I haven't been on here in a while. We still live in filth, and 4 years ago a situation so traumatic happened that I need to look for counseling.
My wife falsely accused me of multiple crimes after I gave her an ultimatum: I am allowed to clean the house or I call child services. I went to court for several months based on those false charges, had my name besmirched to friends, and had to handle my dad wasting away and dying from cancer during that time.
I've suffered many types of abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, and other harm during my marriage, as well as constant concern about my kids' health and safety while being forced to live in this filth. What kind of therapy can combat this? Any keywords I should search, or places I can go?
I know this isn't a "how to help a hoarder" post, but I don't know where to go for help. If I need to go elsewhere I will, and any advice would be welcomed.