Happy New Year! Head over to the 2024 thread!

You're making good progress, CM, despite having been sick.

Happy New Year guys. It is not quite midnight here. Maybe when I wake up, someone will have created a new 2024 thread for us.

Tot and fam came over and we ate together tonight. It was nice but all the kids were coughing and kind of cranky. I hope I don't catch it. They will come back two more times this week for birthday celebrations.

I had coupons from my health insurance for $30 worth of fresh produce. What a cool program. They were expiring today, so I went to the store. I got:

6 yellow onions
2 red onions
2 heads of garlic4 shallots
2 nice, big artichokes
4 bananas
a bag of large russet potatoes
a yellow squash
chives
several small colorful heirloom tomatoes
a bag of broccoli florets
a bunch of organic carrots with greens (I think I can eat these?)
a bag of Brussel sprouts
an English cucumber

The total was $37, so I only paid $7 for all of that!

I also already have:
spinach
salad mixes
colorful peppers
mushrooms
cilantro
pomegranates
apples
oranges
red grapefruit
celery
baby carrots

So I am set for healthy eating. I also have 2 totes full of dried beans, lentils, and rice. Plus plenty of herbs and spices.

I am going to try to eat from what we have, and not spend much at all in January. Son helps a bit with groceries so I can get him bread and milk, chicken wings and lunch meat with that.

See you in 2024!

Wow, it was sunny and somewhat mild yesterday and I didn't catch that it was going to change to cold and dreary today. A good day to be indoors. Though I did go to lunch with my cousin; she wanted to come by. I found out that I'd been mixed up about her two jobs. Turns out the one at a school is more hours than I realized and that she is a para, not food service, that's her second job in the evenings. No wonder we've had a harder time getting together than I expected. Maybe now that I have a better concept of her schedule I can come up with ideas to help us see more of each other. Anyway, it was fun.

She is the one cleaning my grandma's house, and she saw some of my bedroom clutter today and I think was taken aback. Said it was like grandma's place. Not in a mean way, just observing. But I know it could be worse, that it's not decades' worth of hoarding, and that I am going to get through it. I'll be able to surprise her one of these days with the "after."

The bookshelf needing dusting is high up, and the vacuum hose will be best for the job. I probably would've had it done by now had I not caught covid. Maybe this coming week or the next. Now that I'm well, I also want to get back to the gym as my lower back has been unhappy with the sedentary life.

The craft room awaits also; having made a substantial dent with what I did with the sewing machine and sewing related downsizing, I can see more targets. My keyboard is also in this room, and though it has a cover, a little dust got in on one end. I want to deal with that, and get a MIDI cable with a USB so I can play on it and record on my computer. I used to improvise relaxation music. If I get some good tracks I'll toss them up on YouTube. Who knows. People might like them.

The MIDI cable should be < $20, and a clear vinyl sewing machine cover around $15. I theoretically have the skills to make a vinyl sewing machine cover, but I would rather not spend the time, as I've not tried it before, so there could be a learning curve. Right now I have other things I want and need to do. And besides, materials might cost almost as much as a pre-made one.

Planned purchases on payday next week. I've been doing well avoiding most impulse buys, so I feel all right about it.

Another thing I've been doing is eating down the grocery backlog. Gave my cousin some stuff. Hoping to clear enough pantry space to be able to shift a few things and make that space nicer too soon. It's all progress.

Happy New Year in a few short hours!

Lila, that was a great thought process on the coolers. I hope you can follow through. Be sure your other kids TAKE their coolers too - if they don't want them now, they don't really need them.

The last load of Laundry is in the dryer. My thank you notes are done.

oh! and the coolers... my son stacked them all along one wall. When I move, I intend to take 3 with me: one large one for grocery shopping in summer, one medium one for family picnics, and the little lunchbox size one which I use when I travel, for food. Then I will let TotsDad choose any he wants to keep in the garage (he is likely to only pick one) and will offer the others to my other adult kids. Anything left will be given away. Actually we can choose now and give away now to make space.

