Great to hear from you, Anony! So pleased that your plans are beginning to gel! Also, WTG for refusing to play your ex-BF's stupid games. Honestly, he loves the drama of having two women upset over him and yet he can't spend a minute alone. A giant good riddance--good for you to reject that same old story with the very hurtful consequences!
SubC you have s lot of work in the coming weeks! Did you find a dress yet for the wedding?
I am getting ready to see brother today. I could use a Saturday off but here I go again.
Anonymoniker
Posted: 11 August 2017 - 03:59 PM
Happy Hello to all!!! :D The earthbag home tour was fantastic & made me realize i can integrate many of the ideas id had into this method, like mosaic & non-structural mesquite wood! Its such a new method, there arent many books on it, but ive ordered one so far! I thought id lost my beloved turquoise tape measure, and it turned up in my purse?! HA! Ive got my new ozonator going in the living room for mold & yuckiness. Ive put things in the spots the cats would sleep, to ward them off while its running. The tarp over the roof is staying put. Im happy with this plan, so far! My ex has been texting his 'undying love for me', that is until his other ex came back..ha ha...i am in such a better place with that compared to this time last year! YEA!!! I may go to the pool & swim today. My mind is so much clearer & relaxed, now that i have a plan! I do still need to clear & clean out this trailer, but the whole plan is different now, so hopefully itll make that easier...hopefully....hmmm...♡ Im happy that CM's van window works & Tillie's smoke has cleared & i hope SubC's bunny paw heals & Tatoulia's washer is fixed soon & Porter gets things going soon, too?! And Hi, Joan! I love you all!
Anonymoniker
Posted: 11 August 2017 - 03:59 PM
Happy Hello to all!!! :D The earthbag home tour was fantastic & made me realize i can integrate many of the ideas id had into this method, like mosaic & non-structural mesquite wood! Its such a new method, there arent many books on it, but ive ordered one so far! I thought id lost my beloved turquoise tape measure, and it turned up in my purse?! HA! Ive got my new ozonator going in the living room for mold & yuckiness. Ive put things in the spots the cats would sleep, to ward them off while its running. The tarp over the roof is staying put. Im happy with this plan, so far! My ex has been texting his 'undying love for me', that is until his other ex came back..ha ha...i am in such a better place with that compared to this time last year! YEA!!! I may go to the pool & swim today. My mind is so much clearer & relaxed, now that i have a plan! I do still need to clear & clean out this trailer, but the whole plan is different now, so hopefully itll make that easier...hopefully....hmmm...♡ Im happy that CM's van window works & Tillie's smoke has cleared & i hope SubC's bunny paw heals & Tatoulia's washer is fixed soon & Porter gets things going soon, too?! And Hi, Joan! I love you all!
Isubclinical
Posted: 11 August 2017 - 07:18 AM
Wow tatoulia! I have been painting and my kitchen has descended into squalor. Something must be done today.
I am so happy that the tires are out and that CM's window is fixed! Wonderful that it was under warrantee too!
CM, keep resisting the dolls! There will be time later when you have your own place and all of your sewing is set up and you need new inspiration for your tiny clothing line - that is when you buy another doll.
Next week dd leaves for college and I will be running around the house rounding up things to send to her apartment. The following week is classroom set up and I will be rummaging through the studio finding things to donate to my class. There should be more breathing room around here by September.
I brought home one loaf of bread for people from the food bank again this week. This week we got buried in French bread and cinnamon raisin English muffins.
Tatoulia
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 08:48 PM
THRN I scrubbed the kitchen sink and one of my counters.
In the bathroom after the floor I did the sink and vanity and toilet and I changed the shower curtain liner. I am very warm and sweaty but I did it in my skivvies. I cleaned the toothbrush holder and the soap dish. I need to do the tin and mirror, not tonight.
I am running the dishwasher now. I have to set out fresh water for the kitty and change her box. I would love to vacuum but I washed the filter and it needs to dry before I can use it.
Very good feeling here! Will shower soon. Want to get garbage gathered up so tomorrow isn't a chore in the AM. I going in to office tomorrow and just once on a Friday I'd like to be under an hour late.
Tatoulia
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 07:28 PM
Ps--so sorry about bunny's foot. Keep us posted, CM. I love all furry creatures.
Tatoulia
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 07:27 PM
What a lovely story, Tillie. You are a gentle kind soul.
Cm!! So happy about the window! Congrats! I don't know a thing about Steampunk or Dr Who -- I hope you enjoy yourself!!!!
Something came over me and I'm washing my bathroom floor. Since I'm sure you've all just fainted, I'll write more once you've come-to.
Tillie
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 04:51 PM
Hi CriticalMass :) YIPPEE!!! :D That's wonderful!
So sorry Bunny has an abscess :( Try cleaning the area with peroxide and hopefully it will drain and go away.
