| Tillie | Posted: 06 April 2020 - 10:16 PM |
Hey Lately some of the sentences were incomplete and then visible and so forth and so on. To not offend anybody with Triskaidekaphobia I made this phase 14. See you soon 😉 | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 11 August 2020 - 12:40 PM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical WTG! for all the things you did this morning! Did you have a "map" on the genealogy site? Hope you decided on something to do today that isn't hot or muddy or annoying. 🙂 Already hot here this morning. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 11 August 2020 - 12:22 AM |
The county website now sends virus test results somewhere else to be tallied. Thought some of you might find this website interesting. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 August 2020 - 04:42 AM |
Coffee clink. I slept badly. Dh came to bed after me singing and woke me up. He opened the windows, and we had a terrible thunderstorm. When it started raining, he got up to close the windows. When the power went out his work phone set off an alarm. Tatoulia, way to go on the bags! I am glad things are better with your brother, and that you got thanked. I'm also glad you found a way to get settled. I just cannot get my head around Beirut. Is your friend ok? Bean is doing great! Tillie, that website must have gotten all it's information on me from my mil's genealogy searching. It has my kids and many of my relatives by marriage but none of my birth family. Also It has every address since I married Dh. My possible associates are my kid in laws and two people I have never heard of. Apparently there was another person with my exact name who lived in my city - 5 years older than I, but she died ten years ago. Dh alarm just went off, but it is still dark upstairs. I am guessing he also slept badly and will not be getting up to do yoga with me. So I will just keep drinking coffee. The routine is on his phone. I am going to try to push through on my plans today and get to bed early. I get to go back to DD's house tomorrow. I am centering on my kitchen. Processing the abundance from my farm, and trying to take the time to clean up and say grace as I go. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 August 2020 - 04:42 AM |
Coffee clink. I slept badly. Dh came to bed after me singing and woke me up. He opened the windows, and we had a terrible thunderstorm. When it started raining, he got up to close the windows. When the power went out his work phone set off an alarm. Tatoulia, way to go on the bags! I am glad things are better with your brother, and that you got thanked. I'm also glad you found a way to get settled. I just cannot get my head around Beirut. Is your friend ok? Bean is doing great! Tillie, that website must have gotten all it's information on me from my mil's genealogy searching. It has my kids and many of my relatives by marriage but none of my birth family. Also It has every address since I married Dh. My possible associates are my kid in laws and two people I have never heard of. Apparently there was another person with my exact name who lived in my city - 5 years older than I, but she died ten years ago. Dh alarm just went off, but it is still dark upstairs. I am guessing he also slept badly and will not be getting up to do yoga with me. So I will just keep drinking coffee. The routine is on his phone. I am going to try to push through on my plans today and get to bed early. I get to go back to DD's house tomorrow. I am centering on my kitchen. Processing the abundance from my farm, and trying to take the time to clean up and say grace as I go. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 August 2020 - 12:20 PM |
Good afternoon Dh did get up with me to do yoga after about half an hour. My body sent my brain a memo that we have not done yoga since bean was born. More yoga! Breakfast, vitamins, chores. Couldn't pick berries because it was too wet and drizzly. Unloaded, loaded and ran the dishwasher. Stripped my bed, washed the sheets with a load of whites, dried everything and remade it. Not a professional job, but it will be nice to crawl into tonight. Ordered some materials for school. Made chocolate sauce and froze the ice cream. Now I am hitting my afternoon low energy lull. I should probably go do something outside because it has cleared off, but it's also hot now. I could make jam (original plan) or cheese, but Dh is working from home in the dining area off the kitchen. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 09:04 PM |
Good Evening Everybody Hi Subclinical What your Mom said is so true. WAY TO GO! Hi Tatoulia That's really wonderful that you were able to work with your brother and had none of the past ugliness to deal with. So, you can now be classified as a genuine "Bag Lady". That art forgery lecture sounds very interesting. So glad you are feeling better. Wonderful you got to be with Mom and Kitty Sister again ((((HUG)))) I watched a very few videos by people not even that close to the epicenter in Beirut and they are all just devastating. Looked at the thermometer this afternoon. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 11 August 2020 - 12:22 AM |
The county website now sends virus test results somewhere else to be tallied. Thought some of you might find this website interesting. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 08:09 PM |
