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Subclinical
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 02:39 PM
Crossed Tatoulia - glad you gave the shredder!

Is pumpkinless pumpkin bread basically cinnamon bread?
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Subclinical
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 02:37 PM
The dresser is turning out to be harder than I expected.

I did the laundry (well, not all the laundry, but what is left is mostly underwear, and definitely not t-shirts or jeans.)

I used doing the laundry as an excuse to watch videos and eat ice cream for two hours.

When I put the laundry away, I found another farm bureau T-shirt. 14.

I also discovered that I have 12 OTHER shirts I can wear to school - including TEN actual school shirts. I put those 12 shirts, plus the SIX pairs of jeans I can wear to school in the bottom right drawer. Neatly. It shuts. It would be better if there were five pairs of jeans, because the top pair rubs lightly when the drawer opens and closes. But, they are rarely all clean.

So, normally I put a "good" pair of jeans on right before I leave for school on Tuesday or Thursday, and wear them again the next day if they still look clean. I teach 4 days a week. This means that I could actually go three weeks without doing laundry or running out of school clothes - without even wearing a farm bureau t-shirt.

I put my two least favorite farm bureau t-shirts in the donate pile. Leaving 12. I put the 12 on my bed and left just a neat stack of wordless shirts and one of jeans in the drawer - which closes easily.

Then I went through a top drawer, which was all t-shirts.

3 for the cleaning rag basket, 4 more for the donate pile, and two for the bin of t-shirts that I still believe I will someday make into a quilt.

I put the t-shirts to keep, including the farm bureau t-shirts, back into that drawer. The drawer is over full, but not hard to open and close.


This leaves my "pajama" drawer (not too full, but might take some time to clean it out with dh help now that i've lost some weight. ;) ) underwear drawer - which is basically fine, and shorts - which I will worry about in the spring since the drawer is neat and not overstuffed.

And the top of my dresser - which looks like someone dumped a couple of large "all items 25 cents" boxes from a rummage sale on it.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 02:10 PM
Okay I'm going to make a light vanilla glaze for my spiced bread and muffins.

Oh boy!

I got dressed and went for a walk to see BF. He gave me his shredder to use for now.

It's cold but very very sunny.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 11:31 AM
Hello SubC and Tillie! Always post as much as you want! I love those days where I'm accomplishing a lot and posting gets me through it!

Great work on the shirts. I don't own a lot of clothes. I never have. I just try to buy classic pieces and make them work. I own two pair of jeans right now. These are ones that I wasn't able to wear before and I've gotten rid of the bigger ones. The two pair are fine for me and my lifestyle.

I did one load of laundry but then someone put a basket down there so Im only doing the one. Would have loved to do a few more but I'm fine.

My pumpkin bread is baking but guess what? As I wrote this I realized I forgot to add the pumpkin. Holy cow. What a waste. Let's see what this even tastes like.

Oh gee whiz.
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Tillie
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 10:36 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Subclinical
Post all you want.
We all love hearing about your days.

WTG! finding two not decent enough t-shirts to let go of!

Try removing the Farm bureau shirts in colors you don't even like, set them aside and see how the drawer looks.
Does it close? Is there room for all the jeans?

Sorry schools are closed but glad that kids & faculty are staying safe at home.
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Subclinical
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 10:03 AM
I may post a lot today, sorry in advance. It's cold and I want to go to school! (Whine)

So when I went upstairs to get dressed, I decided to pick at my dresser - I chose the drawer I got my jeans out of. It is supposed to have jeans I don't wear to work (two ratty pairs and one too tight I haven't given up on) and t-shirts without words.

So, when I thinned it down to that - making a mess on the bed - there was a lot of extra space in the drawer. (I am wearing 1 of the 3 pairs of jeans) Since I have another drawer that is just t-shirts and won't actually close, I dumped that on the bed. I determined that I have 13 farm bureau t-shirts.

I wear farm bureau t-shirts to fair (9 days a year) sometimes to school on Fridays (34 days a year) and to random farm related events/activities (let's say 4 days a year.) But I also wear other t-shirts at fair and to school on Fridays. I stuffed all the farm bureau shirts into the drawer, but now it doesn't close easily (and i'm Wearing those jeans) and, if I keep all those shirts, I will wear them at most 3 times a year each.

But my hoarder brain says "they will wear out!" And my sensible brain says "they often have last year's shirt for sale for $5 at the farm booth at fair. Which is where you got half of these. Some of them aren't even colors you like. What is the worst thing that would happen if you had no farm bureau shirts?" Answer: people would not be able to look at me and instantly know I was involved with my county's agricultural outreach.

I am going to have to revisit that drawer.

On the positive side, I did accept that two of the no words shirts that are incredibly soft and colors I like have to go. Not only can I not wear them in public, I can't wear them at home if I might encounter a male person who is not my husband, son, or father. And my father would probably be embarrassed. My dd gave me two new shirts this year that are just as soft. (I put them in my pajama drawer they are so soft! But I could wear them in public)

So, two shirts into the rag bag and the beginning of a self pep talk.

