"The trouble is that every time I try to go through an old box of stuff, I become overwhelmed by nostalgia and I just can't force myself to let go of much of it."
Yep, exactly...that's why these message boards are so very helpful. The people on here have been through and are going through the same things. I get physically ill and exhausted when faced with letting go of things that represent so much of my life. But the truth is, they really are just things that keep me trapped now so that I cannot enjoy the rest of my life.
Taking pictures is a wonderful suggestion, and will be very helpful, I think. If we have the photos, then we can have the memories again.
And also having someone (this group) to hold our hands is a terrific tool as well.
You've come to the right place.
(Buried in Treasures is an EXCELLENT book!)
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