Thank you, SubC! What a good way of looking at dusting though... a chance to handle all my treasures, instead of an annoyance. I will think that way next time I am taking all of my stuff off the shelves to dust. A lot of them were made by my children, and I can enjoy and meditate on that.

I hope you don't get too sick. TotsDad is also sick with some kind of cold so I hope we don't catch it. Someone in their family is always sick, and I used to try and wait for them to all be well to come over. But I would go many weeks without seeing them. So now... unless it is more than a cold, they just come over and I take zinc. They are coming for dinner tonight. Maybe we will do a bit more sorting, although the garage is SO cold, I think we should sort in one of the inside "storage" rooms.

I worked from home this morning and am going to try and give away 2 items this afternoon.

I sorted one box of clothing this morning and will have 6 items to donate. I'll wait and keep adding to that box so I can put it in my 2024 Daily Tally 🙂

I am about to see if I can get all the files off the old external drive uploaded to the cloud. It is an old, My Book WD drive but my new SSD is too new to backup my old PC... so hopefully, this will work! I just bought a year of Google storage for $80... 2 TB so that is enough for me to upload ALL my files from both PCs and 3 laptops. Then I can sort them all there and make one big backup that I can save to my SSD and the cloud. THAT will be a relief!!

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Good morning!

We are both coming down with the cold ddil caught in the hospital.

CM, you mentioned a couple of times that you need to dust off your newly open shelf in your room before you can use it. Since it is an empty shelf, I was thinking it wouldn't be too hard.

My dusting hack is microfiber cloths. I just wipe stuff with them and throw them in the wash. Also, since a lot of my dust catchers are pottery or glass, I will spray them off or even run them through the dishwasher.

I don't really mind dusting too much - it gives me a chance to handle all my treasures. But I don't get to it very often. Mostly I dust when I churn or rearrange.

Lila, I posted on your tally thread, but I will repeat that I am really proud of you! I challenge you to let Tot's Dad make a decision on all of the strollers and keep only one cooler - or one large and one small if they are different sizes. What do you think?

I am really impressed that you finished a computer in one day, and so happy for you that you found all those useful items in time to use them!

It is super late at night/almost morning and I just wanted to share the great victory of finding many things I have been looking for for 2+ years, in the garage as we sorted!

I found:
- the hammock (the frame has sat outside without the fabric for 2 or 3 years because I "put it away"...)
- the wood handmade shelf support I lost years ago (son will need it, it goes in the kitchen)
- a whole box of new printer paper (I am almost out and this has been in there for like ten years)
- a package of new socks, yay!
- a comforter for Teen's bed!
- the baby toys for Star!
- the long ice scraper for the windshield

The big question son and I pondered today is: Why do I have TEN (or eleven??) empty coolers in my garage? (This is a question for the ex, lol) And THREE baby strollers (this is a question for me! One is listed for sale now).

Ahhh CM, those are some of the very best books in my opinion!! And I agree on the dusting. It just feels futile to me! But it does feel good when it is done. Is it weird that I fantasize about a perfect vacuum cleaner with lots of dusting attachments that really work? hmmm.

Hi SubC! I hope you enjoyed holding the new baby. There is something very peaceful about that.

TotsDad came over and we spent a couple hours in the garage again and it is 75% done. We filled up my whole SUV again and there are still 2 boxes that couldn't fit to donate. And we filled one trash bin as well. I donated WELL over 50 items, but lost count, but counting 50 I hit 1002 items gone from my home since February 1! LESS than a year! All items I was saving, not counting actual trash/paper/boxes. I am so proud of myself!! I listed some of the things gone today on the Daily Tally.

I am making soup, and happy. I also got all the files off the oldest computer (I think. I will double check when I try to get the files OFF the old external drive and uploaded to Google drive.

I will try to do the other computer tomorrow.

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Oh no, SubC, I hope Bean and family escape the covid!

I can't remember where I mentioned something about dusting, but basically the situation is that we have more dust than we should given roommate's allergies and just general health common sense. The house is small, the cat litter puts off dust (those low dust claims on the packaging are lies as far as I'm concerned). The dog probably tracks in a certain amount, as do we humans. The bunnies' hay being indoors makes plenty too.

