something that works for me, my wife is a hoarder, is small task every day, a room even a shelf should be empty sometimes I am successful just getting rid of one item. Then we revisit the area next week, tomorrow will visit another site, and probably we will get rid of a whole trash bag, or just an item, should take small steps every day, but none stop every day. Sometimes you get really tire but keep going

Long story short parent moved last yr after 50yrs in house because of my father serve osteo arthritisis since march my father hs been in a nursing home can no longer get up on his own stand or walk , my nephew is in the process of buying their home bank won't sign off on mortgage til house is cleaned of the stuff my mom is fighting this but it needs done they can't afford to keep the house since thy bought their trailer and now we will need to apply for medicaid for my father long term care my mother just thinks she has unlimited time because people should understand her husband is in a nursing home sadly the reality is no is no more time this needs done so both my parents can be taken care of a have what they both need I take the brunt of my mothers rage because of how fast we must do this (I am their POA ) it is not ideal situation for any of us but I need to make sure as I had said both my parent have what they need to live I don't want to cause my mother trauma but financially the house needs to be sold or she will have to sell the trailer which at this point in her life is smaller and less work for her and my family to maintain in every aspect PLEASE ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREATLY APRECIATED!