| Tillie | Posted: 06 April 2020 - 10:16 PM |
Hey Lately some of the sentences were incomplete and then visible and so forth and so on. To not offend anybody with Triskaidekaphobia I made this phase 14. See you soon π | |
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| Subclinical | Posted: 29 August 2020 - 01:55 PM |
Cross-posted. Tillie have fun with your beads! One thing I love about grocery shopping in the current situation is that I just add everything I need to my cart. Then when Dh is ready to go to the store, he submits the cart, they pack it up, and he pulls into the pickup slot, calls with his order number, and opens the trunk. They load the order right in. The downside is that often the fruit is not good and things may not be available. Some things they substitute too. Right now Dh can't drive, and I am not going to do the pickup, so our food will center around eggs, milk, tomatoes, zucchini, yellow squash, carrots, beets, beans, jam, pickles, rice, flour and sugar for a while. We won't starve! CM, thank you fir the link! The pattern buttons all say "nit available" so I emailed the lady. Hopefully she will reply. I love her skunk! Baby bunnies - squee! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 29 August 2020 - 01:35 PM |
G'day. Dh has a back injury. He is on medication that makes him loopy and drowsy (he's supposed to take it for a week and then get an mri if his back still hurts) Normally he is very go-go-go and I tend to set my tone around him. Last night he was loopy but not sleepy and we stayed up past midnight watching crime shows. We didn't set an alarm, and this morning he poked me awake and said "it's ten o'clock." It was very cloudy, so the sun hadn't woken me. The goats were angry! CM, I am very impressed with your storage unit reduction! Ride that energy as much as you can! Add me to the weight crowd. At least in a month I will start doing the stairs and pacing my classroom four days a week. Also not eating lunch on w/f because I won't eat at school. I miss swimming laps. Tatoulia, I knew you weren't criticizing. Also, I probably need a "don't you have...?" Anytime you think of one. I have definitely been known to forget I got something and acquire another one! It's good that you were walking, but maybe don't walk to blood drives - walking home seems like too much exertion after donating! Things like your trash story remind me how urban your life is. It seems so strange to me. I can't imagine a building that doesn't have a back exit. Are you safe for fire? Tillie, I have a lot of garden work to get to too. Yesterday i picked beans and put tomatoes in the dehydrator. It is so humid here that the tomatoes aren't done yet. Fall (on days without rain) and winter are actually better for line drying here than summer. The air is dryer. I have been known to freeze dry things on the line over snow in February. I got the ice cream made yesterday and all my materials lists sent out for my classes. I have 30 days before school starts. I am going to set a goal to spend at least one hour working on my classes every single day. That is less than three hours per class, which is not enough, but I'm sure some dats I wil, get dug in and spend more. Today I have started the dishwasher. When it is done I will make cheese. I want to change my sheets today too. I don't know what else, but nit much because the day is mostly over! 7 hours to bedtime. (I do have a plan for dinner. Dh is not cooking right now. He is mostly lying on the couch.) | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 29 August 2020 - 01:12 PM |
Thanks for the rah-rah, all! It will keep me going. Wish I could be doing more today. Instead I'm waiting for my mechanic to call. Talked to him earlier and he said he had to make a run to the dump first. But the time stretches out... it's nothing critical, though, but roommate and I can't do anything else but wait, wait, wait. The bunny club has 4 adorable BABY BUNNIES that we want to go see this weekend! So we need to get this car business going - we could take her car to go see the bunnies if we just had the chance to pass my van off to the mechanic and let him get started. Tillie - yes! I don't want to become a slave to the junk like Steven, or even like my own self back when I was less aware what it was doing to me. My hoarding really took off in the 90s after I had broken up with my ex-bf in the late 80s. I believe I was attempting to surround myself with the domestic life I had envisioned had I managed to drag him to the altar. And crafting was a big part of that, and as we know crafting supplies can have almost no upper limit! At first it felt cozy and creative. But I would always try to "organize" and wonder why it would quickly get disorganized again. Well, now I know the new mantra that says "You can't organize clutter." Even if I am still a work in progress implementing it. But good progress is to come. I can feel it. Been catching up finally on reading posts while I wait for my mechanic... SubC, I saw you want the pattern for the knitted bunny. This is the gal's site - she has so many cute animal patterns, and they are all free! Henry's Bunny is the one my roommate has been doing. I told her she should also make the larger Henry's Rabbit and Spring Rabbit. Here is the link: Tatoulia, I hope you are recovering well now from the platelet donation. My uncle Jim was a 5-gallon blood donor before age 65 then did platelets after that. However, he got multiple myeloma cancer of the bone marrow. I wonder if he pushed his system too hard. Or it could've been completely unrelated. Either way, he gave life to many people. He was such a good man. My mom's older brother. Died in 1998 and I miss him to this day. When I was a kid and we'd visit, he'd take me to the grocery store upon our arrival to pick out whatever breakfast cereal I preferred. Just those good host gestures that always made us feel so welcomed. Okay, going to post this much now then return to reading posts. More later. Iced tea clinks! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 29 August 2020 - 01:05 PM |
