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What Are You Doing Today?
Tillie
Posted: 06 June 2015 - 01:43 PM
 

Remember how the board would get bogged down and very slow to load and scroll after we had posted so many posts in the thread?
Well, I decided to start this new thread after we had reached another 2000 posts to prevent the inconvenience.

So, please continue posting what you are doing today here.

(((HUGS))) 😀

 

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Tillie
Posted: 13 June 2015 - 01:01 PM
 

GOOD MORNING EVERYBODY! 😀

Hi LR2014 🙂
Good Luck! with your clothing organization! 😀
I truly understand forgetting the plans I have made. That's why I need to have a written To-Do list right where I will see it all through the day or I honestly will completely forget and get side tacked. 😀

Yes, it is some great news with him addressing "the hoard".
I believe that this medical issue, time spent in hospital and the long time to recuperate has made a positive change in his feelings/outlook toward the mess here that is our home. 🙂
Also, having outsiders (visiting nurses/physical therapists/friends/etc...) coming here has shown him how all the clutter really interferes with functioning in his bedroom and yard/carport areas.
Plus, I think he is a bit ashamed to have people see it.

Hi Critical Mass 🙂
WAY TO GO!!! for all the work you are doing straightening out your room!
Cheering you on that you find the floor! 😀

"Microsorting" is a very common trait of compulsive hoarders and is usually due to the tendency to strive for perfection.
Perfectionism is often a big factor as to why hoarders/clutterers have a "jumble" of possessions. They are trying to sort and organize them to such a high standard of perfection that it is impossible to achieve so they become paralyzed with the process and freeze.

Hi Roxie 🙂
"clink"
I miss the missing posters to. 🙁
Wish I could ease your mind about your house and future living situation. (((hugs)))
Would it be possible for you and your brother to permanently share a home?
Would you be willing to sell your property "As-Is" without doing repairs? Sure, you would get less money but how much would it cost to pay people to do all the needed repairs?
Options to consider, but please don't get stressed. (((hugs)))

Nothing much to do here today.
Usual daily tidy ups.
Staying home, taking today and tomorrow slow and easy.
Had a blast at the bizarre yesterday even though I didn't buy anything. 😀
His medical expenses have made our finances rather tight and we can't be spending on frivolous things.
But I did get a LOT of enjoyment just from looking. 😉

He is still working on decluttering today.
Doing light lifting, easy to sit down and sort projects. Taking breaks as needed.
It is amazing how much empty space he has been able to create. 😀
Still a lot of work yet to be done.
Slow but steady gets it done.

Going to be hot here this weekend. 100 degrees
predicted. 🙁
Good day to stay inside.

Wishing you all a GREAT weekend! 😀 [/color

 
Roxie
Posted: 13 June 2015 - 11:57 AM
 

Today I've been thinking of each of you, but also the regular posters who actually haven't posted in awhile, like Diane. I miss them and wish they'd check in just to say hi.

Tillie, you are making good use of your freedom. Sounds so nice but tires me just reading it. hehe And I am very impressed that Mr. T. is actually doing some sorting and clean up and, particularly, hauling away! Yahooo!

LR, you did a lot just getting laundry done and trying to find lost clothing items. Keep on..baby steps if needed.

CM, it is understandable to take some time out and getting centered again enough to tackle the bedroom. I hang my head because the bedroom I am living in right now is such a mess. Unfortunately, the mess is about medicine, doctor and hospital records, and oxygen things. But it could all be a lot neater and I could vacuum the danged floor, make the bed. Well, maybe I'll do some later today. I just got up about 45 minutes ago. Bro is off to an antique motorcycle show so I have time alone, which feels good.

Speaking of which, though I need a lot of time alone, I am quite nervous now about maybe living alone again. I've lived here for 6 months and don't plan on moving anywhere soon. I cannot afford a new place here unless I sell the house and land around it, and it needs too much work right now to put on the market. Sigh. Between hoarding (mostly cleared out now), animal soil, and projects needing to be done (e.g., pipes to fix, bathrooms to put into good working order, etc.) I feel defeated before I start.

So I'll find some small project here to work on today at some point.

Raining again today, blast. Hugs and clinks.

 
CriticalMass
Posted: 13 June 2015 - 10:07 AM
 

Hi all, sounds like we've been getting lots of things done - yay! 🙂

Yesterday I finally started tackling the bedroom I am staying in (having moved in with a friend during May - what a month that was!). If you've ever moved in a hurry, you know how it can get all piled and cluttered in the new place very quickly. I've felt guilty for not tackling it sooner. But I think it took me awhile to be mentally able to. Today I feel I can tackle the other side of the room and if I do that, I should be able to get things put away neatly and have FLOOR instead of a precarious PATH to walk on in there!

