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Tillie
Posted: 04 July 2019 - 09:39 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Tatoulia
I guess that until the Summer heat is over with you really should stick to mall walking.


Really super, super quiet this morning.
Even the birds are being quiet.

The apricots at the top of the tree are ripe and falling off in droves.
Almost every single apricot that falls has a little bird beak hole pecked out of it.

The other night someone was setting off fireworks.
Fingers crossed that nobody does that today.
Also hope there isn't any of the usual gunfire.
Anyways, have the cat carriers all ready to evacuate.

My only plan for today is to remove the candle wax from my candle holders.
Read that the easiest way to remove the wax is by putting the holders in the freezer and the wax should come off pretty easy.
The candle holders are in the freezer.
They are depression glass with that intricate embossed design that makes it hard to clean them well.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 03 July 2019 - 08:40 PM
Good work, Tillie!

I stayed at work til about 3:20 (we closed at 2) then I walked very, very slowly home. Hot and humid, but not super oppressive. I did a quick load of delicates and I've been asleep ever since. Did not walk tonight.

I'm going to have to walk in the malls tmr.

Goodnight everyone.
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Tillie
Posted: 03 July 2019 - 04:37 PM
Hi Tatoulia

That is a very good To-Do list.

Reusable shopping bags...
First evaluate how/where/when you grab them to use them.
A good storage place is somewhere near where you are when you decide you need them.
Coat closet on your way out of the house?

Then declutter them.
Toss into recycling any that are too worn out or maybe something nasty leaked in there.

Then decide which bag would be the best bag to put all the other bags into.
Bag up the bags all into that one bag.

Since they have carry handles they can be hung from a hanger or on a hook.

So, you are venturing into the diningroom closet again.
Good luck and best wishes. ;)


My secretary display case is all done and everything has been safely put back all shiney and clean.
Scooter quickly grew bored with "helping".
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Tatoulia
Posted: 03 July 2019 - 11:33 AM
Great idea to clean the items in your desk! Please be careful. I think that it is inevitable to lose one's balance. I fall sometimes too. I blame it on gravity.

I have my list for the weekend
Hallway table. Get rid of clutter creep
Reusable Shopping bags. The drawer isn't working as a good place to keep them. And I have too many
Dining room closet. Clean and clear.

Big tasks yet I love the list.

At office; must run.
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Tillie
Posted: 03 July 2019 - 10:54 AM
Good Morning Everyone

Hi Subclinical
WAY TO GO!!!
That's fantastic!
Only accepting items you know you have a place and a use for.
In the past, I know you would have tried to accept them all, believing you would someday find the perfect use them.

A night in an internet free yurt...
Bet that was so quiet and peaceful. :D


Hi Tatoulia
Good you had something to eat, hope the bellyache settles down.

Good luck with work today. ;)

YEA! for the new recliner!
Upsetting that she is falling. :(
Sure hope the nurses figure out what's going on and ways to help her.
It hurts to fall. :(


Falling is now one of my biggest worries.
Dizziness or just teetering over, unable to maintain my balance have become worse at times.
Think it may be an inner ear issue.

My plan for today is to carefully remove all my precious delicate treasures from the secretary desk display case.
Dust & polish the display case inside, wash and replace my heirlooms.
Even kept behind glass they get dusty over time.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 10:16 PM
Wow! Great work. SubC! Very good job in saying No! Sometimes you have to put your foot down and keep it down!!! Well done!

I bet the internet free yurt was terrific!

Thank you both. I still have a bad belly but I was able to eat. Then I visited BF then Mom.
I am going to work tmr. We have work til 2. I'll never finish my work by then. Never. But I'll try.

I have my little buddy next to me now. Oh! Mom's new recliner looks so nice in her apt. She fell again last night. That's a lot of calls in less than a week. The nurses came over today to talk to her.

Okay goodnight my dear hearts.
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Subclinical
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 09:12 PM
Feel better! Not felt better.
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Subclinical
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 09:12 PM
Oh Tatoulia, felt better!

Quick check in.

Dh took me to a lovely overnight in a state park where we stayed in an internet free yurt.very restful!

Now we are at mom and dad's. In six hours, I have already rejected the rolls of upholstery fabric my aunt tried to give me, rejected two books, accepted two books and the original door knocker from this house (built when i was 7), and started helping mom clean out photos and put them in albums - which resulted in my getting an envelope of photos, but also some going in the trash.

