Tillie, I'm glad to know you are safe. The county in which the golf course is (fortunately not my county or my school's county - we live at the corner if 4 counties) declared a state of emergency and so the golf course is closed. So, no ice cream.
Dh is rearranging the house to create a home office and help me recreate the "classroom" I used when my bio kids actually homeschooled at home. I think he is bored. He also dug up a wireless headset from somewhere that I can hopefully use for teaching. We won't be sure until I get the computer.
The next nine weeks will be an adventure.
Tillie
Posted: 21 March 2020 - 10:22 AM
Good Morning Everyone
Hi CriticalMass
Hi Subclinical Yes, I really "get it". Since 1968 when I was finally old enough to understand, I have been depressed by what the people were doing to the planet and all things on it. With everything right now I feel a quiet sense of relief because the "noise" has finally stopped/slowed down. There is a weight that's been lifted from my psyche and soul, if only temporary. Just wish it didn't have to come to this to do it.
WTG! for getting some weeding done! That activity does so much more than clearing the garden beds.
Have fun with that facetime "do you want this?" WTG! your Mom for using this time to Spring Clean!
Enjoy your fire and good luck with your quiet indoor plans for today (((HUG)))
Yes, it is great that the Governor was finally able to make Steven stop acquiring. ;D
In Nevada you can find slot machines in grocery stores, convenience stores, gas stations, etc. The Governor also ordered all and every electronic gaming machine to be unplugged and all casinos closed so there is absolutely no gambling in the state. So all gambling addicts are suffering too but they can't go to gamblers anonymous meetings because the meeting places are all closed. They meet at the same place as AA and NA. But all the legal pot shops are still open.
Gambling addiction is a big problem in Nevada.
Been enough days that we have been isolated to safely say that as of yet Steven and I are not infected. Reno has many cases developing at this time.
Still too cold to hang out laundry or do yardwork today. Will do some food prep and see what else I feel like doing.
Stay well Everybody (((HUG)))
Subclinical
Posted: 21 March 2020 - 04:42 AM
Tatoulia,
I am so glad you got to see your mom!
Tillie,
It is nice if the governor to help with your acquisition problem.
While I agree that many people are probably fighting perfectly reasonable situational depression right now, I have to say that I actually feel better.
In my prepandemic world there were so many things that were wrong and horrible that I couldn't seem to do anything about, and people kept telling me that I just needed to accept them and not try so hard to find ways to change them because I couldn't fix everything and maybe I should seek treatment for depression. And I wanted to yell at them all the time - if you're not outraged, you're not paying attention.
And now we have a pandemic. And everyone agrees with me that the world is f-d up. And when people talk about feeling the way I did, other people say "well of course you are depressed, the world is f-d up." And they offer practical, functional ideas to make things better instead of saying "just accept it. That is how things are and you are making yourself crazy. Maybe you need drugs." (I mean, some people do need drugs. And some people do need mental health care because of this, and that is normal and they should get it. Even if they don't have money or insurance - see prepandemic version of f-d up. But a lot of us are just really upset for reasons.)
I did not need drugs, I needed to fix things. Just like we don't need to all get stoned, go on with our normal lives, and wait happily for people to stop getting sick and dying.
And all the people who kept telling me that I can't fix everything - and they were right - are upset and trying to change things even though they can't fix everything.
And even though this is horrible, there are specific concrete steps I can take that I know will actually make a difference. And not only are people not telling me I'm crazy, they are seeing some of the things I was seeing and talking about how they are actual problems we should try to fix.
Plus, clean water in Venice. There was no upside to the prepandemic pain.
That said - Dd is trying to get me used to the idea that I will not meet my grandson until he is maybe six months old, and yesterday I cried because I realized I will probably never see some if my seniors again (I'm crying a little again typing that.) Usually I don't cry until graduation.
So,Yesterday It got warm and I went out in the not raining and used a hand cultivator to pull all the weeds out of part of my garden beds. Today it is supposed to be cold again, so I am going to make a fire and work on my eight week teaching plan and my list of materials for family supply bags.
My mom is deep cleaning her entire house and we are planning a FaceTime call to play "do you want this".
Tillie
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 10:34 PM
That's so wonderful!!!!
(((((HUG)))))
So happy you got to see Mom :D
So sweet of the concierge to help.
I'm emotional, I know how much this meant for you to see her.
You not making your bed, me just sitting all day doing nothing are all signs of depression. It is very understandable at this time. EVERYBODY who is not in denial is depressed. This is normal and to be expected. Do not be hard on yourself, you are not being lazy or slovenly. But we must force ourselves to do every day things like making beds and cleaning litter boxes, etc. People's healthy diets are falling aside because many turn to comfort foods, eating too many sweets or other fattening foods, not bothering with eating veggies/fruit. That's ok too. I am sure many who imbibe are drinking and drugging more now too. But we must all reign in our self comforting behavior and do what's right so we can be as healthy as we possibly can. Most of all is we must forgive ourselves, be kind and then act like an adult, parent ourselves and do what we know we should be doing. We will all slip again and again during this time then pick ourselves up and start all over again. :)
Tatoulia
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 08:34 PM
Tillie, I got to see my mom!!! I spent the better part of the evening with BF while he worked. We watched the news, wheel of fortune, jeopardy, etc. then I decided to go to CVS to check on personal products for mom (her place is supposed to send them to her but they are over a week late, so I keep checking all the stores). On the way there, I was across the street from mom's and I kept staring at her three windows. After that, I continued to walk and I saw a few residents in the cafe, and one was in a pink top and I thought, I bet that's mom! So I knocked on the window and she was having trouble seeing me do the concierge opened up the vestibule, where I stood while mom came into the lobby. She had just checked her mail and had the Frank Lloyd Wright house postcard I had sent her.