Tillie, I can relate to the "microsorting" - I do that, LOL! 😀 I guess we anxious hoarder types just have a need. With me, that part is the OCD, I suppose - and I can get so absorbed in the detail. It's satisfying in a way, too, once it's done. Too bad it takes a lot of time - if it didn't slow a person down so much when there's a huge amount of other stuff to go through. Folks like me need a time machine we can step into to do those projects and then come back out when done and not be behind on the rest of it! Ha ha!

 
LR2014
Posted: 12 June 2015 - 01:35 PM
 

CM, nice to hear you were able to deal with a lot of "loose ends." Tillie and Roxie, thanks as always for the encouragement.

I got things off yesterday to a fairly good start in terms of my original plans: got laundry done. It wasn't until I read the message board this morning that I even remembered about the 2nd and 3rd goals I'd listed for yesterday. (Definitely didn't do the paperwork goal yesterday.) I know that one thing I did do yesterday was look for certain needed and temporarily-missing items of clothing. Ack! Today, while I have some extra time and space to myself to do some sorting, I'm going through my clothes and trying to get them in some (better) type of order.

Tillie, I am so happy to hear that "he" is actually getting rid of things! It seems like a miracle! It's great to hear about a truck carrying items "out" instead of truckloads coming "in." Yea!

Hugs to everyone.

 
Tillie
Posted: 12 June 2015 - 11:56 AM
 

Good Morning Everybody! 🙂

Hi LR2014 🙂
Hope all your plans went smoothly and you got to have that wonderful feeling of "WTG! a job well done." 😀

Hi CM 🙂
WAY TO GO!!! for all your accomplishments! 😀
Hoping you do start swimming. That is one of the best exercises and feels good too. 😉

Hi Roxie 🙂 "clink!"
Your cabin sounds like heaven on earth! 😀

Was not home much yesterday.
Now that my services are no longer needed I am free to leave here for hours at a time. 🙂
Spent lots of time at neighbor friend's house that I am watching for them while they are away.
Filled their bird feeders, washed and refilled humming bird feeders and watered house plants (there are a lot).
Sorted out their mail, stuck it in a big envelope and took it to the post office.
While in town I made my rounds and reconnected with a few acquaintances.
The rains we had did a lot of flood damage to homes and businesses and roads & streets still have large lakes covering them.
After so many years of drought the ground has forgotten how to absorb moisture.
Today I am planning to attend a bizarre that the charity thrift shop that provides free food (no questions ever asked) to anyone in line is holding.
There will be booths set up featuring sellers of wonderful, unique and exotic products.
Sounds like fun. 😀
I am enjoying my newfound freedom.
He is still off work. The surgeon won't release him until the last bit of incision has healed properly.
Meanwhile, he has been sorting though his hoard, tossing ruined things and loading up the truck with items he has decided he can live without to donate.
The process has been slow with a lot of "micro sorting" of tiny objects like screws and nails.
But he gets a WAY TO GO! for what he has accomplished. 😀

Wishing you all a safe and fun weekend. (((hugs)))

 
Roxie
Posted: 12 June 2015 - 11:24 AM
 

I got up at 5:40 and did my nebulizer, then went back to bed. Just got up again, did another neb, took my pills and recorded my vitals (they are fine).

LR, hope you got things done the last couple days like you hoped to do. Remember, baby steps will get you there.

CM, good for you getting those appointments, etc. done. I know that feels good because I can procrastinate the same way. When I wanted (in the past years while on this board) to accomplish a daily task (particular one), I used a calendar and marked off each day I did it. I wonder if that would help you with swimming. That's such a great exercise if you like it!

Tillie, I, too, love the sound of rain on the roof. At our cabin, the loft bed is directly under the roof so it is particularly great!

Making coffee and it is almost ready. :::Clink:::

 
CriticalMass
Posted: 11 June 2015 - 05:20 PM
 

Good afternoon or evening everyone . . .

Several people here who like to sew - so do I! I was a bit disappointed that today I didn't get to sew with my girlfriends as we do most Thursdays. Maybe next week.

I did accomplish some tasks, though - appointment making, calling to cancel my old cell phone, etc. Those "loose ends" that I tend to procrastinate. So I'm glad about that.

Weather where I am has been beastly hot but is supposed to change to rainy by tomorrow or the next day. Summer is not my favorite season and with moving and all the stress I feel like I missed out on spring. But maybe now I can keep another resolution and start going to the gym again - I do love to swim especially. So that's a goal, I guess, to actually make it to the gym, remember the items I need to bring with me (I'm a forgetful sort, so this is a stress trigger), and then the next goal will be to make it a regular thing.