I got six new t-shirts this year. Three of them are to wear to school.
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Subclinical
Posted: 31 January 2019 - 04:56 AM
School is closed again. I was fine with yesterday, but now I am disappointed. And I won't swim tonight because it is just too much driving only to swim.

We are supposed to get three inches of snow overnight. I'm not sure what to do about the trash because it does not have lids. Honestly, I only have one can so far - even with The Great Laundry Room Cleanout, but I was thinking about trying to get the studio barn warm enough to work out there for a while. Not to do pottery with wet hands, but I can sort and organize in my coat.

Or maybe the basement or my dresser depending on how sunny it is.

-8 here. But the wood stove is roaring.

Tatoulia stay warm!
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Tillie
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 10:45 PM
Hi Tatoulia
GREAT! that you no longer feel sad for items! (((HUG)))

I was just thinking...
If your donation center refuses it (call & ask)
Could you announce on a place like free-cycle and leave it sitting out by the curb?
Somebody would take it and save you from having to drive it somewhere.

There must be a way to reprogram the ROKU to make it back to Factory settings.
Turn it on and check out the settings.
Steven gave me a used thrift shop ROKU and I went into the functions and reprogramed it for my youtube and Netflix.
Then he bought me a new one at WallyWorld and took back the other one to use himself but he can't figure it out. LOL :D

Your cleaning Fairies are just so sweet and you are so sweet to them.
Such a wonderful arrangement.

I'm glad you stayed inside today since BF is much better.

My 100+ year old house has no insulation really either.
I saw that up close and personal when I was running electrical wire through all the walls & ceiling.
But as a tiny one room house with a cast iron wood burning cook stove I bet they were comfy in Winter and miserable in Summer.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 09:22 PM
Well kitty and I napped after work tonight. And now we are up! Tillie I am taking your very good advice to get the house as warm as possible tonight to help me through tomorrow. I'm mad at myself for never leaving the house today. BF said he was fine and didn't need soup and I must tell you, he sounds like himself again.

When it comes time to work on my walls here, I will have insulation put in. Very cold house. Always has been.

I will lay out (but not measure) what I need for baking tomorrow so I can start early and keep the house st a reasonable temperature.

SubC you did remarkable work today! What a great feeling.

Started to feel hurt that my analogue flat screen isn't a good match for donating. Then I remembered I don't feel hurt about objects any more. Knock me over with a feather!

House is so clean and I'm so happy. One of my cleaners today said she loves her job. There were three of them today and one went upstairs to clean the neighbor's house. They brought me delicious chicken pies and I had one for lunch and I will have the other for lunch tomorrow. So good. They are very nice to me. One showed me a picture of her wearing one of my dresses to church on Sunday.

Love you all. Motown, I feel the same way you do-thatvits great to have good friends here.

Stay warm, people. SubC do you have school tomorrow?
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Tillie
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 06:09 PM
Good Afternoon Everybody

So much fun reading your posts! :D

Hi Tatoulia
So very sorry to have to tell you this...
But almost every place on the planet now refuses to accept analog television sets.
No matter what, no exceptions.
But they can go into E waste. Electronic waste pick ups.

So relieved BF is back to his old self!

YEA! for cleaning fairies who also help move smart TVs!

So glad you may only get down to -20 without the wind chill factor making it -60 below.
Stay warm.

WAY TO GO! Subclinical!
For clearing and removing the annoying shelf!!!!

Now you won't resist going over in that area.
A utility sink is so useful for so many things.

I do the same thing with items I used to use but change things around & don't need them any longer.
I put them aside for a while to see if they will be useful somewhere else before I let them go.

Happy you stayed inside and puttered around where it's warm.


Thrift shops always have dozens of pristine cloth napkins.
I think people get them as gifts or inherit them but don't want to use them.
This way I can enjoy using them and not be upset should they get stained or ratty.

Steven removed a strand of his twinkle lights from the front yard area, finally.
Then he went shopping at Dollar Tree.
Wish he would make a budget and stick to it.
All his frequent shopping is so wasteful.
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Subclinical
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 02:35 PM
:D
Linen napkins are the best!

I did it. I got rid of* the shelf. I went into the laundry room and I moved things around and I threw things into the trash can, and I filled my pockets with loose change, until the shelf was empty.

And then I took it down!

I like my laundry room so much better now! Why, oh why did I let dh put that shelf up? I told him I didn't want it, but it was part of the set and he said "well, we have it, we might as well put it up" and then of course I put things on it and I felt like I was cowering under/away from it every time I tried to use the utility sink, and so I didn't go back there unless I had to and the corner got filled and the sink never got washed.

And now it is gone!

*by which I mean I put it in the basement with the empty bins and other small shelves and containers that might get used somewhere else before all this is over.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 02:16 PM
Ps SubC I have no reason to buy the napkins anymore. It was just impulse buying and spending money on my part. In fact, one of the gifts I just mailed overseas were linen napkins instead of my usual paper napkins. It makes much more sense to send nice fabric napkins.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 02:14 PM
Great work SubC! And thank you all for helping me to absorb the worry about BF's health. He is himself today!