Good Morning Everyone Going to be another hot day here with no rain. Didn't grocery shop this last week but I will force myself to go this next week. But it has been nice seeing open space in the pantry and fridge like in the "good" old days. ;p Think I will play with beads again today. π | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2020 - 11:30 PM |
Good Evening Everyone WAY TO GO!!! WOOHOO! CriticalMass! π With my minimalism I am free to do whatever strikes my fancy. It makes me sad seeing how Steven is such a slave to all that useless hoard he has with absolutely no time to enjoy life. Nothing in his hoard is helpful or useful to weather Covid or riots or store shortages. Good luck getting the oil change and YES get that bike back and ready to ride! π Yep, for the first time in my life I am fat. Hi Tatoulia What a horrid ordeal you had. Listening to CriticalMass is so motivating isn't it? π | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 28 August 2020 - 10:56 PM |
WTG CM! Amazing! I am so proud of you! I too am realizing the weight of my objects! A hearty congratulations on getting rid of those things and lightening your load! I will be lightening my load this weekend. And I'm excited about that. You are my role model this weekend! π | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 28 August 2020 - 08:10 PM |
Hello everyone. Mom looked cute after her haircut. Donating platelets was an ordeal. I won't be able to do again. It's weird and uncomfortable in many, many ways. They are very nice and I was largely able to keep my discomfort to myself. But yikes. I need to get bathroom panted and I need to reduce. Keep peeling the onion layers. I started another bag today. It's 9 Pm. Have been in bed since I got home around 6. I did feed kitty first. I walked both ways. Ugh. It was too much of an ordeal. Tingling, feeling cold, then too hot, then legs cramping and the extreme nausea. Holy cow. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 28 August 2020 - 10:33 PM |
STILL haven't had time to catch up on the posts like I want to, but I will. I enjoy them too much not to. Yesterday I went to my storage unit to get out some murder mystery paperbacks I had decided I was probably not going to get around to reading. Ended up getting out several other items as well and taking them to thrift store. About 4-6 cubic feet total worth of stuff. Starting to get further ideas about what will come out next and be rehomed. I'm in a sort of no-nonsense mood with items that have been the most difficult to decide about. All of a sudden I am really irritated with those items for being a burden on my mind and soul. So I targeted them first! It worked. Covid and the other madness in the world seem to be shifting my perspective on what's important. Plus just the desire to only keep things that "spark joy" and to get rid of miscellaneous cluttery crap like papers. Thinking about my minimalist life goal, and how I have felt the last year or two that I've gotten off track, had begun to wonder if maybe I didn't want it badly enough. Yesterday proved to me that from what I can tell, I still do; I was just a bit bogged down. More BIG plans about that storage unit to come, I will detail as they unfold. Just have to see how my roommate's medical appointments get scheduled as that will be what we plan around. Tomorrow my van needs its oil changed. I pray my guy doesn't forget me or get sidetracked. Also hoping to get my bicycle back from him, whether he has had time to fix it or not. If not, I'll take it somewhere and get it in good shape. I want to start riding in the fall. My weight has been creeping up still. I won't deny I've been snacking, but I also think getting up early to go on the walks (and not having time for breakfast, and shifting my meals later) has not helped a lot, and maybe the stress has even been counterproductive. When cooler weather comes, if she doesn't have to go back to the office, she can walk the dog midday and then I might go some of the time again. We are supposed to get some rain this weekend. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 August 2020 - 12:20 PM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Tatoulia But what a hassle to have to walk all around the block to get to the dumpster. We knew you weren't criticizing about the hammock. (((HUG))) Good luck and have fun taking Mom for her haircut. Many times just having a positive optimistic outlook when problem solving is the greatest tool in successfully completing the task. Almost September already! Subclinical has school work to get back into. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 28 August 2020 - 09:06 AM |
