| Tillie | Posted: 06 April 2020 - 10:16 PM |
Hey Lately some of the sentences were incomplete and then visible and so forth and so on. To not offend anybody with Triskaidekaphobia I made this phase 14. See you soon 😉 | |
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| Tatoulia | Posted: 08 November 2020 - 03:09 PM |
Oh those big fluffy flakes! I've been writing out my Thanksgiving cards while my laundry does it's thing. Going to head up to car in a few. Mom is definitely going through changes. She's now accused me of stealing from her. Said she gave me $100 and then I didn't get her anything with it. I told her that I used it for her phone bill, which was more than $100. I need to find a way to protect myself. Because the sister will glom on to this. Luckily, she won't be able to afford an attorney to sue me. Sbd. I attorney is going to be looking for 80 here, 100 there. I will, however, start keeping track of the groceries I buy. Because I'll need that ledger at some point. I can't believe my mother is turning into someone super mean to me. I need to find a way to deal with this. Maybe get a therapist. I can't get at the end of my rope here but I'm also very beaten down. The best for me would be a support group. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 08 November 2020 - 02:44 PM |
Keeps snowing off & on here today. Hi Tatoulia The cats don't even ask to go out and Jack keeps begging to come in. Chandeliers would be classy. I keep looking for a chandelier for my dollhouse so I can have a proper dining room. Hope you remembered to take the bags to the car. 😉 | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 08 November 2020 - 01:09 PM |
First trip to grocery done. Will need at least one more. Got kitty food, oj, frozen shrimp and coffee. Will need to go back for more but I just put my second load of laundry in and I think I'll relax. I will get my bags out of the closet to put in my car. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 08 November 2020 - 10:21 AM |
I bet the snow is pretty! Will the cats make cat prints or will they try to go out and immediately turn around, blaming you for the snow? I just finished my coffee. It's been in the 70s here. All so crazy. I really appreciate your input, Tillie. Having a clear plan and executing it feels so good. I'm most excited about the plumber on Tuesday. Getting that faucet changed will be excellent. Then I'll see when painter wants to do my kitchen. I have my eye on two light fixtures/chandeliers that are available for very little at a local reuse center. If they are still there on Wednesday, I'll get both and have installed in my hallway. My hallway has three lights but I think the trick will be to ignore the one over the door and install these two where the other two canister lights are. These are at a very low price and would bring a polish to my house for very little. I may even call the place on Monday and purchase them, then pick up on Wednesday. Originally I thought I'd get one for my bedroom but I'm not sold on a chandelier in bedroom because it will be hidden from view by the ceiling fan and the ceiling fan is non negotiable. Both of my ceiling fans are the best things I've done for myself. And I feel like a grown up. Okay off to my groceries. Need cat food and juice. Story of my life. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 08 November 2020 - 09:55 AM |
Woke up to a snow covered world! ☃ Good Morning Everyone Hi Tatoulia Sounds like you had a good day yesterday and so sweet of your Friend to bring Mom some goodies. Your home improvement plan sounds good. Your museum trip sounds safer than a trip to the grocery store. Have a great day at home catching up and getting ahead on tasks. No plans here, will just spend time looking at how pretty and clean the snow makes everything. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 08 November 2020 - 09:27 AM |
Good morning! Coffee clinks! First order of business is to get some groceries. I was supposed to do with BF yesterday but ended up sitting in the car and doing a crossword. I just made plans with a friend and her kids to go to the Museum of Fine Arts on Wednesday. All timed entries now. I'll walk and meet them. Then they'll go see BF and I'll walk back. I'm nit ready to be in a car with them. I'm trying to stay safe. So the plan in grocery shop then bags to car. I also need to organize and put away my postcards. I may also, to get ahead of it, write out my Thanksgiving cards. Today is put music on and accomplish day. What are you doing today? | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 07 November 2020 - 10:47 PM |