I would so go with a Dr. Who theme but that's just me ;D
Our fingers are crossed and we are holding our breath that the storage plans get done in September. (((hugs)))
Tillie
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 04:43 PM
Hi Tatoulia :) BIG BIG (((((HUGS)))) Thank you
Wonderful that you & Mom will be going away for a few days. Once my Granma gave me some money from some insurance Granpa had. I told her that I knew exactly what I was going to spend it all on. I made her go back home to Quebec Canada because she was always talking about Canada and everything that she missed. Of course she argued with me but I did not give in. The check was big enough that she was able to go back home during all four seasons of the year because she could not decide which season there was the most wonderful.
Whenever I leave a cat or cats alone for a few days I always leave a larger bowl of dry food and a larger bowl of water along with the regular food and water bowls. Even though someone was coming by daily it helped the cat not worry about their food situation. I also leave something I have been wearing laying on the bed or chair. A sweater or robe with my scent on it. Keeping your kitty home will probably be less stressful for her and cats do well alone for a few days. In fact I have left a cat home alone for two whole days with nobody coming by and he never had any issues with it, except that he let me know how much he missed me and I had to hold him for about half an hour soon as I got home. It's so great that you have that other washer right there and nobody is hogging it. Hope your home work has been rewarding today! :D
All day today the wildfire smoke has been gone YEA!!!
CriticalMass
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 04:22 PM
Good afternoon, everybody!
Guess what I did today. I pushed a little button in my van - and the driver's side window went down! Felt so good! And that's not all - the part was under warranty, so I only paid for labor, which brought the total to less than half of what I had expected.
My big girl bunny has a sore heel, and I might need that money saved to take her to the vet. I've been putting coconut oil on her foot for a couple of nights, but she may need to have the abscess removed. It's not that big, and I wouldn't have discovered it except that the other day we took bunnies for a nursing home visit and she was up on a table and leaning forward, so her heel was right where I caught sight of the spot.
Tillie, hope Scooter's eye is better. And the smoke situation for all of you.
SubC, good job resisting those garage sales - and I like the tip about asking oneself where 30 new things or 300 would go. Definitely an idea to make me pause and mentally image my existing space. And if I'm brutally honest, the answer would be "I haven't a clue." So I must curb the acquisition. It has slowed to a trickle. I bought one more Barbie doll but I'm stopping, not even going to go down that aisle in the store.
My quilt is progressing and I'll have it gone and be able to sew on doll clothes and quilt blocks from my stash, and brainstorm where I'll sell the doll clothes. The quilts automatically will go to charity, usually my church, perhaps some to other places.
Gearing up for a local ComicCon this weekend. Was going to sew a new pair of steampunk gloves, but then realized my steampunk hat is a mess and I'd wanted to make a new, smaller one. The week's getting on; I feel lazy! So I may go with a Doctor Who vibe instead - wear my Tardis hat and blue clothing and carry my sonic screwdriver. :)
The next weekend is our big bunny club event of the year, and it's been discombobulated due to the venue changing their minds about allowing us to do fundraising. I'm still not sure who is doing what in terms of educational booths. When I find out, I'll get to work with my signage and brochures or whatever I need to do.
We're having unseasonably cool weather for August where I am. Muggy sometimes though. But it's supposed to dry out and remain lower than average temperature wise. So I can foresee having some time to go to the storage unit and prep for the move. I'm keeping my fingers crossed it can really happen in September! The van window is a done deal; that gives me a sense of hope that other major "loose ends" of my life can actually get tied up.
Tatoulia
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 02:01 PM
Tillie you are such a sweetheart. I love hearing about your life. Your father sounds like a remarkable man, and I am sure he was proud of you. I know that you amaze me everyday with your knowledge, education, compassion and patience. I would love to have you as a close neighbor. And I'm serious, Tillie, if you ever need anything I will take care of you.
Well I scheduled a trip to take mom "home" up north in September. When she was sick earlier this year she asked to go one last time. I now have it scheduled. We will go for a quick trip for only three nights and will stay st my friend's house. I am glad I can do for her. Her cleaning lady can feed the cat and I will feed my little pumpkin on the day I leave and ask BF to stop by the next day and then I'll be home the third day. I think my little buddy will do okay. I think it's easier than sending her to BF's. Tillie do you have any insight? She is now 13. She eats both wet food and dry food and is very very good about drinking out of her water bowls.
I am going to get moving on the house today. I want to keep working on my work for now. I did a nice load of laundry today. My handyman is back from vacation but hevhirt his back and won't be here til next week. With the nice machines downstairs, I am fine with it (but I didn't mention that, I merely said, feel better).
SybC it is so hard to find a dress when you absolutely need one. Have you tried Thredup? I believe they have fast shipping and easy returns. I've sold some of my dresses through there.
Tillie
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 11:44 AM
Good Morning Everybody :) Ice tea "Clink!