SubC I am mulling over your mother's statement and it reminds me of something that I read on Instagram today: you shouldn't be working this hard just to be broke, It's attributed to Dave Ramsey. Somehow I needed to hear both of these today. It is miserably hot here. Really bad. The humidity is thick and I swear I can see it. I stayed in all day, I had yoga at 12 and then I had an interesting lecture to attend on art fakes and forgeries. I enjoyed it quite a bit, it was put on by Skinner Auction House. I used to go to their gallery talks and previews down the street. I am working on my bags. I have consignment bag, donation bag and bag for the lady I met at goodwill. I will see her on Saturday. I got two big bags of trash out tonight. That was a good feeling. I'm rearranging some things as I edit out things. I am finding myself feeling much happier and less overwhelmed. And I'm in charge off this happiness. Everything that goes out feels so good, it feels incredible. Well I had to pick up a few things for my mom today and the woman waved me in so I snuck upstairs and saw her and the kitty. It did a lot to restore my mother's spirits and mine, too, Saturday I was a wreck. Just lost and a wreck. Come nighttime my BF called me and asked if I was still up and dressed (I was). He needed to get something to eat and he wanted to get Chinese food. I assumed he was getting takeout as I don't actually eat Chinese. I didn't care one way or the other but as I went to meet hum at the corner, I saw that the restaurant in my block was open, serving dinner on the patio. it was a beautiful night, with a bit of a breeze. And the patio is a fixed patio meaning that they always have it and it's not some awkward thing they've put up to stay in business, I had a wedge salad and a skillet of corn bread and he ate a lot: burger and an appetizer. It restore me. It felt safe, it was dark out and not a lot of pedestrians, the tables were spaced out nicely. It was so comfortable. Then on Sunday I went to visit my same friend from a few weeks back and she'd gotten chicken salad with walnuts and cranberries for me. I used to eat that over a salad every single day at work, so that was pretty nice. So I ended up better at the end of the weekend than I went in. The devastation of Beirut really hit home when one of BFs friends sent us her video of the initial fire. We could see how far away her apartment is and all of a sudden, she's thrown across the room and her windows were all blown out. Really hard to watch. I've met her as her son was going to school first in NYC and then in Canada. SubC you are doing great! And I'm glad for the new truck. It is a workhouse and I'm sure it will serve you and your family well, hows the little bean??? Cm that is such a frustrating feeling to know what you need, only to have someone give you wrong information, Best Buy is a hard place to shop. I know they've decreased some of the loud booming noise in there but it's still loud and it's really hard to see in there. The colors are weird. We used to have a pact about staying together in Best Buy because it's just so overwhelming. Such a hard place to shop. So I'm showered now and feeling good that I got to see mom and her cat. I didn't see BF today. Too hot and humid. I'm continuing to fill my bags. I am grateful to be making these decisions, they feel good, Since I do not anticipate going back to work anytime soon, I'm going to have to rethink where to put the printer. I don't like the aesthetics of it, I will consult with my artist friend. Tillie I am sorry about your sister. I wouldn't begin to know how to feel. I feel sorry that she was mean and. Nash and. That she hurt you and that you didn't deserve that and I'm sorry you had to finally muster up the courage to protect yourself. And I'm glad that you did and also I'd love to be your sister, Shirley. I talked to my brother last night for the first time in I don't know how long. Was it 2017? He was having trouble with his internet and trying to email back and forth was taking time so I asked for his number and called him, we stuck to basics about getting the internet back up. A few times I had to hang up to work on it. And I got it to work! So then before we hung up the final time he said, thank you for all you do for mom, that's really nice of you, sweetie. And that was it. We did not joke, we didn't chat, we were just a couple of adults trying to figure out his internet. I felt very lucky for that. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 09:04 PM |
Good Evening Everybody Hi Subclinical What your Mom said is so true. WAY TO GO! Hi Tatoulia That's really wonderful that you were able to work with your brother and had none of the past ugliness to deal with. So, you can now be classified as a genuine "Bag Lady". That art forgery lecture sounds very interesting. So glad you are feeling better. Wonderful you got to be with Mom and Kitty Sister again ((((HUG)))) I watched a very few videos by people not even that close to the epicenter in Beirut and they are all just devastating. Looked at the thermometer this afternoon. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 07:41 PM |
So, since I got home, I So, before I go to sleep, I need to: I will get to bed a little later than I would like, but I think it is worth it. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 07:41 PM |
So, since I got home, I So, before I go to sleep, I need to: I will get to bed a little later than I would like, but I think it is worth it. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 08:09 PM |
