| Tillie | Posted: 14 June 2018 - 04:29 PM |
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| Tillie | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 09:22 PM |
HELLO CRITICALMASS! ;D Hi Motown Hi Subclinical YEA! that the big pieces survived the kiln! Some people hate having to carry laundry up the stairs so much that they put their dressers/clothes closet right by the washer. Hi Tatoulia My laundry dried, is folded and all put away. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 07:34 PM |
Motown we cross posted so I didn't read about your embroidery machine! WTG for making the decision about putting it to use! I am so sorry that you lost your friend to suicide. I am so grateful that you are here and that you are getting your home together. We will be right by your side! I am excited for your sake and glad the the your larger pieces are making it through the process! I do hope to see one of your pieces! Kitty and I are set to relax now. We are in our pjs so naturally we are feeling adorable. | |
| Subclnical | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 07:03 PM |
Lots done today! Motown, yay for progress and kitty support. Who watches the tv? Can you recruit some help to keep it clear? What do you want to see? How exciting to learn how to use such a fancy piece of equipment! Enjoy your class and your day out! Tillie, I too love saddle soap. I used to clean my little brother's shoes for him on Saturday nights so that they would look nice for church. I think we should get my clothes line back up before we worry about putting away (I do have a dryer, but love air dried clothes.) there is space to put away, it's just carrying the stuff upstairs and sorting and folding it - slow, slow, slow. This time of year it literally takes days to dry things outside though. If I lived alone i'd have a line inside and dry them near the wood stove. Tatoulia, good luck with your class! Maybe if there is a photo of my work on the sale website this weekend I can post a link. I'm supposed to invite my friends to the sale, so y'all come by ;). I took the recycling to the drop today and dropped off some trash when I got groceries. Washed pants too, so we are good for a few days. Swam 2000 meters. I even made dinner. I had two pieces break in this last firing, but the good news is that for once they were small, run of the mill pieces. The ones I was excited about came out great! Six more ornaments to glaze and a last glaze load to run before the weekend. Tomorrow is my long day teaching (5 classes) | |
| Motown | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 05:16 PM |
Oh Tillie, I am working extra long today to make up some time at work so I can take off tomorrow most of the day to go to a class to learn how to use my Babylock 6 needle embroidery machine. I bought it 4 years ago from a high school classmate who lived out of state. I paid $3500.00 for it and never used it. Didn't know how and was too embarrassed to ask her to show me when she was in state visiting family. Then she recently committed suicide so I certainly can't ask her now. 🙁 So it has just been sitting in my wayin my craft room (it's massive) so I had DH move it to his house so it's now taking up space there. I kept putting off taking a class because I could not justify taking off work, paying $75.00 for a two-hour class that is over an hour from my house. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 05:16 PM |
Hello All. I can picture your leather purse, Tillie, perfect patina and better quality than anything you could buy today. Getting colder here too. I'm happy with it. I'm airing out the living room right now. It was pouring rain this AM so I couldn't give kitty any fresh air. WTG Motown in creating some clear areas! Defending them is key. I feel I don't do the best in defending my areas and it's just me, so I can imagine how strong you will need to be! SubC I am so pleased that the firings are going well. How I would love to see your work. Someday, I am sure. Too wet this AM to walk to work so I took the train. I walked part way home and then BF picked me up. Gives us a little time together. I started teaching a class on my lunch hour today. It went really well but my head wasn't in the game. Let's see what happens next class. Next week we have off (being Thanksgiving week it seemed pointless to have a class) so I have plenty of time to get there on the materials. My slides were done, I just wasn't "feeling it". I volunteer to do this so I want to do a good job. I did get some positive feedback today. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 03:53 PM |
Good Afternoon Everyone Hi Subclinical Yeah, that TV show really got on my nerves. Maybe next Summer you will have a few minutes and we can work on making putting away clothes an easier project. So happy to hear you won't give up swimming! WTG! that this last firing looks good! Hi Motown The enzyme stuff I got was in the cat section at WallyWorld. WAY TO GO! with all the counter space you have been reclaiming. Been busy all morning doing busy work. | |