Hi Tatoulia :) Thank you. If I lived closer to you I would put up your chandelier. My Father was a master electrician and growing up I learned a lot from him. He and I completely rewired this house together. He wired the computer control panels for the space shuttle launch pad and lots of other very impressive jobs. So I would do your chandelier properly for you. (((HUGS)))
Hi Subclinical :) WAY TO GO! for keeping to your shopping list. The goat needs that collar so it was not a splurge ;D Nobody here would think it strange you have a goat. You see pickup trucks with small baby cows at the grocery store and sometimes horses, cows & deer walking down the street. One night I had to call the Sheriff because there were about 24 cows standing in my front yard. Wishing you good luck finding a pretty dress (((HUGS)))
I have no pressing chores to do today. YEA!!! :D Will do some laundry and wash dishes but otherwise I can just putter around all day.
We all need to brainstorm ideas for inspiration and motivation. Playing games like "beat the clock". Fill the trash can as fast as you can while a song plays. Help when we are stuck. Breaking down big tasks into smaller more do-able bites help. But what would be inspiring? A mental image of what it will be like? The freedom of having it all behind us? Peace of mind? Having the time to do the things we love doing? We all need goals and plans, things to strive for.
Subclinical
Posted: 10 August 2017 - 05:59 AM
Tillie, I am glad you got a new dress!
I did not get a new dress. I looked in every store in the mall two near the mall, and two upscale resale stores. I am now looking online and hoping the color will be ok.
All I brought home off list was a grocery store sample cup and a new collar for one of the goats who has never had a collar.
When I checked out I had a big bag of cat food, the collar, a bag of nuts, and pineapple juice (lunch). The checker asked "new dog?" And I said "really big cat." He looked a little taken back, so I said "no, really I have a goat." Then he really looked like he thought I had lost it. I had to explain that I don't actually live in the city, I was just shopping there.
Tatoulia, it's really great that this group has helped you get to where you can get rid of your bookcases. Now you can have something you really love instead. And you can go visit them at your bf house. ;)
Today I stay home and paint, and then I go to the food bank. We ate the loaf of bread from last week.
Tatoulia
Posted: 09 August 2017 - 09:08 PM
Congratulations on the better weather and the lovely new dress, Tillie!!!
Tillie
Posted: 09 August 2017 - 04:41 PM
Hi Everybody :) Ice tea "CLINK!" with lime ;D
Hi CriticalMass :) YEA!!! :D
Hi Subclinical :) WTG! on the bunny pen! :D
Hi Tatoulia :) Good luck locating that tape measure. I know exactly where mine is. ;D Keep being inspired by the new decorating plans. (((hugs)))
The cooler temps have really helped me and my garden. We both don't feel all worn out and defeated all the time. Went to town yesterday to get drinking water and rubber gloves. The gloves are for when I use plant killer on the small trees trying to grow where I had all those old nasty trees removed a little while back. Stopped by the thrift shop and found the most lovely teal blue NEW dress, my size! Cost 2.00 LOL ;D So another one of my ratty old worn out ones will be leaving. Felt so good this morning I spent time outside and washed 3 windows and the storm door. Then I sprayed the plants with Miracle-Gro plant food. Swept and hosed off the porch & walkway. Been so long since I did anything outside but water. Really need to wash the car since the birds have been crapping all over it. Maybe someday soon I will do that.
Tatoulia
Posted: 09 August 2017 - 03:33 PM
Iced tea clinks! I just brewed a fresh pitcher!
Beautiful sunny day with no humidity. I've been working from home-easily did two loads of laundry today. My friend sent her drawings and I am so pleased with her ideas! I am hoping my drapes are done this weekend so I can have handyman hang the rods for me. I am recthinking having him do the chandelier/I'd like someone a little more professional to do it. I haven't yet been able to search for the chain I'll need to lengthen it. Plus I'll need to wire lengthened. I believe handyman is coming tomorrow to work on my washer. It's been going very well downstairs but still I'd like to see my washer fixed. I may at some point decidecyo do larger loads downstairs. Up here, it takes two loads to do my sheets, where the big machine downstairs could do two pair without breaking a sweat.
I am hoping to find some inspiration tonight and get some work around the house done!!!
SubC I found my little tape measure which is helpful for now. I still need to find my large one so I can measure my walls. My artist friend is looking for my new shelves. And needs the dimensions. I think I mentioned this but BF says he'd love to take my current bookcases. They are very beautiful solid wood but I have never been happy with the height (too short for my 12' ceilings) and also, they do not fit into the new plan. I would have never been able to consider letting them go had I not found this group.
Subclinical
Posted: 09 August 2017 - 08:59 AM
Tatoulia, I hope you find your tape measure! Tape measures are really important for planning reorganization!
I have to go into the city today.
First I have to order the kitchen counters and cabinet knobs.
Then I have to go down to the studio where I take classes to glaze the one piece I actually completed in my class. And buy firing cones.
Then I have to go to the mall to buy a dress to wear to ds's wedding, because it has been determined that nothing I own is acceptable and I have been haunting second hand shops all summer with no luck. The wedding is in 24 days.