Cleaners helped me with the tv in the bedroom.

It is definitely getting colder here but they've revised the low temps in our favor.

I have to get rid of old TV now that the Santa tv is set up in the bedroom. I have no use for it. I think I should take to goodwill. It is small and white and I enjoyed it. It's not digital and I have the digital converter too. I can tape up together with a note. The Roku I need to find a way to erase it. When I gave someone my mother's old Roku, they had access to my Netflix Hulu etc. so I need to make sure this is erased before donating.

The New tv is a smart tv, which is nice. Yes this was BF's way of not buying gifts for Christmas. That and the spa gift certificates.

House is very clean.
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Subclinical
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 01:31 PM
Tatoulia, I keep forgetting to say that I too am glad your BFF is improving. So that first.

Next time you are tempted to buy paper napkins you have to think about the trees that were cut down to make them, and the water pollution from the printing process and the giant trucks moving from forest to plant to store and from trash can to landfill, and ask yourself "do I really need to buy these? Will they make the person i'm buying them for happier than subc will be if I DON'T buy them? (But if you must have (a) paper napkin(s) it is ok. Sometimes we can't avoid things)

I am worse than the badger...

I checked my papers and they are ready to return. I have thought about my lesson plans, but not done the writing out. I did a complete (wash, dry, put away) load of laundry, and I have been puttering around.

I started in on the Laundry room. The laundry room is kind of a dumping ground, which is bad, because it has a not stacked washer and dryer, and a utility sink, and in front of them a three foot wide strip of floor between the door into it from the house and the door out of it to the back porch. (The back porch is a concrete slab with an awning roof.)

I took everything off the top of the dryer. I put it away, in the recycling, in the trash, on a shelf (there are two shelves above the washer and dryer, and one over the utility sink that annoys me) on the floor (because it belonged in the laundry room and didn't fit on a shelf) or in the scullery because it needed to go to a different building. I washed the dryer. I put the detergent and bleach back on the dryer.

I picked up all the things on the floor - same redistribution except I didn't put anything in the floor and I put some things in the hall in a box that started out on the laundry room floor. I put the stack of laundry baskets on top of the (closed) top loading washer.

I emptied the utility sink and scrubbed it with just water and a stiff brush. It still looks bad, but - about six years ago, mr kitty had a discussion with a skunk. When ds was told he had to wash mr kitty with skunk-away soap, he looked at the utility sink and decided to take a shower WITH the kitty. The sink had not been washed since. Now, while it clearly needs another pass with leaning products, and i wouldn't wash my dishes in it, but if the cat got skunked again, I would not feel bad about using that sink.

I swept the floor (without moving the appliances or scrubbing grimy corners) and dumped an entire large metal dust pan into the trash can (there were bits and pieces like hair bands and broken clothes pins, not just dirt).

I put the box back on the floor of the room and quit.

Next time I will start with the top shelf. I would like to remove the annoying shelf, but all the shelves are currently packed.
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Tillie
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 10:06 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Subclinical
I'm happy to hear your barn babies are all doing alright and that Mr. Kitty was happy to get back inside as fast as possible. ;D
About 10 years ago I bought an unopened package of Halloween paper napkins at the thrift shop.
I use one for weeks/months under something, here & there.
When it starts looking sad I use it on the counter to mop up any small spills for several days.
Then lastly I use it to clean up kitty vomit.
There are still a lot of these paper napkins, I'll never need to buy any more. LOL ;D

Hi Tatoulia
The stores display those pretty paper items in a way that makes everybody dazzled by the pretty colors.
People overbuying things they do not need is because stores use psychologists to develop methods to make unsuspecting people buy things they do not need.
So happy you are learning to resist their evil mind control. :D

Hope your BF continues to rest and feel better.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 09:07 AM
Thank you for the reminders the the cold. It's good to see them written out clearly. Will do.

Oh SubC I use cloth napkins ever single day! And I use them with abandon, not worrying if they get stained. I have nice ones that go with my tablecloths for nice occasions. But otherwise I use my cloth ones everyday! They are better on my skin, too. I get dazzled by the pretty paper ones. Haven't bought any in a while. I tend to give them as gifts but which came first? Likely the need to buy paper napkins then oh, who should I give them to? Very wasteful of money and resources, and is the kind of thinking I did back when I was constantly hoarding sale items and multiples.

Kitty and I are up and I'm feeling better today. BF sounds better. He said he slept really well, which is the first true sleep he's had in four or five nights. I'll bring him soup today.

I really want to make your cranberry bread, Tillie, but only have ingredients for pumpkin. And when I'm at BF's today I'll snag the ripe bananas.

I'm glad that through all of you here, I could come up with a shredding solution. I'll gather up more and put in my purse.
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Subclinical
Posted: 30 January 2019 - 06:59 AM
Tillie, thank you for the safety reminder.

And Thank you Tatoulia.

It really helps me when I am dealing with trash to think that you guys are supporting me to let it go, and besides, Tatoulia is now compensating by recycling things.

When you can spend again I will talk you into cloth napkins - so pretty! And you get to keep them instead of throwing them away!