We also cleaned out a bunch of empty binders.
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Tillie
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 07:34 PM
Here is some tea and sympathy
Feel better soon
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Tatoulia
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 06:59 PM
I'm home now. Feeling sick to my stomach. It's not too hot and not too humid but I feel really sick anyway.

Going to lay down for a bit. I need to go to mom's but I need to rest my head.
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Tillie
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 11:35 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Tatoulia
Wishing you a day filled with wonderful experiences. :)

Contemplating today hosing the car off so maybe tomorrow I'll go to town and empty out the donation stuff.
Or maybe I'll wait to do that when I need to go to town to buy food.
I dunno...

At least the items are out of the house and in the car for now.

Watered yesterday, did laundry yesterday, no backlog of dishes to wash.
After taking care of cat tasks, I'm good.
Guess I have the day off and can spend it watching ROKU and beading or something.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 02 July 2019 - 06:34 AM
Tillie thank you. You are so sweet. And right. Thank you. Goodbye old luggage trunk.

It's all just adding up. And for no reason. So let's start some subtraction!
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Tillie
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 11:25 PM
Hi Tatoulia

WTG! getting in the walking and getting trash/recycling out & taking care of Miss Kittie's box!

Good luck with AC installation and fingers crossed it is fine so you can recycle the box.

YEA! for filling your donation bin/box/bag!

My feelings about small insignificant items...
Sure, they aren't big impressive things but all together they do add up to miscellaneous clutter.

It's like a gum wrapper on the floor, no big deal
but it is still something small laying on the floor where it has no use or value.
Except a cat will lay on it and cats opinions don't count.

Some people have entire drawers stuffed full of those small random things.
Every home gets small random things laying about here & there.

EVERY little bit out helps.
Unwanted unneeded small items are clutter.
Slip them into a donate bag or just throw them in the trash and you will never have to think about them again.
Unclutter your brain, get rid of small riffraff.

OK, they are small things or something like one pair of socks
it all adds up.

I have a very small box to donate that contains dollhouse things, things my dollhouse does not need.
I could cram these things into my dollhouse and the dollhouse would look terrible and cluttered and no fun.
They are not particularly nice (primitive) and are not needed.
A child would enjoy playing with them.

It is important after decluttering the big things that we spend some time rifling through our small things and decluttering them too.

It's worth it even though you are indifferent to it. :)


47 years ago I bought a trunk.
It's only about 20 inches tall and 40 inches long.
It's covered with a green patterned vinyl and is attractive.
Been contemplating letting it go for a few years.
Today I put it in the car.
I am happy. Letting go of old baggage/luggage.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 10:16 PM
Tillie I walked around Northeastern University's campus tonight, from about 8 til 9:30. Then I went to CVS then I walked home. So I was glad to get all of my walking in.

I just took my blood pressure and recorded it for my dr.

The walking is so good for me and I was glad to have the change of pace tonight.

Tillie here is something I am struggling with: when I choose a small item to donate, how is that helping me? Today a little magnet was added to my box. I'm not sure how that makes a difference. Or if I take a pair of socks from my drawer. I understand seven pair of socks. Or a bag of magnets. But when it's something small I don't feel anything. And I wonder if it's worth it. I need some perspective.

So I have the little box ready to go. I did put in some very clean and lightly used underwear.

So it is time for me to go to bed. Bf and employee brought the AC over. BF has to modify the panel that goes in the window. I measured repeatedly then brought him a piece I won't need and he sawed it for me, I brought it home to check how it works, and I was able to give him the precise measurements for the piece that I need. So I thought of you, Tillie.


Goodnight dear friends.

Ps garbage out, recycling out, clean cat box. I saved the AC box because I need to see that it works before putting with recycling.
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Tillie
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 06:17 PM
Good Afternoon Everybody

Hi CriticalMass
I hate wasps with a red hot passion.

Hope that was the one and only this Summer and that it's dead.

A person can be stung a hundred times in their lifetime and not be allergic.
But then one day the next sting will cause an anaphylactic reaction.
Same thing with bees & penicillin & Etc...

Hi Tatoulia
WAY TO GO! having some things in your donation box!!!

YEA!!!! HAPPY DANCE!!!!!
Hope the new AC is everything it's supposed to be!!!.. :D

So nice to hear about breakfast with your friend.

Now you listen to me...
Do EVERYTHING your doctor asks you to do.
We are waiting for him to give you a complete clean bill of health concerning this matter.
(((HUG)))


Been doing my Swedish cleaning method.
Have a LOT in the car trunk & back seat to drop off.
Quite a bit of it is for the animal shelter.
Feel good about the new emptier spaces and enjoying the process.
Have had no qualms about anything I have been letting go.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 04:53 PM
I have an expression I use when things go awry and there's no real telling what caused things to spin so terribly out of control: there's a little tension surrounding the project.