Then I meet dh, my girls, and my son in law for dinner to celebrate Dd's birthday (she went out with her friends last night)
The good news is that the dress (and dinner, and the cabinet knobs) is on dh credit card, not mine. (He told me "look, you are running out of time. Just let me buy you a dress and be done.") :)
The counters will go on my cc, but then we will pay it off with the line of credit we opened for construction. The interest rate is really low and I pay $500 a month on it in the months I have a paycheck and dh pays the regular payment, so we can pay it down faster. By putting the cabinets on my cc, I get 1% of the cost back.
Anyway, hopefully I will avoid any snares that cross my path.
Tatoulia
Posted: 08 August 2017 - 08:43 PM
Thanks for the drive by CM! Helloooo Tillie & Anony!
My goal tomorrow is to find my tape measures. I can't find any of them and it is hindering me.
Tatoulia
Posted: 08 August 2017 - 08:41 PM
WTG SubC! Wow!
Subclinical
Posted: 08 August 2017 - 03:33 PM
I can't post a picture
I made the bunny pen!
The bunny loves it!
I had to use a 3'x12" piece of wire shelving I had previously hoarded, plus a lot of zip ties for construction and hinges, and a bungee cord to hold the lid shut, all available in my barn.
I was also able to use four of the plastic end caps from the "new" shelving to replace the Easter themed rubber erasers that have been standing in for missing end caps on the cut ends of the wire shelving that is installed in our closet.
I'm not sure how dh will be able to find his shirts without a bright purple rabbit to guide him, but hopefully he'll adjust.
Left over from my purchase I have: 10 metal angle braces 1 16"x17" shelf A wire bracket thingy with four hooks on it that I may end up using somewhere.
I bought the stuff for the project. And then I did the project!
Subclinical
Posted: 08 August 2017 - 01:01 PM
Hooray for getting the van window fixed!
I had to go into town.
I stopped at the goodwill (I did not take stuff to drop off) I spent $27 😳
I have been noticing that several pairs of my shorts have been showing significant wear, so I decided I needed one or two new pairs. I tried on 16 and bought my 2 favorite. - $8 They had two immersible blenders which are on my "always buy" list at $5 or less because I use them for so much in the studio that they are not intended for and they burn out every few years. I was down to one. - $9. So far, not so bad.
But then, a gallon ziplock bag of foam stamps jumped into my cart (so much fun in the studio for just $1!) and I found a bundle of 6' wire shelving - $10. (Minus discount, plus tax)
Here was my thought on the shelving - it is 18" wide. So if I turn it on it's side, it is 18" tall. I have had a "yard playpen for the bunny" on my buy list for a long time. I can use bolt cutters to cut the shelving so that it makes a rectangle 6' long by (I'm not sure yet how wide, but at least 2') and put a lid on it with more shelving and the bunny can play outside safe from Hawks when I'm not watching her.
I bought myself a project. I don't need another project. But it's not returnable, and it was under $10. Where am I going to find a bunny pen for less than $1/ sqft?
CriticalMass
Posted: 08 August 2017 - 08:42 AM
Really fast drive by - but had to share the exciting news:
I'm getting the van window fixed on Thursday! Woohoo!
Will go back through posts and also give more detailed update on my little corner of the world ASAP.
Hope all is going well with everyone.
Hugs & clinks, CM
Subclinical
Posted: 08 August 2017 - 06:14 AM
Coffee clink.
Tillie,
I'm glad it is getting cooler there. Heat is exhausting all by itself, let alone having to go out and water things in smoky air!
I don't think I'd mind a bit of "campfire" in my air dried laundry. But everyone's poor eyes! Have you ever tried putting clary sage in the water for your eyes? It's supposed to be soothing.
Tatoulia,
so exciting about the shelf changes!
One thing that frustrates me about the construction project is that I have not been able to put my dolls back out where I can really enjoy them. Every time I would start to get them set up, we would need to do another thing and my spaces would get all jumbled and broken up again.
That is part of why I am concentrating on the studio now. I need to wait until all the construction is done before I tackle any more big hous reorganization projects.
I think dh and I are probably the slowest construction crew on the planet. We started this in February 2015.
Porter, that is a great idea for using electronic storage to keep things easily accessible. I am trying to move toward that with my pottery ideas.
I used to buy a lot of stuff and tear things out of magazines or photocopy them from books and then set the objects around the studio and tape the pictures all over the walls, but I am moving more toward taking photos on my iPad. I haven't figured out a really good way to organize them yet though. I don't think I am a Pinterest/Instagram type person.
Today I have to go to the grocery store and make a cake. It's Dd's birthday.
porter
Posted: 07 August 2017 - 11:11 PM
Just reading the first lines of tillies post that s Czech N.
minimalism. I resort to minimal ism . on my book case I have my top 20 books. but i have over 1000 books in my hoard..