 
LR2014
Posted: 11 June 2015 - 10:55 AM
 

Good morning. Roxie, I'm glad you had some pretty weather to enjoy yesterday. Iced tea clinks!

Tillie, thanks for the encouragement. I hope your hanging-out-the-clothes plan works and that you get more rain! Glad also that you yourself didn't have to make the drive to Reno this time!

Among my plans for the day today are (1) to work on laundry, (2) to spend at least 20 minutes on my bedroom area, and (3) to spend at least 20 minutes on organizing some paperwork.

Have a good day!

 
Tillie
Posted: 10 June 2015 - 11:32 AM
 

Good Morning Everybody! 🙂

Hi LR2014 🙂
WAY TO GO!!!! 😀
Looking forward to reading your update on that family home.
And WTG! for even the tiny bit accomplished in your room. Remember those tiny bits add up!:D

Hi Roxie 🙂
Happy you enjoyed the lovely day, YEA!!! 😀
Nice change, accompanying Brother to his appointment this time. 🙂
Tea "clink!"

Yesterday was hot and stifling muggy here.
Then last night a thunderstorm rolled in.
Was wonderful laying in bed listening to the falling rain and thunder and watching the lightning flashes.
During the night we got almost a whole inch of rainfall!!! 😀
More thunderstorms are predicted for today so to encourage them I have the clothes line all hung with freshly washed linens. 😉
Happy now that I did not wash the windows last week.
Today he is off to his doctor appointment in Reno. I stayed home.

🙂

 
Roxie
Posted: 10 June 2015 - 07:09 AM
 

Good morning all. Coffee clink.

I didn't get much done yesterday but it was so pretty out I didn't care. I accompanied my brother to an appointment at the VA for him, for a change.

Hoping to hear from each of you.

 
LR2014
Posted: 09 June 2015 - 11:02 PM
 

Tillie, I'm glad you got some sewing done! Can't say that I've played a lot, but I'll keep in mind that you've said to do so. I did just finish preparing a yummy pitcher of tea. It's not exactly "playing," but it is something I enjoy.

lex, it's nice to hear about a cleared off kitchen table!

I made a tiny bit of progress yesterday on my bedroom, but only a tiny bit. Much progress has been made on that "family home." I should have some extra-good news to report about that situation in a few weeks.

Hugs to all.

 
Tillie
Posted: 08 June 2015 - 10:52 PM
 

HI! Everyone 🙂

WAY TO GO!!!! Lex for cleaning off the table! 😀

Spent today doing his laundry and sewing.
So far I have finished four different sewing projects I had to put off since March.
Have one more project to finish then I can start on starting new sewing projects.
I have the fabric and patterns already for making a few dresses and night gowns. 😀
But tomorrow I have to wash dishes and should do some other things around here.
I hate always having to be the "grown up" cause I just want to play all day. 😀

Hope you all had time to play today. 🙂

 
lex
Posted: 08 June 2015 - 03:31 PM
 

Hello everyone, hugs and hope everyone is well.
Tillie that is awesome! I love to sew 🙂
LR glad you got your car back and way to go on vaccuming!
I just finished cleaning off the kitchen table, I can actually see it now!! Also got some sweeping done. Now time to go to work sadly.
Have a great day everyone!!

 
Tillie
Posted: 07 June 2015 - 10:31 AM
 

Good Morning Everybody! 🙂

Hi LR2014 🙂
LOL, when the board went all wonky last time it was so miserable for all of us that I never wanted to go through that ever again. 😀
WAY TO GO!!! for attending a happy family event and for doing all that vacuuming! YEA!!!
Hope you squeezed in that fun last evening. 😉

Since my services are no longer required to cater to his every need, yesterday I got back to what I was doing before his blood clot drama.
I got out all my sewing projects and started back on them.
First I mended my jacket then I made the curtain for my room.
The curtain is now hanging over the window! 😀
Today I will sift through the sewing stuff and see what project I want to work on next.
Hoping that some time this week I will have the energy and desire to wash all the windows.
We have had several rain showers and the windows are all terribly dirty.
But for now it is just rest and recreation for me.

TTYL 😀

 
LR2014
Posted: 06 June 2015 - 05:27 PM
 

You mean we can actually prevent problems before they get started, Tillie? What a concept!!

Yes, my vehicle is doing just fine now. I was able to use it to go out of town yesterday for a (happy) family event. And yes, I did finally get some good rest. Thanks for the well wishes.

Just got finished doing some vacuuming in one room and am getting ready to do some vacuuming and straightening up in my bedroom. I will probably also manage to squeeze in a little bit of fun this evening.

Hugs to everyone.

 
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