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Anonymoniker
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 06:27 PM
Tillie, im sorry i sound like im lecturing you about the skunks. Its just you would not believe what i have been through with them! They are impossible to chase out, cuz theyll just spray you instead! They are unlike any other wild animal...or any kind of animal at all...of 20 years of fending off animals in my jungle, skunks have been by far the most difficult....blah blah end of rant...ha ha...sorry...i do have some funny stories with them, tho...like some of the hilarious looking mixes of the different 4 species....the funniest had like a thick, long white toupee on...one was so clean & well groomed, i thought it was a someone's pet straight from a grooming saloon...ha ha...You are doing the right thing!!! Good for you!!! It is tempting, i know...they are very cute!!! :D
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 06:05 PM
Tillie, that is wise not to feed the baby skunks, cuz as babies they need to learn to find food in nature or youll likely have them finding a way in your house!
Tatoulia, im so glad the kitty is doing better. I feel ljke im always bugging people with natural remedies, etc., but if the kitty has a Vitamin B-12 deficiency, Nurtitional Yeast is a great healthy source & kitties love it & its great for humans, too! It tastes like cheese! Also, i keep thinking about what you said about finding a boyfriend that understands having each other's own space. I have become very relieved to not have to constantly account for my time to anyone! When i was with my ex id worry about how id explain my day as being justified to him...AAACK!!! I am realy loving having days to myself. I can stay up late & sleep late & dont have to adapt to his schedule!!!
When i got up and saw my beautiful new curtain in the kitchen it made me very happy!! :D
~Happy Homemaking to us all!!!~♡~
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 04:47 PM
Hello Tillie!

It's got to take a lot to say no to the beggar skunk, but you are doing the right thing.

I stopped at mom's and tiny cat stood on her hind legs when I went to feed her. So that's good. She even sat on mom's lap for a while. I changed mom's sheets and now I'm home, cooking the meatballs I made. They smell delicious but likely won't be done for a while. I am going to work on Tuesday's slide presentation and then put on some music and clean.

I'll report back later! Thank you for being here, Tillie and Anon. I wish we could lure some of our other friends back--but I know they'll find their way home. Till then, we'll leave a light on.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 03:55 PM
Hi Tatoulia :)
That's such GREAT news to hear that Kitty is eating and acting perkier! :D
Hope all your worries turn out to be for nothing and you enjoy nothing but peace (((HUGS)))


Scooter was out front near the porch,
I went to step out on the porch and encountered a snake just on it's way in through the door I had propped open for Scooter to get back inside.
It was a tiny Corn snake, just a baby about 14 inches long and skinny as a pencil.
When it saw me it turned and ran quickly back into the flower garden.
Marty came with me over to the neighbor friend's house this morning and decided he was going to live there now.
When he gets hungry enough, he will come back home.
The baby skunk that used to steal the cat food until I started bringing it in at sundown has started to beg.
It gets on the porch at night and when I talk to it through the window it comes to the corner of the porch where the window is and looks at me with a sad pleading face.
It is SOOOOOO freakin cute!
But I have been strong and not given in even though I really want to. :D
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 01:12 PM
Good afternoon, everyone.

Today my worries have worries.

But, I'm happy when speaking with you! Anony, great work on curtains and other projects. I'm pleased that you've found a way to do nighttime projects again, in a healthier setting. Also glad you confided in your friend. Just do the best that you can.

Tillie! Cats in boxes! My BF's cat has a "no box too small" philosophy, which really cracks me up. My cat is not a box cat. Mom's cat ate an entire can of fancy feast yesterday (over the course of the day) and jumped on mom's bed this AM. I think between the B12 shot and the fancy feast, she's starting to feel a little better.

Right now waiting for someone--took him on errands. Cleaned someone else's kitchen today. Just want to get back home.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 12:01 PM
Good Morning Everyone :)

Almost 10:00am here.