I've learned to take pictures of passages on my phone. then put in slu de e show.
while this may seem silly barely useful to normal thinkers. I had a tbi when i was young. And I forget things . Alot more than I believe everyone else does. So when I read some these passages in screensaver. I remember alot more than just the passage.
I used to keep alot of books out in open. But as my dwelling get smaller the books go into the hoard. And now the information that ive highlighted and put into a .jpeg format is represented as a sssingle . Period. and when i click on it. I connect with some my past. I still can't part with the books. But i have only need click.
good night. Hoping all is well.
Tillie
Posted: 07 August 2017 - 08:00 PM
Hi Tatoulia :)
Shelves with books are nice but display shelves/cabinets are so much more lovely to look at. Being able to see and enjoy all your treasures at a glance would be so good for your soul. My antique secretary desk has the glass enclosed display case built in on the left side. This is where I keep my most treasured treasures and I really enjoy seeing these things every day. YEA!!! for a new litter box! ;D Have fun looking at the plans for your home. :D (((HUGS)))
Tatoulia
Posted: 07 August 2017 - 05:30 PM
So glad you got fresh produce, Tillie. I know Scooter appreciates your taking car of his eyes.
I did laundry today and got all the garbage out. Kitty has a brand new litter box. I received my friend's drawings for my home. I'm pretty excited. I need to study them more. I will print them tomorrow at work.
Her ideas are wonderful. I may be getting rid of my bookshelves altogether. It will challenge me but not break me. If we can get some shelving to display my treasures, I can put the books on my closet shelves. We shall see. Her plans have me getting different bookshelves but I think I'm ready to get display shelves and not have my books out and about.
Tillie
Posted: 07 August 2017 - 09:41 AM
Good Morning Everybody :)
Hi Anonymoniker :) So wonderful you have your friend there helping you! Yes, lots of times (most times) good enough is really good enough (((hugs))) Have fun & learn lots at the earth bag tour.
Hi Tatoulia :) WTG! for finding that perfect and lovely chandelier! It's GREAT that the washer is not being totally occupied by someone else and you are able to keep up with your laundry. (((hugs))) I don't hang out wash or even go out at times when the smoke is the heaviest but wait till the winds change and it's not too thick. When I bring in the laundry I always love to smell it and it's been smelling to me like fresh line dried laundry but to someone elsewhere it probably would have some smokiness to it. Scooter's eyes are looking terrible. All red rimmed and weepy. I keep soothing them with a wet wash cloth and he says that does help a little. Mine are irritated and I am still coughing a lot. Thank you for asking :)
Hi Subclinical :) You are going great at the "not acquiring" and also for finding things that you can now let go of. WAY TO GO! :D
WAY TO GO!!! Everybody for resisting those sales, specials and freebies!
The weather has cooled down nicely. Will only get in the mid 90s this week. Still smoky air but hoping it will stay thin and less of a nuisance. I am very tired, I think the word for this is exhausted. Need a vacation from my life. Trying to keep things outside watered enough, keeping the house tidy, keeping the cats needs dealt with, keeping the house cool enough and everything else has worn me out. Ran completely out of fresh produce for a couple of days but very early yesterday morning I ran to the grocery store and got FOOD! Was home again before it warmed up out there. YEA! me :D At 8:00am this morning I will go out and start to water. Hoping that with the cooler temps I won't have to water every other day to keep stuff from wilting.
Subclinical
Posted: 06 August 2017 - 08:17 PM
Yay for not buying earphones!
Not buying is twice as good as getting rid of. Because if you buy a new thing, even if you get rid of an old thing, you are back where you started, but poorer.
I need to proof read better. I don't know why, but autocorrect keeps changing "for" to "girl" even when I type it correctly.
Your chandelier sounds wonderful! I love that sort of thing, but it really doesn't go with my house, so I have to enjoy others'.
Tatoulia
Posted: 06 August 2017 - 07:09 PM
Thanks for the help, SubC! Today was spent with mom and then doing errands with BF. I changed my bed linens but nothing else. It's only 8 but I feel like climbing into bed, so I will.
Still papers to conquer here, SubC. With your help, I'll get there. This time next week I need them all to be gone. My draperies should be ready and I don't want anything on my dining room table when those are hung. I found a beautiful vintage crystal chandelier that I'll need hung above my table, so all around I'll need to finish up with all of that before the guy comes to put everything up for me.
Today while running errands I saw some sale earphones and I resisted the urge to buy them. I have a perfectly good pair already.
Keep up the good work, SubC!
Subclinical
Posted: 06 August 2017 - 05:37 PM
Tatoulia, sometimes you need a break. But if you are tired of papers (.or are you done with papers?!) can you Ho back to art or try a new area you haven't tried girl a while?
My dd1 begged me to keep the drum. She wants her children to be able to play with it here in the woods like she did. She offered to take two 18 gallon bins of toys I agreed to store for her until she has kids in order to make room.