I went full-on quarantine behavior this AM By putting a sweatshirt on over my pjs and walking out back to take out my garbage and recycling. With a mask and sunglasses. You have to understand I'm the third house in the block so I pass two other row houses, a cafe, then walk down the alley to take out my garbage. And it felt great! Want to make sure that I wasn't criticizing the second hammock! I was thrilled as I know how much land and space you have, SubC. I was merely bragging at my memory skills. I am so happy for Mom! I know how staying in shape and taking cars of her body are important to her! I'd like a shot of that, if anyone could help me with that! Tillie I too tend to stay positive. Especially in public. I'm the one at work who doesn't see a problem, who has something nice to say, etc. it's a lot of work and output for me sometimes and other times it's just perfectly natural and easy. I'm grateful you have the new seat. I can see where the duck tape would be aggravating for him enough to have him take action. I take mom for her haircut today. Her appt is at 12:45 and I'll pick her up a bit early. It is a beautiful day with sunshine and low humidity. Two nights in a row where I slept with no AC. After her haircut I'll start walking down to my blood donation appt. it's at 2:30 PM. It's about a mile from here. Okay I'll ttyl. Let's do this! Whatever ?this' is! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 08:58 PM |
Quick bedtime check in. Yes, I have a hammock - it is a lightweight nylon one that I like very much and packs away easily. I don't leave it set up, it hangs with straps and is more like a beach chair as far as use. The weight limit is 200lbs. This one is a big green rope one that will hold two adults or several kids easily. It needs bolts. I do love the idea of hammocks hung out at different points in the woods. We actually have bolts in trees at two locations. Which leads me to - I hardly ever hang out my laundry any more. I would like to get back to that. Also, I was glad when Tillie got rain and the smoke was gone and I liked the thought of fresh rain rinsed laundry. (Here it would never dry) Tillie, you are always so positive! It helps remind me to count my blessings! Mom got her bone scan back today and her bone density has actually increased! This is great! She has been worried because she can't go use the weight machines at the hospital. But she has been working hard to get exercise at home. Long walks and soup can lifts! I snuck in another load of laundry, prepped ice cream to freeze tomorrow, and reloaded and started the dishwasher. My menu is crowded tomorrow, but hopefully I will chew my way through it. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 10:11 PM |
Hi Subclinical That is really great news about your Mom's bones! WTG! Subclinical for laundry, icecream mix and dishwasher loading!!! Yes, I remember you lost your clothesline when the construction was going on. That huge hammock sounds like a lot of fun. Good luck nibbling away on the menu tomorrow. I was unfortunately born as one of those nauseatingly positive people. Optimistic but realistic that things rarely go smoothly. Scooter and I have reached a truce. He's so needy and clinging to me when I sleep or sit still. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 08:08 PM |
Hi Tatoulia He got the new toilet seat only because he was not happy using the duck taped one. OK, I have to get the most out of every tiny scrap of positiveness. ;p WAY TO GO! for easy laundry. Doing whatever as you travel through life. (((HUG))) I do believe you are correct that Subclinical already has a hammock but she also has a whole forest full of trees and could easily use as many as she gets. π YEA! for drinking extra water! Good luck getting the trash out tomorrow and don't forget the kitty litter. Good night, sweet dreams π | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 07:47 PM |
Tillie, I am shocked that he got a new toilet seat! Of course it's not the one you wanted. SubC good to catch up with you. I know you'll be missing your baby eggplant but how nice to have a little breathing room on getting your class materials together. Yay for a new hammock! I know this will sound weird but did you get a new hammock a few years back? It will be great to have another one set up! Unless my memory is crazy. I didn't have to get BF lunch today, so I had a pretty uninterrupted day of working. I did go up to see him after work, I forgot to get kitty litter and then I forgot to take my garbage out before dark. So I'll get up early tomorrow to take care of all of this. I'm tired again. Just had a chicken Caesar wrap from Whole Foods. Tasty. I'm drinking extra water now too. The day stayed pretty cool and was raining on and off. I was able to keep my windows open, As soon as I get my laundry out of the washer and hang it, I can go to bed, I just did my towels and my bathrobe and then I put in a load of dark delicates. I did my light delicates last night. Still more laundry to do but I'm just going to do this for now, I like the more reasonable and easy going attitude I have now toward the laundry. I just do a load here or there and I wait til the afternoon to get started. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 07:55 PM |
Good Evening Everyone Hi Subclinical WTG! Dsil! Those cat litter buckets are so sturdy and can have a million different uses. Good luck with your class materials lists and lesson plans. Glad you got some good sleep and rest. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 06:56 PM |