SubC I am mulling over your mother's statement and it reminds me of something that I read on Instagram today: you shouldn't be working this hard just to be broke, It's attributed to Dave Ramsey. Somehow I needed to hear both of these today. It is miserably hot here. Really bad. The humidity is thick and I swear I can see it. I stayed in all day, I had yoga at 12 and then I had an interesting lecture to attend on art fakes and forgeries. I enjoyed it quite a bit, it was put on by Skinner Auction House. I used to go to their gallery talks and previews down the street. I am working on my bags. I have consignment bag, donation bag and bag for the lady I met at goodwill. I will see her on Saturday. I got two big bags of trash out tonight. That was a good feeling. I'm rearranging some things as I edit out things. I am finding myself feeling much happier and less overwhelmed. And I'm in charge off this happiness. Everything that goes out feels so good, it feels incredible. Well I had to pick up a few things for my mom today and the woman waved me in so I snuck upstairs and saw her and the kitty. It did a lot to restore my mother's spirits and mine, too, Saturday I was a wreck. Just lost and a wreck. Come nighttime my BF called me and asked if I was still up and dressed (I was). He needed to get something to eat and he wanted to get Chinese food. I assumed he was getting takeout as I don't actually eat Chinese. I didn't care one way or the other but as I went to meet hum at the corner, I saw that the restaurant in my block was open, serving dinner on the patio. it was a beautiful night, with a bit of a breeze. And the patio is a fixed patio meaning that they always have it and it's not some awkward thing they've put up to stay in business, I had a wedge salad and a skillet of corn bread and he ate a lot: burger and an appetizer. It restore me. It felt safe, it was dark out and not a lot of pedestrians, the tables were spaced out nicely. It was so comfortable. Then on Sunday I went to visit my same friend from a few weeks back and she'd gotten chicken salad with walnuts and cranberries for me. I used to eat that over a salad every single day at work, so that was pretty nice. So I ended up better at the end of the weekend than I went in. The devastation of Beirut really hit home when one of BFs friends sent us her video of the initial fire. We could see how far away her apartment is and all of a sudden, she's thrown across the room and her windows were all blown out. Really hard to watch. I've met her as her son was going to school first in NYC and then in Canada. SubC you are doing great! And I'm glad for the new truck. It is a workhouse and I'm sure it will serve you and your family well, hows the little bean??? Cm that is such a frustrating feeling to know what you need, only to have someone give you wrong information, Best Buy is a hard place to shop. I know they've decreased some of the loud booming noise in there but it's still loud and it's really hard to see in there. The colors are weird. We used to have a pact about staying together in Best Buy because it's just so overwhelming. Such a hard place to shop. So I'm showered now and feeling good that I got to see mom and her cat. I didn't see BF today. Too hot and humid. I'm continuing to fill my bags. I am grateful to be making these decisions, they feel good, Since I do not anticipate going back to work anytime soon, I'm going to have to rethink where to put the printer. I don't like the aesthetics of it, I will consult with my artist friend. Tillie I am sorry about your sister. I wouldn't begin to know how to feel. I feel sorry that she was mean and. Nash and. That she hurt you and that you didn't deserve that and I'm sorry you had to finally muster up the courage to protect yourself. And I'm glad that you did and also I'd love to be your sister, Shirley. I talked to my brother last night for the first time in I don't know how long. Was it 2017? He was having trouble with his internet and trying to email back and forth was taking time so I asked for his number and called him, we stuck to basics about getting the internet back up. A few times I had to hang up to work on it. And I got it to work! So then before we hung up the final time he said, thank you for all you do for mom, that's really nice of you, sweetie. And that was it. We did not joke, we didn't chat, we were just a couple of adults trying to figure out his internet. I felt very lucky for that. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 05:12 PM |
Good afternoon. Cats just don't think things through. Had a goid couple of days with bean. I'm coming home earlier, so I'm getting done stuff done in the evening. Yesterday I cooked and seeded the blackberries so I can make jam tomorrow, and then I hung out in the studio/shop and puttered while Dh fixed his brakes. Tonight I plan to cook ice cream if I get the kitchen tidied up again first. I have been thinking about centering, and about how even though my garden has had it's successes and failures and gotten away from me a bit this year, it is so much better than last year. And part of that I think came from making sure I had done a really good job on weeding, watering, and mulching all the things I had already planted before clearing and planting a new bed, rather than trying to clear the whole space and then not getting it planted, and weeds taking back over..... So, I am going to maybe try that approach with my house and my commitments and see how that goes. Hopefully, like the garden, I will be able to gradually claim more space (literal and Mental/Emotional/chronological) but at least it should help me learn what I can reasonably keep up with. Sometimes my mom used to say "I have too much to say grace over." Meaning that while everything was good, it was taking so much time and energy she couldn't stop and be thankful for it. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 12:32 PM |
Good Morning Washed and hung out linens on the clothesline overnight. Going to be another hot hot hot day. Plan to play with some beads and watch movies until sundown when I will go outside and water the garden. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 05:12 PM |
