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What are you doing today?
Tillie
Posted: 17 August 2012 - 10:50 PM
 

Today my To-Do list included
water the garden and trees
clean the litter boxes
make a grocery list
clean kitchen
work on quilt

What is on your list? 😀

 

Replies (4028)

Roxie
Posted: 05 September 2013 - 06:36 PM
 

Ow, ow, own, poor Marty! I'm glad you could help him. I wouldn't have know how to do that.

I've been puttering online for hours. I did my basic two things but beyond that? Myehhh

Saying hi to all. (((Tillie)))]

 
Tillie
Posted: 05 September 2013 - 05:33 PM
 

I guess I'm the last one on earth and that the zombies got all the rest of you. 🙁

 
Tillie
Posted: 05 September 2013 - 12:41 PM
 

OK Marty (the cat) has/had a dislocation of the wrist.
Popped back in place and he was able to put weight on it again.
I will have to keep a close watch on that.

 
Tillie
Posted: 05 September 2013 - 09:04 AM
 

Good morning! 😀

Another very red sunrise.
Means still a lot of forest fire smoke in the air.
No rain. 🙁

Marty (the cat) is in bed not wanting to use his game leg.
Told him to stay off it and give it a rest.
No matter where I touch his leg he says "that doesn't hurt" so must be a pulled muscle.

Anyways,
today I need to wash some dishes, water some yard plants and do a general tidying up inside.
Also on my To-Do list is take a shower. I always schedule in personal maintenance because this is important to my health and mental wellbeing. 🙂

So now, I am off the sieze the day! 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 05 September 2013 - 08:56 AM
 

((hugs))) Diane 🙂

 
diane
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 09:00 PM
 

Thanks Tillie, nice of you to cheer me on. Yes, forgot about mouse fall invasion. Good you reminded me to keep on top of it, sure don't want babies. I bought the steel wool, will put it on my list for tomorrow. bought it last week for outdoor rooms, makes more sense to use it in here under sinks, so thanks tillie for saying what you did.
Did you get any rain? Supposedly it will start here at 3am, we will see. Flash flood warnings and I haven't finished shoring up steep slope in the backyard, certainly won't be anywhere as bad as last week. The more I explored the more I found huge ruts that were made from the big storm last week, would take a lot of work to fill in and block areas. Maybe after this storm passes I can see the areas that need patching the most. Really want to focus on the inside for awhile and do some much needed maintenance, felt good to start today. Thanks tillie for all of your support and suggestions.

 
Tillie
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 07:28 PM
 

WOW!!!! Daine 😀
WAY TO GO!!!

You did a fantastic amount today!

The mice can feel Autumn coming on and will try to move inside where it's warm, has food and water.
NOW is the time to step up with trapping and preventing them from starting up with their Autumn & Winter babies all living with you.
I stuffed steel wool into the small holes around the plumbing pipes under the sinks and that stopped my mouse migration problems. 😉
Spiders will also start coming inside now too.

About your hamper of shoes. Out of sight/out of mind.
That happens to me too when I start moving stuff around.
Takes me a while to remember just where the heck I put stuff.
This "Old Timers Disease" makes every day a treasure hunt ;D lol

Happy your mouth is better today. 🙂

 
diane
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 05:25 PM
 

Hi Tillie, you are a ladder girl too, happy you climbed safely.
Want to hear a miracle? It is beautiful out and I worked in kitchen all morning, probably over 4 hours. I cleaned out 2 cabinets, organized stuff, washed all cabinet outside doors. Set 2 mouse traps in cabinets I cleaned, after finding several droppings, not like when I cleaned months ago, but they are back.
Cleaned all shelves on inside of refrigerator, lined shelves on door, to make it easier to clean in future. It was pretty crusty, not sure what it was in the worst shelf. Threw away expired food.
Cleaned inside of microwave, and all dog dishes and water area.
Vacuumed all dust bunnies
Washed all dishes from 2 or 3 days
Washed all water bottles
Threw away bags of expired food and all kinds of other junk. 95 gallon cart is filling up!!
Cleaned mud off front steps
Still need to do:
Organize calendar for Sept. and Oct. clinics, including contact #, address etc.
Clean small table off
File or toss 2 bins of papers and magazines on table. I am too tired right now, maybe have to wait until tomorrow.
Going to Costco tomorrow with my friend, don't need much but want to spend time with her.
What a change to work all those hours today in kitchen, still have too much stuff in kitchen, small kitchen so shows when too much stuff. Progress not perfection, proud of all that I did today.
My mouth hurts less today, hooray. Have more energy than yesterday, obviously.