So when this starts happening, and BY WAY OF EXAMPLE I find myself crying out of control over what, we do not know, and the other person is finding me rude, flippant or uncaring, I choke out the words. There's a little tension surrounding the project, we both laugh and move on. Try it. It's great. It finds its genesis in a situation where a friend of mine discovered that one of his three boys had a videotaped school project due the next day, it was 9 PM, his wife was putting the youngest to bed, the eldest was filming the project and decided to get artsy and there were weird zoom-ins on the middle child's chin, for example, and now it's 11 PM and it's still not done and my friend just started screaming at his kids and cussing, etc, wife shouted "what is going on down there" and before he could answer, his son said, just a little tension surrounding he project.

It solves everything.
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CriticalMass
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 03:55 PM
Brief update - haven't seen the wasp. Got distracted outdoors and ended up planting the rest of my container plants. Roommate was outside unbeknownst to me and wasn't angry, so at least that's resolved. I hope I didn't come across as if I didn't care; of course I don't want her to get stung and have anaphylactic emergency. And I know she wouldn't think that of me. I just get flustered and we're both under a lot of stress.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 02:28 PM
Ps Tillie. Yup, as I suspected, three cats included Jack.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 02:25 PM
Oh CM that is so frustrating! All of it! I too am allergic to wasps. And I too have frustrations when my plans are messed up. I am so sorry! I hope the wasp has been chased away. I am so so sorry it's hard to shake that frustrating feeling. I hope by the time you read this that it has passed.

SubC your loving relationship with your husband is a thing to behold! You are a great mother and a great citizen of this planet. Thank you for all you do. Yes a vacation is in order!!!

I have a box with two penguins to go to goodwill. I put in some underwear to cushion the penguins. They are both relatively large and I'm ready to part ways with them.

I am shredding papers. Have completed two loads of laundry and dry and I'll go check on the third. Bed made, dishes done, I need to make some more choices (more positive than decisions) to get rid of things. I have a few things I am thinking of.

My new AC comes today.

Good breakfast with friend today. I haven't seen him in over a year. He said, you look fantastic. He's very impressed and very pleased that I haven't seen my brother in over a year and he loved the pictures of my house. I'll have him over some time. But it might be weird as that's not really our relationship. I'll get all awkward. So I'll just take more pictures. Ok.

My doctor thinks I'm doing okay. I haven't been as vigilant with some of the things he needs so I have to step it up if I'm to succeed.

I'll go work on the box to donate now.
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CriticalMass
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 01:49 PM
This is a frustrated vent post for now. Hopefully the subject of the vent will be resolved soon and I can write a happier and more interesting post.

Yesterday I was drifting off for a nap in my bedroom and heard a slight buzzing sound. I opened my eyes and saw what I thought was a fat bee hovering above my frog's terrarium.

Later, after my nap, it was nowhere to be seen, then it reappeared. Turns out it wasn't a bee. It was a WASP. Ugh. My roommate is allergic so that's freaky, and then of course the stupid insect disappears again.

Toward morning I thought I heard buzzing again. The wasp was between the blinds and windowpane. I smacked and smacked. The body fell down into a box of books. I could not find the body. Then I lifted a vinyl protective cover off one book and out flies the wasp!

So we've opened the inner windows and are hoping it flies in there and we can shut that window. I've Googled and learned more about wasps than I would rather know. My roommate shut all the curtains in the living room and we ended up being upset at each other because I wanted to do some work and with my cataracts I can't see in a dimly lit room. Ugh again.

This is my life so much of the time. Some dumb unexpected weird and tricky to resolve thing when there is already too much going on. And my anxiety turns me into an obnoxious control freak. If I lived by myself I'd feel alone dealing with stuff, but in some ways that'd be better. I got low marks on "works well with others" in first grade. Nothing much has changed.

Pray for me/us.

End of rant, for now.
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Tillie
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 12:32 PM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Subclinical
Please do not compare yourself to other people.
They have not and do not live the life you have led.
You are unique and do so many things and so much for other people and your community and the world's ecosystem.

Now that you are at a new phase in your life
you are changing your home environment to match.

Please be proud of yourself and all you have accomplished in your life.