I decided that one of the floor lamps in the studio can go. It took me over an hour if struggling with bad lighting to decide that. I may not be the sharpest tool in the shed. I moved the other floor lamp, which I also use for displays at bazaars, and suddenly I could see well and what I was doing became much easier! It takes at most a minute to move the lamp to where I am working, and there is only one of me, so I really only need one lamp. There is another lamp I might also get rid of (I had one at every work station).
Dh and I bought lights for the kitchen area of the addition today. And he also bought me a new mop for my studio - the kind they have at the studio where I take classes - very effective and easy to use. So I guess I also have an old mop to get rid of.
Tatoulia
Posted: 06 August 2017 - 09:32 AM
Hip hip hooray! SubC & Anony! Great work and self control!
Tillie you know how envious I am of your clothesline! Is there any smoky smell to the laundry? Or is everything one big smoky smell? How are your eyes? How are Marty's eyes?
I haven't done anything but I did, in my laundry obsession, sneak downstairs today for a quick load. No one was using it and this load I hang to dry. I've set my timer to run down as soon as it's done. It will help me from obsessing all day. Pretty pathetic on my part.
I will do my dishes and relax this AM before getting mom. She just called me/thought it was noon. It's only 10:30. Her eyesight is terrible. Plus she's probably just missing me.
Have a wonderful day! Any words to "unstick" me are greatly appreciated!!!!
Subclinical
Posted: 06 August 2017 - 07:47 AM
Anony, I'm very glad you are making progress toward a better living situation! Great that you will be able to ask somebody who is actually doing the construction about things like electric and plumbing!
Your friend is very sweet. Dibs are much harder to resist than sales!
I told myself yesterday "what if I go to the sale? I will probably find how many "treasures"? Three, five? I could do that every weekend all summer. And then there is next year, and the year after. Where would I put 30 more things? 300? Better to wait until I am better at this and have curated my own treasures. There will be plenty later." Also, the money. I am in a place right now where I need to not spend money. It is all going to wedding related stuff (did I tell you my son is getting married in September?) and the new addition.
Anonymoniker
Posted: 06 August 2017 - 12:17 AM
~☆♡☆~Hello, to all you wonderful fun forum friends!~☆♡☆~ SubC, Im facing a similar situation with my friend whose nice trailer offer i declined. She's now offering me first dibs on all her stuff before her yard sale, then moving in with the new boyfriend. Im just not good being practical with that sort of thing any more?!? Good for you, for avoiding yours! Tillie, i just love your beautiful perspective on things! I hope those fires go out soon?! That is so scary! A quick-ish drive by....things are moving nicely! The tarp is on & my friend has been awesome! Shes been a fantastic guide with my stuckness! That saying 'good enough is good enough' really works! As we were figuring out the tarp, she was great in kind of teaching me how to move through the decision making process of each problem?! Tomorrow were going to an earthbag home tour & ill have a better idea of what this entails! Im excited & inspired & feel strong! Today flowed beautifully & i got a lot done! ~☆♡☆~Love & Light & Goodness to you all!~☆♡☆~
Subclinical
Posted: 05 August 2017 - 08:42 PM
I made it through the who,e day without heading out my driveway. :)
I worked in my studio instead. Much fun and have two empty kitty litter buckets (I use the kitty litter buckets to store clay - mostly used but not fired clay waiting to be reworked for use again.
One bucket had dry clay in it, and I poured that clay into a different bucket to soak (step one) but then when I tried to wash the bucket, it had a crack in it - no good!
So I will set they bucket aside as a "trash can" in my studio and throw it in the dumpster at school when I go to set up for open house in a couple of weeks.
The other bucket was fine, so it will go to school to be used by a student - I try to give each high school student a bucket to keep their clay in, the younger kids get ice cream pails. We usually run out of buckets (lids usually, they wear out and break) and some of the high schoolers have to use ice cream pails too.
I will not need the buckets any more because I will not get this far behind reworking the clay again - I am going to rework it as I go so it doesn't pile up any more. Eventually almost all of the kitty litter buckets will be at school and I will have reclaimed about 15 square feet of floor space.
The clay will be beautiful pottery which I will sell so I can buy good things like goat food and classes and better equipment and blueberry bushes. :)
I wedged 25lbs today and it will be ready to use tomorrow.
Tillie, the clothes line is the first nice thing about your weather!
I used to have a clothes line, but we took it down for the construction and haven't put it back. I miss it, but the weather has been so humid here this summer that I think clothes would dry in about two days - if it didn't rain.
My yard hasn't dried out enough for dh to grade it since first thaw.
Tillie
Posted: 05 August 2017 - 06:15 PM
Hi Everybody :) "Clink!"