 
Tillie
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 04:36 PM
 

HI 😀

Been having fun today doing small little projects.
Getting all caught up.
Marty (the cat) with his gimpy leg went back out after breakfast promising to stay close to home.
He did stay close, he went up on the roof.
Crying, crying, crying when he wanted to come back down.
I put up the ladder and managed to get him down without hurting him or myself. 😀
I told him to give his leg a rest but he didn't listen and now he's limping even worse.
I put him in his bed and am making him take a nap.

Have some rain clouds gathering. Still keeping my fingers crossed for rain here.

Off again to see what else I might find fun to do today. 😀

 
Tillie
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 10:19 AM
 

Good morning everybody 😀

Cats have been fed.
Have no "Have-Tos" to do today. 😀
All caught up with all my household tasks.

Feeling good. Got a good nights sleep.
Marty (the cat) is limping. Don't know how he hurt his front right leg. 🙁

Since I will not be tied down to any specific tasks today,
the day is filled with possibilities.
Like an adventure. ;D

Wishing you all fun adventures too. 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 10:13 AM
 

WAY TO GO! Karl 😀
Financial clutter is important too.
So happy about the chat challenges. 🙂

 
Karl
Posted: 04 September 2013 - 04:16 AM
 

I made a phone call to transfer some money, which is not actually a cleanup item, but will defer the financial catastrophe a little longer. I attended the Tuesday chat with ali and billie. During a buddy-cleanup, I tackled a smaller stack in the bedroom, and the day's mail.

 
Tillie
Posted: 03 September 2013 - 09:06 PM
 

Hi Diane 🙂

You accomplished a lot today. WTG! 😀
I hate yellow jackets with a passion.
We get a lot nesting in all his stuff around the yard.
I get a good feeling when I take the wasp spray around on a hunt and destroy a lot of nests. 😀
Only been stung once this year, so far. But I can still run fast when very motivated to get away. lol
Send that rain down here to me. I'm tired of eating dust.;)

 
diane
Posted: 03 September 2013 - 07:41 PM
 

Good job Tillie, busy morning for you. Guess I overdid it yesterday, I feel exhausted today and didn't do as much as I hoped. Did get another clinic scheduled, discussed things with my boss. She is so wonderful, offered me more clinics, said I would let her know. Enjoyed watering plants. Hung some pictures in walkway, not sure about them. Put a fun sign up in garage, "Busted Knuckle Garage".
Hung a big rack for tools and snow shovel. Must have done more, took all morning.
My mouth hurts today, got the blood pumping running up and down ladder today. Got the yellow jacket nests down, they keep biting me, that went well, snuck up on them this morning when they were sleeping. Two stings last night was the final straw. Didn't rain yet, plan to work inside house when it rains this week. Showered last night and slept in clean sheets, nice.
Where is everyone today? Just Tillie and I posted
so far today. Hope everyone is accomplishing what they want today.

 
Tillie
Posted: 03 September 2013 - 09:17 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Diane 🙂
So very happy you are feeling better!
WAY TO GO! on all you accomplished! 😀

Karl 🙂
YEA!!!!! for tackling that pile and putting stuff away! 😀

It was still dark when I got up at 5:30 so I read internet news and drank tea till the sun came up.
Fed the cats their breakfast so the little boogers would leave me alone.

He went back to work today. YEA! 😀
So it is time for me to clean the house and get it back to normal.
He spent the 3 day weekend sitting out in his hoarded garage watching Gilligan's islands on his computer.
I went out there once to ask him to please do something for me, he didn't, but anyway I noticed this one tall stack of boxes is leaning worse than the tower of Pisa out there.
7 large cardboard boxes of LP record albums.
I said that was very dangerous and he said that he was trying to find the time to "fix that".
He never found the time.

Whatever.

Today I plan to clean the bathroom.
Sweep floors & porches.
Vacuum carpet.
Wash & sanitize litter boxes.
Clean out the fridge and wipe down the shelves.
Take a nap after lunch. 😀

So, what are you all up to today? 😀

 
Karl
Posted: 03 September 2013 - 05:59 AM
 

I spent most of today at a board games event -- I haven't been able to attend one recently; I was glad for the chance. After I got back home, for a while I thought that I wouldn't get any cleaning done, but I decided that I'd better go through the stack that was blocking access to the closet. I found several shirts, and T-shirts, and a few pairs of jeans, all clean, that never got properly put away after some long-ago laundry session.

Once I had access to the closet, I put the shirts on hangers, and the jeans on stronger hangers; in the past I've kept jeans elsewhere, but there's more room for them this way. I'm holding off on the T-shirts until I figure out whether I have space in the dresser for them.

 
diane
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 06:48 PM
 

Today finally had my energy back, got alot done. Worked most of the day then realized I forgot to have fun!
Became an expert churner, then caught myself, threw a bunch of it away, filled 1 large bag of donations.
Washed 3 large pieces of art, may have to burn them.
reclaimed most of my deck that had stuff I had washed and stacked on it.
Really did get things done today, so good to feel better again. Supposed to rain hard, motivated me to get lots done outside so it wouldn't get wet.
Took clothes off line, folded, have to put away still.
The time flew by today, so good to feel good and get lots done.
Thanks for being here everyone, sure helps.