Hi Anonymoniker :)
Happy you contacted your friend and that she seems to understand. (((hugs)))
YEA! for remembering how to use that sewing machine! :D


Hi Tatoulia :)
I have cardboard boxes placed in areas all around this place because the cats really like to sit in them all day long.
It's a "Cat Thing" ;P
WAY TO GO!!! for being so strong and resisting those evil "free" frames! :D


Have a list of stuff I plan to do today.
Nothing much really.
Just want to have this stuff done before my dental appointment tomorrow.
Light burn barrel, laundry, wash my hair, get car sorta cleaned off.
Really need to do a pedicure. Noticed that walking around outside barefoot in the garden has gotten a lot of dirt under my toe nails. LOL

Everybody have a wonderful day. :)
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 03:57 AM
Thank you both Tillie & Tatoulia! I actually gave it a lot of deep contemplation today & decided that maybe if i could get my kitchen & screen porch cleaned & fixed up, and just draw the curtain across the livingroom, and get the lattice & berry vines outside the trailer, itd become nice enough to have guests! That is fairly feasible, without being too overwhelming?! I also text my friend about all this & she does seem to understand. The whole exchange has been a positive thing, i think?!
Tonight i got one of the curtains made & put up! It looks great! It was miraculous that my sewing machine worked ok & that i could remember how to get it all threaded & the bobbin filled, etc., after not using yet this century!(literally!)
Also, I bought a vegan long fringed vest yesterday(i thought of yours, Tillie!) that i LOVE & wearing it while sewing was so fun, till the fringes kept ridding up on the fabric as i was sewing, looking like a spider or centipede! ha ha I then had a real experience with a big spider! Its one of the things about late nights in the summer here!
I had also had another revelation. Id always loved doing projects late at night, but had since associated that with my drug days. I recently started doing projects at night again, on just one cup of coffee and it has been fantastic!
Tatoulua, im so glad the little kitty is happy & doing well! Thank you all for being in my life!!! ~☆♡☆~
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 28 August 2016 - 03:57 AM
Thank you both Tillie & Tatoulia! I actually gave it a lot of deep contemplation today & decided that maybe if i could get my kitchen & screen porch cleaned & fixed up, and just draw the curtain across the livingroom, and get the lattice & berry vines outside the trailer, itd become nice enough to have guests! That is fairly feasible, without being too overwhelming?! I also text my friend about all this & she does seem to understand. The whole exchange has been a positive thing, i think?!
Tonight i got one of the curtains made & put up! It looks great! It was miraculous that my sewing machine worked ok & that i could remember how to get it all threaded & the bobbin filled, etc., after not using yet this century!(literally!)
Also, I bought a vegan long fringed vest yesterday(i thought of yours, Tillie!) that i LOVE & wearing it while sewing was so fun, till the fringes kept ridding up on the fabric as i was sewing, looking like a spider or centipede! ha ha I then had a real experience with a big spider! Its one of the things about late nights in the summer here!
I had also had another revelation. Id always loved doing projects late at night, but had since associated that with my drug days. I recently started doing projects at night again, on just one cup of coffee and it has been fantastic!
Tatoulua, im so glad the little kitty is happy & doing well! Thank you all for being in my life!!! ~☆♡☆~
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Tatoulia
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 07:11 PM
PS TO ANONY--I hadn't seen that you'd replied to Tillie's suggestion when I posted--forgive me--not badgering you!!!!
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Tatoulia
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 07:09 PM
Hello Friends!

A great day today--sister came visiting and I took her and mom to lunch. The visit perked all of us up! The tiny cat has been staying in a box and as soon as I cracked open a can of cat food, she emerged and ate a nice bit of food. Then while mom showered to get ready for lunch I had the kitty sit next to me and I gently petted her and talked to her. She is generally glued to mom's side but has been spending a great deal of time in a cardboard box. Mom just lets her be. I'm wondering if she can no longer get on the chair or jump on the bed. In any event, she is loving her canned food and she has plenty of cans at mom's now, dear heart.

Tillie that is a nice idea for Anony--the second set of eyes may be helpful to you, Anony. It will help to break your isolation and will help you feel more comfortable. I remember a number of years ago Diane let someone sit in her house and it did her a world of good. OF course this is just a suggestion so don't panic! But I like the idea.

