in working order and ready for use tomorrow. Good plan (it seemed)! But then there were more screws, and more screws, and more. Without taking up the whole website with my story, let me say that I spent forever on this task with the best of intentions. Unfortunately, I couldn't get the wire out the way I was trying to do it, and then I couldn't get all the screws to go back in right. I guess if I get insomnia, I'll try it again later tonight. Right now, the wire is still in there, but some of the screws are not. I guess one could say that I definitely have a few screws loose. But for today, that's OK.

Made my meeting tonight that I wanted to attend, got my laundry dried, and am finally posting something. Got lots of exercise, and so far, no headache. (I did wear my mask!)

Tomorrow, I will probably do something unusual, like read the owner's manual.

Happy day, everyone.