| Tillie | Posted: 06 April 2020 - 10:16 PM |
Hey Lately some of the sentences were incomplete and then visible and so forth and so on. To not offend anybody with Triskaidekaphobia I made this phase 14. See you soon 😉 | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 28 May 2020 - 12:19 PM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Subclinical YEA! for getting that food garden almost caught up! Relieved your Mom says they have good preventative procedures in place where your Dad needs to go. Enjoy today getting things ready for your family visit. Hi Tatoulia We were all confident you would do a great job on that work project. Good luck finding whatever will please Miss Kitty. Going to be 100 degrees today. Brought in all my linens from the line, folded & put away. Using the swamp cooler has added much needed moisture to the air in here. So nice to have my feet look human again. Have no To-Do list for today... | |
| Tillie | Posted: 28 May 2020 - 03:53 PM |
Good Afternoon Yep, 100 degrees out there. Since I'm stuck in the house I hot glued the sisal back onto the cat perch scratch posts. Watching Stephen King's "Desperation". The Honeysuckle blooms have the whole garden sweetly scented and at times the scent comes inside. 🙂 | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 28 May 2020 - 11:47 AM |
Thank you all for supporting me yesterday. The meeting went very well. My mgr called me afterward and is still amazed at my lack of confidence in the project. He says that I underestimate my data analysis skills. I only have a few minutes and am not up to date. It is miserably hot here. I turned my AC on last night and it was so comfy and so great I have ceiling fan in living room on but not AC. Cat is now sleeping on my chair where I work (dining room table work, not my desk chair). She's on a tiny pink gingham quilt that my mother made for her back when the kitty was new (to me). I think it's time to wash her bed and put out something cotton for her to sleep on. I have a white table cloth that she seems to like in the summer. I'll put that on her chair and see if we get anywhere with it. Sorry I haven't read. I know I am being selfish. I lived through yesterday and my team is great. Very smart cookies. I saw an orange kitty in the background so that was great fun. I emailed the woman later to get the details. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 May 2020 - 04:48 PM |
Hi CriticalMass It's always good to be able to sit back at the end of the day and know that we have gotten some things done that day. WAY TO GO! Breaking in the new loppers! I got my mending done and am going to start my pedicure at 3pm. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 28 May 2020 - 05:13 AM |
How did it go Tatoulia? Tillie, you sound like you are doing well with your soup and your fancy toes. 🙂 CM, it is goid to get outside when the weather is nice. I'm sorry about the phasing out zoom appointments. That was something I was hoping would stay. It is a good thing for so many people. My dad has another eye appointment coming up. (He gets treatment for macular degeneration every 6-10 weeks.) Mom says their procedures are good. Yesterday Dh and I did yoga. I pulled some more weeds - almost caught up on the food garden. I did my minimum number of evaluations, and I picked up feed. I didn't take a shower, but I was up to three days in a row. I made better food choices. This morning I need to finish getting the second room ready for my kids and make pie. And take a shower. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 27 May 2020 - 02:20 PM |
Hello Everybody Hi CriticalMass WAY TO GO!!! Wishing you all kinds of perseverance in clearing off your bed. (((HUG))) Hi Subclinical LOL 😀 YEA! for seeing your buzzcut Boy's grown out hair!! 😀 WTG! for evaluations, weeds and general tidying up around the place! Very happy you and Dh took that relaxing country drive on a lovely evening. (((HUG))) I understand your feelings about the evaluations, having to judge people and critique their performances. I learned cooking/baking from Granma, a woman who didn't use many written down recipes and measured ingredients by eye. Hi Tatoulia Wishing you all the best figuring out what you are doing at work and that you have an Ace team to help get you through it! YEA! for Cleaning Fairies! You have decluttered so much, remember that. Got up and got busy doing chores before it got hot. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 27 May 2020 - 03:05 PM |