Tillie on the way to vet's office there was a sidewalk sale. One of the frame shops had beautiful frames out front including a pile of nice large frames marked "free." I made it past both times. A little painful but I survived.

I had such a big lunch with family (salmon burger with coleslaw and a fried risotto cake with corn chutney) that I have no room for dinner. Will make my meatballs tomorrow.

Did the usual today. Dishes, laundry, clean sheets on bed. Running out of time for the PLUS to my indoor challenge!! (I'm just so cocky at the beginning of the month!!!)
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 05:45 PM
Tillie, if the mess at my place was not mine, but a parner's, i think id feel differently. Maybe not, its hard to really know, but im embarrassed cuz its mine. Another reason i dont want anyone to see it is cuz i feel that was a factor in my ex leaving me. I think he got disgusted at my laziness & that i continued to live like this, so i cant handle the thought of anyone else being disgusted at me...except me...if i ever get it so im not disgusted at myself & place, then ill definitely have people over! I do feel like she feels i rehected her friendship on some level & it really bothers me. The other thing is she has chemical sensitivity issues with her health, which makes it all the worse! Shed run out of here gagging!
Tatoulia, i hope you & the little kitty can get some healthy meals soon! I often make meals that i share with my kitties & i recently discovered that adding dill to fish is something cats love as well as me!
Last night i went to see Alice Cooper in concert & i did not expect it to be as good as it was! Who says we have to act our age?! HA! :D
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 05:45 PM
Tillie, if the mess at my place was not mine, but a parner's, i think id feel differently. Maybe not, its hard to really know, but im embarrassed cuz its mine. Another reason i dont want anyone to see it is cuz i feel that was a factor in my ex leaving me. I think he got disgusted at my laziness & that i continued to live like this, so i cant handle the thought of anyone else being disgusted at me...except me...if i ever get it so im not disgusted at myself & place, then ill definitely have people over! I do feel like she feels i rehected her friendship on some level & it really bothers me. The other thing is she has chemical sensitivity issues with her health, which makes it all the worse! Shed run out of here gagging!
Tatoulia, i hope you & the little kitty can get some healthy meals soon! I often make meals that i share with my kitties & i recently discovered that adding dill to fish is something cats love as well as me!
Last night i went to see Alice Cooper in concert & i did not expect it to be as good as it was! Who says we have to act our age?! HA! :D
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Tillie
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 01:11 PM
Good Morning Everybody :)

Hi Tatoulia :)
Hoping that "Terminally Cute" is the Kitty's only complaint. ;D
Vet visit, hair salon, grocery shopping all in one day is a LOT.
Please get busy making up some real food for yourself. (((hugs)))


Hi Anonymoniker :)
Such a tragedy that you couldn't have your friend over. (((HUGS)))
I was thinking...
maybe you should let a friend come over.
When they see what you see then they could be even better moral support for you.
Telling someone about the place is not at all the same as them actually seeing it for themselves.
I know that people just don't "get it" when I try to describe the situation here, but when they actually see it, then they understand what I have been saying.


Cats & I have been up & out since early morning watering stuff.
At 10:00am he left to go to the thrift shops and any yard sales he passes on the way.
I got all the daily "usuals" around here done.
Planning to spend this afternoon doing some beading.
Will get back to sewing when the weather changes and I am stuck in the house 24/7.
So happy I have found some pretty fabrics and already know what I will be sewing. :D


Please check in, drive by post or whatever so we can all catch up with each other. (((hugs)))
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 12:33 PM
Hi all!
I just had another fried ask if she could come see my place next week while she is gonna be in my area for a doctors appointment. I had to tell her that my place is not presentable yet, and that i cant wait to get it so i can have friends over,and to please not think its that i dont want you to visit me,that its just my place is just in aweful shape..(sigh)....it really bothers me to keep putting off my life & relationships over this mess....i will have to have the new place at least started to have guests here. I plan to just get a shed/barn kit & convert it to a house.....my trailer is not repairable.......i hope i can make that day come...today im going to make the kitchen curtain....maybe that will cheer me up....
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 27 August 2016 - 12:33 PM
Hi all!
I just had another fried ask if she could come see my place next week while she is gonna be in my area for a doctors appointment. I had to tell her that my place is not presentable yet, and that i cant wait to get it so i can have friends over,and to please not think its that i dont want you to visit me,that its just my place is just in aweful shape..(sigh)....it really bothers me to keep putting off my life & relationships over this mess....i will have to have the new place at least started to have guests here. I plan to just get a shed/barn kit & convert it to a house.....my trailer is not repairable.......i hope i can make that day come...today im going to make the kitchen curtain....maybe that will cheer me up....
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Tatoulia
Posted: 26 August 2016 - 08:15 PM
Hi everyone!

