Hi Lori :)
Sorry to hear this.
If you tell us more about them maybe we can give you some better advice.
Is your father ready to get serious about decluttering?
Would your parents agree to counceling?

We have learned that we can not change other people, only our selves.
Many times people must just go on with their own lives because their parents are not willing to change.

Guys I don't know what to do. I'm about to start college and live at ho.e in my own mostly organized room for a teenager and my patents have the messiest house ever. It seriously is getting medown. I always ask my mom or dad to help me clean or get rid of stuff but they never want to. I try selling things with no luck. And this point I don't know what to do. My mom is a constant buyer and never looks for previous purchases because they are lost and dad tries organizing things from the 1800s. Anyways, why Im here. My dad threatened their marriage today after 20 years. I feel lost. I wish someone would do something for them... :(