And it's hard to reach a lot of the nooks and crannies where the dust hides. This year the little spiders had a population explosion. I hope in the new year I can brainstorm a solution. It's worst by the bunny cages, and the bunnies HATE the noise of the vacuum and freak out. I think we're going to need to put them in carriers some nice spring day, bring them to the enclosed front porch, and I'll deep vacuum. Possibly in some makeshift hazmat suit, lol. I'm coughing just thinking about it. And my knees are saying "Remember that time when you squatted down to sweep back there and had pain for months and wondered if you tore a ligament?" (Didn't, but it still took awhile for the knee to feel right again.)

Smaller dusting, like the kind where you have things on shelves and either dust around them or have to remove, dust, and replace, I find incredibly tedious. But, there have been times when it brings satisfaction if I think I'm making it nicer, so sometimes I'll seize a moment and do some. If we can get the bad dust gone and try and just do maintenance thereafter...

The sewing machine, by the way, had come to rest several months ago atop my bunny's cage (don't ask). Now it will be returning to a more appropriate spot, and another project I want to do is deal with a hodgepodge of pet gear on and around the cages - bits of fencing, bunny grooming and health items, etc. Those collect dust and cobwebs too when left undisturbed too long.

Yes, there is much to do. Since I'm still reading the Harry Potter books, I keep thinking about Mrs. Weasley's handy housekeeping magic and wishing I had some of it. A Dust Vanishing Spell would come in handy, for instance. And I just read the scene where Dumbledore and Slughorn put a trashed living room back in order in a few seconds. If only! Alas, I am a mere Muggle...

Hi guys, I'm home. Very tired.

CM, I think it's great that you are making progress on your sewing stuff. And terrific that you fixed your machine! Come fix mine? (Lol)

Is it Covid or something else keeping you from dusting?

Lila, the computer stuff sounds overwhelming. I think you handled the help really well. I would want two copies - one on the hard drive and one on the cloud.

Hope, welcome, welcome!

I am not in therapy. I don't think I have any more trauma and loss than the average person. I think I just have bad coping mechanisms.

I don't know what I am doing this weekend. Bean was supposed to bring his family over tomorrow night to spend the night and finally open gifts. This morning we found out they were exposed to Covid.

My farm sitter cleaned up my barn while I was gone. A lot! I am both grateful and embarrassed. I am also feeling motivated to try to build on the jump start I have.

Here is what I did at my sons house:
Dishes
Laundry
Sweep
Vacuum
Take the compost out
Bake
Read
Hold the baby
Turn in my class proposals for next year.
(Also eat too much and sleep)

So if I can do all those things at my sons house, why can't I get anything done here? My chores do not take that long.
I'm too tired to try to figure it out tonight.

ok, can I just come here and say I am having a really bad reaction to working on these old PCs? I don't know anyone else who would understand. Son brought them up, we hooked them up, I got out the external drives, and Son tried to copy the C drive onto one. It stopped and had some problem, so Son started deleting stuff and only copying one folder and I feel like I am going to have a panic attack. I know Son is doing be a big favor and probably knows what he is doing, and I am grateful he is helping me. BUT omg omg omg, my stuff, my files!! The thought that ONE important document, file, or picture might get deleted or missed is so completely overwhelming to me that I am getting a migraine. I had to step away for a bit.

It is copying files now. In my head is... what if the external drive is bad or fails? What if the documents don't all copy? What if the old PC dies before I get stuff off? What if what if. omg.

When it is done copying that folder, I need to go sit down and LOOK at the external drive and write down what folders got copied and then look at the PC and see what else needs to be copied.

I feel like I want to make 2 or 3 copies... some to a cloud, some on the external drive, some on my laptop... JUST IN CASE. What is wrong with me?? omg this is so exhausting emotionally and THIS is why it has sat there for 20 years. omg. I need to calm down.