Never got thunderstorms or even a drop of rain today but the weatherman (excuse me, meteorologist,) was right about the heat and humidity. Got the tiny cat to the vet, where she weighed-in at under five pounds, poor little thing. Physical exam was excellent--no masses and teeth in fantastic shape. Will get lab results on Monday. The working diagnosis is Terminally Cute. Everyone at the office really loved her--she is especially dear. They gave her all her shots and a vitamin b12 shot but no subcutaneous fluids because she's eating and drinking just fine. I bought her more fancy feasts and some coated paper plates so mom won't have to deal with her dishes beyond water bowl and kibble bowl.

I haven't done a thing here today. After cat care, I had just enough time to get to hair dresser and from there went to grocery store, showered and napped. I am hungry but don't feel like making meatballs right now and don't really have anything else in house to eat. Not even a can of tuna.

Will figure it all out tomorrow. Goodnight everyone!
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Tillie
Posted: 26 August 2016 - 11:13 AM
Good Morning Everyone :)

Hi Anonymoniker :)
Yes, schools should teach things that actually pertain to the real world life,
The proper term for that bit at the top of the curtain is
"curtain rod casing", or just "curtain casing". ;)


Hi Tatoulia :)
WAY TO GO! for all that paper sorting and shredding!
Hope your walk to the Vet is peaceful and uneventful. (((hugs)))


Hi Dave :)
Yes, they have come up with all new ways for different things to be named now.
They make things sound so much more important than they used to be. :D


Friday, what will I do today?
I don't know yet.
Got down into the mid 60s last night, the garden is showing changes that it's thinking about Autumn now.
Hated those extremely hot Summer days but I am sad that Summer is almost over. :(
Oh Well, such is life ;)
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Dave
Posted: 26 August 2016 - 10:33 AM
My children take pains to point out it is now called FACS. Family and Consumer Science. I think the supplemental course used to be called Shop but don't know if that is correct or if it's name has changed too.

It is necessary, however, to be a Food Scientist in order to prepare Dinner in the modern world! (Unable to provide you with comparative terminology for the wielder of the sewing machine.)
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Tatoulia
Posted: 26 August 2016 - 09:20 AM
Keep up the good work, Anony! I always called that a pocket, I think. Oh, I just had another word and can't remember it. Not sleeve.

I am going to take trash out now and then get ready to go to mom's to get the kitty. It's supposed to be hot, humid and thunderstorms. Our walk is about 20+ minutes to vet. Hope it's not thundering and scaring the tiny cat and me.
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 10:12 PM
Correction: not a hem, but a hem-like thingy on the top to slide the curtain rod through....6 years of Home Ec & i cant remember what its called....ha ha
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 10:09 PM
I cleared the area to replace the big kitchen window curtain with the new fabric...i know i should sew a hem in it first...i have a vague recollection of the sewing machine not working.....hmmm....itll be really nice, if i get it up there....hmmm...
~☆~♡~☆♡☆~♡~☆~
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Tatoulia
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 07:56 PM
Those home ec classes are exactly what I wish I'd had, Tillie.

Well ladies I forgot to tell you that I've been keeping up with the mail. I've been shredding or filing, as the case may be. That is making a big difference. No more piles.

I am going to climb into bed soon--reading on the kindle--have finished Mad Men and am not ready to start watching another show yet.

I haven't vacuumed or swept this week. The week got away from me. But my iced tea for breakfast was such a joy.