Have a marvelous vacation.
Enjoy every minute of it.
You have earned this fun free time. (((HUG)))

WTG! DH for all you have done and for acknowledging Subclinical's accomplishments.
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Subclinical
Posted: 01 July 2019 - 04:40 AM
Tatoulia, I am glad to see you back sounding better.

I don't know about a July challenge - I have two weeks of vacation in July. The one i'm about to take, and fair week.

I fell apart last night. Both my girls who were here this weekend are going through difficult times. I was able to help one of them with some money, but all I can do for the other is hold her while she cries and remind her that we love her. On top of that, all day while I was getting ready for this trip, I was faced with reminders that my "really good" still falls short of most people's every day.

Dh told me that I have been doing an amazing job on the basement for three straight weeks and that he kept expecting me to get tired and quit, but that I didn't. And that our kids are fantastic and I raised them and they are going to face rough spots but they will be ok. And that I really need a vacation.

Then he emptied the dishwasher, completely cleaned the kitchen, refilled the cat food, and put my feed in the barn. He never does barn stuff.

I'll probably still check in while i'm traveling.
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Tillie
Posted: 30 June 2019 - 08:46 PM
Hi Tatoulia
Very happy you are feeling better, more like yourself.

Nice you had a good visit today and plans to visit your friend tomorrow.

Sleep.
Get all the sleep your body and mind need.

YEA! for getting your nails done!
It's always nice to have our nails looking good.

Good plan for a July challenge.
Nice thing about our challenges is that we can roll them over.
Sometimes we have the best intentions but life gets in the way.

Breakfast line up was Twinkles, Scooter and Jack.
Jack lays on either the front or back porch waiting for me to notice him.
Pretty easy in the daytime but impossible at night unless I turn on the porch lights.
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Tatoulia
Posted: 30 June 2019 - 08:12 PM
Hello everyone!

I did not keep my June challenge of Covering Old Ground, where I will revisit drawers and cabinets and see what else can go, look for clutter creep, etc. so I'd like to do for July. I am desperate to get rid of more things. Any things. I will also post more photos of my home and of things I'm getting rid of.

Today I feel like myself again. Yesterday I had a lovely time at my friend's house with mom. Her new place is so clean and neat and well-decorated with lots of space. So nicely done. Very motivating.

I got home around 5, ran some errands with BF and then fell sound asleep. Got up around 10, 11 PM to feed kitty and slept til this AM. I did feel more like me when I got up. I walked some this AM and got my nails done. Then BF and I drove out to see our friends and their kids. Lovely time. We got back here in time to drive a friend to the airport and then I just got in. I was going to go for a walk, esp since I have no bread or groceries in the house but now I realize I'm here. And I'm going to bed.

In the AM I am meeting a friend for breakfast at 8. I havent seen him in a year.
Tillie three cats? Does the three include Jack?

My friend said, you are looking so svelte when she saw me today. Pretty nice.

I'm going to wash my face and go to bed. I'm too tired to walk.

I look forward to re-joining every one here. I've missed you while I tried to sort out myself.

And I feel that I can make a better balance this coming week. I am noticing big changes in my body with all the walking. The weight may be the same, but there's some noticeable slimming going on.

Congratulations to everyone for your hard work. I'm so proud of you all. I'm feeling so much better after the long sleep. And I'm thrilled that today I forced myself to get a manicure Even though I had to walk to four different shops. All were filled up! And the place where I ended up was very nice. I may return for a pedicure on Friday.
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Tillie
Posted: 30 June 2019 - 03:50 PM
Good Afternoon Everybody

YEA! Subclinical!
Your home was company ready and the barn is baby sitter GREAT!

So wonderful DD's BFF complimented!

Will miss you while you're away but you have a fantastic relaxing time.
You have earned it (((HUG)))

Hi Tatoulia
Hi CriticalMass
Hi everybody ;)



Woke up this morning and read here but 3 cats were nagging at me for canned food breakfast.
Got up and got them feed to get them off my back then did a bunch of tidying up and then washed kitty breakfast dishes and so on and so on and so on...

Very last day of June 2019

My challenge for July will be to maintain my "No Clutter Zones" and garden area.
I must try to ignore him because he just makes me sick.
I must just accept I live precariously surrounded by wildfire dangers.
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Subclinical
Posted: 30 June 2019 - 05:06 AM
good morning everyone!

My new glasses are in my cabinet and the odd extras are in the discard pile (I am up a net of three glasses because I had ten before, but they fit in the cabinet.)