Accountability post. Today so far, I:

- took a shower
- put my sheets in the wash
- put 2 large boxes into the garage for donations
- helped Teen back up their phone, which is cracked
- ordered a replacement phone through their phone insurance
- made baked eggs with mushrooms, a recipe I saw online. It was very good!
- unloaded and loaded the dishwasher and washed a few pans

I am going to make soup and work on getting files off the computers (as soon as Son is done eating and brings the rest upstairs for me). If TotsDad comes over, we will work on the garage a bit, too.

What are you all doing today?

Any plans for NYE?

Hope, I'm glad to see you made it over here! So nice to hear from you. We all can relate in some ways.

CM, I think the old old stuff is of no use. My Son is a computer expert and said no one would want anything from my old computer. The newer one, I may offer up on Buy Nothing to see if anyone has use for it. If you have not looked, Buy Nothing (add your closest city name or county name) on FB is an excellent place to give things away. When I have something I want someone to appreciate, but not ready to donate, I will sometimes post it on Buy Nothing. Then someone will get excited and ask for it. I then leave it on my front porch and they pick it up. Easy peasy. I like helping someone and not "wasting" stuff. Also I will take my old laptops and monitor to the electronics recycling, if no one wants them. That makes me feel good too. But no shame in just throwing them out, either!

Son already brought up one of my PC towers and put it on the table. It's a good thing he did, because I was just thinking, "nah, I'll do it another day."

Back soon.

Hi everyone,

Hope, glad to see you made it over here - I left replies on the other threads too, should've looked here first but oh well. Won't be the first time I've done things backwards, lol!

Lila, yes, get the files backed up off the old computer pronto, you will feel so much better. Also I recommend an external hard drive for backup.

I have three old laptops I still need to move on out of here. New Year's goal perhaps. It's just remembering to do it. I usually open them up and remove the hard drives and take a hammer to them. It's kind of sad! But I must remember that the files are well backed up, the computers are wheezy and obsolete, it doesn't matter that once upon a time they were shiny and new, etc. etc. I do not need them in my life now, bottom line!

It's a temptation to think, at least about the "newest" one, that perhaps someone could still squeeze a bit of use out of it. Hope, as the other ladies here already know, I volunteer with a rescue group for pet rabbits (and have had rabbits for many years and am capable of boring anyone to tears with bunny anecdotes and pictures - you have been warned!). The bunny rescue people need a computer. They can run Linux. Sometimes Linux can keep an older computer going a little longer. But they probably don't want it.

I saw a decluttering book advertised online the other day entitled Nobody Wants Your Shit: The Art of Decluttering Before You Die. So maybe nobody wants my old laptops, eh? Even that "newest" one is a 2011 model, albeit refurbished in 2018. Still, it can't run Windows 11. And the other two are older still. One has Vista and the other has... Windows 95! They need to go!

While posting on the Daily Tally, I got a brainstorm regarding seeing if I can downsize and consolidate two sewing totes into one, and donate the one not needed. This would help the space crunch in the craft room. Hope, my sewing is rarely people garments. I do quilt piecing and doll clothes (American Girl and Barbie mostly). My roommate knits, and we're hoping to collaborate on some ensembles where she would knit little sweaters and I would sew matching skirts or slacks. Then try to market them online to doll collectors.

I've found a few miscellaneous items that will be going away, and I want to keep dealing with art supplies. The rabbit rescue had a successful Christmas fundraiser and I did ornament painting with the kids. I have bottles of craft paint from that, and I want to consolidate it and the other bunny crafting supplies. We'll be doing some projects in the spring. And I have my own "serious" art supplies which I want to finish organizing, start using, etc. Soon will vacuum the dust from the shelf that my roommate got her stuff off of that I am going to be able to use for some of mine.

Covid recovery basically complete, a bit of leftover cold like symptoms in the evenings but during the daytime next to nothing. I discovered that a little Claritin, the allergy stuff, helps if I start sneezing. Even half a pill. Should be able to go exercise next week. I've missed it. I'll go slow to get reacclimated.

I feel like I could ramble about all sorts of things, which is a sign that the little wheels in my brain are turning with new ideas on how to declutter, organize, and make my life more the creative endeavor I've wanted it to be. But this post might turn into a Russian novel, and the day is getting on, so I'll hit Pause for now and save some of it for another time.