Take care, dear friends
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 06:21 PM
Wow, Tillie, you really did have a lot of responsibility growing up! We never had to takecare of babies in HomeEc class, but we had cooking half the year & sewing the other half. Personally, i think learning to grow & prepare food, heal with natural remedies, basic budgetting & real life things like that, is what should be taught in school over everything else!
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 06:21 PM
Wow, Tillie, you really did have a lot of responsibility growing up! We never had to takecare of babies in HomeEc class, but we had cooking half the year & sewing the other half. Personally, i think learning to grow & prepare food, heal with natural remedies, basic budgetting & real life things like that, is what should be taught in school over everything else!
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Tillie
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 03:59 PM
OH!
I forgot to mention the child care.
They had mothers bring in babies and toddlers and we were responsible for caring for them.
The mothers would leave their babies with us for hours.
With the teacher right there watching over us we were divided up into teams of two girls for each baby.
I already had that down pat because my mother made me responsible for my little sister when I was only three years old and my baby sister too when I was just seven.
And they both survived. ;P
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Tillie
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 03:51 PM
My home ec classes were the good old fashioned ones.
Half the years were in the cooking class room and the other half of the years were in the sewing room.
Sewing was making place mats, aprons, clothing and how to make alterations to patterns and already made articles.
It also included proper washing and stain removal, fabric care and ironing, etc.
We had to make ourselves an outfit that perfectly fit us and was properly sewn for our grades.
Cooking class was menu planning, household budgeting, proper food handling and preparing.
How to clean everything, balanced diets & nutrition, proper table settings, including the center piece.
We had to plan a menu, shop within a budget, prepare the meal, set the table, eat, clean up the kitchen for our grades. And the food had to be edible because the teacher tasted it.
A lot of instruction about germs and diseases and how to stay healthy.
Also, first aid and home nursing, taking care of sick people at home, basic nursing skills.
I took home ec for six years because it was a class that I enjoyed. :)
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 03:11 PM
Tatoulia, im actually feeling a sense of relief to have my life back to myself. I have periods of wishing we were still together, but i do love my Freedom. For many years i deliberately did long distant relationships for that very reason! It kept my life mine!
As far as Home Economics classes, id love to learn some real basics, like making fermented foods to store, what plants that grow outside that are edible & medicinal, natural remedies, old fashioned stuff!!!
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 03:11 PM
Tatoulia, im actually feeling a sense of relief to have my life back to myself. I have periods of wishing we were still together, but i do love my Freedom. For many years i deliberately did long distant relationships for that very reason! It kept my life mine!
As far as Home Economics classes, id love to learn some real basics, like making fermented foods to store, what plants that grow outside that are edible & medicinal, natural remedies, old fashioned stuff!!!
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Tatoulia
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 01:46 PM
Ladies I would love to take a home ec class right now. Old fashioned so I get the basics. Polishing silver (which I actually do a lot of), washing dishes and clothes, mending, getting stains out, etcetera. I would love that.

Oh your cooking sounds like fun, Tillie. I need to cook too. I am happier when I have my own food on hand.

Anony, there are many good fits for us out there. I have never buckled on getting my alone time. I'd be perfect for a long distant relationship, quite frankly, but as I get older I do enjoy having someone who is nearby. Just don't compromise. It hurts when a relationship is over but sometimes it's just not a good fit. I can tell you I've had probably four significant relationships in my life and despite fond memories, I wouldn't go back to the other three. I'm happy where I am, I hope it lasts my lifetime, but I do not know what my future holds other than I will be able to make it through whatever comes my way. Sometimes the only answer is Time. And with enough time, you'll be able to feel comfortable with happy memories of your ex without wishing you were still together.
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 12:56 PM
Tillie, freezing nice meals ahead is a great way to avoid eating easy junk foods!
I have to laugh about Home Ec classes, cuz i took 6 years of Home Ec and my home is a mess!!! ha ha
Tatoulia, i never had a great carreer, but ive always wanted a guy that would not get insecure by my alone time....wow...a whole decade of someone that lets you be you.....(sigh)
Im a little bummed cuz the solar generator id planned to get has horrible reviews....being on my own is a real mix....
~☆♡☆~Everyone have fun today!~☆♡☆~
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Tillie
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 12:06 PM
Good Morning Everyone :)