Hello hello! Good work on cleaning, Tillie! I met up with two friends and we walked and walked and walked, outside of the city. Lovely. Masks are now required in Massachusetts. It was a good day. Then I ran errands with BF and I saw mom in the lobby for a bit. One of my friends had baked for her. Tillie thanks for helping me sort out my finances. I think I'm striking a good balance. I'll have my faucet fixed, then paint kitchen then paint hallway. Then hang chandelier. So I'll be going into the new year with my house spruced up. Then back to rigorous savings/ paying down my small loan. Kitty is eating like a pig these days. I'll need to get her more food. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 07 November 2020 - 05:20 PM |
Good Afternoon Everybody Over night we got a little drizzle! Will be getting down into the teens this week. Cleaned up & cut up my last 5 carrots, 3 bell peppers and one tomato. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 06 November 2020 - 09:43 PM |
Good Evening Kitchen is all clean 😀 Just took a shower and the hot water felt so good on my back. I have also been able to go so much longer before I feel I really need to take more aspirin or acetaminophen. Feeling hopeful and happy. Steven has been coughing, sneezing and snorking the last two days. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 06 November 2020 - 04:16 PM |
About 2:30pm here now. I got one load of laundry washed, dried, folded & put away. The small of my back aches bad. The wind is raging out there now. Looks like a storm may be blowing in. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 06 November 2020 - 09:55 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Subclinical WAY TO GO! getting the minimals done yesterday! Hi CriticalMass WAY TO GO! making Bunnies set up safer and easier to keep clean! Hi Tatoulia Relieved to hear Boston is quiet and lets hope it stays peaceful. (((HUG))) You did a fantastic job working to pay down your loan. Good luck getting the insurances all paid up. Didn't set myself back too much doing the faucet insulation yesterday. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 06 November 2020 - 05:45 AM |
Good morning all. CM, just keep plugging away, the storage unit is getting better and better! Nice that the bunny will have a more secure location. Bunny lungs are sensitive to dust too, as I'm sure you know. Tatoulia, yay for a visit with mom and kitty sister! Right now, staying in is a good thing! Keep it up! Good to know "malt" means laptop. Tillie, I hope you didn't overdo it. I finished my minimal yesterday and took the compost out and managed a load of dishes. Classes were not great, but they went ok. A lot of my older kids are very stressed about the election. Now for the bad news - my student tested positive for covid. After extensive interviewing, my boss informed me that I do not meet the cdc guidelines for exposure (he sits in the back corner of my room for one hour a week and I was not back there during his class) and can keep teaching in person. He was last in my room October 29. We have notified the families of all students who attend classes with him and informed any we feel meet the cdc guidelines that they must stay home and get tested. It is almost certain he was infected by his sister, and there is a good chance he was not contagious (or possibly even exposed yet) the last time he was in school. Dh left a message for our friends - they may not come tonight. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 05 November 2020 - 10:37 PM |
Tillie, I'm so happy your pain has let up. I think we need to take some of Subc's chocolate syrup and make Tatoulia a malt. 🥤 Sounds yummy. 😋 I'm guessing autocorrect took the a, l, and t from "laptop" and got a little crazy. Went to storage in the afternoon. It was a shorter session than I'd planned. Less organized too. Found a box of greeting cards and misc. Ugh, decisions. But not today. Had to remind myself that right now we're about getting bigger items moved, not bogging down with stuff like that. Besides, later on I may be totally psyched to get through cards in record time. The bigger things in question were the white metal shelf unit that needed to go along the wall, and any tubs or boxes of books involved in clearing a way for that to happen. It was a bit scary - I didn't realize that shelf set was so flimsy - but I got it in place, with no loss of life or limb. The nice sturdy Metro type wire shelves are to receive books as they are put neatly into transparent, not too big, tubs. The cookware on the wire shelves will go on the flimsy white one (a lot of lightweight aluminum baking pans). There's a second, silver set of the older type of shelves that also has books. Everything's very "fluffed" again. But I know why and that it'll get neatened up soon. I'm positive now that I will want to jettison every shelf unit that isn't super sturdy and stable, as soon as possible. It will take time but is a priority. My roommate has bought oodles of the good wire shelves and reconfigures them periodically, so she has spare components and said there