Hi CriticalMass :) YEA! for a good battery and fingers are crossed that your window gets fixed soon and not too expensively. You're doing great looking at the storage with a critical eye as to how things will be moved and finding the excess that can go. (((HUGS)))
Hi Subclinical :) WAY TO GO! for finding more things that can be donated and especially for knowing how much bread the chickens can eat. Hope you were strong and stayed away from that sale. (((HUGS)))
Hi Tatoulia :) Hope you are having a very pleasant weekend. (((HUGS)))
The heat and thick smoke have given me a nasty sick headache for days. I cough a lot and my eyes hurt. Did manage to get up early yesterday and do some very needed cleaning in here. The bathroom and floors were getting nasty and I just had to clean them, or move out. LOL ;D Laundry all dries on the clothes line in an hour or less. That's nice, almost like owning a clothes dryer only the sunshine is free to use. Weather forecast is for temps that are high but none any longer in the three digit range. Now if they can just get those wildfires put out.
TTYS :D
Tatoulia
Posted: 05 August 2017 - 09:26 AM
Stay strong, SubC! Remember your hard work on cleaning off those shelves--you cleaned them off for YOU and not to fill with someone else's junk. JUNK not treasures.
I'll repeat these words to myself as I go out in the world today.
Sending everyone much love and strength today.
Special love to Tillie. Thinking of you and the little furry friends.
Subclinical
Posted: 05 August 2017 - 08:47 AM
Today is the community wide yard sale in my little town.
I am not going out.
Subclinical
Posted: 04 August 2017 - 12:05 PM
Hi again!
Worked in my studio this morning and cleared off three more shelves to create a drying center (net time saver) also found two plastic bowls that I bought to use for molds (investment of $1) but I decided they are not all that great, so I added them to the goodwill pile.
And I forgot to tell you that I only brought home ONE loaf of bread from the food bank, and a little unsealed bag of pumpkin seeds (unsealed bags can't be given out), both for me to eat - we got 50 loaves of fresh challah and out of 21 customers gave away 2. They won't be good on Monday, so everybody took one. Hopefully the rest got taken this morning.
Subclinical
Posted: 04 August 2017 - 06:55 AM
Clink!
CM, I am so glad about your van! And the art box. Did you take the art home with you to make decisions?
Tatoulia, shredding is hard work! Too bad the kitties won't use shredded paper in their box - you could skip the errand. ;)
Thinking cool rain thoughts for Tillie.
My replacement baby chicks arrived this morning. When I went to get the chick waterer that attaches to a mason jar, I couldn't find it. I think I must have given it away. I'm not sure how I feel about that. I haven't ordered chicks for several years, and those waterers are only a few dollars... So probably good.
I used the big gallon waterer which I would have needed to switch to after a week or so anyway, but I need to find a bigger bin for the chicks to live in because they are crowded with the big waterer.
Tillie
Posted: 03 August 2017 - 09:52 PM
Hi Everybody :)
Just checking in... Only got up to 106 degrees today. But the heat stirs up thunder storms and that raises the humidity. No rain out anywhere near me though but today got lots of thick wildfire smoke. At least this smoke smells nice like a pine campfire rather than like burning weeds and salt grass. Either way it's still irritating. By Saturday it's supposed to only get up into the 90s, YEA! ;p
Ice tea "CLINKS" to everybody.
Tatoulia
Posted: 03 August 2017 - 03:45 PM
That's good news re the battery, CM! I do think you'll be able to move the stuff to a closer storage. As the date nears, you may feel a surge of energy. I emptied mine once, ahead of schedule. I got rid of everything, however. I kept Christmas stuff only, and distributed or donate ld the rest. Your case is vastly different since these are your possessions you'll need when back in your own home! But I have faith you'll continue to make progress--throwing away that box must've felt great!
I havent done much other than shredding today. I do need to go buy some kitty litter. Want to get the garbage out before leaving for the evening.
CriticalMass
Posted: 03 August 2017 - 11:55 AM
Quick post for now
Tillie - 110 degrees - yowza! Hope that does not last long!
SubC and Ebunny - with regard to dealing with the hoarding situations of your family members - this may be abstract and general, but do remember that every day more is being understood about this problem and there is more hope than ever before. I say this to myself regarding my own: It can only get better with awareness and determination.
Yesterday I got my van's battery checked and it passed with flying colors! YESSSS!!! So I can go ahead and spend the money I was saving to get the window fixed as planned.
Today is payday and run around and pay bills day. If I get a spare moment I'll call my body shop guy; if not, tomorrow. He has been on vacation anyway. But ASAP, I'm going to hae a working driver's side window, which I haven't for well over a year. Closer to two years even - can't remember.
Went by storage yesterday because I was nearby and wanted a particular book. Did some quick eyeballing of how things are loking for the move in September (keep fingers crossed that it can happen!). Was relieved to find that a lot of books I'd packaged in plastic bags are still in them. That means that they can be moved in baskets if necessary even if it rains. Hoping whenever the move happens the weather will be ideal, though, of course.
Also looked in a huge box that had art from college. Turns out most of the box was empty wasted space, so I took out the art (which I'm not even sure I'm going to keep either) and chucked the big box in the dumpster. Quick things like that that I can do to prep for the move are easy wins. I'll be out there today to pay the rent but don't know if I'll do much, but maybe I can find one or two similar quick tasks and then be on my way.