Hi All,
First thank you all for your selflessness and sharing during your own trials of life.

I am new to the group and catching up on the thread. I started with December 28th posts (and will make some time in the coming days to read prior posts in more detail).

Tatoulia - Please accept my condolences on losing your mother. While I don't know how you feel, I unfortunately understand the pain of losing a mother. Also, great job on the progress you are making with finding a new home for some many of your mother's belongings. I'm still struggling in this area.

Lila - I understand the emotional roller coaster and hope that you are feeling better today. Also, great job on your daily tally. I see that you are almost at your goal or by now may have reached it. CONGRATULATIONS!!! -- I will circle back on your question regarding most cluttered room but thanks for asking. I'm embarrassed to say that no room is currently fully functional. This for me is the worst that it has ever been. it used to be a room or two (with doors that I could close) that were used to "store" things. Now it's spilled over into other rooms.

CM - I see that you're recovering from Covid. I hope that you feel better. Also, I noticed that you have a love of sewing. So do I. Well, I actually just learned how to sew about a year ago. I'm still a novice really. I can make a dress, pants, and skirt. I got laid off a few months ago. This and other loss and life issues, along with hoarding has left me struggling to focus on much of anything. I too love reading but sometimes have trouble focusing. Great job on getting through a whole book!!! I should also state that I haven't really figured out what to do with my sewing material that I've accumulated and that depresses me some. I'll pick it up at some point, I believe my mood was better when I was sewing. However, like reading it's hard to focus when it feels like the world is crashing in and and I feel smothered by this junk.

Are any of you in therapy regarding hoarding? If so, do you find it helpful? Now that I have acknowledged that I am a hoarder, I am trying to understand why. don't fully understand its connection to trauma and loss. Of course, I can and will read up on this new revelation but was wondering.

there is a piece of me that wants to delete this whole thread so I'm going to hurry and post the reply. sorry for any typos and for rambling.

CM! I am so happy about you figuring out the sewing machine and getting it back into commission! It's these little victories that matter so much.

I understand exactly what you mean about things silently reproaching you whenever you walk past! For me, it is my old computers. Every time I go downstairs, I see my old desk with my two old windows PCs on it. There is a monitor and two towers. Let's see... one has to be from around 2001, and the other from maybe 2010! They are not connected to the internet. At least I don't think they are. I don't think they have wifi... they have to be attached by a cord. Why do I still have them, sitting on a desk for so many years, never being used?? Because ALL the family pictures from 2007 to about 2015 are on them! Plus a LOT of files. I don't even know what files. I used to write poetry, so those are on there. Maybe essays my kids wrote when they were little, maybe emails from old boyfriends, probably pictures of me from when I was trying to snag a new husband online! omg. It will be a huge blast from the past to get into those...

So, I think what I will do is ask Son to help me get them up and running tomorrow, maybe attached to the internet even, and try to get all those files either uploaded to a Cloud or transferred to an external drive I have. Oh I am scared of the files really! I was a whole different person 20+ years ago. But I am also scared that all those photos and files would be lost if the things died. Or if I died and no one knew the passwords and no one realized the precious photos and videos on there. So... I will try and access them tomorrow, while Son is not at work. I am quite sure I don't know the passwords, if there are passwords... which there were, because my kids would get on there and mess with things. So I will sit around guessing passwords until I can get on.

It should be an adventure tomorrow. But I am tired of those computers mocking me and I am ready to get everything off them and get rid of them (probably. that is the point and goal, but I have a weird uneasy feeling about only having a laptop and not a PC. but I could add I have two laptops in my bedroom that also have files saved on them that I need to get off.. sigh).

Whatcha all doing this weekend?

TotsDad did not make it over today (my fault, I was running Teen to appts) but will come tomorrow to work on the garage if I'd like.

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Lila, I forgot you have the ex's stuff, so you do get what I am referring to! Although among us only Tatoulia lives alone, but she is also currently having the decisions to make regarding her mother's things. So we're all kind of there more than I realized.

