My cat is really happy the only stress he has I believe is from me looking stressed. He is spoiled beyond belief and his litter box gets completely cleaned out 2 x a week, though my friend says that's too often to replace all the litter, I can't stand the germs,even with regular scoopings each day. I have germaphobia. I honestly just put it on the list to have something to check off that I know I will do. I feel like I'm treating him better than myself most days. He can tell when I'm upset and he head boops me.
I'm putting things in storage because I don't want them around me but I don't want to let them go because some are heirlooms and will go into my new home. But I have tossed a lot so far, I've made a lot of progress and sorted some of what I want to take to the new place. I just don't want to keep everything here while I sort anymore. It's easier when it's out of my home. I took things outside and just doing that made it so much easier. I tossed 70% of the items. I don't feel any of the overwhelming stress. I made a big mistake moving into a tiny apartment. I would have to toss almost everything just to live here. My last place was not safe for my cat (due to another cat there) and I moved quickly without time to find a more suitable place.
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