The barn is all set with heat lamps and big piles of hay and warm water in the buckets. Everybody was happy to see the warm water arrive this morning.

Mr. kitty whined and howled and decided if I wouldn't let him out when he asked nicely, he would start tearing things apart.

(Here I need to stop and tell you that our front porch us set back between the garage and the breakfast nook.)

Dh finally insisted I let him out, and he ran out, rounded the corner of the garage, immediately came back, and did what he needed to do in the leaves that have drifted in between the porch and the garage. I'll have to clean that up later.

Then he came in, ate his breakfast, and went to sleep by the fire.

Dh is working from home today, so I am being leisurely, but soon I will have to fill the woodbox again and then I will get my desk out.
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Tillie
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 10:48 PM
Hi Tatoulia

WAY TO GO! for not even looking at the pretty paper napkins and other fancy things not on your grocery list!

Staying home and even baking is the best plan.
If you leave and the house gets too cold it will never warm up again until the deep freeze is over.

Make sure kitty has her snuggle blanket right by the fireplace.

Still concerned about BF and really hoping he is alright.
(((HUG)))

If you want some new bread ideas, allrecipes.com is a fine place to read.

We all figured you shredding at the office would be alright, unless you get some paper from that whiny Lord & Taylor. ;P

I have watched videos on Marie Kondo folding clothes.
That's not for me.
Too much time and fussing involved.

Happy the cleaning ladies will be there tomorrow!
YEA! for being more ecologically aware recycling whenever possible.

Today I vacuumed.
There is only a plate, fork and glass by the sink needing to be washed, but not tonight.
There are two cats sleeping on my bed right now and one sleeping in the rocking chair next to my bed.

Everybody stay safe and warm.
Don't be outside for long and keep all your little bits covered whenever you go out.
If you do suspect frost bite do NOT rub the area or place under hot running water.
Get inside where it's warm and allow the areas to slowly thaw out to prevent further damage.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 09:00 PM
Hello ladies! I am so pleased with our no spend attitudes! I'm finding it easy not to look at the pretty paper napkins and other stuff in the stores. I stick to the food I planned to buy. I feel better about myself. It's also ignoring all the pleas from Lord and Taylor. Their emails seem so whiny.

We are expecting the giant cold freeze. Will be tough to keep my house warm. I may work from home on Thursday and work hard to keep it warm. The fireplace will help it feel cozy.

Great work on keeping the animals warm and toasty! And congratulations SubC on enjoying having more space. I agree with Tillie as to how to spend your time tmr!

Motown you are doing a good job! I know it's tough to see process but keep moving forward! We can do this! You will find yourself picking up steam.

Right now I have a bag with a skirt and a towel in it, to go to goodwill. Oh! Two women I know have now done the Marie Kondo closet cleaning including folding the clothes in her fancy way. I have yet to watch her show but I did see a tiny clip where she was folding things extremely carefully. Not for me but God bless her. I just can't agree to fold my camisoles that way.

Cleaning ladies tomorrow. Then I'm going to bake Wednesday night and maybe again on Thursday day to help keep the house warm. I'm nervous but I've been here a long time and I'll find a way to keep it warm. Esp with new fireplace.

Tillie tell the kitties I say hello. Bf is doing better today. He said he was in a lot of pain last night and this AM but he spoke with dr and now his mind is reassured and I think his pain has lessened. I saw him for just a minute or two tonight. I'll bake him some pumpkin bread. I also noticed some ripe bananas at his house so if he still has them I can make some banana bread too. Anything to get the house temp up! He did say he'd take the kitty to keep her warm but I'll find a way.

Take care dear friends. We can do it!

Oh! I spoke with the mailroom and they don't mind if I put my shreddables in the large bin or if I shred them using the shredder. I'll do shredder since I don't want to cost the company extra money. So that is out of the way. I will put my shredder basket in the recycling bin and find out if the city wants the part with the machinery. LOOK WHAT IVE LEARNED FROM SUBC
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Tillie
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 08:26 PM
Hi Subclinical
I think you should just putter around inside the warm house tidying up a few of those areas you mentioned.
Nothing strenuous or time consuming but you will see a pleasing difference.
Stay out of the cold barn studio.
Schedule a two hour break, grab the popcorn and watch a movie in front of the fire.

Staying out of stores counts, WTG!
I'm alright with the cat being unhappy.
How are your barn babies doing?

You are absolutely right.
Nobody should ever sneak and throw out anybody else's stuff.
Worst of all that destroys any trust they ever had.


Hi Motown
WAY TO GO!!! for not shopping!!!

It always seems darkest before the dawn.
Keep up the great job you have started and eventually things will get better.

Plus staying away from the thrift shops will increase the money on hand and help to reduce the amount of unneeded things in the house.
But you can go by the thrift shop to drop of a bag or two, just don't look inside the store. ;D
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Subclinical
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 08:05 PM
School is cancelled tomorrow!

So, now I have to decide what to do with my time bonus before I accidentally choose "lie in front of the fire, eat popcorn, and watch videos"

No brainers -
check last friday's papers so I can return them
Last lesson plan for Friday morning.