The thread went wide when for some reason SubC's recent posted URL link didn't line break itself, and I'm not sure why it didn't. I'm a geek but not that far in the weeds on such details. Whatever happened, the page thinks it needs to be wide enough to contain the entire thing. But soon we shall have a new page and it should be normal size.

SubC, I'm a late Boomer (born 1962) but recently there has been a subcategory dreamed up for those who like me were born later in the Boomer generation. It's called "Generation Jones." See this website for more: Generation Jones

It was born (lol) when people began realizing how we younger Boomers had little life experience in common with our older Boomer cohort; they were the ones who went to Vietnam, went through the social upheavals of the Sixties, etc. We just kind of watched it all from the perspective of little kids or junior high age.

Tatoulia, you have accomplished so much in such a short time. Hope you get time to rest and recuperate and do something that nurtures your spirit.

My roommate left this morning - she had been frantically finishing Christmas projects that she makes for the younger ones so it has been kind of crazy this week. It's nice and sunny here, and since she had been using the kitchen table for her sewing, it was nice and cleared off - so I did a thing...

I got my own sewing machine from the back room, where it has been sitting in limbo for several months since the time in June when it started having crazy issues with the tension and making "bird's nests" of thread on the underside of everything I sewed. That was when my cousin had brought me the unexpected project of repairing school uniforms and I had a stressy time trying to figure out how to get them done. Right on the heels of that was when roommate's back and legs were giving her such terrible trouble, and I don't know, I guess the stress just made me procrastinate more and more on delving into what ailed the sewing machine.

Yet it would sit there silently reproaching me everytime I went into the back room. It has weighed on my mind - y'all know how much I love to sew, and how I've been wanting to get back to both quilt piecing and doll clothes making. Yet I couldn't get myself to just pick the darn machine up and plop it down somewhere with rags and oil and canned air and screwdriver and see what I could do for it! I think also I was afraid that I'd put in a lot of effort and it still wouldn't work. Because that was what it was like in the summer - I kept trying things and having no luck.

However. Drum roll please...

I opened it up, wiped, dusted, brushed, blew air, wiggled parts, oiled, then threaded it with different colors in the top thread and the bobbin, and got a bunch of scraps and just started sewing. The different colors help so much with seeing what loops are messing up, and how they improve when you get the tension correct - and now it's correct!

The machine may not be in perfect condition - time will tell whether its days are numbered. But who knows. It hadn't acted up until that strange episode this summer, and I know it had been sitting in a dusty place. For now I can do some simple things - small quilt piecing would be ideal for this - before committing to a large project where I wouldn't want it to mess up, and see how it goes. I still actually need to screw the cover back on, which may firm things up more.

And I will acquire a good dust cover for it and keep it on at all times when the machine is not in use! Really dumb of me not to have done this before, but live and learn. Until I get a cover, I'll throw a plastic bag over it.

I'm happy to have the machine back in commission, and I'm happy that I did a thing I had been procrastinating on! 🙂

And it's now 2:00 and I often have this bad habit of eating lunch too late, so now without further ado, I'm heading out to grab a bite. ¡Yo quiero Taco Bell! 😉

Still wobbly. not caught up on posts. Piano is gone. All things coming here are here. Tomorrow is donation day and I'm taking oriental rug to be cleaned. Saturday some furniture being picked up. Will meet my goal of everything out of mom's by Sunday.

I'm sorry about the wide thread.

I did that trying to show CM something.

Lila, I posted how proud I am of you on the tally thread, but I'll say again here- great job!

I hope things keep getting easier.

Tatoulia, it's great that you have found people who will also love your mom's pieces and think of her fondly.

CM, are you genX or boomer? I'm genX, but Dh is boomer, and our kids are split millennial and Z.

Birdy is doing great. He sucked his thumb today.

His other grandmother has decided she wants to come visit, so we have been politely asked to leave on Saturday. It will be very hard to leave Birdy knowing I won't see him again for months, but I miss Bean too.

I can't think about my house right now.