So I definitely felt better!!!!!
Tillie my house is best and tidy but I've stopped making my bed. It's been years and years and years since I've left my bed unmade (except for a blip about a week or so ago). So I have to start doing it again. I'm not doing myself any favors by suddenly skipping the one thing that gives me pleasure and peace.
Love you all. It's unusually warm tonight. I just got out of the shower and I just finished washing my hair.
Tillie
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 05:25 PM
Hi Tatoulia Yeah, I'm still chuckling about that too. ;D
Glad you broke that news to BF instead of him having to see it on the news.
YEA! for your bright sunny day. Good that your grocery shops have necessary foods stocked.
Things in a big city being quiet in the daytime are probably unnerving. Happy you can make contact with BF to feel more connected to reality. (((HUGS)))
Vegging out on the couch watching videos. Cats napping beside me. Steven in his garage with his computer and spooky cans of food. ;p
Too cold and wet to hang out laundry, kitchen is clean, house is tidy.
Tatoulia
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 04:15 PM
Keep their hands off each other's balls!! I'm laughing so hard I'm snorting!
I am surviving! I am distracted and unfocused.
Well the stores are closed and yes, Steven will need to accept that. I had to break the sad news to BF that Lord & Taylor will be closed, thought he should hear it from me.
Bright and sunny after a somewhat dank day. I went to grocery store and bought a few cans of tuna and a fresh mayo for mom. I also got her sugar for her coffee and a fresh 1/2 and 1/2. I'll drop off tmr with some other things. I don't want to go so often that they are upset with me. So I'm making her a bag.
Ok going to visit BF. I'm panicking.
Tillie
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 02:16 PM
Another "win" for me...
His latest ranting is that he believes all businesses being closed is BS. That there is absolutely no reason for that and that it is not legal to do that.
I countered that it is legal and binding if the Governor declares it. Which he has.
Then he got all sad and resigned and said "Guess it doesn't matter anyways because no place is open anyways. :("
I believe he is going through non-acquiring withdrawals. So he will continue to stay here and shelter at home, for now. As long as he stays in I should be safe.
Tillie
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 11:44 AM
Good Morning Everybody "Clink!"
Hi Tatoulia Wonderful to hear from you :D
Fantastic idea writing post cards! Fortunate that you have that stash of interesting places.
WAY TO GO! keeping up with the daily tasks. Miss Kitty appreciates your care.
Good to hear that work-wise things are going well for both you and BF.
Keep taking naps as needed and try getting a good night's sleep. As long as you are staying hydrated I won't worry about your lack of appetite for now. (((((HUG)))))
Hi Subclinical LOL :D Yes, as long as they don't touch each other's balls DH should go golf so you can make ice cream.
Goats sunk up over their ankles in mud... Yeah, that would be a problem. ;D By the time it's safe to forage for honeysuckle there should be a nice crop of it out there.
True, sad that it has had to come to this to get people to slow down but the benefits to the planet are already visible. Water in canals in Venice are clear, cities with a lot of factories are seeing clear blue skies for the first time. And there are many other improvements that we have yet to see.
So far so good here. Down the road neighbors have all been running up and down the road for exercise. Mostly just the teens & preteens.
I would like everybody to do a Youtube search on (corona virus and NSAIDS)
The snow is still on the ground and it's below 30 degrees so it won't be melting soon. :D My plan for today is to drink my tea, eventually get dressed.
Everybody stay well :D
Subclinical
Posted: 20 March 2020 - 08:36 AM
It's weird for me. I hate that people are sick and unemployed, and things have shifted just a little too far for me, but my sweet spot is still far closer to the way we are all living life now than to the way we were living it a month ago.
My daughter used to say that if I didn't have kids I would go into town once a month for supplies.
They are having the first round of layoffs at dd2's work today. She has been told that her job is safe (today anyway). She was already looking for a new job before this, but of course, no one is hiring graphic designers right now - advertising, publications, branding, invitations, and retail....
Tillie,
I will put Tylenol on my grocery list. Eventually stores will resupply.
Yes, things grow like crazy. Mostly the weeds. The only good thing about the ground being muck is that the little honeysuckles pull out of the ground easily. But I have to be careful in the woods, because sometimes the trees fall over. Right now it is not raining, but very windy, so no foraging for honeysuckle.
The goats can't go outside today - they would sink over their ankles.
Dh says he is going to play golf on Sunday if the weather is nice and the course is open, so I can make ice cream then. In his words (off color humor if you want to skip down) "we are outside, we can stay six feet apart, we each have our own set of clubs and we don't touch each other's balls."
Tatoulia,
I'm glad your job is secure.