might be enough to make another unit for me. That'd be super helpful whenever we're able to do it. Saturday I have a project for my bunny boy's cage. It sits on a shelf thing that's been sagging, and I need to be able to clean under it easier because the dust bugs roommate's allergies something fierce. We got a sturdy plastic table to replace the shelf. I'll need to maneuver bunny and cage and stuff under and on the cage, then sweep and fix the new setup. The bunnies will probably go in the stroller for walks with roommate so I can vacuum because the vacuum is scary for the bunnies. After the deep cleaning hopefully it can be maintained with a dust mop or something. So, keeping busy! | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 05 November 2020 - 10:08 PM |
Hello again. I went to visit mom tonight. One of the aides had told me I could visit. So I saw my little cat sister! And I was able to read my mother's large pile of birthday cards! Really sweet! I stayed six feet away and kept my mask in the whole time. Very relaxed visit. I didn't get my garbage out. I will do in the AM. I am now showered and ready for bed. I've been keeping up with dishes and mail shredding. I've been keeping up with my kitchen counters. I paid all my bills and mailed the ones I mail. I'm comfortable with my choice to pull back on repaying the small loan. I've done remarkable work on it and the pace isn't feasible if I want to keep up with my home projects. I've done a good job on that and how lucky to make the decision. I don't want to count my chickens but I may be able to cash in two weeks of vacation time in January. That's if I don't get sick or need to take a day looking for a lost cat. I have two or three scheduled vacation days coming up. I know I'm taking a Friday and then a Monday in December. How sad there won't be the holiday sale I enjoy so much. I'm also going to miss that sweet spot of the week of Christmas and the week of new year's, where absolutely no one goes into the office. I used to get so much done! I still haven't taken my donation bags to the car. What is wrong with me. I have clean sheets tonight. I just didn't get them changed yesterday. I'm happy that the plumber will be here on Tuesday. He accepts cash or check. I'll give him a check since I don't want to have a lot of cash around. Then hopefully over Thanksgiving, I can have my kitchen painted. I've been keeping up with my laundry but not in an obsessive way. It's better for me. I had another good day at work. Spending a portion of my time in the sofa makes a difference. I'll see what my lap desk looks like tomorrow night-scheduled to be delivered to BF's. That's the news from Boston. The city's been boarded up since the weekend but honestly I don't think there'll be protests. There was a March the other night with zero problems. Although I've largely been holed up inside, there no edgy feeling to the city. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 05 November 2020 - 05:30 PM |
Tillie I am so worried about you! And I can't help it! I have scheduled a plumber for Tuesday. Very excited to get this done. I have other things I want to do but my money is tight. I paid real estate taxes on the 1st and then I just had my bathroom painted. I'm pulling back on my aggressive loan payments for now. I've made great progress but I need to make just one slightly larger payment a month, not large payments every two weeks. I will need to dip into savings for my insurances-at least for car insurance. I can probably do umbrella and homeowners from paycheck. The payment plan isn't expensive but I don't want to do that. I think I save 50 on the car and maybe 6 or 12 or 24 on the others. No need to spend that extra money. I was able to buy my stock without savings. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 05 November 2020 - 04:39 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone Hi Subclinical Yeah, it's getting pretty scary out in the counties now. Be kind to yourself, no negative self talk about all you haven't gotten done around the house. Hi Tatoulia Yes pain is terribly exhausting and kills your spirit and you just want to die to escape it. Enjoy your warm spell. Please just keep doing whatever you can to stay healthy. Good luck with the plumber. Beautiful warm day today. Wrapped the outside faucet with insulation today. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 05 November 2020 - 12:08 PM |