Oh I am so proud of myself! TotsDad came over and we worked in the garage for 3 hours and filled both trash bins with throwaway items and filled the entire back of my SUV with donations, plus 3 boxes of donations that didn't fit, saved for the next trip! We took over 280 items out of the garage! I lost count and don't want to overcount, so I added 280 items to my count. I know it was at least that many.

I listed a lot of stuff on the Daily Tally thread if you are interested.. and now I am at 952/1000 items gone from my home this year!

We will work on it again tomorrow and I think we will hit my goal of 1000 items gone 🙂

Also,

why is this thread so wide?

I hope it goes to a new page soon.

Maybe if I make a long post it will be enough to bumo it to a new page???

We'll see!!

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It's a hard situation when we have other people's stuff to take into consideration too, CM. I still have a lot of ex's hoard downstairs and that is part of what we are trying to deal with, but I can't get rid of much of it.

I am tired today. It is after 2 and TotsDad came over and is replacing a filter on my car. After that he will take the desk out (it is so big he has to take it apart, and it may just be trash at that point). Then if there is time, we will do a bit on the garage.

Well, Lila, my situation's so different from most, because it's not my home. Roommate had a lot of stuff too, before I even moved in. She is also committed to downsizing and decluttering these days, so we can keep encouraging one another. I guess how I'd answer your question is to say what particular "hotspot" bugs me the most right now. There are three main ones:

1. The sofa, where I sit, do computer work on a table beside it, put papers and things that have pending things needing done (ADHD OOSOOM Out of Sight Out of Mind is a huge problem). I tend to "nest" in places like this and I am not a tidy chickie bird.

2. My bedroom floor is a disaster and it's because, well, the rest of the room doesn't offer anyplace to put what has ended up on the floor - this is going to be a big job. But there is that new atop the bookshelf space; I just want to figure out the best use for it, don't want to just mindlessly chuck something up there. I'm in the brainstorming process.

3. The craft area in the back room. There is a table but it is piled and there is stuff on the floor around it. Nuff said. I've actually made some progress but there is more needing to be made.

Tatoulia, that would be great if you want to start the 2024 thread, on New Year's I presume?

SubC, I'm sure Birdy will thrive and it's nice that they have the health equipment delivered to them, so handy these days. One of my cousins became a great grandfather for the 3rd time* I believe - I had gone to the baby shower in October I think it was.

*It's crazy the age spread among us first cousins; I am one of the younger ones - and I feel old with the Gen X children of my Boomer first cousins now becoming grandparents and my first cousins are great grandparents! Also, I miss the parental generation which is almost completely gone, and the grandparents (I only ever knew two of mine anyway).

I am doing okay with the Covid recovery - a couple nights ago was more congested but I think it was like the "last blast" of my immune system clearing out crud.

Decluttered a bag of plastic lids that I'd saved with a crazy idea of using a Dremel tool to cut out soles for doll shoes from them. I get these Really Farfetched Pinterest Fodder Craft Inspirations when I see some YouTube video or blog post that I later realize was probably made by someone with waaay more spare time and dedication than I possess. So I save or buy some odd type of supply, then it sits around forever. At least now I seem to have more energy to recognize which ones are never gonna fly, and what stuff then I can let go of. For now not worrying whether I should recycle it, it's not that big an amount, and if I stop and get paralyzed with indecision that's not going to be helpful, so I just have to bite the bullet and toss it.

Roommate is leaving to visit family tomorrow and returning Monday. I may get some this and that done, although I've learned that it doesn't usually work to fluff out a huge project because about that time it'll be time to feed her cats, exercise her bunnies, etc. on top of my own critters, plus church and meals and possibly laundry, and suddenly it's getting past bedtime somehow. This is not my first rodeo with all this. I have to pace myself.

Finished Harry Potter 5, and started 6, if anyone is interested. I am proud of myself anytime I stick with longer reading these days. That's a sad thing for an English major to admit, but it has happened to a lot of people since the internet shortened our attention spans, and there are people who blog about how they realized they needed to retrain their brains to stick with a book. I'm getting there. And it helps to know it's not just me and that people have been able to improve once they recognize it and make a point of it.

Question: What are the most hoarded rooms in your home? and are any rooms "normal" without hoarding?