 
Tillie
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 03:54 PM
 

Ya'll are just so sweet 🙂
((( hugs)))

Hope everybody is doing ok today.
Remember to play, relax and think happy thoughts.

The nicest thing about our pets is that they love us unconditionally.
They don't care if we are dirty & smelly and always forgive us for everything.

 
Roxie
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 01:05 PM
 

It is so good to see all of you posting!

Mare, please post even if it is only in supportive response to other posters, or just to say "Hi, I'm here." We miss you when you are gone.

Ali, glad to see you back again, too. How is your recovery going? Are you breaking down the cardboard boxes as you go so they lay flat? I found I need to do that, then get the flattened boxes into the car so I eventually and actually recycle them.

Karl, sounds like you did have a great day. I am happy about all your bicycling, and that you are taking steps to keep purging and cleaning. When's the next inspection?

Diane, my friend, how are you today? How is the painting and purging for you?

Dianne, always love to see your colorful posts. I am proud of you for ordering the beds. I know you can rally and prepare for their arrival. Sometimes I think deadlines are good for us, even if I resist them.

Tillie, my dear, you always post good posts, and they are very supportive. I rely on you being here, you know? I want to see you include better things in your life for YOU.

If I've left someone off, it is unintentional Hugs all around.

Yesterday I attended to Boots' body then went to the grocery store. I really needed to use the electrical cart but there was not one available. I got through the very expensive shopping trip, got out to my car and had to sit on the fender and rest. A young couple approached me and I tried to assure them and wave them off, but they continued and I let them load the car for me while I sat inside the car in the AC. There really are kind people in the world.

I put all of the groceries away except for a few paperback books I bought, which need yet to go on a shelf for future reading. And a magazine which needs to go into the "library" (bathroom).

I think my feelings were kind of numb regarding Boots. I feel like I let him down. While I bagged his body, my Snowshoe Siamese, Clyde, observed and I felt guilty for not having a proper funeral for Boots. But I simply cannot afford to after my years of so many losses of beloved pets or foster pets.

I brought Boots home as a rescue from Louisiana. He held my hand the whole drive home. He always liked to be near me and was comical and sweet.

Later I was missing him and still apologizing to him. I hope he understands that he will always be in my heart and that when I die I want him to be with me again and forever.

I was only ever able to afford to cremate two of my pets: Scoot, who was my soul mate cat and whom I promised, and JC, a Ragdoll I adopted when she was 10 years old and only had four years. She used to bark like a dog. She looked like a little girl with fluffy pants. So cute and so sweet. I had to euthanize her due to internal organ failures. But I got to hold her and say goodbye.

Sorry for the sad post. I'm okay, really. Not sure how much I'll get done today, but I did buy more laundry detergent so that I can continue with Laundry Mountain soon.

I'll call the tree guy tomorrow and authorize him to come trim trees and bushes away from the house regarding the raccoons. That'll be another check off on the master list. After that I really need to call in the door guy for the laundry shed. Don't have any idea how much replacement doors will cost, but I at least need to check it.

 
Dianne
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 12:08 PM
 

Ali, great work on the boxes! Since I don't go to chat I miss out on some updates. You're back home from recuperating at your daughter's?

Mare I totally agree it's hard to stay in touch when we feel there is nothing positive to say. In real life I felt that way for literally years and shut out family and friends. Family understood my need for distance but I lost all my friends. We move at our own pace. And thank goodness for friends here who understand.

{{{Roxie}}} I'm so, so sorry. I hope you can feel all the love you are getting from our hearts for you and Boots. How are you doing?

Diane, I hope your tooth continues to heal well. Good list of dailies. I need to get back to the affirmations too.

Karl, sounds like you had a great day. You got a lot accomplished and continue to do those 15 minute clean-ups.

I've been feeling like a slug for a couple days. Catching up with washing the backlog of animal beds. That's no work really because they just get stacked on shelves not folded and put away.
I ordered people beds, which was a big leap of faith. Delivery will be in 6 - 8 weeks so that's my timeframe for getting the bedrooms clear and the goat trail in the upper front hall widened even more. Ideally that will get cleaned out too but man is all that going to be a ton or work.

Have a good Labor Day everyone!

 
Dianne
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 11:43 AM
 

Tillie, it's interesting that you mentioned all the people who have posted here and then stopped. The past couple days I have been rereading old posts for inspiration and advice. I wonder where they are too and how they're doing. Especially a woman named Catherine. She had good insights.