But then, so many possibilities. My weekend is going to be very busy.

So,
Lesson plans for next week?
Long uninterrupted deep clean in the studio barn (May take a while to heat up)
Tackle one or more of the problem areas i've been noticing lately (my dresser, the master bathroom, the dreaded scullery closet, the laundry room) or even the basement?

What do you think?
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Subclinical
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 07:08 PM
Wow Motown, good job! I don't know if I could h ave resisted an offer to take me thrifting and buy me presents!

I'm confused about the daughter thing - is this the daughter who was living with you? Do you mind sharing how many kids you have?

Tillie, kitty will stay with the person who has the fishy treat bag no matter what, but yes, I use it to trick him into being closed up when I need to. He is very unhappy right now.

I want to thank you guys again for being here and for being so supportive and nonjudgmental. I got into a discussion on another site where I said that I don't think waiting until your spouse goes away for the weekend and then throwing away their stuff behind their back and moving things around in the hope that they won't notice is ok. Even if you believe, and most of the world believes, that the stuff is trash. And that if you do that to a hoarder it can make things worse. And people got angry and I do not feel very welcome there right now.

On a lighter note, I nospended my class today by using some paper cups another teacher had leftover instead of buying a new pack. I had to ask in three classrooms.

I also nospended me, but I didn't make an special effort, I just didn't need anything or go to any stores.
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Motown
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 12:36 PM
Oh just look at all of taking this spending freeze seriously! I'm proud of us. Sunday was a pretty day here and my husband suggested/hinted that we could take my mom out and go to goodwill. He even offered to pay. But, although I know she would have enjoyed it, I said lets not. I don't have the money to spend and neither she nor I need to bring one more item into our already crowded houses. I get my hoarding tendencies from my parents as they both lived through the great depression. We have always tried to live frugally so the whole waste-not, want-not adage is permanently stuck.

I complained to my daughter just now that the month of January is just about over and I have nothing to show for it. I am no further out of debt and no further out of my cluttered house. She assured me that sometimes it gets worse before it gets better. I wish my hubby would be on board and supportive. but at least sometimes she is in my corner.

I hope all of y'all affected by the cold weather stay warm and safe to the best of your ability.

I just have to say again that each day when I log into this site I am so grateful for each of y'all and that I stumbled upon this site.

Peace, love and no spending!
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Tillie
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 10:51 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Subclinical
WAY TO GO!!!
All your hard work paid off!
No having to move things around to make room for the truck and nothing out in the yard to worry about too!
YEA YOU!

You might even put Mr. Kitty in another room and shut the door if you think he may run outside when you're going out.
That's what I sometimes have to do with Scooter.

Having been through a couple of winters of -35 degrees I know how hard this freeze will be for everybody.
My thermometer only went down to -35 degrees and I was told that the official temps were even lower.

The first time you inhale that cold the inside of your nose freezes.
Then your eyelashes freeze.
High school kids were all getting frost bit ears walking short distances outdoors.
Then our power went out...
Our water pipes to the house buried in the ground froze solid.
All over, homes & businesses & public offices had pipes burst in the ceilings since they had fire sprinklers.
It was a miserable disaster.

Stay safe.

Cold dark cloudy day here with 50% chance of rain.
Still have enough food & stuff so no need to go grocery shopping yet.
The more I stay out of stores the less tempted I am to buy anything nonessential.
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Subclinical
Posted: 29 January 2019 - 05:08 AM
Tatoulia, I am so glad your bf is feeling better. I always worry more when dh is sick. People who "don't complain" are hard on those of us who really want to know how they are!

And I think shredding a few things at work is perfectly fine. Comparable to packing your lunch and using their trash to throw away packaging. I am sorry for the inconvenience, but you are being tough on this spend nothing challenge!

Tillie, I have fleece lined bibs and a barn coat with a drawstring hood and a scarf for my face. Also, the barn is less than a two minute walk. I will fill the water buckets in the laundry room so I don't have to stand outside. The hard part will be keeping Mr. kitty inside, but I have a little bag of fish flavored treats to distract him when we go out the door.

Last night the wind was so bad small branches were blowing out of trees. dh went out and put the truck in the studio barn. I was glad to have the truck under cover, but not so glad about dh going out! But I realized:
1) there was room to put the truck in the studio barn and I didn't have to run out and shove things around.
2) there was nothing left out in the yard that I was worried might blow away!

Yay me!
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Tillie
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 10:39 PM
So glad he is feeling better.
Now he should still take it easy & rest
but men will do what men will do.

Happy you can worry a little less tonight (((hug)))

What a bummer the shredder is down.
Did the motor burn out or is it just frozen or maybe it is permanently jammed?
Picture me kicking the darn thing across the floor.
So good that you have a shredder to use at work.
Just start a bag of sensitive papers and take it in with you when you go in.
Right now is not the time to buy a new one. :(
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 07:42 PM
Heard from BF. He's much better. Was at dr and all went well. I've been worrying myself to death. The neighbor who helped me with my groceries had seen him as he was leaving the garage and I asked her how he was and she said, he's a man of few words. I knew he'd been feeling poorly.

