I've been married to the same guy for 40 yrs, & he has been using porn for 55 yrs. He withdraws from me. I'm not the 19
yr old he was so smitten with when I was in college. He is a
guy who prefers his own company if I'm at home. If I go away on a trip, he can't stand that--he misses me then! But once I'm home again, he's somewhere in the other end of the house! He loves to view "perfect young women" on porn videos.
I get back at him in our pocket book, by shopping & hoarding!
I am really new to this, but it is very apparent that my hoarding has been fueled by anger at him.
Anyone else have that problem with anger?