| Motown | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 03:23 PM |
Tillie please explain putting laundry in a plastic bag and why it would take all day to dry on a clothesline? Just curious and confused here. And I have the enzyme stuff on my shopping list for this week to pick up at Wal-Mart. Thanks! | |
| Motown | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 11:48 AM |
Not ready for the cold here in Arkansas but it is upon us. So I worked some more on finding some countertop last night. I unearthed a few more square inches--we have a tv on the wall end of the bar and I started there coming forward. Got approximately a foot out in from on the tv cleared. It's something. The recycling bin is overflowing now with all the paper I pitched! I did a little bit of the same on the countertops in the master bathroom. Uncovered enough room that one of the cats has decided to homestead there beside the sink. Well, I guess someone appreciates my efforts! | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 04:54 AM |
Tillie, the thought of shows like that still makes me shudder! I wish you all could come do my laundry! I don't mind doing it actually, it's just that it takes so much time - especially the putting away. These days the clean clothes just live on the guest bed. I did do enough last night that dh and I have clean socks and underwear today. He is fine for work clothes too, but I am wearing "dirty" jeans. (I teach one class today and will get clay on them anyway.) I really have to go to the grocery store this evening or we will be having hash browns with onions and eggs for dinner. That's all I can make with what there is. Not bad, but not too healthy. Especially since breakfast is eggs and the last of the toast. I am also going to swim - not giving that up! So I basically have no evening and need to be ready for Wednesday when I leave for school. Gotta wash some pants! Tatoulia, I know you will face the closet! You have a couple of days to plan your attack. I will finish getting ready for my sale, you will plan the great closet invasion of 2018, and we will both have a successful day on Saturday! I opened the kiln this morning and the glaze load looks good. Last feather/horse hair firing this morning. The biggest thing keeping me from switching over to the new line is lack of time. I will have four pieces done - two experimental which are not great (which is why I experimented on them) and two I am slipping into the load this morning. If I had another two weeks, I would make an entire load. So, I will "test market" my idea and see if the public agrees with me. 🙂 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 13 November 2018 - 01:27 AM |
Hi Tatoulia SATURDAY Doesn't matter how much stuff you ruffle through Ooooo! pretty and sparkly! There is an older British show called "Life Laundry". | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 08:45 PM |
Tillie you know I love hearing about your life and your laundry!! I need to go into the closet and just start. It's not even messy in there. I want to assess and evaluate Christmas items. Pare down. Find lost treasures. I don't know what it's going to take. I want to do one shelf at a time. There are many shelves in there. We need to get me going in this. How can we get me to do this? I'm being candid. Music will help. I need to commit to being home on Saturday and heading in. Saturday. Commitment. See what I can accomplish. Evaluate Christmas. It will be fun! I bought some pretty Christmas costume jewelry this weekend. I've decided to send it to the family friend who was just visiting us. It is pretty and sparkly and really nice. I own a lot of nice things and most of my costume jewelry is vintage. I'll send these pieces to her and will tell her to open now, before Christmas. I love them and they are beautiful. For some reason, I'd purchased the necklace and the bracelet. Generally I don't like my things to match. Now I know why. So I could send as a set to my friend. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 07:31 PM |
Good Evening Everybody Hi Motown I went to WallyWorld and bought "Nature's Miracle" enzyme formula stain and odor remover. P.S. Tatoulia and I both enjoy the satisfaction of doing laundry. 😉 Hi Subclinical Hi Tatoulia This is at least the third time lately that you mentioned that dining room closet. Cooked a butternut squash, my favorite squash. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 06:46 PM |