I think your postcard outreach is lovely! I am trying to figure out how to play scrabble on FaceTime with my mom. She has a weekly scrabble game with a friend and I know she is going to miss it. It can't be online, but I think if we both have a scrabble board, and I turn all my letters face up in the box, she can draw for both of us, put my letters in a tray facing the camera, and I can say, ok, pick up tiles 1,3,5, and 6, and play them like this: and then show her on my board - I could just grab whatever letters she plays out of my face up options and we would each have the same board, but she would have to cover the little window on her screen that shows her what I am seeing, or she could see my letters. I think she could maybe teach her friend to do that too.
It is official that family material pick up day will be Thursday. I will prepare all the materials ahead, so I am still planning on Monday and maybe also Tuesday. My next adventure....
Tatoulia
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 11:17 PM
Hello everyone! Good to read your posts! We are doing this!
I dropped off a case of cat food and bread and a magazine for mom today. She sounds really good. She's enjoying the postcards I'm sending her everyday. I once bought a ziplock bag of postcards someone had collected. From all different museums, some of which I've been to. So I'm writing one a day to mom telling her how much I love her. I'm having trouble talking on the phone but I try to get a few minutes in with her.
We too had rain today! Glad you got some, Tillie, although that is unfortunate about the buds on your trees.
Cm and SubC, you are both doing so well! And I feel like you are both accomplishing so much. I hope to be able to accomplish soon. Today after work, I took my garbage out, cleaned my furry friend's litter box, then went straight to bed. I will spend time with BF tomorrow night. I know he wanted to go for a walk today but I was tired and really looking forward to my nap.
So off to bed for me. I'll see what the weekend brings. Bf has decided to stop working as much and for that I am grateful. Not grateful money-wise but grateful that he can work on some projects at home. And get some rest.
My company is financially strong and is showing solid and steady leadership. Our Boston office continues to be closed. But we are operating as business as usual and for that I am grateful.
I may try to pop in the grocery market tomorrow to see if I can find anything. I don't have much for food right now but I also do not have an appetite.
I did buy some Pepperidge Farm chessman cookies for mom. I think eventually they will put the kibosh on my dropping off things every day. But I'm trying to give her something to look forward to. Like the mail.
Oh I've been sending museum postcards to our friends' children. Today I sent one with a picture of a trolley from a museum in Maine, and I suggested they learn a song or poem about a trolley or to write a song or poem. Anything to help the parents out. These friends offered us to move I. With them during this time. I used to work with the wife and she is a gentle soul. I believe it was BF and my first wedding together. Ah we were so young!
Tillie
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 10:33 PM
Hi Subclinical
With all the rain you get I suppose the weeds grow nicely. In California they have goats they use to keep areas clear to help prevent wildfire. Someone offered me 3 free pigmy goats once and I wanted them for weed eating but Steven said "no".
With things all up in the air right now you need to utilize all the resources available and weeds/honeysuckle are free.
The wild Tom Turkey that lived here used to especially enjoy dandelions.
Those raging winds blew all the buds off my Apricot tree. Wishing you a bumper crop of fruit! Didn't check the rhubarb last few days but have been thinking about how I'll have cobbler soon.
Hope you can find a time when your DH will be not working in the house so you can make a batch of ice cream. Does he have headphones?
Best wishes that you find an easy enough way to do online teaching. People make online things look easy but they are beyond my capabilities to master. Maybe you can find someone online to walk you through some of this?
WAY TO GO! for cleaning and especially for staying in touch with family. :)
Relieved your friend seems to be doing better. With things as they are right now I hope nobody gets even so much as a paper cut.
You bought ibuprofen, I have that too. There have been some medical personnel on youtube saying that people who take acetaminophen (Tylenol) do much better than those who use ibuprofen or aspirin for virus relief, fever, aches, headache. Something about how the ibuprofen or aspirin (NSAIDS) interfere with our body's ability to deal with virus. Just something to keep in mind.
Stay well everyone :)
Subclinical
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 07:51 PM
Tillie, I am very glad you have wet of any kind.
My daffodils are blooming too, but most of them have been beaten down by the rain. Buds on the apricot and peach, rhubarb peeping up, lilac budding and honeysuckle(invasive bush) in small leaf. Usually I curse the honeysuckle, but I think this year I will need it for the goats - for a notable part of their diet, not just treats.
I almost have enough eggs and milk to make ice cream. But dh will be working from home the next two weeks (plus tomorrow) and the ice cream maker noise irritates him, so I don't know....
Tillie, I'm glad Steven is less hostile.
CM, did you get a nap?
I spent some time today trying to figure out the online teaching thing. It is going to be hard.
Cleaned the barn a little, picked up the living space, and talked with my cousin and my dd1. Ran a load of dishes too.
My art teacher friend seemed better.
Tillie
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 07:05 PM
THE RAIN HAS TURNED TO SNOW! :D
Tillie
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 07:02 PM
Hello :)
IT'S RAINING HERE!!!
It's a bit nicer in here with less dust coating things. Kitchen is clean too.
It's Spring today but the weather is more like Winter. Forgot to mention that I have Daffodils blooming now. The Hyacinth bud stalks grow higher every day and the flower buds are getting big and fat. Lilacs and Honeysuckle are looking promising.
Tillie
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 03:40 PM
Good Afternoon Everybody
Hi CriticalMass Happy you will be in touch with your family members. :)
YEA! the exterminating was done!
Happy you had a group prayer, there will probably be many more in this time.
Good luck with the errands and with getting some take out. Little treats like that help.