Yesterday was a lot of people for me. I wasn't expecting ❤️Dd for another hour when a car pulled in - it was youngest Dd - who spent the night and is still here. Then ❤️Dd and ❤️Gs arrived and we had a nice visit. They had just left when one of dd2s friends dropped by, and then in the evening, dd2's best friend and her little sister came by to check everything out because they will be farm sitting for me, and they stayed to visit.

But, my house is in order. There were clean dishes, the living areas had places to sit, and dd's Bff (who is like family) looked at my barn and said "this is the best i've ever seen it!"

Today I am going to get ready to go tomorrow.
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Tillie
Posted: 29 June 2019 - 01:55 PM
Hi Subclinical
Glass drinking glasses are the best in my opinion.
We use them and some get broken now & then.
Nice that you now have plenty in the style you like and can now release the other partial sets. :D

UMMMMMMM!.... donuts, from a fancy bakery.
Sweet treat.

That would be fantastic if a space at that pop up market turns out to be a good outlet for some of your pottery.
Monthly sales.


Went out and did a little in my garden this morning.
Just finished an early lunch, resting before I do something else somewhere.

Steven got up about 10:45am. Sat at his computer and just now has left to go shopping. >:(

I am so very disgusted with him and him never doing anything around this dump.


Anyways, time for me to play with my dollhouse.
I'm all caught up on ALL my chores.
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Subclinical
Posted: 29 June 2019 - 10:22 AM
Tell scooter he can only supervise!

I went out this morning and bought feed. Stopped at the monthly pop up market and found out all you have to do to get a space is talk the woman who runs it into giving you one - there were no potters.

Bought donuts for me and dh at the fancy cake shop.

Stopped at a garage sale on the way home. When I woke up this morning, I had parts of four sets of drinking glasses. The garage sale had 11 glasses that matched the ones I like best. So, I am going to have 13 glasses that match and get rid of the rest. Cheaper than the donuts.
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Tillie
Posted: 29 June 2019 - 09:45 AM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Subclinical
You're welcome (((hug)))

That was your first go-round tackling those emotionally charged bins and you did great.

When we first put fabric items in bins/boxes they are fluffed up with air.
Over time they compress down, all the air fluffiness is pressed out of them.
So they end up very compacted.
The things you have repacked into the bins are now a bit fluffier, more air between the fibers.
This is why it still fills most of the bins even with a lot of items removed.
Don't let that depress you, you have made really great progress.

Have a wonderful day today :D

Hi Tatoulia
Hi CriticalMass
Hi you all :)

Beautiful cool morning, high 50s.
Perfect time to get busy doing yardwork, so much to be done.
But he is still sleeping...

Today I need to vacuum.
Need to do a pedicure.
Plan to play with the dollhouse.
Have the new items in there but want to arrange things nicer and hang the spoon rack on the wall.
Hoping Scooter won't want to "help" me. ;)
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Subclinical
Posted: 29 June 2019 - 05:52 AM
Tillie, i'm Glad your day was better and also your back.

Thank you for being so supportive yesterday.

I can't believe how tightly I had managed to pack those bins. I'm sad because I felt like I was doing really well choosing things to discard, and I thought I would be able to empty the two cardboard boxes and maybe even have an empty bin for some of the things that are still in the pile. But visually there is no sign that I worked except a big pile of discards that gives me no satisfaction to look at. (In fact, I need to avoid looking at it so I don't get tempted to backslide.)

It's like when I tell dh I have been working in a room and he can't tell. But last night he saw how exhausted I was and he was nice to me. He even asked me about why getting rid of the fabric was so hard. And he listened. And he promised that if I need fabric he will buy it for me.

He says I have to take a break today and do something different because my brain needs rest.

❤️Dd and ❤️gs are coming by this afternoon.

Tatoulia and Critical Mass, how are you?

And shout out to Joan and others who don't come by often.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 09:58 PM
Well, today was better.
My back wasn't hurting all the time.
Made my potato salad and cleaned the kitchen.
Took a while because I would stop often and rest my back then get back to it.
Watered my flowers, have 5 deep red roses blooming now.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 07:51 PM
YEA! WTG! Subclinical!

That is a really GREAT start!

WOOHOO! for getting rid of a LOT of stuff!

Now enjoy the evening, eat some ice cream and have some good solid sleep.

You really did FANTASTIC today. :)
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Subclinical
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 07:32 PM
I have six bins of fabric that are sorted out and labelled.

I have eight bins that are partly or completely unfinished, plus two boxes.

I got rid of a LOT of stuff - if I had to pack it up again, I would need at least one more bin, maybe two. But everything was squashed and packed so tightly that I only have about 1/3 of a bin of empty space.

