Hi Singlemom-just checking in to see how it's going!

Progress is good!

I figure, any day (or week) when more goes out than comes in is a good one.

Are you taking pictures or setting goals to help with your sense of progress?

Is it mostly trash? If so, do you have a dumpster, or are you using your curb service?

Can you see the living room furniture? floor?

You should come over to the daily chat thread and join in!

I chose living room since you see it first.
I got some done. Not a whole lot. But I'm doing it.

Thanks

I think a lot of people do need counseling, but sometimes you just need someone to talk to. I'm glad your mom is helping you.

What made you choose the living room? How is it going today?

When did your mom take the kids? Was that an agreement to help you, or is it a conflict situation? What would you need to do to make a safe place for your kids? Can you safely prepare food in your home? Where are you starting with removing trash? Don't feel like you have to answer any of those. Most important, how can we help?

Thanks. Maybe a couple weeks ago. It's to help, not to take them away forever. Just clean my place up...trash out...clean all areas. I've started with the living room, going very slowly. Getting trash out first. I've done this behaviour for years. Need counseling I suppose. Thanks for replying.

Hi singlemom72,

Don't hate yourself! You have made a start! You are on the right path and you are making progress.

When did your mom take the kids? Was that an agreement to help you, or is it a conflict situation? What would you need to do to make a safe place for your kids? Can you safely prepare food in your home? Where are you starting with removing trash? Don't feel like you have to answer any of those. Most important, how can we help?

I'm a mess! My mom took my kids since my place isn't safe for them. I got some trash out today, doing more in a bit. I hate myself. Definitely don't have money for help. Just need some support.