Thank goodness he's feeling better. I've been sick with worry but I can't push him.

My garbage is out. What a good feeling. I'm doing a little puttering. My shredder broke. I'm furious. I bought it last year. It was the cheapest I could find. I'll bring my papers to work and shred them there for now. Before that, I had an expensive one that lasted a very long time. I don't know what to do so I will shred at work for now. Just each day's mail. Won't be difficult. I'll use our shredder rather than the giant bins where the company pays to have things shredded.

Ok my worry level is lessening.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 07:38 PM
LOL Tatoulia :D
That darn badger sure is a booger to clean up after.
Next time, remember .
You do NOT want us to use the badger.

How's BF feeling? Any better? :(

Hi Subclinical
I was afraid you would get that deadly cold snap there.
Make sure to cover your ears too when going outside.
I love watching cows catching leaves in the wind.
Take care & stay safe (((hug)))

Hi Motown
the 20 is pretty darn cold too.
Fingers crossed your daughter & kids stay warm & safe.

Nothing to report here really.
Quite a boring day.
Kitchen is all clean, again.

Steven didn't go shopping today, YEA!!!
He just sat in his bedroom all day playing on the computer.
He recently relocated to sit in the garage on his computer in there.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 05:39 PM
Motown, I used to live in Chicago and to hear of Northbrook made me nostalgic. Oh how it used to get so cold in Illinois. I haven't lived there since the 80s. I guess I'm old.

My shredder is acting up which makes me upset. But I'm sure there's plenty of other things for me. Changed the cat box. Think I'll taje garbage out now. Ooh I'll vacuum bedroom quickly. The shampooer left behind a few little mats of badger fur.
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Subclinical
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 04:34 PM
We are not predicted to get snow, but very cold. The wind is howling right now as the warm front blows through and the goats are out in the warm wind catching leaves. Very funny to watch. Tomorrow it drops steadily to -2 and the wind chill is supposed to be 30 below overnight! The radio has been telling everyone to get all animals into shelter.

Mine will be all buttoned up in the barn and I will be wearing all my cozy stuff to go out. They are saying the wind can give you frost bite in less than 30 minutes, so I don't know if school will be affected.

Don't worry, I brush and floss.
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Motown
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 04:16 PM
Addressing the weather question that keeps popping up, no we are not in the path of any extreme weather. The lows are going to be in the 20s when for me here is WAY too cold. Did I mention I LOATHE cold? LOL! But my daughter and her kids just moved into a house (from a very small apartment) on Saturday. They live in Northbrook, Illinois which is a Chicago suburb. So it started snowing just about the time the movers pulled out and the kids are actually out for a snow day today. PLUS they have already cancelled school for Wednesday and Thursday as they are under a wind chill warning. The forecast high for Wednesday there is 12 degrees BELOW ZERO! Um, this girl has only one word to say about that. NO. End of discussion. Ain't no way.
So I hope that none of you other friends are in the path of extreme weather either.

Peace, love and keep warm!!
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 04:15 PM
We cross posted. I do not believe we are in the path of any big storm. Maybe a little snow and definitely some cold but I think we will be okay. I know our Midwest office was closed today due to weather. We aren't expecting anything too severe.

Such a pleasure to get the rug cleaned. It only needs it a few times a year. The cleaning solution smells really nice, too. Clean.

I meant to tell you, SubC, that I think you did a great job of only asking your mom to set aside a few objects. Excellent work!

Bf isn't feeling well. Yes at doctor now. Thank goodness as I have been worried to death.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 04:11 PM
Hey everyone!

Yes, we will use that Don't Make Me Get The Badger! I don't blame you for not getting the routine test. I can narrow it down to two things. I've done both and they are highly unpleasant.

Motown that's a great visual, the little game with the tiles. We call that churning.

My house is a pigsty, which I didn't realize til my neighbor came over. I have a bunch of groceries in my car that I wasn't able to get to my house yesterday so the woman who uses my car for her son came by with them. I wasn't embarrassed since the house is basically clean, it had the carpet cleaner pulled apart and drying in the kitchen and I still have a few things out of the bedroom such as my clothes hamper. So it's messy but honestly not all that dirty. Very good to see it through her eyes. I know what to work on tonight once the music is playing.

I got to the PO and mailed the box overseas. Now to put the cat food and other groceries away. Then garbage including cleaning litter box then back me quick swipe with the vacuum then attack papers. Ive kept my desk clean and clear so far,
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Tillie
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 04:09 PM
Hello Everyone

Hi Tatoulia
WAY TO GO!!!
Next time lets not wait so long to bring out the badger. ;D
Good luck with the post office.
Are you getting this next big storm?

Hi Subclinical
WAY TO GO! being selective about your Mom's offerings!
WONDERFUL Dr. visit!
Hoping the blood work shows only good results.
Are you in the path of this next big storm?


Hi Motown
The secret to solving those sliding puzzles is...
remove some of the tiles
then the rest of the picture easily slides into place.
Yes, when decluttering, sorting, organizing
things always look a lot worse before we finish.
Are you in the path of this next big storm?