God only know what malt is. SubC! I'd brought my lap top over to the couch. I got a lot done yesterday as a result. SubC I am sending you lots of good thoughts that your teaching goes well today! You are a great teacher and you have a magical way with your students! Tillie, I am grateful for your pain relief. My mother talks about how exhausting it is to be in pain. Such a toll on the body and mind. CM I am so impressed! You are doing great! Wow! You are my hero! I am going to get dressed soon. I haven't left my house since Tuesday around noon. That isn't good. I've started to change my sheets and do other stuff here. Once I'm dressed I may run up to visit with BF. Warm spell is heading here. Covid cases here are absolutely ramping up. Governor has issued new suggestions and regulations. This isn't pretty. I'm 100% happy to follow the rules including a curfew of 10 PM. Restaurants etc have to close at 9:30. Other stuff like that. Some of the ideas seem arbitrary but I'm not one to quibble. It's just too dangerous out there. I do not want to get sick. I'm shocked that people are eating inside at restaurants. Need to nail down the plumbing appt. I had no idea how costly this would be to get my faucet changed. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 05 November 2020 - 07:04 AM |
Tillie, I'm glad you are feeling better. CM, way to go in the storage area! I am really proud of you! Tatoulia, I can't figure out what your "malt" is, but I'm glad you have found a cozy work area. I think a lot of us are tired right now. I am having trouble even with minimal pupa. Everything is out of control, the dishes are piled up and the compost is filling extra containers, but I just can't. I am just trying to step back and rest this morning. I slept badly and forgot to set my alarm. Fortunately it is a late school day for me. My goals are to succeed at my three classes this afternoon and my three classes tomorrow and minimum required chores. Anything else is icing. Dh has invited friends over to eat outside tomorrow evening because the weather is supposed to be nice. One of my students is quarantining because his sister (who does not go to our school) has covid. I last taught him a week before yesterday, but I also teach some of his classmates and friends. His parents had him tested and are waiting for results. So far all the kids who have been out have tested negative. (Except one who had a fever and wouldn't get tested and has been out for 3 weeks because we wouldn't let her come back- she should be back today) The 7 day average for cases in my county is 78, and the county where I teach is over 200, but both come out around 33/100,000. Our state testing rate is climbing at about a 30 degree angle, our new cases at about 45, and our hospitalizations at about 60. Not a good sign. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 04 November 2020 - 11:37 PM |
Good Evening Everybody WAY TO GO!!! FANTASTIC! CriticalMass 😀 Hi Tatoulia WTG! for PUPA! A lap desk should be good. You may be tired because of the time change. Knock on wood... | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 04 November 2020 - 10:46 PM |
Progress in storage for today: Worked with some books, and it's becoming easier to get through the unit to the back. Finding boxes I haven't seen much less done anything with since I transferred to this unit three years ago. Now I know what's in several of them, and have also been able to scoot them back to clear the floor in those spots. Still in the shifting around stage so there might be things that get set back in the path "momentarily," but they quickly get shifted again so it's not just spinning my wheels - stuff gets pulled out and like put with like (very satisfying), or gone (also satisfying). Books got so separated back when, and it's great to bring all the ones on a certain topic or by a certain author together. Found more than I expected to let go of, too, also crafting magazines. I'd thinned them but still have a few doll and art ones with the occasional pattern I want. So I'll shoot a copy (might be a PDF if it's just instructions, thus even less paper). Then bye bye magazines! All this over the last couple of days resulted in about 6 cubic feet at least of stuff transported to the thrift shop this afternoon. Big goal for now is to get to where I can move the remaining bookshelves to along the walls rather than sticking out as they have been. Then keep sorting and thinning books, and after that go through fabric and do the thing I've had in mind this year, namely cutting larger fabric pieces down and donating the extra. Cookware and family memorabilia are the other big categories, then it'll just be smaller miscellaneous categories after that. Weather should hold through the week. I wore shorts today! 😁 Then possibly rainy Monday, and dipping down a lot chillier Tuesday and Wednesday. But that's when my roommate will be in the hospital so I'll maybe bring some small sorting home to do. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 04 November 2020 - 02:49 PM |