Hi Anonymoniker :)
So happy that your place is looking better to you!
Sometimes it takes a while to adjust to the new surroundings (((hugs)))


Hi Tatoulia :)
YEA! for sleeping in! :D
Yes, I was lucky to be one of the last student classes to get the real full Home Economics classes.
I believe it truly helped me once I was on my own to know what to do and when to do it.
Do you stand in the street and toss your hat up in the air like Mary did? ;D


Time to get started on today's tasks.
I will be making pigs in a blanket and baked beans.
I make a big batch and then freeze stuff in small batches for quick easy meals for myself.
Keeps me from snacking on junk when I have some real food on hand.

Have a great day everybody, or at least try for some fun. :)
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Tatoulia
Posted: 25 August 2016 - 10:12 AM
Good morning, Tillie & Anony!

Still in bed--yup, nearly 11 AM. just enjoying the ceiling fan and the sunshine.

I am envious of your sewing abilities, Tillie! They still taught home ec when I was in school but by that time they had added boys and it wasn't extensively sewing related. I remember only one sewing project and the rest were cooking.

Anony, relationships can be tricky. i have always needed a healthy dose of alone time. Luckily I worked full time and went to university and grad school at night, so whomever I was involved with needed to understand from the get-go that school and studies came first. I am unafraid to say when I need a night with me, myself and I. So I've never really had the issue of being smothered by a relationship. If the person needs more togetherness, then they aren't a good fit and I move on before dating becomes a relationship. i have never ever lived with anyone. I need to have my own space. Current BF and I have been together for over a decade. Who knows what the future brings. my role model growing up was Mary Richards (Mary Tyler Moore) and it pleases me no end that my life has pretty much turned out that way. EXCEPT, I am so jealous of her apt!!! Rhoda can drop by anytime!

Have a great day everyone. Kitty is telling me to get UP
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 11:40 PM
Tatoulia, i hope the kitty is feeling better soon...and i envy your relationship situation..id love one that didnt take over my life.
Tillie, a new dress sounds fun! YEA!
My place looked much better overall to me today. Im not sure why...but im glad! :D ~☆♡☆~
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 11:40 PM
Tatoulia, i hope the kitty is feeling better soon...and i envy your relationship situation..id love one that didnt take over my life.
Tillie, a new dress sounds fun! YEA!
My place looked much better overall to me today. Im not sure why...but im glad! :D ~☆♡☆~
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Tillie
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 11:32 PM
Hi Guys :)

Hi Anonymoniker :)
WAY TO GO!!! for putting away all that laundry! :D


Hi Tatoulia :)
YEA!!! for vacation days! :D
Wishing Mom's pale kitty feels better soon.
WAY TO GO!!! for keeping up with the "usuals".
Would love to spend a relaxing time with you drinking tea. (((hugs)))


Well, today I did some of this and some of that.
Went into town this morning, did some shopping.
At the thrift shop I found some fabric that is so beautiful and there's enough to make a dress out of it.
Then I went to the dollar store and got some stuff I needed around the house plus bubble gum.
Got the necessary watering done and the "usual" daily tasks.
Washed some laundry.
Tomorrow I need to do some food preparation then clean up the kitchen.
Monday I have a dental appointment for a cleaning, dreading that.

Sweet dreams ;)
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Tatoulia
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 07:30 PM
Hello. Only did the usual today--dishes, laundry, recycling.

Taking tomorrow and Friday off and have kept it quiet from the family. Going to spend some time with BF tomorrow. Friday I had planned to go to museum but mom's cat needs to get to vet and our appt is Friday. I'm getting my hair cut Friday afternoon. But still I can sleep late.

I may have mentioned all this earlier--just wanted to check in. Tillie, I wish we could laze around together on Friday. I made a great pitcher of iced tea today with delicious Irish breakfast tea. So yummy.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 02:13 PM
Hello!