Good afternoon. Cats just don't think things through. Had a goid couple of days with bean. I'm coming home earlier, so I'm getting done stuff done in the evening. Yesterday I cooked and seeded the blackberries so I can make jam tomorrow, and then I hung out in the studio/shop and puttered while Dh fixed his brakes. Tonight I plan to cook ice cream if I get the kitchen tidied up again first. I have been thinking about centering, and about how even though my garden has had it's successes and failures and gotten away from me a bit this year, it is so much better than last year. And part of that I think came from making sure I had done a really good job on weeding, watering, and mulching all the things I had already planted before clearing and planting a new bed, rather than trying to clear the whole space and then not getting it planted, and weeds taking back over..... So, I am going to maybe try that approach with my house and my commitments and see how that goes. Hopefully, like the garden, I will be able to gradually claim more space (literal and Mental/Emotional/chronological) but at least it should help me learn what I can reasonably keep up with. Sometimes my mom used to say "I have too much to say grace over." Meaning that while everything was good, it was taking so much time and energy she couldn't stop and be thankful for it. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 09 August 2020 - 10:59 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical WAY TO GO! cleaning the kitchen. That's the problem with kitchens. Have a most wonderful day today (((HUG))) Supposed to get over 100F today. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 09 August 2020 - 10:59 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical WAY TO GO! cleaning the kitchen. That's the problem with kitchens. Have a most wonderful day today (((HUG))) Supposed to get over 100F today. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 August 2020 - 12:32 PM |
Good Morning Washed and hung out linens on the clothesline overnight. Going to be another hot hot hot day. Plan to play with some beads and watch movies until sundown when I will go outside and water the garden. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 08 August 2020 - 05:20 PM |
Hi Ya'll Hi Subclinical I think icecream counts. Good luck conquering the kitchen today. Today I am just frittering around, wanting to find some direction and order to my days. Hi CriticalMass My sister's horse always got colicky because he was eating things he wasn't supposed to eat. Speaking of my sisters... | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 09 August 2020 - 05:53 AM |
Coffee clinks! Tillie, I'm sorry that the story of your sister is sad. I remember when my dad's father died, and he said "the funeral is () if you want to come, but don't come home for me, I'm fine." I think his wife was sad that none of his grandchildren were at his funeral. She was a nice lady. I think my dad only went for her. CM, I hope the bunny turns around on his own quickly! I cleaned the kitchen yesterday, but then I made food for us and to take to the kids, so it is messy again. Not as bad I think. I also helped Dh pick up the new truck! It is a beast. Very pretty with no rust or dents. I told Dh I'm afraid to use it. He says that's silly, I should have been afraid to use the old one. Bean day! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 09 August 2020 - 05:53 AM |
Coffee clinks! Tillie, I'm sorry that the story of your sister is sad. I remember when my dad's father died, and he said "the funeral is () if you want to come, but don't come home for me, I'm fine." I think his wife was sad that none of his grandchildren were at his funeral. She was a nice lady. I think my dad only went for her. CM, I hope the bunny turns around on his own quickly! I cleaned the kitchen yesterday, but then I made food for us and to take to the kids, so it is messy again. Not as bad I think. I also helped Dh pick up the new truck! It is a beast. Very pretty with no rust or dents. I told Dh I'm afraid to use it. He says that's silly, I should have been afraid to use the old one. Bean day! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 08 August 2020 - 05:20 PM |
Hi Ya'll Hi Subclinical I think icecream counts. Good luck conquering the kitchen today. Today I am just frittering around, wanting to find some direction and order to my days. Hi CriticalMass My sister's horse always got colicky because he was eating things he wasn't supposed to eat. Speaking of my sisters... | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 08 August 2020 - 11:29 AM |
Hi all, Everybody has been very busy! CM, gutters are another thing i don't have to do. You guys remind me how lucky I am! I am finding that in my stay home days I am getting more and more tired and directionless. I asked Dh to give me a goal for today and he asked my to clean up the kitchen. He has gone to look into buying a new truck. Our farm truck is getting unreliable and he found a really good deal on one. He called to confirm that everyone will be wearing mask and he can drive the truck alone. The first week of August I finished two food preservations - cheese and beans (ice cream doesn't really count) but no lesson plans. Today I am just going to try to keep my life small and domestic - step one, kitchen. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 08 August 2020 - 03:49 PM |
Sluggish... Want more sleep than I'm getting, and wish the weather had remained cool. Roommate's little bunny boy having another tummy episode. 🙁 Why they pick nights and weekends I'll never know. Most likely he will manage without the vet; most of the time he does. But it's always an anxious and sad time until he shows signs of recovering. Will update later. Roommate will get a bundle of cilantro which might tempt the little fellow to eat. I think I hear her car now. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 08 August 2020 - 01:17 AM |