I will take half the laundry in exchange for sweet potatoes! Motown and I will be right over! So my house is nice and clean and I'm so happy with it. Mom let them do her fridge, her dishes and half the bathroom. I'm proud of her. Yes commode is a toilet. Mom has a metal structure with a seat that fits over the actual toilet to raise it up. She needed it after her hip surgery. Now it sits, away from her toilet, covered in dirty clothes. I'm will get her a second clothes basket, esp since she has someone washing her clothes in addition to the woman who does her sheets and towels. SubC I chuckled when I read of your new technique and its impact on you! Good plan to stay the course and not bring up the new stuff people can expect next year. I'd find it hard to stick with the plan but I know you can do it! I am struggling still with tackling my stuff to make more space. I should really get in my dining room closet and curate. | |
| Motown | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 04:15 PM |
Subclinical, I will come do ALL your laundry. That is something that I really like to do. It is my happy thing! Weird I know but... | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 04:04 PM |
Mmm.....Potato soup and beer biscuits! I'll be right over... Motown, you got a lot done! I don't know what tillie's cleaners is, but i've had good luck with simple solution. Tillie, how lovely to have everything put away! You have been working so hard! Tatoulia, i'm glad you had a good shopping trip with your mom. I'm sure it's hard for her to let go of her things because they are something she can still control. I don't know what a commode is - where I grew up it was a polite word for "toilet" i'm Guessing your mom is not hanging clothes on an unused toilet. I did the second horse hair/feather firing and nothing broke! I also tried something new, which I love, and of course a) I now want to drop everything and experiment with this new technique, and b) I hate all the earlier stuff I did. But. I am marching on with the original plan (perhaps I will sell all the old stuff - other people have a history of liking it, and I will not say "wait until next year! I will bring pieces that are much cooler!") The first glaze load is in the kiln firing and the last batch of ornaments is 1/3 done. The great room is lovely and clean because I have not undone the things I did and dh cleaned up after himself. He also built a fire and I have put sweet potatoes in the oven to go with leftover chicken (him) and salad. I also ran the dishwasher, so that is ok, but laundry is very bad. | |
| Motown | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 04:03 PM |
Thank you for the encouragement Tatoulia! I truly appreciate it. Thank you to all of you. I love this place and the folks I have "met" so far. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 04:00 PM |
Quick drive by. You can do this Motown! You are doing great! Tillie I'm so pleased with your new area! Cleaners came today. I walked one over to mom's and she did the fridge and a little bit more. That made me happy. I have to go up to my car now because I couldn't find my makeup (BF and I met a friend and her children for lunch). I had someone check the desk where I sat at work on Friday and she checked my locker. Now I'll check car before heading to Lord and Taylor to buy more. But I really want to find my makeup bag. I'm tired but I start teaching tomorrow and I'm just not yet ready. I don't have my head in the game. My slides are finished. But I'm still not ready. | |
| motown | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 03:46 PM |
Tillie thank you for the kitty advice. I have had issues with the cats like this for awhile. I don't think he's ill, just ornery. Would you mind sharing the enzyme about which you spoke? Please and thank you. And I am almost enjoying the thought of cooking in my kitchen again. I made a roast and potatoes and cupcakes Saturday and baked potato soup and beer biscuits and ice cream sundaes yesterday. Thanks to y'all I think maybe I CAN do this. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 03:02 PM |
Hi Motown WAY TO GO! for claiming that bit of counter space! It is possible to post pictures and links here. My little kitty began peeing on the back door because she was ill, end stage kidney failure. Has your cat always peed out of the box? Either way as long as that cat can smell the urine scent in those areas it will continue to pee there. Been taking it easy today. Mostly just really been enjoying looking around at all the areas that are now empty. | |
| Motown | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 01:56 PM |
Hoping to get a little of the living floor exposed in order to run the steam cleaner over it. The nine-month-old is beginning to crawl and need to be in the floor and the carpet is just too nasty to let her on it. Of course, the part of the floor that is vinyl (kitchen and dining) is a dirty floor too and bless her heart even in her little walker there isn't really room for her to maneuver it around. IDK what to do with all the stacks of things. | |
| Motown | Posted: 12 November 2018 - 12:18 PM |