No progress to report here. Keeping up with the usual but haven't yet vacuumed this week. I'm feeling so tired and I wonder if I need iron or if thyroid meds aren't absorbing properly.

Have been under some stress, which leads to poor sleep. However, I'm taking vacation days tomorrow and Friday so I'm pretty happy about that. I'm going to have to take mom's cat to the vet--kitty looking a little 'pale'.

Hope you are all well. Even a quick hello would be nice....Tess, Diane, Cm, LR, et al.
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 12:08 AM
....i got to thinking about the irony of him only liking such a clean color as white and then realized i am a little fanatical about eating clean, as im maneuvering around & through the filth in my house....hmmm...
Im drinking coffee now. Im gonna stay up & work on my bedroom! Im putting away the stacked bags of clean laundry into the space in drawers & closet i made a while back! Itll make a huge difference to see improvement in that!
~Happy Home Helping to All The Happy Healing Of Hoardingers~ ha ha ;D ~☆♡☆~
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 24 August 2016 - 12:08 AM
....i got to thinking about the irony of him only liking such a clean color as white and then realized i am a little fanatical about eating clean, as im maneuvering around & through the filth in my house....hmmm...
Im drinking coffee now. Im gonna stay up & work on my bedroom! Im putting away the stacked bags of clean laundry into the space in drawers & closet i made a while back! Itll make a huge difference to see improvement in that!
~Happy Home Helping to All The Happy Healing Of Hoardingers~ ha ha ;D ~☆♡☆~
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Tillie
Posted: 23 August 2016 - 01:18 PM
Good Morning Everybody :)

Hi Anonymoniker :)
Thank you (((hugs)))
Yeah, he only likes white, I don't get it either.
His favorite ice cream flavor is vanilla too.
No imagination. :P


Been up and running all morning.
Doing stuff at the neighbor friend's house.
Juggling cats here at home.
Taking a breather, drinking tea now.
Soon I will do some laundry and shampoo my hair.
Yesterday I did turn the hose on the car
didn't get off much of the bird poop but it did remove all the feathers. :D
YEA! ?

LOL
TTYS :)
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 22 August 2016 - 11:41 PM
Tillie, im so sorry about the bird...i had a praying mantis on my car hood driving down the freeway today...i stopped at a park to let him off, but he jumped before we got to a good area :( ...im also sorry about the encompassing hoard....i do find it very ironic he only likes white.....?!?
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 22 August 2016 - 11:41 PM
Tillie, im so sorry about the bird...i had a praying mantis on my car hood driving down the freeway today...i stopped at a park to let him off, but he jumped before we got to a good area :( ...im also sorry about the encompassing hoard....i do find it very ironic he only likes white.....?!?
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Tillie
Posted: 22 August 2016 - 06:09 PM
Thank you sooooo much Tatoulia
That really means the world to me.
((((HUGS))))


Hi Anonymoniker
Picture a square
now picture a tiny little square in the center of the square.
The house is the tiny little square.
All around is the massive hoard.
Out every window you see it, whatever angle you look, you see it.
Only way to block it from my sight is to gouge out my eyes.
He only bought his favorite color of paint, white.
Nothing with any happy color.
So very sorry you have mouth troubles.(((HUGS)))
My professional title is surgical assistant specializing in oral maxillofacial surgery.


