| Nic | Posted: 08 October 2017 - 06:42 PM |
I'm having trouble "getting going" anymore. I just look at everything and get depressed. What I did: What I need to do: Those are my "today" tasks My week tasks: Bag up everything that is laying loose so it's out of harms way and not so overwhelming | |
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| Tillie | Posted: 10 October 2017 - 07:30 PM |
I think he's just gotten in the habit of spraying to mark territory even though he owns everything there already. | |
| Nic | Posted: 10 October 2017 - 11:05 AM |
The peeing started when my roommates can began coming into the space we rented in the house, and peeing on my things. I feel like my cat started marking things to let that cat know it was his. But now we moved and he's still doing it 🙁 | |
| Tillie | Posted: 09 October 2017 - 12:12 AM |
Thanks for answering my questions. After I wrote my post here I read the other post you made on the message board. | |
| Nic | Posted: 08 October 2017 - 10:54 PM |
My cat is really happy the only stress he has I believe is from me looking stressed. He is spoiled beyond belief and his litter box gets completely cleaned out 2 x a week, though my friend says that's too often to replace all the litter, I can't stand the germs,even with regular scoopings each day. I have germaphobia. I honestly just put it on the list to have something to check off that I know I will do. I feel like I'm treating him better than myself most days. He can tell when I'm upset and he head boops me. I'm putting things in storage because I don't want them around me but I don't want to let them go because some are heirlooms and will go into my new home. But I have tossed a lot so far, I've made a lot of progress and sorted some of what I want to take to the new place. I just don't want to keep everything here while I sort anymore. It's easier when it's out of my home. I took things outside and just doing that made it so much easier. I tossed 70% of the items. I don't feel any of the overwhelming stress. I made a big mistake moving into a tiny apartment. I would have to toss almost everything just to live here. My last place was not safe for my cat (due to another cat there) and I moved quickly without time to find a more suitable place. | |
| Tillie | Posted: 08 October 2017 - 09:03 PM |
Hello Nic 🙂 It does get very depressing looking at all you have to do. Even though you have no motivation to do anything Please come join us in the "Daily Chat" thread titled | |