Iced tea clinks with extra ice for Tillie!
Tatoulia
Posted: 03 August 2017 - 10:14 AM
Tillie!!! Oh my goodness! I cannot imagine. I love your menu--all good, cool things to eat.
I am working from home today and BF and I have plans tonight. I hope to get something done house-wise. Good advice--just move on if stuck instead of giving up.
Trash night (also recycle pick up, SubC) tonight. Always a good feeling.
SubC, I am sorry about your daughter's situation. So sad. But not hopeless, as we each prove every day.
Iced tea clinks! Shout out to Anony, CM, Porter, eBunny, LR and Diane. Missing you all. And Roxie snd Bitsy of course. If I left anyone out, unintentional.
Subclinical
Posted: 03 August 2017 - 06:21 AM
Oops, just realized I thought but didn't write - Tillie stay safe I side!
110!
That sort of thing is part of why I left Iowa! People were not meant to live in temperatures you can set on your oven!
Subclinical
Posted: 03 August 2017 - 06:19 AM
Tatoulia, I will be looking forward to hearing about your day!
My big job for the day is painting in the addition (I am very slow) so no clean out here, but this evening I go back to the food bank.
And I remember that I only have ten chickens now, so I can only use a few loaves of bread.
I am feeling sad for my oldest dd right now. She has been married for about a year and her dh is a hoarder. She didn't know this when they got together and she is probably the child who was most upset by my hoarding.
He is a keeper more than an accumulator, but his dad died shortly before he met dd, and then his mom remarried and sold the house. Dd jumped into action in the only way she knew how (I am feeling a lot of guilt here - our childhoods shape us so much) and rented a u-haul and told him to take anything he wanted, they would find room for it.
He was too overwhelmed to really sort and make decisions, so he basically took everything his mom let him have. Some of the stuff is supposed to go to his sister, but she is happy to have him store it.
The garage, basement, and second bedroom of their house are now packed full. He says he is sorting through things, but mostly he is churning. The garage flooded and dd called me really upset yesterday because he had spent the whole day bleaching little pieces of scrap wood (rescued from his parents' garage) that had gotten mildewed and he wants to buy plastic bins to protect his stuff.
I wish that I could help both of them, but I don't know how.
He has his dad's ashes. His dad left specific written instructions about where they should be scattered. It is less than two hours from here. Dd would drive him at the drop of a hat.
Tillie
Posted: 02 August 2017 - 10:58 PM
Hi :)
Hi Tatoulia :) WTG!!!! :D Keep up the great momentum. If something is slowing you down, making you resistant to tackle it just switch it up with something else. Make it a game, put on the music and dance. Whatever it takes to keep you moving toward your goals. (((HUGS)))
Hi Subclinical :) WTG! for doing the shelf & surface! :D Every little bit is GREAT!
Hi CriticalMass :) WAY TO GO!!!!! saving those precious bunnies! :D (((HUGS)))
Hi Ebunny :) A great book for you to read is "Digging Out". It's for people in your situation. Another good book is "Buried In Treasures" It's written mainly for the person who hoards but you can use it as sort of an instruction manual.
Hi Porter :) You have already done the groundwork helping your Daughter become the wonderful woman she is becoming. (((HUGS)))
110 degrees today. One Hundred Ten Degrees!!! :/ Tomorrow it's only supposed to get up to 105 or 106. The evaporative cooler and insulated black out drapes keep it a cool 80 degrees inside. :) I have freezer pops, made raspberry jello with mandarin oranges, celery with peanut butter and have a cantaloupe. Lots of green tea with lime juice and just plain water. There is no way I am turning on the stove to cook anything. LOL :D
Tatoulia
Posted: 02 August 2017 - 08:46 PM
WTG, SubC! Getting those areas cleared off must have felt good!
Tillie--just letting you know I am thinking of you!
I slept after work. We were having big thunderstorms and it felt like the right thing to do.
I could use some motivation for tomorrow. Still have piles of papers to go through and eliminate.
Subclinical
Posted: 02 August 2017 - 08:27 PM
Tatoulia, yay for your laundry!
I took care of the shelf and the work surface. Didn't actually discard anything though.
Tatoulia
Posted: 02 August 2017 - 02:01 PM
Hello everyone! I've finished my laundry. So easy!
Now to fold it and put away. There is distant thunder rumbles so kitty is under the bed.
Tatoulia
Posted: 02 August 2017 - 10:23 AM
Smooth sailing on the laundry! Have done two loads already with a third in the washer.
I'm sure doing the stairs is good for me too!
I'm doing kitty's laundry now. So she's a mix of unhappy and confused. Seeing that she's been spending a great deal of time on my white summer bedspread, I am surprised by how much she misses her sheets. Likely a ploy of some type.
Humid here. I think we are getting thunder showers tonight.