WAY TO GO! for laundry and mini decluttering tasks! Keep it up little by little and soon it will all join together and make a HUGE difference. ;D
I could not find Twinkle's special hairball kibble anywhere so I ordered it online. With everybody doing online shopping right now it will take a little while to get here. But better late than never.
I have accomplished nothing today but a little dusting. Overcast, cold & dark.
I think somebody straightened Steven out online. His attitude has completely turned around and he is now taking this virus and sheltering in place seriously. Still has not washed his hands and has not showered for 4 days which is where I believe his hands may get a little bit clean.
Oh well, at least he is no longer angry and hostile and trying to find a reason to leave the property. There is no reason or place to go. ;)
CriticalMass
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 10:04 AM
We survived the termite man. We both want to nap. I'm going to call my only uncle and aunt on my mom's side this morning. He is 91-1/2. Has always been active, career as an electric lineman, plus growing soybeans and misc. on the farm land they grew up on.
Most of that they sold back in the 90s to a cousin, but my uncle still grows a few vegetables. Or did. He has rheumatoid arthritis and has slowed down. My aunt is in her 80s but as far as I know gets along well still - we have things in common like quilting and crafts.
At 11:00 a.m. here (9:00 p.m. in Rome) the Pope has invited everyone to pray the Rosary or join in prayer so I'm going to do that then nap. My roommate needs to get Rx cat food and her allergy shot. Then we hope to eat or at least get takeout somewhere.
I got my laundry bagged up and will be doing it asap, and starting to pick up various decluttering and organizing mini projects during this time at home. Roommate finally heard from her boss; Monday they'll have a virtual conference about what they're going to do.
Tillie
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 08:50 AM
Good Morning Everyone "Clink!"
Hi CriticalMass You should write or call your relatives anyway. Just to let them know you are thinking of them. Even a small "thinking of you" note would be appreciated.
WTG! getting the place ready for the exterminator. Yucky messy mice getting into that weed preventer. It is amazing just what rodents will eat even when we never thought of it as a food source.
Good luck with whatever you do today. :)
Hi Subclinical I'm sure a lot of people's aches & pains these days are due to this constant stress. Wishing your friend feels better soon.
I think some take out restaurants are closing because they are running low on employees. Some food banks are running low on volunteers to get out the food.
So very sorry you are all soggy. Same as last Spring there. Hope your boots are holding up and your socks stay dry.
My plan for this morning is to run around in here with my dust rags and see if I can make an improvement. The place may not look great but I am sure my allergies will be 99.9% better.
Subclinical
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 06:08 AM
Tillie, I'm glad the senior lady called you. Helps put my mind at ease.
I am emailing with my immune compromised coworker friend every day. Yesterday she had a mild fever and a headache which worries me a bit. It could "just" be the flu, but "just" a cold put her in the hospital last year. She says it could also be the stress.
She is the other "half" (more like 80%) of the "art department" and we joked about our two week art retreat.
Tatoulia, I'm sorry you didn't get your medicine, but glad you are doing better.
CM, good luck with the termite man.
As of yesterday ddil's school is closed, ds is working from home, and Dh has a meeting this morning to roll out the new shift information - they will be two weeks working at home, two weeks in the office in two shifts that are not allowed o have contact with each other.
Dd1 is of course still going to work because it's construction. As she says "I hope my guys stay healthy, because they can't work remotely." Dd2 is also going to work because her boss is an idiot.
I didn't get my take out because the restaurant closed even for that. Which is ok. I mostly wanted to support them. I don't mind a break from restaurant food. We may get take out from the pizza place we go to every other Thursday some time soon if they are open.
I am going to do some barn/goat work this morning while there is a break in the rain (it has been raining so much. Everything is soggy soggy soggy!)
Then cleaning up the house, maybe starting some more seeds, and taking a look at my online lesson plans. Apart from the "online" - business as usual.
Dh will come straight home from work tonight as there is nowhere else for him to go.
CriticalMass
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 12:16 AM
So good to hear from you, Tatoulia! Hope the panic gets gone and doesn't return. Think of me and others who've gone through it and understand and are with you in spirit 100%.
I went to sit with my lady this afternoon. Her great granddaughter was there since the schools are closed. She's a creative, smart, funny girl and wise. We connect well. And she loves her g-grandma and of course it's mutual.
The daughter came home from her work and said they'd be closed, but staff will meet Monday morning to decide how to help their early start kids and parents remotely. So I will sit with her mom then. Don't know what thereafter.
I need to call my relatives especially the older ones. Don't want to think of worst case scenarios but don't want to miss out on a chat opportunity just in case.
The termite man is due in the morning. Roommate and I moved things around in the garage. It is only used for storage. Some mice had been eating her corn gluten weed preventer. It was nasty and stinky and I pray I don't have to worry about hantavirus AND coronavirus! Yuck.
Didn't get much done with my bedroom clutter though. Not enough time. If I can get up early might be able to make a stab at it.
Tillie
Posted: 19 March 2020 - 12:10 AM
Good Evening Everybody
Hi Tatoulia I'm relieved you are adjusting (((HUG))) All we can do is take it day by day.
YEA! for being sore from all that work out!
So nice you spent time with BF. That pita sounds really good and refreshing.
So Sweet of you to make a care package for the cleaning Fairy. If they don't get work it is an industry where they don't get paid.