Taking a break - I'd gone out to pick up sticks and weeds because I'll be gathering the trash tomorrow for Friday pickup. I was only going to put the existing cut sticks in bags, but then I got ambitious and started trimming branches with my new loppers. So now I guess that's my big project for today. It was going to be sewing on several pairs of shorts a friend gave me - putting in drawstrings and extending the puny "ladies'" size pockets so they will actually hold my stuff! It's okay, though, as long as I'm getting something from my list done, and I am. My roommate really appreciates it. I've been taking lots of pictures of our pretty new flowers and at some point will get them on Instagram. Discovered my new phone has a "square" format setting with the camera - that will save time when I'm taking a picture with IG in mind, and result in better compositions than cropping afterward. Some of my dolls want to be part of the pictures too. 😉 I like to tweak cakes and other dishes. I'm not a foodie, in fact I'm a picky, but still it's fun to have variety within my rather narrow parameters. Thought it was going to be more sunny today but it's overcast. Rain tomorrow then sun for several days. Called my psych doctor to make an appointment and was told they will be phasing out Zoom appointments but I got a choice so I chose Zoom. Hoping I will get to wait 3 months before the next one, instead of 1 which is unusual. I guess it was because of Covid and because I'm decreasing a medication - I'm happy to be doing the latter so whatever hoop, I'll jump through it. Guess that's all for now. I feel like I'm getting some things accomplished. Always want to do more but am happy to be doing something rather than feeling draggy and NOT doing anything! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 27 May 2020 - 08:55 AM |
Quick good morning. Thank you for the encouragement, SubC. My cleaners will be here in a few minutes. I own too much stuff. I need to reduce my stuff. I'm still overgrown here. Going to be hot today. Have a bunch of stuff before my meeting. I'm nervous and ill-prepared. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 26 May 2020 - 07:38 PM |
Hi Tillie! *wave* I'm on my laptop. It's getting so annoying to type on touchscreens, I make so many typos. But the laptop still needs some tweaking, as it tends to freeze. Someday I'll get it looked at. Right now I just can only do so much and then it balks. And I have to shut it down, so then I hate to reboot it until I'm going to have enough time to make doing so worth my while. It's all a big Catch-22. Tatoulia, so sorry about the loss of your friend's sister. And for your family member and friend's dad, SubC. I haven't actually checked where KS is re the reopening. There was some kerfluffle with the governor the other day changing her mind about how to proceed, and I didn't follow up. I already know I'm going to want to continue to take precautions, and am going to be observing what other people do and not hanging around those doing stupid things. I was six during the Hong Kong Flu, remember it being mentioned though nobody my family knew got it. I do believe those of us who've ever had one of the really bad influenzas remember the experience vividly, as I do my bout with Beijing in '93. Which is why I stay away from people who reduce Covid-19 to an abstraction. Won't say much about the "herd immunity" concept or the protestors, as I'm trying to keep my cussing in check these days, LOL. Don't get CM started! 😛 Never thought I'd say I'm fortunate to be a poor churchmouse on Social Security Disability, but I'm glad I have more options about where and when I go. My roommate and I have gone a few places, cautiously, doing social distancing and wearing our masks. Yesterday we went by Braum's which is an ice cream burger joint that has a small grocery area. I just wanted some of their non-hormone butter. And it was lunchtime, so seeing one could order takeout at the counter, we thought okay. But then they put it on a tray. I was surprised, though I had wondered why the tables were not roped off although no one was sitting down right at that time.. Asked for our food to go. The gal seemed slightly nonplussed. I bought two Sudoku books at the Dollar Tree when the lockdown was first starting. I do Sudoku in the bathroom. Crossword puzzles stump me; I'm not up on all the cultural references. But I can call out answers when I occasionally watch "Jeopardy" all right. Used to amaze my mom. Their clues tend to contain more hints than crossword clues do. Yesterday I got my bedding plants planted. Two shades of pink geranium in one pot, vincas, rose moss, petunias, and ageratum. We've had a rainy spell that is breaking up over the next couple days. It was a really nice evening for the dog walk. Today I did the vacuuming since my roommate still can't lift >10 lbs. for another couple of weeks. I realized I'd meant to clean off the ceiling fan in the kitchen. I've been keeping a to-do list of these random chores and gotten some of them done. Also took that one painting that my friend had had out of the frame I didn't want it to be in. She has a new boyfriend and is going to be moving to where he lives next year, and I doubt she'll ever have a moment to wonder about the