So much going on around here I don't have time to type everything I think at you. CM, great for reorganization and downsizing! Hope the china shop is gone. Tatoulia, I'm happy that things turned around with your mom and tgat the printer solution works. Tillie, mixed feelings on the toilet, but very annoyed at scooter! Cats are ungrateful wretches. Yesterday dsil spent some time cleaning out. He sent me home with nine empty cat litter buckets - which I need because many of my students did not return theirs after online classes, a hammock we have space to hang and they do not, and two cans of soup that Dh likes and Dd bought at the beginning of quarantine and is unlikely to eat. Today I caught up on my rest. I did not realize how tired I still was from the weekend until I slept ten hours! Took it easy today - a load of laundry, a load of dishes, filled the dehydrator with beans. I thought I was going to do the materials lists for my classes, but Dd asked me not to come tomorrow because they have had a lot of socially distanced/zoom visits this week and she wants some alone time with her boys. So I put them off until tomorrow. I have to get them out by tomorrow night, but they shouldn't be too hard. I lost track of how I did with the food preservation - ok I think, but I haven't done any lesson plans yet. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 12:57 PM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical Hi CriticalMass Hi Tatoulia Hot glue guns are such wonderful inventions and make fixes quick & easy. Speaking of duck tape... Now I could go and buy a new seat but my hands are not strong enough to remove the bolds from the old seat to get it out of the way to install the new one. Wonder how long this duck tape " Mickey Mouse" solution will remain in place. So many house maintenance problems around here just like this and the house is deteriorating daily. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 05:16 PM |
Well, YEA!!! He didn't mind when the toilet seat was twirling around on the one hinge. But I guess he did mind the duck taped down seat, found it annoying and inconvenient. There was a LOT of swearing and slamming around. He no longer was swearing or slamming things as he removed the old one and installed the new one. Unfortunately it's not the white one I wanted, it's another "wood" one that I absolutely hate but for some reason he always prefers. But at least it works properly. Plus from ages ago when he refused to replace the leaky wax seal But whenever I say something about fixing this mess he becomes so violent that I no longer mention it. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 August 2020 - 09:26 AM |
I'm sorry about your dress! What a shame. I slept and slept yesterday. Really pathetic. I need to make sure I get a good balanced meal today and good sleep. I'm donating platelets tomorrow. Wish me well! The tables are in a good spot to use for my printer. I would not have purchased them if not for the printer. They are nice and I'll use my glue gun (great suggestion, Tillie) to strengthen them. Back to work. I'm exhausted but need to get BF his and my lunches today. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 04:58 PM |
Hi Subclinical π Hi Tatoulia π±βπ€ Glad you have a nice place for the tables and like how they look. I also like to see pictures of people's decluttering efforts. Have done diddly squat today. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 03:27 PM |
Cm! The new ovens on their shelf are absolutely perfect! That shelf is very nice! I wish you'd taken a picture of the four boxes of knickknacks. If you did, would you consider posting? Would be soothing for me to see someone else's stuff going out. I am grateful you'll be able to worship this week. I had sugar for lunch and now I'm jittery and tired. Tillie I will look for Corey's videos! What's shame with what happened last night and I'm sorry you saw it. I went straight to bed after happy hour with my friends. I put the nesting tables in front of the fireplace and they look good. I move them closer to the desk when I'm printing. They look remarkably nice where they are. I can't remember how the lamp came. If I'm pretty sure I had to assemble it to some extent. I really need a massage but am not yet ready to go for one. I'd also like to have a reflexology session. Got two walks in today. Did get the kitty food for my little buddy. I adore her. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 02:54 PM |
A good thing to do Yes, he has fancy equipment at his disposal because of his Steri-Clean business but the videos are very interesting to watch. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 02:22 PM |
Very nice CriticalMass. WAY TO GO! dropping off all those donations! Yes, go to the Mass and pray and meditate. π― Yeah, things are pretty depressing at times. Things have got to change. The wind has picked up nicely here and it's coming from the South. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 11:37 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Tatoulia What an easy fix that printer was! Hope the lamp is easy enough to disassemble and get to the car. Don't forget to buy Kitty food or you will be in big trouble πΊ Glad I took advantage of the fresher air to get caught up on the laundry. All chewed up with skeeter bites from going out late to water things. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 12:50 PM |
Hi all, Hope everyone is hanging in okay. I was pretty bummed early in the day yesterday about all the anarchy and violence in our country. Like about to go into a serious depression bummed. π It lifted somewhat later. At 6:00 this evening I'm going to a mid week Mass and prayer time the church has started having. That should keep me uplifted and as hopeful as one can get these days. A good thing roommate and I did that we just got back from - we dropped the old microwave at recycling, and 4 boxes of her knick knacks at the thrift store! π I took a pic for IG of the new microwave and toaster oven on their wire shelving. It's still hot but by Saturday should drop. Possibly with precipitation, which we desperately need. If the temps are lower next week I may start sorting a few things in the storage unit. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 26 August 2020 - 11:03 AM |
