I am going to jump in here fast and hard. My mom is a serious hoarder. The 83 year old type with incredible social skills and a love of nature and people. At home she is a hoarder. Pathways to rooms piled near the ceiling, most rooms stuffed, sleeping on a 1x5 foot are of her bed and a house that is falling apart. All of the love and attention is not helping her to throw away a twig. She collects things regularly in the mountains around L.A. She has alzheimers, a boyfriend of 60 years, and is feisty as anyone on earth, all 80 pounds of her. She drives, and she fights. Ok now... to most people who know these diseases it is all perfectly common. Have been dealing with this with the help of siblings. We have achieved nothing. Every attempt ends up in a fight. Someone should have a fasr answer by now. I am a solution minded person. I just need to know the following: What is the most direct way to get control of the situation without causing her to go into histerics. I have never been successful at helping her beyond ignoring the problem and taking her out to eat. When my sis and i try we end up going through the equivalent of a box or two of things and secretly throwing things out. At this rate we will have just one room clean by the year 2060.
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