Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry. I know you must be hurting very badly. You don't know at this point what the outcome will be so don't go scaring yourself so much.
If he does split, perhaps he is not the one for you to rely upon. Doesn't mean he's bad, just means it is not the real match you thought or hoped for. If he does come back, have a very serious talk about what he sees for the next year or so, okay?
Meanwhile, use whatever resources you have to steady yourself. I have not had someone break up over hoarding, but I have certainly been through brutal breakups (brutal emotionally). We do get through. Bring your friends and relatives close to you.
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