He everybody! I've missed getting on here and have just now read and "caught up" with everyone's progress. Sounds like y'all had a busy and productive weekend. I did too! I did some decluttering this weekend. I got a freezer gone from my house too! And DD took a load of clothes to storage and I also worked very hard Saturday and found a little bit of valuable real estate on one side of my kitchen counters. Still a LONG way to go for a functioning kitchen but I could at least set down a plate of food there last night! Baby steps. Anyway, other than that and getting a LOT of laundry (mostly the kids and the living room blankets, etc) done this weekend just flew by. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 06:43 PM |
Hey Guys 😉 Hi Subclinical WAY TO GO! I think those ones that sell the best is because they are fragile and delicate to make. YEA! DH and friends for getting 2 covers up! Unfortunately I live out in the sticks off a little traveled dirt road or I would put lots of stuff out there for people to just take for free. I am beat! I will sleep good tonight. 😉 Hi Tatoulia You can only choose one battle at a time and I think the fridge is a good one. WAY TO GO! for all the walking & standing around shopping today. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 06:29 PM |
Wow!!! Great work! SubC good that you were able to hush the destructive internal dialog! And Tillie!!!!! Wow!!!!! Congratulations!!!!! I took mom shopping and it was very successful. She bought some cute costume jewelry and a really cute winter hat. Just about wore me out and I know it wore her out. Then I did her shopping then BF wanted to run errands, so we did. I did not get enough exercise in today but I'm now in my pjs and I'm good with it. Doing a quick load of laundry. Congratulations on your fantastic accomplishments. Oh Tillie, mom is only agreeing to the fridge right now. She won't agree to the drawer of iniquity as she has all these elaborate plans for it which essentially means she won't be doing it and no one else will, either. Baby steps. I also mentioned her bathroom needs a really good cleaning. She insists on keeping a no longer used commode in her bathroom to hang her dirty clothes on. She will not get rid of it and she says, well, so and so said she wanted it and now she doesn't. That has zero to do with her living situation but she won't budge on it. It's like either do and so will take it or mom will keep hanging her clothes on it. She told me today that she wants to hang onto everything she has, whether it's useful or broken or otherwise. Well the fridge will get cleaned tomorrow. I don't want her feeling bad and I'm sure the cleaning ladies will be itching to do the whole house. I will not be there so they will have to fight her on their own. The new cleaner at mom's does the basics and not all the stuff her former person did. And I think mom's happier that way. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 05:39 PM |
I am so happy that the freezer is out! Maybe he should move it to the end of the driveway with a for sale sign. That's what people do here "works good xx.xx obo." Sometimes the stuff gets stolen though.... win either way on this one. I too must clean newly emptied spaces before putting things in them. Tatoulia, it sounds like things are good with you and your mom. I hope she allows the cleaners to keep helping her. Good job on the clearing out. A chair is a big thing. Dh is making himself some dinner. His friends went home. They got two beam covers up, which is great - the three (unfinished ones) that are left fit side by side, so we don't have to keep stacking and unstacking. I finished more than a third of my glazing, and did one (of hopefully three) batches of horsehair and feather pots. I broke two pots from thermal shock because I didn't wait long enough, but that is just over 20%, which is not unusual for this method. I made some changes today that make the process faster, and I think I should get less breakage tomorrow because I learned more about the timing. (This is me being positive because the flip side of that is "why is it always the forms that are hardest to make and easiest to sell that break?!") I had two moments of "I can't find the thing I need and it is lost forever and I will never find it and now I have to tear the place apart and I will spend all day looking and not find it and run out of time and the place will be a wreck and now I can't do the thing!" But in both cases I stopped, and took a breath, and thought about where I probably put the thing, and was able to find it fairly quickly, without making a huge mess. I am starting to get used to the idea that I can find things. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 01:03 PM |
Hello Everyone 😀 Hi Tatoulia BIG NEWS! Last night I could hear him swearing as he maneuvered around the narrow paths I made in the house pulling things out of the way the freezer needed to travel. The freezer is in the driveway now. Now I need to get busy putting things away all properly organized and clean. 😀 | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 10:15 AM |