painting. Even if she does, I'll explain my aesthetic regarding frames with my artwork, how I prefer gallery mount, etc. I bundled the frame, mat, and glass so I can paint a watercolor-ish picture (using thinned fluid acrylics) of a bunny in some grass and flowers. Then it can be auctioned online, or later on in person depending on the quarantine situation, to benefit the bunny club. It felt good to check even those small items off the list. My bedroom remains a disaster, unfortunately. The other night when I posted was after a day when I'd had a nap and caffeinated tea. I ended up staying awake till 5:00 a.m. before coming in to sleep on the living room sofa, just to get away from my bed that (sadly to say) has STUFF in it again. I so wanted that not to happen after the last time I got it cleared. 🙁 Last night, the girl kitty came flying in to escape boy kitty's pestering, and was walking around and I thought she was going to come up to lie on the bed with me. But she wasn't sure, and then she started to sit on some books that I knew were stacked precariously. More mess, sigh. Well, it is what it is, and I do intend to fix it, it will just take time. Some of these household and garden things just need to be done, in the run-up till the radioactive iodine treatment for roommate. Some are one-time tasks, others repeats. When I do get the bed cleared again, we will have to have a celebration here. I know I'll feel terrific! Green iced tea clinks! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 27 May 2020 - 04:55 AM |
I think (I hope) the people who are pushing "herd immunity" don't understand the concept. So far about half of one percent of the US population has been infected. Say we are missing cases by a factor of ten - that would be a 5% infection rate. Say we actually reach herd immunity around 60% (A low estimate) - 12x as many people will need to be infected. If the death rate holds steady, that means over a million Americans die. Nice job with your planting and vacuuming and pictures CM! I am rooting for you to find your bed soon. Tatoulia, good luck with your project today. I hope it goes well. Tillie, people who can just make up cakes impress me. My ds used to make cakes. One year he just decided he was going to learn to make cakes and he started deconstructing recipes and investigating ingredients and replacing things and he got really good! One of his friends invited him to his birthday party and asked "and for my gift, will you make the cake?" He sent me a picture last night. Talk about hair! My buzz cut boy has sideswept bangs! Apparently his hair grows really fast. It will be good to see him tomorrow. Yesterday Dh and I did yoga. I pulled some weeds - the garden is almost not awful, and I did my minimum number of evaluations for the day. I also ran the dishwasher and took out the compost. It was a gorgeous evening, so Dh and I took a drive out to the apple orchard - the apple orchard is closed, it's just a nice drive. I think about a third of the farmers have corn coming up. Most of it isn't planted yet because it's been so wet. The tallest we saw was maybe 6". Dh picked up groceries again yesterday. He ordered me a lot of nice fruit! More evaluations today. How I hate them. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 May 2020 - 04:55 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone HI CRITICALMASS 😀 Since I had such a good time yesterday using up random ingredients making the soup | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 26 May 2020 - 07:03 PM |
Fun to hear about everyone's hair. This time is perfect for me to see what's really going on with my hair. Also, since I haven't been using a blow dryer, my hair is just so soft right now. Tillie your cake sounds delicious! Today I had a good day at work. I worked hard. I'm not exactly where I want to be on the papers and I have a big project to lead tomorrow that is confusing to be and far beyond any comfort zone I've ever had. I finally looked at what it is I'm supposed to be doing but I still don't understand. I'm hoping my team will be much smarter than I am. Ok I'm going to do a few things. Hope everyone is hanging in there. SubC what is going on in the courts is terrible. I don't know when or how they are going to be able to accommodate jurors. Maybe do the selection on line? This way only the 12 plus alternates need appear in court? Hard to imagine how costly this will be. But of course, the true cost is the time for people awaiting trial. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 26 May 2020 - 12:45 PM |
Good Morning Everyone Dark brown with white at the temples is a good look. 🙂 Your poor Friend, my sympathies go out to her. (((HUG))) Good luck getting through your evaluations. In 1968 at the age of 14 I had the Hong Kong flu and almost died. Woke up at 4am but managed to eventually get back to sleep. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 09:34 PM |