I'm sure your doctor has a lot on his mind right now so we can forgive him forgetting things.
Glad you can deliver things to your Mom. She is right where she needs to be and has everything she needs and a whole lot of what she wants. So good that you did all that work cleaning her place even though she has probably undone the closet by now. ;)
Did the general house cleaning today. Nothing extra. Have had to spend most all my time re-cleaning up after he re-contaminated everything. If he would just wash his fricking hands!
Took a shower this evening, washed my hair and washed one load of clothes.
Tatoulia
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 09:39 PM
Checking in. Going to shower and go to bed. Hung out with BF tonight and when I left he just hugged me a lot and I appreciated that. Dropped off some personal products for mom together with a bag of hard candies and a couple of cans of pineapple rings.
Praying for you, Tillie.
Cleaner did a nice job on my house. Only one cleaner came. I paid her in cash instead of a check and I also made her a care package of a gallon of water, a roll of paper towels and a roll of TP. I didn't have her change my bed but she made it up so nicely. I did change the pillow cases.
I had online yoga last night. Oh my goodness that is so difficult. Then tonight Debbie Allen (remember her from Fane) did an online dance class on Instagram. So I'm sure all over.
BF made me a feta and cucumber pita sandwich tonight. So tasty.
Cm it appears you've been sewing. I'm sorry I can only skim the posts. I'm so pleased for you!
SubC I'm sorry I don't know what you are doing right now but I'm thinking of you.
I'm adjusting. My dr didn't send the script and that's okay. I've gotten myself together.
Tillie
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 05:39 PM
The lady from the senior center called me today. They are calling all members to see if we are alright and if we are in need of food or toilet paper. Also to remind everyone that every day we can drive up and they will hand us a boxed up meal.
Said that should any problem arise to call them and they will do their best to assist.
Really eases my mind about how people will fare in the county. :)
Tillie
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 03:21 PM
(((((HUG))))) Thanks CriticalMass :)
CriticalMass
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 02:11 PM
Praying, Tillie
Tillie
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 01:36 PM
I was just subjected to the most ignorant rank. To spare you the whole tirade I will keep it brief.
Steven screamed and yelled that ALL AND EVERYTHING being done is stupid because this is just a simple "cold". That everybody is acting like a-holes believing in any of this crap.
That nobody is dyeing from this "cold".
I tried my best to educate him but he just yelled louder to drown me out.
Pray for me...
Tillie
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 11:34 AM
Thank you Subclinical! What perfect logic that is. :D
Tillie
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 11:33 AM
As of noon today ALL non essential businesses in the state of Nevada are closed down. Gas stations and grocery stores will remain open. Restaurants that now only do take out can still operate. As well as all the usual essential places.
All those casino workers are out of jobs. They didn't state it but I am sure all the legal brothels are closed now too.
There is no place to go so I hope everybody in Nevada just relaxes and accepts this new temporary normal.
The desert is huge and nary a soul to see for miles. The land is breathtakingly beautiful so enjoy it. :D
Subclinical
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 11:27 AM
Maybe the body odor is deliberate. If you smell bad, nobody will get within six feet of you, so you stay healthy.
Tillie
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 11:06 AM
Good Morning Everyone
Hi CriticalMass YEA! for sewing Barbie dresses! Yes, take your time enjoying the sewing project and not push for quantity.
It is complicated right now to make plans, set schedules. But the most important thing is that none of us get exposed and carry the virus to the most vulnerable. Day by day is really the only thing that we know for sure when trying to make any plans.
"we can use it as an opportunity to strengthen faith, hope, and kindness. ¢½¢½¢½" There is your silver lining under this cloud. ;D
Hi Subclinical
"Where ever two or more of you are gathered together in my name, there is where you will find me." Or something close to that is what Jesus is supposed to have said. Sorry, forced to attend Southern Baptist bible school as a kid. ;p
YEA! your class was still on Saturday!
It is a relief that there is no place to have to go and nobody will be coming by. Only obligations are those we have to ourselves.
I experienced those "blue laws" when I visited Houston. Everybody just planned around them, no biggie. Hope you get your take out supper tonight.
Have a wonderful day! :D
I am used to staying home with no visitors for two to three weeks at a time. Only forcing myself to venture out when the food supply is low. Mostly it was cat food that I absolutely had to buy. As long as I have potable water, tea, honey and almond milk I am happy. And yesterday my honey was restocked at the store. Got some hairball treatment goop for Twinkles too, gave him one dose and he has stopped his retching already. They also had restocked my bismuth chewables and accidently I exclaimed out loud "bless you!"
While I was in the store I noticed there were quite a few people shopping who had extreme body odor. Usually there may be one but never before so many. (?)
Subclinical
Posted: 18 March 2020 - 06:22 AM
Good morning.
CM, I'm glad you got your sewing done. You and your roommate can worship together at home. Isn't there something in the Bible about two people being enough for a congregation?
The zombie apocalypse is reminding me how out of step with my culture I am. I don't eat a "normal" diet - everything I wanted was still in the store. The closing and cancellations of the few places I would like to go and things I would want to do are simply minor annoyances - and likely to feel that way for months, or even become less annoying as I get used to them. They are balanced by a sense of relief that no one is going to "just stop by" my house. No one is going to expect me to go somewhere.