Keep up the GREAT work! :D


As a dental assistant ever since I was 16, one thing I know is that we removed a LOT of people's perfectly good teeth because their gums were diseased with significant bone loss making the teeth loose.
Practicing good oral hygiene daily including flossing prevents this.
So simple, so easy. ;D
I went decades without any dental checkups and there was absolutely nothing wrong with my teeth or gums. :P

Before noon the clouds rolled in.
So I feel better about not doing anything outside today.
Did light the burn barrel though.
Soon I will wash dishes.
We are not expecting any severe weather this week.
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Subclinical
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 03:56 PM
Motown, I hope the sliding around helped.

I have to say that for me though, there came a point where I realized than no matter how much I slid it around, it wasn't going to get better until some of it slid out the door.

You may have all my turns to go to the dentist. The last work I had done was having my wisdom teeth out 24 years ago. No cavities since. No broken teeth. But when I was a kid, I had orthodontics and ten teeth pulled (over a long period of time and all my adult molars drilled out and filled in. My orthodontist tried to convince me to keep my appliance on a little longer when I was 17 and leaving for college. My mom tried to convince me too. I told her that I wanted it off now, but it was coming off no matter what as soon as I turned 18. So I was freed with teeth that were still a little crooked.

I actually found a dentist I liked when my youngest was almost two. I went to see him every six months for five years. Then we moved. I drove an hour back twice. I have given up on replacing him. Now I go see dh dentist when it has been so long I start to worry about cavities. And they yell at me about not coming regularly. Which really makes me want to go back (sarcasm).

Forgot to tell you my book arrived.
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Motown
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 03:43 PM
Hello all, Happy Monday!!!!!

I had a fairly productive Saturday once I got started. it was just small stuff but I worked hard at it. No noticeable difference and the mess created is maybe bigger than the beginning. I don't know. I just seem to move stuff from one place to another. Reminds me of those little plastic puzzles that kids used to get in grab bags with toys from Oriental Trading Company, etc. They were square with 8 tiles and space for 9 but they were mixed up and you had to slide them in a certain sequence to complete the picture on it. I never did successfully work one but the point is to just move a piece to a space made available by moving another piece, and so on. That is all I ever get done. I keep moving the pieces around but never get it done!!! Frustrating like trying to solve a Rubik's cube. anyway, I digress.

Subclinical's post made me think of something. You know how sometimes in groups the icebreaker is that we are instructed to say something interesting about ourselves or something people may not know about us? Well I can name three things about myself, things that I love that most people probably do not even like or actually detest:


1. Doing laundry and more specifically sorting socks. I do indeed love it.

2. Roundabouts like in Europe. A nearby town we frequent is implementing them and all I hear is how much people hate them. I love them! They keep traffic moving and reduce accidents.


3. Going to the dentist. If I could afford one luxury it would be to have my teeth professionally cleaned at least once a month. I really love my dentist and have never felt one bit of pain even during procedures, etc. Granted, I have not had any major work done just some broken teeth repaired and a few fillings, etc. But I love going.

Anyway, that's TMI I know but...had to share. I will shut up now and get back to work.
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Subclinical
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 03:13 PM
Yay Tatoulia!

Somehow, I feel like "don't make me get the giant badger" is going to come around again.

I went to the doctor. The doctor recommended a routine test which I am not going to get yet (statistically I should get it, using more specific information, there is little reason for me to get it. I'm using the mark twain principal on this one.) She also nudged me to go to the dentist every six months. I am not going to the dentist. My teeth are fine. In fact, she undermined her case when she said how nice my teeth were and I "want to keep them that way" which my brain heard as "your current method of going to the dentist every 5 or 6 years to be made miserable and yelled at for not going to the dentist is working just fine".

(Do not threaten me with the badger for not going to the dentist. It will not end well for the badger.)

Anyway, blood pressure was good! And I skipped breakfast, so I got my bloodwork done on the spot. Results in a few days. That was really a huge blessing because I only had to think about the fact that I was going to have blood drawn for about ten minutes.

Came home and talked to my mom for over an hour. She is thinning out books and Christmas ornaments and had to ask me about all of them. I think I ended up with 4 ornaments and a book set aside for me.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 02:13 PM
Just cleaned out the machine. Trying to get to PO to take overseas package out.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 12:13 PM
Ok done. It's remarkable how much dirt lifts up. Even on day 2. I haven't emptied the machine yet as I don't know if I'll try another pass. So gross.

Enjoy your beautiful day, Tillie. Will report back in a while.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 10:57 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Tatoulia
YEA! WTG!
Having a nice smelling clean rug! :D
The cleaning Fairies will be impressed too.


Looks like it's going to be another beautiful day here today.
Have no plans, will just wing it.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 28 January 2019 - 10:13 AM
The badger just threw up on the rug. Time to shampoo it again. I'm excited. It smells nice and will be ready for what is now Wednesday's project on the TV. Plus my cleaners come on Wednesday! Big doings!
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Tatoulia
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 05:03 PM
I just got in and yes, I am so pleased to have the rug shampooed and nice. Makes such a difference. Will do a second pass tomorrow. Some of the badger puke stains are a little difficult.