Outside with social distancing should be great for Dd1 and all of you. Why anybody would have a wedding party is beyond me. Tatoulia I am very grateful your company and BF's work are taking measures and not moving fast to get back to "normal". Have the soup all put away. Steven's rant today was about melting glaciers and dinosaur viruses and how even those viruses won't hurt us??? | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 26 May 2020 - 04:35 AM |
My hair is dark brown with almost white at the temples. I like it. I was reading about the influenza pandemic of 68 that killed 100, 000 Americans. I asked my mom about it because I was a baby. She said "what?" "Where was that?" "I have no idea. I was just worried that they were going to send your Dad to Vietnam." My friend's child is still in custody waiting fir a trial that has now been put off until July - A year after the arrest. Last night her Dad died. Tatoulia, I like your job and my dd1's job. Today evaluations. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 07:15 PM |
Yes. Ds and ddil are on their way to her mother's wedding. They are going to stop here first overnight and we are going to celebrate his birthday. They have only been going to the grocery store and for walks with the dogs. They wear their masks. Dd2 is also coming to stay. She also wears her mask, but I am less confident about her social distancing. Dh and I are in conflict over that a bit. Dd1 and dsil are coming for the birthday celebration on Thursday evening. We will make food for everyone and all sit far apart outside and eat it. If it rains, Dh will move the tractors and we will sit spread out in the barn. Dd1 said she might not eat. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 07:46 PM |
SubC I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible time this is. Sending you strength. You are doing a great job and I'm thrilled you'll have your family over. We do now know the hair color. BF even asked me what is its natural color, so I said I'm assuming dark brown with grey and how happy I would be if there were a grey streak. Tillie I'm glad your soup was tasty. I haven't done anymore clearing. But I've showered and have the dishwasher set to start in an hour. SubC thank you for looking at our infection rate here. I do think that we are trying hard. My state rep is also an emergency room doctor-Jon Santiago and he is amazing. He gives updates after doing a shift in the ER and I am grateful for him. I think my company will play it smart and not reopen, even though I think in Boston offices can reopen on June 1. We are definitely closed through June 15 and they will give us a two-week notice before re opening. Still, I think it will be August or later. I don't see my company making bad choices at this juncture. They've worked really hard to keep us safe and I don't think that we are safe to go back. BF is being vigilant. He is not relaxing his standards. He is very careful. He checks his oxygen and his employer's oxygen every day. He has plenty of masks and gloves and has put up barriers and other things. I do want to get back to normal but I'm grateful for all I have. I am just so grateful. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 05:39 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone Hi Subclinical WTG! you did a lot! Heavy sigh... Love the way you "protect" yourself from your snacks. LOL ;D Sorry to hear about your Aunt's Brother's wife (((HUG))) Hi Tatoulia WAY TO GO! for paperless tables!!!! 😀 HaHaHaHaHa! what color id Tatoulia's hair? Been watering. Got the Lilacs done and am working on the trees. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 04:50 PM |
Garbage out!!!! Two young men walking by offered to take it for me so I let them. I had my garbage, my recycling and my neighbors two big trash bags. They had put theirs out back and someone rummaged through it to find out who did ur abs deposited it on the stoop. They were going out of town. I wish they hadn't done it but I got help!!! So nice. Ok all the papers are off of my coffee table. What a relief. My dining table is still a zoo. I'll keep chipping away. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 05:10 PM |