No rain today. Darn it.
But it still looks hopeful out there.
Did some watering today and plan t go back outside in a few and water some more stuff.
Thinking of even turning the hose on the car.
Without scrubbing though it will just make the bird poop wet.
This morning a tiny green and yellow finch flew hard into the window glass.
Was dead instantly.
So sad to see that happen. :(
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Anonymoniker
Posted: 22 August 2016 - 05:34 PM
Tillie, i am so sorry. I wish i had an answer for you. You do not deserve this at all! Is there any way to put any kind of visual barricade up to block your sight of even some of his junk? Maybe im projecting what couldve been a solution to my parent's argument for most of my childhood: My Mom did not like seeing my Dad's junk stacked on the garage porch out of her kitchen window. It wouldve been very easy to make a decorative partition, especially in later years when my artist sister painted partition screens for people. I think with them, they liked the bickering. I know thats not the case with you, but if you didnt see as much of the hoard, and your view was prettier, with colorful painted fence-partitions, it might be helpful? You could even use his new paint collection?
I have 2 tooth infections that are making my whole body sore. If i lose these 2 teeth, eating will become much more difficult! Over the weekend i took my good friend to a nice dinner for his birthday & i choked on my food at the table cuz chewing is so hard...it was very embarrassing...it couldve been worse tho...and has been! The irony is that my Dad was an oral surgeon, and i have horrid teeth & cant afford dental work...
~I hope all of you are getting lots done towards having a more enjoyable home!~
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Tatoulia
Posted: 22 August 2016 - 05:26 PM
Tillie, yesterday I saw something that is normally $36 on sale for $18. I don't need it and I'm not sure it would be right for me in any way, shape or form. So I thought, well I could buy it for mom--it's a good deal and NEVER goes on sale. And then I thought, mom doesn't need it either. And I could use the $18 on so many more things.

You helped me have this conversation. You did. Three years ago I would've bought it and any multiples. Thank you.

I learned that from you.
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Tillie
Posted: 22 August 2016 - 10:20 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Tatoulia :)

It's a beautiful morning here today.
Cool, overcast, cloudy, 20% chance of rain around noon.
Perfect weather to do all that long neglected gardening I have been wanting to do.
But...
I am just too friggin depressed.
Why?
Because yesterday afternoon he came home with 24 one gallon and 5 five gallon cans of paint.
Said it was just too good of a deal to pass up.
We have absolutely no need for any of the types of paint he got.
I just want to throw up. :(
He does not paint anything anyways.
The pump house is already filled up with a ton of his paint cans.
There are paint cans stuck in the garage hoard.
He has these new cans tucked into the cutter in the driveway.
I just managed this Spring to get him to get rid of only a dozen old nasty unusable cans of his old paint.

I really would like to repaint the inside here in the living/dining room area.
Been well over 10 years since I last painted but none of his paint is right for painting the ceiling or walls.
I enjoy painting. Have even been paid to paint people's homes because I learned how to from a professional and do a very nice job of it.

Anyways...
Think I will just sit inside today and watch Russian car crash videos and zombie movies on Youtube.

Hope all your day today is going better. :)
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Tatoulia
Posted: 21 August 2016 - 07:13 PM
Hi Tillie! What a colossal pain.

I'm just doing routine maintenance today. My recycling had built up--I treated myself to a case of seltzer--glad to get that out of the house. The seltzer is delicious.
.
Humidity is returning tonight. I have work at the office tomorrow (generally I work from home on Mondays, which really cuts down on that Sunday night feeling). I finished my slides for Tuesday but haven't done for following week yet.

Doing one last load of laundry and I might need to run dishwasher tonight. Kitty has all clean dishes/placemat/etc. she's been playing dead all day, lounging under a table on her back. Can't blame her.

I still haven't PLUS to my Indoor Challenge. But I believe in me.

Hope everyone's doing okay. Please post even if just to say "hey."
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Tillie
Posted: 21 August 2016 - 06:46 PM
Hi :)

What a pain in the butt this has been.
This morning without even asking me
my computer did a huge update thingie.
Been working at it off & on all day to reset and or delete crap.
I blame it all on windows 10 ;P
It was so slow with freezing and a lot of weird stuff happening.
Still have more to fix but at least I can type properly again, almost all the letters showing up as I type them, sorta.
Now it tells me that it will update again in a few minutes. >:(

Been a quiet day here with one huge clap of thunder followed by 15 raindrops.

:)
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Tillie
Posted: 21 August 2016 - 01:26 PM
Try try again

computer issues today :(

HI PEOPLES :D
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Tatoulia
Posted: 20 August 2016 - 09:03 PM
Thanks for the kind words, everyone.
Well I didn't do much today--sat around and binged on Mad Men. Changed sheets and did some laundry, worked on slide presentation and then spent dome nice time with boyfriend. Now going to jump into my nice clean bed and watch one more show.
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