Good morning everyone! I'm excited about the beam covers, SubC and I'm very excited that you kept your boundaries in place! You have important things to do! I'm thinking ahead to Christmas only because I don't have to live through Thanksgiving. We have reservations at one of my favorite restaurants and I am not cooking and delivering a meal to sibling this year. Again it's about keeping boundaries in place. So Thanksgiving no longer needs to inspire any anxiety. Tillie , I too see that bright light. I am excited for you! I think he'll do it. I am being very gentle and positive with mom. I've had a bit of a shift in my dealings with her and it's helping both of us. I am going to remind her today that the cleaners are doing her fridge tmr and I'll try to get her to agree to have them clean the drawer of iniquity. But first I'll take her shopping for a belt today. That's what she wants to do. And I'm no longer saying no to her I'm also no longer correcting her if it doesn't need it. If she thinks she saw a movie in the 30s but in truth it's from the 70s, what do I care? She can have her memories her way. I got rid of the two big things yesterday. One is a beautiful carved chair and the other was a chalk drawing from the 1800s in an elaborate carved wood frame. I never took the chair to the consignment shop and the chalk drawing didn't sell. Since I was in the car and mom wasn't there, I dropped them off at Goodwill together with my measuring cups. I think I must've taken the full cup sizes somewhere (brother's?) and that's how I lost them. Who knows?! It was important for me to dump those items. I don't want them. And I should've never bought them in the first place. But I don't need to hang onto my mistakes. Okay I'm going to hop in the shower. Would love to hear from Motown, Arianne, CM, Anon and YOU | |
| Tillie | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 09:53 AM |
Good Morning Everybody Hi Subclinical If/when Steven moves out the freezer Been a long time that I have been working on this project. That's how it is living with a very resistant hoarder. | |
| Subclinical | Posted: 11 November 2018 - 06:33 AM |
Still thinking about tillie's freezer! Tatoulia, I am not ready for Christmas! I will be christmassy next weekend when I am trying to convince other people to buy things. For now 1) sale prep, 2) thanksgiving! Motown, how are you doing? CM, you too! You guys remember that my house is still under construction? Dh has friends coming today to help lift beam covers into place. He asked if I would cook for them, and I said no. I told him weeks ago that this weekend was going to be all about the studio. But I do have to clean up this room, because they need to be in here, moving ladders and furniture, screwing bolts into the floor, putting tools down, and generally clomping around. The books I ordered arrived yesterday, so I am up three books. But they will save me time, so good trade off. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 10 November 2018 - 02:44 PM |
Good Afternoon Hi Tatoulia So nice your Mom is having in the cleaning ladies. Xmas and sentimental stuff is both the same for most people. Well, I have gotten everything out of the pantry and made room through the house for the freezer's exit. | |
| Tatoulia | Posted: 10 November 2018 - 11:09 AM |
Good morning! Last little bit of it here. I hope Monday plays out as planned, Tillie. I think not pushing him for an earlier day will work in your favor. But as we both know too well, it's an unpredictable situation. I am glad to have that type of chaos out of my life. SubC, congratulations on recognizing normal household living! We live in our homes! And living can be messy! I'm excited about your pots and glazing. I ran a few errands with a friend from work last night then we grabbed a quick cup of soup and a salad before her train. Then I walked the rest of the way home. I took my chance to the bank yesterday and it totalled $97.06. It was very heavy carrying it in, esp since I walked all the way in. But it's gone and I'm rich. I bought my measuring cups so I will go through my drawers and donate the two sets missing the full cup size. I've done two loads of laundry and changed my sheets. I'm going to head out to the cemetery as it would've been my friend's birthday. Then I may go to that craft store and look for the two remaining items I need. Tomorrow mom wants to get out but it isn't easy for me to do my own stuff at the same time. I bought ZERO Christmas items while window shopping with friend. I need to inventory what I have left (after brother threw out a bunch and there's stuff at his house too). While taking inventory I'll start culling the herd. I will hear I. Mind which things might be nice for my bookshelves once they are built in, do that I'm not unnecessarily getting rid of stuff. I'm going to be thoughtful about it. It's amazing how I am able to let most things go. I still need to shampoo the bedroom rug. Preferably before cleaners come on Monday (you'll recall it got too late Wednesday so they couldn't clean). They will do mom's fridge and one of her drawers on Monday too. | |