I hide the snacks. I tuck them away behind stacks of canned goods or boxes piled in front of the cabinet so that I have to really want to get them. If I even get rid of all these piles of boxes and bins I will have no way to protect myself from snacks. My sodas are up in the loft in the barn. The massachusetts infection rate is under .9 and your hospitalizations peaked a while ago. You could stand more testing, but You are on the right track. I hope cases keep going down! Tillie, I hope you enjoy your soup. I would feel much better if people would wear masks. It is such a simple act of caring. Dh was not being smart or careful by not going in the donut shop. He was punishing me by making me take the consequences of my opinions. If he wanted donuts, he would totally go in the shop. I am ok with not getting donuts. He thinks about things in terms of his own risk. He honestly thinks he would know if he were sick and that he therefor isn't going to make anyone else sick, and besides, he doesn't think anything he has done is risky, so how would he be sick. I am less concerned about me than about providing a habitat for the virus (I think I would be fine if I got sick) I am a strep carrier. I have taken a lot of antibiotics in my life for "no reason" I understand what "asymptomatic" means. I gave him strep once when we were dating. It was going around my workplace but I didn't think I had been exposed. You'd think he would understand the concept. My aunt's brother lost his wife this weekend. Today I pulled a few weeds in the garden (there are still far too many) Planted beans, and picked radishes. I also did dishes (not caught up yet) and did laundry (almost caught up - even put away.) I stripped my bed and my sheets are in the wash. I cleaned up the mess in the entryway and I picked everything up off the floor in the room I was using for a classroom. I have one bedroom ready for kids on Thursday. I need two. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 03:02 PM |
OK Making a very large batch of weird soup. Four cups of dried peas. It is simmering on the stove now and smells very tasty. I will portion out a lot of it and freeze it since I can't eat it all in a timely manner. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 03:26 PM |
Yay for weird soup, Tillie!!! Massachusetts is starting to reopen with Boston taking a bit longer. I am not going to get my hair cut even though the hair salons are open and I ran into my hairdresser today. We are all eagerly awaiting info on my actual hair color, so even if I eventually go for a cut, I'm going to see what color my hair is before having it colored again. SubC I don't know how you manage to keep snacks in the house. I don't like salty snacks-no chips or pretzels for me-but I love sweets. And cannot keep them in the house. I eat them all immediately. So I'm forever impressed with people who can keep a snack cabinet. Well done! I'm chipping away at papers. Going to meet my goal. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 11:54 AM |
Hi Tatoulia WAY TO GO! for only buying what you need and like to use at the huge store! Such sad news about your Friend's Sister. Good luck with whatever you decide to tackle today! 😀 I need to dress and get to watering Lilac bushes and trees. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 11:42 AM |
Not all of my steps are in the right direction, SubC do sometimes I just have to count it as something. I do know your worries about waste and endangering others. This is a devastating time. Tillie I enjoyed the warehouse store. I bought the cranberry juice I like and the coffee I like. Also maple syrup. All things I use regularly. No impulse buys. And I heard from one of the people at mom's that they appreciated the snacks. I had to do individual packets since I can't have them reaching into a big bag of chips, etc. I'm glad that the people enjoyed them. I'll do again in a month or so. I need to give them even a small reason to feel appreciated. I just learned of a friend's sisters death. 51. She worked for the Red Cross and the Boston Archdiocese. I served on a board with her brother for many years. Very service-minded family. What a terrible loss. I'm going to go do things here. Anything. I want to work on papers and continue my awesome progress. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 11:42 AM |
Not all of my steps are in the right direction, SubC do sometimes I just have to count it as something. I do know your worries about waste and endangering others. This is a devastating time. Tillie I enjoyed the warehouse store. I bought the cranberry juice I like and the coffee I like. Also maple syrup. All things I use regularly. No impulse buys. And I heard from one of the people at mom's that they appreciated the snacks. I had to do individual packets since I can't have them reaching into a big bag of chips, etc. I'm glad that the people enjoyed them. I'll do again in a month or so. I need to give them even a small reason to feel appreciated. I just learned of a friend's sisters death. 51. She worked for the Red Cross and the Boston Archdiocese. I served on a board with her brother for many years. Very service-minded family. What a terrible loss. I'm going to go do things here. Anything. I want to work on papers and continue my awesome progress. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 11:46 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hello Subclinical I think open air "farmer's market" type food sources would be safe to visit and they should be starting up soon. WTG! for your Dh not entering the donut shop! It is not safe to do nonessential activities in places where we will be exposed to catching the virus. It's up to us to do what we know is best for us. Another reason they are opening up everything is the protesters have scared them. So stay home, stay safe everyone (((((HUG))))) | |