So much to catch up on! WTG everyone! Cm you are doing FANTASTIC! Wow! I had the Turkey candle too. Long gone. I do have a really nice Turkey candle that I've enjoyed for the last 15 years. I love it when I own something that I still truly love. And it's small. SubC the vinegar sounds nice! Tillie I too would need a small cup of vinegar-I love the taste and I don't drink at all! I am sorry you are hurting so much. I'm so sorry. I have gotten a lot more done today than I have recently. I brought my malt over to my couch and I was very comfortable. So I have purchased a lap desk to try out for the winter. Once it gets cold and it's so drafty by. my desk. We shall see. Very inexpensive and it can go in closet when I'm not using it. If I don't love it, I can only imagine how many people would enjoy finding it at Goodwill! Tigger continues to do well now that he's home. I'd love to post some pictures but a nosy colleague has started following me on that account and I'm so upset about it. The have a different, private Instagram that she hasn't located. But she just joined my public one that I built for us here. I'll have to get over it and start posting again. I've been practicing a bit of PUPA! Every time I leave a room I pick something up to deal with. I put it right where it goes. I don't let it spend time in way station. I'm so tired. What in the world is wrong with me. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 04 November 2020 - 11:53 AM |
In just this last week the number of positive virus cases has risen... Last week there were 22 positive test results with nobody in the hospital. Today there are currently 104 positive cases and 2 people hospitalized. These figures reflect only the people who have bothered to get tested. I have enough cat food and my food to stick it out at home for two weeks. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 03 November 2020 - 11:15 PM |
Good Evening Everybody Hi CriticalMass Hi Subclinical WAY TO GO! working your way through all those tomatoes! 😀 Slept badly last night. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 03 November 2020 - 07:16 AM |
Goid job CM! I'm sorry about your turkey, but candles aren't meant to last forever. Tillie, that is funny about the vinegar. The chickens completely scattered the entire raised bed. I raked it back and pushed in whatever cloves I could find - they were originally in neat rows separated into two kinds as a trial, but now I am just going with "hopefully there will be some garlic." This whole year has been an exercise in adjusting my expectations. My hope for the election is simply that no one gets shot today. And the pessimist in me thinks that may be overly optimistic. Meanwhile, I will be canning tomato sauce this morning and going into school to teach this afternoon even though every county we serve fails to meet our reopening guidelines. The sun is out. Right now I just need to think about the tomato sauce. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 02 November 2020 - 10:44 PM |
I went to storage today, it was a nice day. 🌞 Was going to do a bunch of book sorting, and did in fact do some. But got sidetracked onto holiday decorations downsizing most of the time. However, that was something I'd had in mind also, so it's all good. This is about the third or fourth time I've downsized holiday items. The first was after my dad died when I combined some stuff of my parents, and chose which of the same item to keep, like Christmas tree, star for the tree, ornaments, etc. The extras went in the estate sale. And in my move to this storage unit from the other one I'd gotten rid of quite a bit. Remember the Gurley candles? I had thought there was a Thanksgiving turkey one. Sure enough, found him today; he'd been in the box with other Thanksgiving stuff. With the unit not being climate controlled, Mr. Turkey had apparently melted in the summers and now resembles roadkill. Poor guy. At least he didn't melt to the point of getting wax stains on other items. Guess he won't go to the thrift store at any rate. So anyway, I feel like I got the decorations to a point that is pretty minimalist. I'm pleased. Simple, small, compact things for each holiday. Keeping my 4 foot Christmas tree (it's boxed) for my own place, unless it isn't feasible to store at some point. If that becomes an issue I'll let it go, but no need to fret now. And the Nativity set my dad and I made. The bunny club has been having live streams for fundraising and education. They did a Halloween one this weekend. A few of the decorations I pulled out may work for them for various upcoming holidays. Getting the decorations dealt with didn't make a dramatic dent in the space, but it did open a bit of a path to an area by the books and family memorabilia, which are goal areas to work on soon. A decent day's work methinks. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 02 November 2020 - 11:32 AM |