Snort. I'm laughing so hard I'm snorting. Cable bill! Badgers! Breaking the internet!!!

Love you all
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Tillie
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 03:21 PM
WAY TO GO! CriticalMass!!!
You got Tatoulia to shampoo her rug!
I tried my best but just wasn't scary enough I guess.

Wonderful how quickly we can get exactly what we need using the internet.

Good luck homing all the bunnies.
Unfortunately, easter is right around the corner and there will be more poor misused little waifs along with all the baby chicks & ducklings.

Hi Subclinical
You had a right to boast about your weight.
Falling off the wagon every now and then is alright as long as we don't give up and go whole hog every day.

Along with glowing spider webs, aren't dust motes so wonderful to watch? ;)


Hi Tatoulia

Isn't it wonderful to see all those ads telling us just how much we are saving by not buying anything! ;D

WTG! finally going over the rug and it does make sense to do it in two parts given the circumstances.



Just puttering around here today.
Very nice outside but my back, neck and shoulders are telling me to take it easy and not garden for a few days.
Clipping off the spent seed pods from the lilac bushes and pruning down the tallest lilac branches is a LOT of work in a position unnatural for humans.
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CriticalMass
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 01:12 PM
Oh my, I broke the thread!

I guess that's better than breaking the entire Internet...

ROTFL!! 😂😂😂

And hey, it got Tatoulia shampooing the rug! I regret nothing!

I was laughing so hard when that happened last night, and also praying Cory and Tillie wouldn't be mad at me...

SubC, I bet those pounds will go off quickly. I seem to have a new set point just one pound down from the higher point I got up to when I started getting sloppy. I wish it were more, of course, but the consistency is somewhat encouraging.

I'd hoped to get to the gym last week for sure, but on Wednesday I was needed to sit for my elderly lady friend all day, unexpectedly. So then my pay stub project lost a day's work, and then there was the episode of the fried computer cord Friday night. The new cord arrived this morning (Amazon Prime rocks).

So I am back on my main computer, badgers and all.

Well, actually, today's theme is bunnies, in that we have a board meeting for the bunny group this afternoon. We are getting so many bunnies in but no adopters. Pray we get some amazing bunny-loving people soon!

I also have the paperwork to do for the student loan debt; it also comes in January. Shouldn't be too bad, and I can probably do it here at home now that my roommate has a new laser printer that works - with documents like that I do keep a hard copy because I've had them lose my paperwork before and it helps me to just be able to look at it as I await their confirmation letter without having to boot up the computer, etc.

Well, I better get ready, so TTYL.

To anybody needing motivation in future, I will simply say:

DON'T MAKE ME GET THE GIANT BADGER!

Bwahahaaaaaa...
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Subclinical
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 12:53 PM
I think it was probably more that I held my ground long enough to become complacent. I have to remember that the body takes a long time to accept a new "set point" not just a week or so.

Puttering around today, catching up on little spaces. It's gorgeous and sunny today and so the light is streaming in all of my windows and making my spider webs glow. Not to mention pointing out that all the things that look dingey are actually dingey.

We often get mail informing us that the sender can save us $100/month by lowering our cable bill. I wave it at dh and say "look! Somebody wants to pay us $100 a month to get cable!"
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Tatoulia
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 11:31 AM
SubC you weren't bragging about your weight! You were celebrating. Please this wasn't karma. I found it inspirational. So unless you really think it was karma, please keep me posted on how you are doing.

I forgot to tell you that I too support your book purchase.

Ok! First pass with the shampoo machine. There are two settings and I did the lighter setting since BF and employee may be helping me with moving some things around in the bedroom and helping me with TV. I was dead set against TV in bedroom but now I'm not. I don't watch in living room and I only need one tv. Anywho I did the lighter setting because it affects the drying time. If need be, I'll do a second pass tmr. Or tonight if they don't come by.

It was easy and efficient. I did a quick second run of vacuum this AM.

Shower and mom time now. As to spending, it is remarkable that each day I wake up to emails from stores telling me how much I can save. I delete and save the full 100%.
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Subclinical
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 10:53 AM
That is the cutest badger I have ever seen. And he is right there on top. In case any of us needs a badger.....

I am off to a very slow star today - chores, yoga, and a relaxing morning with dh. But I am feeling more rested and relaxed and optimistic, so we will see how I do.

The only bad thing is that karma bit me for bragging about my weight. Too much pasta, cheese, bread and goodies the last couple of days and I am right back out of my zone. I will get it back though. (And then I will keep my mouth shut!)
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Tatoulia
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 10:15 AM
Ok the badger will win! Enjoying my coffee. Then will shampoo the rug.

It was time for a new file. And I certainly appreciated the effort of the badger picture. Really nice work.
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Tillie
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 09:50 AM
Good Morning Everyone

I fixed the formatting.
YEA!!! D
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Tillie
Posted: 27 January 2019 - 09:48 AM
Due to Godzilla Badger attack...





LOL :D
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