Apparently people are starting to get lonely or stir crazy - I got an e-mail this morning from an acquaintance I haven't had any contact with in, maybe two years? She lives a few miles from me. Many people would call her "an old friend" as we used to engage in activities together. But my minimum definition of "friend" is someone you would miss if they moved away. - personally, not functionally. I would miss the woman at my school who sources things for us because she is very good at her job. I have pleasant conversations with her often, but she is not my friend. Anyway, it has only been 4 days. And the shutdowns gave been progressive - on the weekend bars and restaurants were still open. I went to class on Saturday!
As a kid I lived in a small town with "blue laws" all retail was closed on Sunday except gas stations. I always assumed that was why gas stations carried things like bread, milk, and aspirin. Grocery stores were closed. Restaurants were closed. Libraries were closed. The zoo was closed. It was gas stations, church, police, hospitals, and fire stations. (People who worked in places like nursing homes and hotels also had to go to work) That was it. People were used to it. Sometimes it was inconvenient, but it was fine.
Honestly I think what the "social distancing" rules are doing to the speed of life in the places with minimal infection is healthy. I would love to see the whole country shut down for a couple of weeks every year. If we knew it was coming, we could plan for it. Heart disease might go down.
Dh wasn't able to bring home take-out the other night due to working late, but he is going to try again tonight. He had planned to play racquetball tonight, but the racquetball courts are closed.
Today I am repotting tomatoes, cleaning the barn, and doing laundry. Exactly what I have had planned for weeks.
CriticalMass
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 11:50 PM
I only got one Barbie dress made, and it still needs snaps - but that's okay. I'm a bit rusty on my sewing, and the lighting in the room was dim despite lamps. I decided getting one item done and feeling okay was better than pushing too hard and hitting the wall.
I'll miss my new sewing venue Friday - I'm guessing the group won't meet since it's mainly seniors who might not want to get out. And I don't fancy driving across a deserted city.
Tomorrow I'm still on to sit with my lady, but the schools and colleges are closed for the year, so grandkids and great grandkids might be available to help more.
Also the daughter who coordinates the bulk of scheduling caregivers is waiting to find out about her own job. The caregivers who are seniors themselves will not be sent by the agency. It's complicated! I could end up going there more, or less. I just want to be sure I don't bring any bad germs with me, ever.
You are right, Tillie, about the churches. It's surreal but what God would want people to do, to look out for one another, and we can use it as an opportunity to strengthen faith, hope, and kindness. ♡♡♡
Tillie
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 03:51 PM
HAPPY ST. PATTY'S DAY EVERYBODY :D
Hi CriticalMass your pics are so beautiful I could almost smell that hyacinth.
I know in my heart that your God/Creator wants you all to stay safe and healthy. Isolation, cancellations and keeping a bit of distance from others seems to be the most practical solution right now.
YEA! for getting BBQ! WTG! for expending the energy raking out those wet leaves. Hope you are busy creating Barbie outfits now. :D
So happy I went back to the store today. The things I wanted that were sold out last time were back on the shelves today!!! Still not a "square to spare" in the TP but I am good with what I have.
The senior center sent another automated phone call and it seems that due to my age I am supposed to shelter in place. Only venturing to the store when necessary. Today I was able to buy some cleaning supplies, cleanser, Lysol general purpose disinfectant cleaner to help me in my battle to keep Steven from infecting me. Except for fresh produce and almond milk I have enough in the pantry to last two months.
Ordered Twinkle's special hairball cereal from chewy .com and ordered laundry sheets off Amazon. Those items should arrive this week.
Went to the water depot and now have 31 gallons of potable water. Nice thing about that place is you drive up to the dispensers, insert your money, fill your bottles, put them in your car and drive away.
I am so happy now. Don't have to leave the house for anything for the next month!!!
Since the rain/snow has stopped the dust storms, tomorrow my plan is to start doing some major Spring cleaning in here. And I am looking forward to that. :D
CriticalMass
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 02:59 PM
Despite everything,
Happy St. Patrick's Day
I've got on my green shirt and green socks with shamrocks and kittens that I just got lucky (heehee) enough to find a few weeks back at the Dollar Tree.
Some places are having virtual St. Paddy's events. I was never into the boozing, but there is also Irish dance, which I love.
Roommate and I went to Walmart. Things like sanitizer and TP were out but we are okay on that. Got a few other items like vitamins.
We ate at the barbecue place we like, dine in with a few changes such as not having drink lids out in a common bin, etc. Some restaurants here have gone to drive through only.
The public library and YMCA are now closed. Banks probably about to be as well. Bishop said no Sunday Masses, not even Holy Week and Easter :( I guess it's wise though.
He and other Kansas bishops and some priests had been over in Rome to meet with Pope Francis as is customary, a few weeks back. Don't know if it was during the early unknown incubation in Italy, and none have come down with anything. Hoping that will be stay the case. So I guess I will go to church via EWTN.
My smaller church events today were even cancelled, quilting and holy hour. Two of the ladies had gone, and Father shooed them out! I'd known about it last night.
Sometime like maybe tomorrow we have to scoot stuff around in the garage so the termite man can inspect on Thursday. And I should do some cosmetic damage control with my room (sigh...).
This morning when it was brought up, I was kind of frustrated and angry, not wanting to do a boring mundane task - felt like a whiny child. But I did go out and clean some yucky wet leaves away from the side of the house. The physical labor worked out the frustration then I was okay.