Hello Everyone Hi Subclinical Hi Tatoulia Hi CriticalMass WAY TO GO! sorting out even more receipts! That BBQ beef sandwich sounds so good. Yes, Autumn will get here some day in the near future. I think things will just continue along as they are right now. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 07 August 2020 - 07:14 PM |
Got the item returned and a refund no problem. My tablet was acting glitchy then I plugged it into a power bank which helped straighten it out. Then my old flash drive adapter I'd thought was dead even worked! Been thinking soon I will buy a 10" tablet - the local computer store where I got my laptop has some that look good for a good price. Because this 7" Samsung one I got in 2014 and it may be getting long in the tooth. So much computer/writing catching up to do. Days are never long enough and I frequently get sleepy in the afternoons. Wondering if I need a little iron in my diet. Think tomorrow I may go get a BBQ beef brisket sandwich from my favorite place. Found a stash of a few more receipts and tossed those. Next week the big push to ready for the company then after they've come and gone really dig in on my terms and see about some serious purging. Someday not so far off it'll be fall. Cool weather and a chance to get serious and deal at the storage unit, I hope. Will be checking what places accept donations. If the 'Rona doesn't worsen and shut things down again. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 07 August 2020 - 09:26 AM |
Welp. Have to make another trip to Best Buy to return the flash drive that a young chicky sold me not understanding what I really wanted. The store was closing early at 6:00, having only recently begun letting customers in again, so I trusted her that it was an adapter for interchangeable different flash drives like I came for, not just a single additional flash drive. I have several of those. Good thing I checked it in the parking lot, though either way I couldn't go back inside. 😛 Technology keeps changing faster than I can keep up with, and many of the ways it changes are not user friendly to my way of working. Sometimes I wonder whether if I live much longer I'll have to go back to pen and paper! I wouldn't even mind that if my handwriting could keep up with my thoughts. Plus revisions are easier with cut and paste on a computer, and not always needing to print out physical copies cuts down on clutter. Well, if I get going now and come back, I might have time to rest a bit. Woke up tired and grouchy, could use a nap but if I take one I don't want to start too late. Love to Tigger =^..^= | |
| Tillie | Posted: 07 August 2020 - 11:05 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi CriticalMass All the changing technology sucks. I have no plans for today. The cats all have lots of plans that involve me. The details coming out about the Beirut explosion are sickening. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 06 August 2020 - 11:43 PM |
Good Evening Everyone Hi Subclinical Hi CriticalMass YEA! for tossing the old receipts! Happy you are feeling more sociable and want to make some phone calls. Hi Tatoulia As long as Tigger is happy and not in pain I wish him many more days of taking naps and getting lovins. I always wait until there are no more good days in their future. Did diddly squat today. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 06 August 2020 - 04:25 PM |
Sort of a condensed post as it's been hard getting computer time again, and I am going to have to run out and get a doohickey for connecting my USB flash drives to the tablet; the old one seems to have given up the ghost. They're under $10, thankfully. I haven't caught up on posts in a few days but you know me, I will. Always enjoy reading them. Trying to prep for roommate's company - it's sort of slow going but hopefully doable. We cleaned the gutters of the house because they were clogged with leaves. I started pulling up the remainder of some vines I'd started last year that she didn't want because they were too invasive and gave her hives. Brainstorming more ways to deal with my quilting project bags' contents, which are crowded around the sewing area in the back room. I may have come up with an idea that'll work, and soon I hope to also be resuming quilt piecing, getting tops made and to the church and in the process destashing my fabric. Maybe masks, too. Today I threw away a bunch of old debit card receipts! They had been such a terrible mess in my bedroom. Maybe some of you can relate to how it has been to grow up "old school" in dealing with papers and bank records, balancing a check register, etc. But now with online banking, it can be done so much more cleanly, simply, and paper free. I had been doing more and more online banking for years, but there was some sort of lingering reluctance to let go of the paper trail stuff. I have convinced myself it's okay. 🙂 If I make a big purchase, maybe I'd save the receipt for that one thing until the warranty expires, etc. But not the receipts for everytime I get a sandwich! The weather is on a warming trend for the next few days. It'll feel like August instead of September as it has been. I'm feeling a little more sociable after feeling very withdrawing over most of the summer. Not going to parties or anything unsafe, just feeling like actually calling people. Yesterday I called my uncle on his 92nd birthday. My mom's younger and only surviving brother. We had a great chat. I will be calling other family and friends soon. Everybody take care, I'll be back when I can. | |