I think we all sometimes think maybe we have said something that hurt or offended and pushed someone away. But you have always been authentic with us. You have good advice and good perspective. You know when to cheer and when to give a gentle nudge.

Since I've been reading (last January) and posting (beginning of February I think) you have opened yourself more to allow us to share your pain and frustration as well as your successes. You've put lovely visions in my head of your beautiful garden and pretty dollhouse getaway.

You're a kind, patient, wise soul and no matter what happens in real life you are much appreciated here.

My guess is that when people stop posting it is due to depression, real life issues (like for Janie), computer problems, or maybe they feel like this isn't the right place for them. There was a woman awhile back who was desperate but once she felt better it seemed her level of hoard wasn't like most of ours and her issues were different. So she moved on.

Maybe they don't say goodbye because they don't really expect to be gone long. Maybe someone needs a break, they plan to come back and don't get around to it.

I do hope everyone who posts no matter how infrequently feels like they are an important member of the group. And that the group is always open and fluid for people who come and go. Sometimes I think wouldn't it be cool if at some point we had a gathering in real life. Karl can bring the ice cream! 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 10:52 AM
 

Good morning 🙂

Getting some laundry washed right now.
Later today I will water some stuff out in the yard.
Otherwise not much happening around here today. 🙂
Fed the cats as always because until I do they give me no peace.;D

TTYL 🙂

 
Tillie
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 10:15 AM
 

YEA! 😀
WAY TO GO! Karl! 😀

 
Karl
Posted: 02 September 2013 - 01:11 AM
 

It's been a good day, I guess -- I delivered the rent check, made several other stops, picked up some free ice cream, attended the Sunday chat, did a short buddy-clean, made some plans for the week. I'm setting a goal to have the bedroom completely decluttered within one week (Sep 8).

 
Tillie
Posted: 01 September 2013 - 07:00 PM
 

(((hugs))) 🙂

 
diane
Posted: 01 September 2013 - 03:11 PM
 

Supposed to be 93 here today which is too hot in trailer, so have both window AC on high. After took pictures down from that shelf in insulated room, I decided to finish painting the top of the wall and ceiling which they had blocked when I painted the rest of the room. I still need to patch areas with holes, bought steel wool when picked up RX Friday. I think the antibiotics are making me feel crappy again today. Took aleve again today for pain and it is taking care of it.
Friday through today I have spent more couch time than I have in months combined I think. Still got a few things done.
Not doing enough self care so made a list with the help of friend-After the dental visit very aware, went there without showering for 3 days!!! Very unlike me.
1. Brush teeth 2xday
2. Water pik after mouth heals a little more
3 10 minutes yoga a day
4. dishes daily
5. lotion and sox on heels nightly, so cracked, really hurt.
6. Shower at least every 3rd day (hope to get back to daily or every other day soon
after reading Tillies post I will add,
7. daily affirmation

 
diane
Posted: 01 September 2013 - 02:59 PM
 

Hello gals, thanks for letting us know what is going on in your life. So very sorry to hear about finding the cat today, so sad for you.
We all have down days Mare, getting on here anyway, seems to help, and makes it ok for me to have down days too. Tillie, I have lived my life thinking no one likes me or that I can't control behaviors that drive people away, self fulfilling profesy in my case. When I went to self help seminars and did affirmations, like, "I am lovable" it helped. I saw myself as fat, lazy,, and depressed so said, "I am thin, energetic, and happy". As you know our thoughts create our reality in many ways, so appreciate you saying that you also have those thoughts. On this site you have been kind, understanding, accepting, helpful and honest. As a hoarder, I think I would drop out if I relapsed and felt hopeless, or just not willing to keep moving ahead. Perhaps a 3 day weekend with a hoarder, and smoke have made you see things differently than we see you. You are very loved and appreciated on here. Hugs to you Tillie.

 
Ali
Posted: 01 September 2013 - 02:42 PM
 

Roxie, I am so sorry to hear about your cat. I had the same thing happen with one of mine who was about 12 yrs old at the time. My Vet told me that audden deaths in cats is usually cardiac related. Still heartbreaking & quite a shock. Hugs & Prayers to you.

 
Tillie
Posted: 01 September 2013 - 02:38 PM
 

OH! Roxie 🙁

So so very sorry.

(((HUGS)))

 
Roxie
Posted: 01 September 2013 - 02:23 PM
 

Barb, Ali and Mare, glad to see you checking in. Thank you. You are missed when you don't show up!

This is just a quick hello, since I need to go grocery shopping and need to go in the next few minutes.

I am down for right now since I woke up to find one of my cats, Boots, dead on the kitchen floor. I haven't had the heart to attend to him yet, but must do so.

 
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