Good Morning Everyone Hi Subclinical Even though things are all different and isolating Hope your vinegar turns out extra tasty. Bad Chickens! hope they did not ruin the bulbs and they they can recover and multiply. 🙁 WAY TO GO! working through all those tomatoes! I would be eating lots of your icecream and chocolate sauce too. So happy for your Friend. Wishing her all the best life has to offer. (((HUG))) I really hate people coming into my house. It really upsets me and rubs me the wrong way. Hi CriticalMass Good luck making plans for Roommates surgery & recovery. Hoping you do get away once in a while to get into storage. | |
| CriticalMass | Posted: 01 November 2020 - 10:25 PM |
Happy belated Halloween 🎃 Again it's just been harder to squeeze in time to post. Doing okay though. Not liking the time change but trying not to think about it. My roommate will feel better because before, she always had to leave for work when it was still dark and return after dark, with a half hour for lunch and no windows in her office. And she was more stressed and sleep deprived then, and having to commute across town. Tillie, I don't know if this will be any help or not, but I was thinking about your situation re retirement and health benefits. There's this website I found helpful when filing my disability claim. It's called Nolo. They have lots of detailed articles on legal stuff and they explain it all in plain English but with good specific detail. Do you know about it? SubC, I am in awe at how much you coordinate with the farm and preserving along with your job. Hope the work at home in the gardens and kitchen helps you discharge some of the nervous energy that goes with these crazy times. Tatoulia, hoping Tigger is recovering fine from his little "adventure" and content to stay indoors. And that all goes well with your projects. Maybe you'll have that chandelier up by Christmas or sooner! Tomorrow, and other nice days this week, I hope to do a little in my storage unit. I've picked up a few things here and there around my bedroom too, not enough to notice a visible difference yet, but still I know that things are getting put more back where they belong. Like shoes off the floor and into the shoe organizer, Bobby pins in their box, all sorts of miscellaneous. Satisfying. Soon it'll be getting to be time to figure out the plan for my roommate's hospital stay a week from Tuesday, what all I'll need to remember to do for the animals, etc. Tillie, I'm glad that Steven may have a "Badger" of his own now. Without you having to try and be the Badger, and getting yelled at for your trouble! Whatever can help is welcome, I'm sure. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 01 November 2020 - 08:37 PM |
Tillie cross post. Sorry you are sore, but I'm glad you have your cozy bedding. Hopefully it won't be too bad tomorrow. Maybe next time invite Steven's friends into the house. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 01 November 2020 - 08:25 PM |
Good evening. I put out a few Halloween things. Mostly scarecrows and pumpkins that can stay up through thanksgiving, but also a favorite bowl, a ghost candle, and my favorite framed picture from the first Halloween I had all 3 kids. Tillie, I can imagine yours. I filtered my vinegar today - three half gallon jars of cores and water gave me three scant quarts of vinegar. It still has to ferment a lot more, so it will shrink somewhat, but I put it in trays this time. My teacher friend who moved away to live with her daughter sent me a picture of her playing in the backyard with her granddaughter. She looks so happy and relaxed, I cried. I miss her but she has worked so hard all her life and had so much hardship. I am so happy for her! This morning I had three 28 quart bins filled with various stages of tomatoes. I sorted through two of them. Now I have one sorted out bin, one not sorted out bin, two quarts of perfect ones in the freezer for later, and 8.5 quarts of tomatoes cut up to make sauce tomorrow. The rest were bad and went to the chickens, but it was not a whole 17 quarts, because cut up tomatoes take up a lot less room than whole tomatoes - they are no longer roundish and surrounded by air. I hope to also sort out the other bin tomorrow because I don't want my scullery to smell like rotten tomatoes. My adolescent chickens broke into the garden and destroyed my garlic bed, and I want to start laundry but can't (I am going to have to learn a new rhythm) but I have ice cream mix ready to freeze again tomorrow (Dh keeps eating all my ice cream!) But that is ok. I'm glad he likes it. And not really all - I am eating some and managing to stash one in three in the chest freezer for the future. But he does eat a lot of ice cream! DD's BFF got a job in Boston and is leaving nyc. My body says it's an hour past my bedtime. Goodnight all! | |
| Tillie | Posted: 01 November 2020 - 08:06 PM |
Hello Earlier today I managed to get out my Winter blanket and jacket and other stuff. Tomorrow I will shampoo my hair and totally remake my bed with the warmer Winter bedding. Have my punkin light again tonight 🎃 | |