Not to be funny. I'm really trying to be sincere .
Can you gift someone a maid? Like a Christmas gift card?
And as that room say the kitchen and bathroom are professionally cleaned. Then help personally with the living room so that you are comfortable .
I'm no expert in anyway, or will ever claim to be. But speaking from the hoarder side. My invites don't come back when the liviving is trashed , or the kitchen is moldy, or the toilet is filthy .
To me if a hoarder is unwilling to allow others to clear and clean those three places. Then I would just let it go and not go back.
Make a deal , have help you do some chores at your place and then get in there and get it to the point a maid can take over.
In this way you may find others on her social media that may want to pitch in , but not if the first room is cluttered , no where to sit , eat, wash, or pee. No one else will want to go in there and help either.
I like it that your see her and family in different lenses than just their house condition. I think the other poster are right. How involved do you want to be? How willing are they to accept help?
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