My story is much like yours....my 79 year old Mother In Law is living in a severe hoarding situation, her healthy is failing and she refuses to leave the home, let us do anything to clean things up, has no money to assist with anything. I have allergies and asthma and have a very difficult time being insider her home at all. My husband is the last surviving child and all of this is going to be left for him/us to deal with, and she's so stubborn and difficult to deal with that he's given up, become apathetic, and only does what he absolutely must for her. I'm in the middle....I would like to help this poor lady, but she isn't in the state of mind to let us help. She comes across very sensible, so doctors feel she is competent and they can't or won't listen to my concerns because she appears to be in her right mind, so we have no ability to step in....its so fruitless and exhausting...
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