But - This afternoon I'm determined to sew St. Patrick's Barbie clothes and hopefully take photos. And listen to Irish music.
It's still grey, chilly, and very changeable weather here. Tomorrow is forecast sunny and 75! Then thunderstorms Thursday and back down to the 40s Friday.
Be sure and check out my shamrock on IG - one of the garden centers has all this lush plant growth under the benches, different things, and one area was all shamrocks and those babies were 3-4" in diameter! Really cool.
Tillie
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 11:19 AM
Hang in there Tatoulia Keep in contact with all your support people. Enjoy the yoga.
Please try to ignore all those crazy people in your city.
So wonderful you and BF have made contingency plans.
((((((HUGS))))))
Tatoulia
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 10:40 AM
Not doing well but I'm getting the support I need. From you, other friends, BF. he is still opening his work every day for now and we have a plan for when he does close. Kitty and I will move in with him. I'll work and we have a vast project for him.
I'm sorry that I'm not being good about reading posts. I can read but cannot process. Very bad panic. On line yoga starts tonight and yesterday I had to sleep as soon as work was done.
Tillie
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 10:14 AM
Good Morning Everyone
Hi Subclinical
Great you are stocked up on Goat chow for now. WTG! Mr. Kitty. You are now safe to roam and do your rodent exterminating job.
Your garden will be great this year. Wishing you many non-rainy, sunny days to get out and play in the dirt with all the sprouting veggies. :D
There is a light powder sugar like frosting of snow covering things. What a relief after so many days of raging winds blowing dense dust around. Planning on a trip to town this morning to see if I can locate a few items I am low on or completely out of. The 24 hour WallyWorld has closed now from 11pm to 6am for cleaning and restocking. Really hoping they have placed limits on the quantity people can buy so the rest of us can get something, anything. Before the panic there was always enough for everybody.
Subclinical
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 06:11 AM
Updates here -
Our elections have bern cancelled.
Dh is still going to work.
My class has been cancelled.
I have 2 weeks of goat feed. The manager asked me how much feed I use in a week and told me I could get twice that, so I did. He expects to be shut down but is going to try to get out as much notice as possible. Apparently I am one of his top three customers - number one is my dd2's best friend whom he plans to call personally the minute he knows anything.
My cat has been vaccinated.
Dh pointed out how much time I'm going to have for the garden this spring.
Tillie
Posted: 17 March 2020 - 03:52 AM
About 10:30pm it gently rained for a little. Then about midnight the gentle rain started again. Now at 2:00pm it is gently snowing tiny little flakes. :D YEA!
Tillie
Posted: 16 March 2020 - 11:42 PM
Good Evening Everyone
Well today I did stuff. Bunch of this & that here & there. Nothing much really but I'm happy with what all I did.
About 9:45pm so I should go to sleep. Scooter says it's time to run all around playing with all his toys. Mousie is at the bottom of the water bowl. Steven still has not washed his hands. His bar of soap by the bathroom sink has never been used after all these months of it sitting there. It's dusty.
Hoping you all are well and happy. (((HUG)))
Tillie
Posted: 16 March 2020 - 09:49 PM
Got a few, very few, sprinkles of rain late this afternoon.
yea :/
Tillie
Posted: 16 March 2020 - 11:14 AM
Good Morning Everybody "Clink!"
Hi CriticalMass That would be so nice if you two were to start a little garden. Fresh air, sunshine and crawling around in the dirt are all very beneficial to mind, body and Spirit.
You need to learn to relax and just let go. Deep breaths, relax all your muscles. Empty your mind of all thought. It's called meditation. Please adopt some form of it and practice it everyday. This is what I do to help clear my mind and find focus. (((((HUGS)))))
YEA! for those singing Italians on Youtube! :D
Hi Subclinical Your Vet has set up a very good receiving system. Very good that the animals will still be receiving their good care.
When all unessential businesses are told to close I believe feed stores will be exempt. The animals MUST eat too. They may set up something like the Vet did where someone brings it out to the vehicles instead of customers going inside. I am almost positive the livestock auction here will remain in operation because it is a vital part of our food chain.
Thank you for the update on your family's goings ons. My constant prayers are that all the measures we are all taking will see us safely through these uncharted waters.
Yesterday the storm clouds gathered then the winds came ripping through and blew them all over to the Eastern mountain range where it rained and snowed heavily. Not a single drop of rain fell here for me. :(
No reason for me to do any dusting in here with the winds blowing in more every day. It is too frustrating to dust and an hour later it's all back again.
Anyways, there is still plenty to do around here to keep me occupied and I'm not talking about housework. Cats to play with, brush. Pencil puzzle books, Roku, beads, sewing, music, cooking and just generally playing. :D
Subclinical
Posted: 16 March 2020 - 05:36 AM
Tatoulia,
Thank you for your concern. I think my family is fine. My parents are finally staying home. My son is working from home, my son in law's school has closed (we just have to keep him from panicking that the world is ending), my Dd1 is able to do some of her work from home and is out in the open air well separated from the crews she supervises when she is at work.