| Tillie | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 11:46 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hello Subclinical I think open air "farmer's market" type food sources would be safe to visit and they should be starting up soon. WTG! for your Dh not entering the donut shop! It is not safe to do nonessential activities in places where we will be exposed to catching the virus. It's up to us to do what we know is best for us. Another reason they are opening up everything is the protesters have scared them. So stay home, stay safe everyone (((((HUG))))) | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 06:42 AM |
Good morning. Tatoulia, I am glad you are doing so well! Good that you still had your quilt. Some of my steps are still in the wrong direction, but I am doing better. Yesterday I did more laundry and I showered and I picked up the new room. Today I think I will do the entryway, and maybe I will catch up on dishes. I checked and the thrift store is open, so I guess I could drop off my donations, but that does not seem essential. I do not understand this reopening. There are more cases - MANY more cases - every day than there were in March. And in March we were all told to stay home except if absolutely necessary to reduce the spread and save lives. So how can it be safe to do things that are not essential now? It has to be less safe. So basically the decision Is driven by economics, not safety. I do not want to participate in economic decisions that kill people. I am still torn over my pizzas. Dh went to the hardware store to buy things for his wiring project. He told me the donut shop is open. I love these donuts - the shop closed for renovations back in the fall and I was so sad. I said "and you didn't bring me any donuts?" And he looked smug and said "I would have to go into the shop." Now I don't want donuts. maybe a good thing will be that without the overwhelmingness of online school I will be less distracted from the source of my food and my weight will, start going down. Already I can't imagine going back to the store where I buy all my favorite snacks and candy. They don't do curbside pick up. But I am not out of snacks yet - almost out of candy. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 25 May 2020 - 06:42 AM |
Good morning. Tatoulia, I am glad you are doing so well! Good that you still had your quilt. Some of my steps are still in the wrong direction, but I am doing better. Yesterday I did more laundry and I showered and I picked up the new room. Today I think I will do the entryway, and maybe I will catch up on dishes. I checked and the thrift store is open, so I guess I could drop off my donations, but that does not seem essential. I do not understand this reopening. There are more cases - MANY more cases - every day than there were in March. And in March we were all told to stay home except if absolutely necessary to reduce the spread and save lives. So how can it be safe to do things that are not essential now? It has to be less safe. So basically the decision Is driven by economics, not safety. I do not want to participate in economic decisions that kill people. I am still torn over my pizzas. Dh went to the hardware store to buy things for his wiring project. He told me the donut shop is open. I love these donuts - the shop closed for renovations back in the fall and I was so sad. I said "and you didn't bring me any donuts?" And he looked smug and said "I would have to go into the shop." Now I don't want donuts. maybe a good thing will be that without the overwhelmingness of online school I will be less distracted from the source of my food and my weight will, start going down. Already I can't imagine going back to the store where I buy all my favorite snacks and candy. They don't do curbside pick up. But I am not out of snacks yet - almost out of candy. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 24 May 2020 - 06:41 PM |
We ran errands this afternoon. I picked up a bunch of individually wrapped things for the people at my mother's place. Bags of pretzels and chips, bags of cookies, fruit gems, and sparkling water. I haven't been to one of those warehouse stores in years. It was good to pick up a bunch of things for the workers at mom's, easier than trying to arrange a lunch. Now kitty and I are just sitting here. I'm doing a load of towels. I picked up the Sunday Times while I was out (generally I get the crosswords from BF's copy but I wanted my own paper today). So I'll work on crossword for now. | |