I think this would be an interesting topic, so please share!

My most hoarded room is my bedroom. Right now it is terrible. You walk in and there is a whole area about 6' by 10' piled a couple feet high. This is the area between my bed and the closet. If you are a regular here, you remember I cleared this whole area just a couple months ago.

On the other side of the bed there is no floor to be seen between the bed and the window, an area about 10' by 8'. And along the wall is a strip of hoard. There is a walking path to one side of the bed and to the bathroom.

None of it is trash. It is just all STUFF and clean clothes and totes full of kitchen stuff.

I also have a 2-car garage that is packed full of boxes and totes full about 5' tall. And two rooms downstairs with a lot of totes and junk.

But my living room and dining room and kitchen are all functional and clean and 90% decluttered, although the bar/counter and table tend to get stacked up every so often.

So my focus of decluttering today will be the garage, and maybe part of my bedroom, although that feels overwhelming.

Tatoulia, I'm so happy good homes were found for some lovely things of your mom's, so you can feel good about them being enjoyed!

I am having another sad/crying day but trying to get a few things done anyway. TotsDad said he will come this afternoon, so I am trying to be ready to get rid of things. Watch the Daily Tally for lots of things gone, I hope!

I'll do the honors of making our 2024 thread unless someone else wants to!

Sorry about your sad morning, dear Lila.

I'm glad birdie's lights arrived. He'll do much better with them. Cm I'm glad you got to see your friend, even if it was awkward due to covid fears. It's what we can do.

I went to mom's tonight. Two of the residents took some jewelry and China pieces. Nice stuff. Then they came back and asked for more, which I was really pleased about. They were worried I'd be mad or upset, but one woman wanted mom's lovely tea pot and creamer and sugar bowl. That made me very happy as I grew up with them and they are beautiful but they are not for me.

A friend met me and just sat there as moral support. The piano movers come tomorrow.

Love you all. I'm wobbly but trying to keep it together.

Lights delivered to the house! Wow, that IS an improvement over even 18 years ago. Congrats on little Birdy. What does Bean think?

CM, I did not know about that. I think reporting after the fact is just fine! Or if a challenge stresses you out, just do things your own way. You have my support.

I had a very sad and difficult morning, then came home and made soup with Teen which was nice, and tasty. Then TotsDad was coming around 1:30 so I got ready and waited. Three hours later almost, he still could not make it, so I have sat here waiting all that time when I should have gone ahead and started. I guess I just feel really down today. Tears are leaking out. He will come tomorrow instead. I hope all my motivation did not go. It feels gone.

A new 2024 thread will be good.

I think someone else may need to start the 2024 daily chat thread - we are probably driving home New Year's Day.

I am always up for challenges but often don't stick with them for long or see them through.

I think I am going to call this new little one Birdy (probably get shortened to bird later) because he is such a tiny little thing and because he was an early bird,

So far Birdy is doing well. They did put him on bilirubin lights today, which is a bit of added awkwardness and difficulty, but hopefully it won't be for long. His momma is a bit stressed by it, but I am just impressed that the lights were delivered to the house and are so much easier to use than 25 years ago.

He is eating well.

I've wondered if SubC plans to make a new iteration of this thread dated 2024.

Haven't found myself using the Daily Tally thread as much lately but that's because I've been in a lull or else I simply forget. I'll probably use it again some. Lila, I don't know if you know that I get weird about challenges and timed goals. Even though I know there's nothing bad going to happen if I say I will then it doesn't get done. I suppose I just remember past unmet deadlines in my life and get kind of bummed, so it feels like a "failure" so I don't make promises. Just my particular idiosyncrasy, that, but I am happy to report accomplishments after I make them, lol! Which may have been included in your list of suggestions anyway.

I got to see a friend whom I haven't seen in years since she moved to the PNW. Unfortunately due to my ambiguous Covid status she did not feel comfortable with getting together indoors anywhere but she did hand my package through the pet flap and I stood inside the porch and she stood outside and we visited a bit and did air hugs. She will get to come here again in the spring, so that's something to look forward to.