I would like it if my husband's stupid employer would require him to work from home (he has gone in already this morning). I would also like it if my dd2's employer would go to work at home. He is consistently stupid. The company is losing huge contracts and sales because of event cancellations. It is possible the economic slowdown will kill them and dd will need a new job. But I think she needs a new job anyway, and I believe she will be ok. She came home this weekend and showed me some designs they did for the Olympics. She was feeling a little sad because she's afraid the Olympics will get cancelled and no one will ever see the work. But this is not a crisis.
I don't know what to wish for my dil. Her school system is partially shut, but she teaches teens with severe physical and developmental challenges in a contained classroom, and she is still required to go in. Many of her students are medically fragile.
Goat feed - sometimes the store runs out because they are bad at guessing what inventory they need. Many people may try to stock up so they don't have to go out later. (I am doing that - just a few more bags than usual, but if we all get a few more bags than usual, they will run out and need to reorder, so I need to go before I am down to the last day.) Also, I'm afraid they will close. If the governor says "only grocery stores, medical care, and pharmacies" will he exempt feed stores?
Our vet has cancelled walk in hours. You are required to wait in your car when you arrive for your appointment and someone will come out to get you when your exam room is ready. If you are not feeling well, the vet tech will take your pet into the office. Also they sent out an email telling everyone that there is no reason to believe that their pet can get covid 19 and that they should contact their physician or the health department or the CDC for questions about human health.
CM,
Victory gardens are a lovely idea.
CriticalMass
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 11:57 PM
Virtual Hugs for Tatoulia, and everyone. Unlike the stuff on store shelves, the supply of love, prayers, and well wishes never runs out.
My roommate wants to get tomato plants tomorrow if our favorite local family owned nursery is open. And herbs to grow for the rabbits. Victory Gardens are not a bad idea right now.
I want to be able to focus - my squirrelly brain struggles. So much I could do, I need never be bored at home. But oh, the discombobulation... hoping I can get past it. I'm hoping it subsides. Adjusting to living in the different "normal."
Watched the singing Italians on YouTube a bit. Wow.
More rain forecasted, but may end by Friday.
Tillie
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 10:19 PM
Good Evening Everybody
Aww Tatoulia (((HUGS))) Spray your lavender, drink your water, breathe, pet Miss Kitty and know you WILL be alright. Your Mom is happy as a clam ((HUG)) All things good are being done for her.
Did you get your prescription? Take it as prescribed. YEA! for the yoga classes! :D
It is a good thing that your place of work is closed. Do like Subclinical and enjoy the free time.
You are safe Dear More (((HUGS)))
Hi Subclinical I have been wondering how Veterinarians are doing. Not because of their patients but the human slaves who bring them in. Good luck getting Mr. Kitty in the carrier. ;)
Hoping your DH brought home take out. We have to support our local businesses.
Goat chow should still be on the shelves. Can't think of any reason there would be a run on it. ;D
Makes me smile thinking of your Dd nesting. Life goes on.
Tatoulia
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 09:49 PM
Praying for your family, SubC. We just received an emergency notice that we are closed. No going in, even if we want to. I contacted the woman who sends the notices and she calmed me a bit.
Cm and Tillie praying for you both. Sending warm thoughts your way.
Subclinical
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 09:23 PM
Tatoulia, all shall be well and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.
You will be ok. Your Mom is happy. Yoga is good.
My governor shut down all the bars and made all restaurants go to take out only.
I am concerned that we may not get back to school this year.
But my dd1 is planting flowers and baking muffins and growing a little human in her belly.
Carl Sandburg said "a baby is a God's opinion that's life should go on."
Life goes on.
Today I read online too much and watched a bunch of videos. Tomorrow I will buy a bunch of goat food and call about getting my cat a rabies shot.
Dh has to go to work, so maybe he will bring home takeout to help support our favorite restaurant.
Tatoulia
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 08:35 PM
I have read your posts and I love you all madly. I'm just paralyzed with fear. And I'm not doing well at all.
Oh! Bf and I stopped at grocery store on the way to his house and now I forgot what I was going to say.
Oh! I asked the guy to help me reach the nutragrain waffles and he said, how many. Just the one.
I'm happy to leave slack in the line.
Bf brought me a case of water tonight on top of the water he brought me yesterday. It's his business supply. Not taking out of the grocery channels.
Tatoulia
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 08:31 PM
I keep having terrible panic attacks. It's awful. I feel like I'm going to die. I can no longer visit mom at all but I did managed to drop off a few things for her and she is having a blast. I had been crying and hysterical and she's about as happy as can be.
Went over to BF's house tonight. We've decided that if he has to close his business, we will hole up at his place for a week. I would enjoy that immensely. The cats will be fine together.
I'm trying not to panic. I joined yoga and it starts Tuesday-on the comfort of my own home as the woman is doing online. I know her from twitter, only. We live probably a mile or two apart and she has a black cat where I got my loved one.
I will go spray some lavender and go to bed. I'm not eating much which is a relief. As long as I keep the ice cream out of the house, I'll be okay.
Tillie
Posted: 15 March 2020 - 07:18 PM
Here is an interesting little tidbit...
Whenever we have an infection, like the flu our bodies work to eradicate it. One way it's done is with fever. Our systems try to kill it off with higher heat.
There is some news coming out recently that some flu struck people who do not take fever reducing medications fair better than those who do take fever reducing medications.
That we should allow our own systems to help us by only taking these medicines should the fever become too high or we are just too miserable with fever/chills and/or aches and pains.