Good morning Tillie! We have plenty of fresh air here! It is 65F and lovely. I'm so cold! What a dream! I'd love to get a lobster roll with you! So happy to hear that the air is cleared and you have clean laundry around your house! So lovely! Well pulling the printer out and stowing it back away is a dream come true. It's easy to do and mentally just what I need. I'm going to put on a light sweatshirt and go buy kitty food. Yes the more I walk the better I do. We are getting there! I'll disassemble the lamp this weekend and get it in the car. Bye bye bad lamp. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 August 2020 - 05:43 PM |
Hi Tatoulia YEA! for consigning the bad feelings lamp!!! I want a lobster roll... π Anyways, I washed all my clothes are they are hanging to dry in my room. The lightning last night didn't spark any fires around here. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 August 2020 - 03:15 PM |
Hello everyone! Good to see that things are on a positive upswing for everyone right now. A friend (the one I go visit at her house) had an eye appointment yesterday afternoon downtown so afterward she picked me up and we parked then walked around the city. It was delightful. And the first I've walked that much in a very long time. Then we drove up to visit BF then I went to mom's and got her nightgowns. I'd also purchased her some jams while out and BF sent her and the concierge at her building a piece of cake each. Then I continued to walk despite the heat and humidity because I haven't done 10,000 steps in a long, long time and I wanted to get those in. What a good feeling. Then I arrived home around 9 o'clock and I washed mom's nightgowns. Really terrific night. Today I dropped off two of her nighties as the short ones had dried overnight. I bought BF's lunch then back to work, it's been a pretty good day but I'm tired. I just made some coffee. I have a happy hour with two girlfriends tonight. Via zoom. I took pictures of my floor lamp and the consignment shop said they'd sell it for me! This isn't about the money. I'll be happy if my cut is $30. Okey dokey kids I have more work to do! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 August 2020 - 12:14 PM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Subclinical Happy everyone did safe distancing and you don't have to quarantine. YEA! all that recycling is out of your basement and your life!!! Sweet of your Aunt to mail you the items your Grandmother made. That was so rude that he cut your tree. Happy you can now get back into your routine. Hi CriticalMass Wonderful the Bunny Club made it's goal with the online sales. Best wishes figuring out your computer stuff & needs. Last afternoon yesterday we got a surprise cloudburst with big fat rain drops. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 24 August 2020 - 05:29 PM |
Well, I'm still behind because of another migraine. I wondered why I was insanely fatigued and craving all sorts of carbs. Now I know. My roommate has gone on a purging spree on account of the new toaster convection oven! It needed a certain amount of space around for safety, and bibbity bobbity boo she starts downsizing a lot of dishes and knick knacks in her china hutch and on some shelves. She had been working on getting stuff into a donation box before. I took one box and she got some more boxes. This will no doubt inspire me to do more of my own decluttering! The kitchen and dining room look like a glassware shop at the moment. I have a feeling we will be getting takeout tonight. The bunny club had a Facebook Live online auction yesterday and made our financial goal. My bunny girl is steadily improving, definitely has her enthusiasm back for her vegetables and is starting on rabbit pellets so I will just be a helicopter mom and be sure she is back to 100% but I think we're getting there. The computer backup thingy I did the other day was not perhaps the success I'd anticipated; when I originally "backed up my hard drive" I guess that didn't include everything like the operating system software. (Don't worry about figuring out all this terminology gobbledy gook - I just knew what questions to ask my IT gal friend and I think I know what I did wrong, LOL.) Interestingly enough, though I'm disappointed it wasn't what I had hoped, I'm not angry as I might've been at one time. There may be a few useful things, but I feel accepting. Ready to move on and forget having regrets. Somehow it'll work out. I've got a lot to do and some decisions to make in terms of getting my current laptop to meet my needs, and perhaps buying a cheap 10" tablet since my 7" one is getting full and old. Plus some list making for my projects so I don't have to try and hold them all in my brain. Things are changing - Facebook is changing its formatting so I may do less with my groups there, and that may spur me to channel time and energy back into my blogging, and of course novel writing. Not a bad thing at all, as I've neglected those a lot in favor of FB groups, but I was enjoying connecting with people who share my interests. Maybe I'll even buy a domain or two and start a website. Not right now, though. Catching up is the name of the game at the moment. Weather is going to be icky hot this week but maybe better by the weekend. Of course with the smoke and the hurricanes, things are not set in stone. The other night we had a red sun setting against pink clouds, and I think some of the smoke from CA had made it all the way here. Playing catch up this week I hope will include finally getting caught up on everyone's posts here! What a crazy month August has been. | |