This is very frustrating and I am exhausted.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 02:54 PM
Subclinical
You ARE going to get through this (((HUG)))

This is a very big task.
Just keep at it and it will get done, maybe/probably not to perfection but it will get done.

Like they say "you have to break a few eggs to make an omelet".

Projects ALWAYS look so much worse before they get better.

Glad you ate and ate real food too!

You knew that a project of this size and what you are sorting through would take time and a lot of mental work too.

Hang in there (((HUG)))
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Subclinical
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 02:41 PM
This. Is. So. Very, very hard.

And I cannot quit. I cannot stop and give up and tell myself I will get to it later.

Later doesn't come.

The default is not "it goes back in the bin." The default is that if I cannot sort through it, it goes in a bag and it leaves.

I am not there yet. It might be better for it to leave, but in the long term, I believe it is better for me to face what I have done and keep making decisions. I need to get through the doubting and the second guessing.

I need you guys to tell me I am going to make it.

I started out sorting out bins and then putting them back, but I kept aging to get them back out and change what was in them because every bin s so mixed up. I have six bins out in the new room right now because it has a big open floor space. It is a mess. I can't even tell how i'm Doing. I must be making some progress, because I know I have gotten rid of things, but I feel like every bin just explodes and takes up twice as much space.

The bin of feed sacks is neatly racked.

That's it. One, out of 14+2.

I took a break and cooked myself lunch - with vegetables. I ate a pint of frozen applesauce instead of a pint of ice cream.

I am trying.
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Tillie
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 12:02 PM
Good Morning Everybody

Hi Tatoulia :)

Hi CriticalMass
WAY TO GO! sorting through some of the piled up stuff!
Good luck reorganizing the dolls to make them fit in the boxes.
Once the room is better organized and the storage unit better organized it will be easier to figure out ways you can do crafts without them being ruined before they are finished.
Keep up the good work chipping away at obstacles. :)


Hi Subclinical
Give your brain time to adjust to this next sorting out phase.
You are just now starting to look at the things in these bins.
Things you haven't looked at in a while.

Open some bins, sort through the items and let your brain process what's there.
Sift & shift things around for a bit, churn a little.

Before long your brain will start to make order out of the chaos.

The nice thing about dollhouse fabrics is we don't need to hold onto a great length of yardage.
I had several yards of the perfect fabric for reupholstering the sofa and 2 chairs in the parlor.
But I only kept a foot which is more than enough to do the job.


Yesterday was the perfect day to do yardwork.
Cool and overcast.
Steven spent the day inside the garage...
Today is another good day to work outside, cool and overcast.
Tomorrow the sun and heat will be back.

Woke up this morning to the smell of smoke, there is a grass fire somewhere nearby.

Think the stress is making me feel so sick and tired.
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Subclinical
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 04:55 AM
CM, I am glad you were able to make some space in your room. Isn't it weird how new tools (different bins in your case) often help us approach the problem better?

Tillie, those are good thoughts, but I am ok with giving the fabric to st. Vincent's if I can just make myself part with it. (Like the reuse store, I feel like I am joining a fee based fabric library) actually, the reuse store has fabric sometimes too.

I opened one bin last night and found some things to part with, but I am getting in my way. My brain keeps automatically listing all the things I could make from every piece I touch. I need to find some objective standards to use.

Maybe I will find the feed sacks and treat them like my favorite dress (is the project i'm Envisioning more or less fun/important than fixing my great grandmother's quilts?)

Maybe I need to sort by project (if I have a shoebox full of dollhouse fabrics, I have enough!)

I don't know.

Dh liked my shoes.
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CriticalMass
Posted: 28 June 2019 - 12:01 AM
Ooh, I like the concept of "curating" my doll collection! It just sounds much nicer. I think it was SubC awhile back who mentioned that things with faces are harder to sort and let go of.

If dolls I decide to let go of can go to kids who will appreciate them I would feel much better.

Back in the early 90s, among other crafts, I discovered polymer clay. And polymer clay dollmaking. I only made 3 dolls and starts on others. I bought many little face, arm, and leg molds for small dolls (which would go on a stuffed cloth torso). That's a hobby I got really captivated by, and a bucket list thing. I still have those marvelous molds.

It's been difficult to attempt polyclay because of shortage of space, pet hair and dust, and the whole process of taking out the materials and working then having to stow it away, especially pieces that aren't ready for baking. But maybe I can figure out a portable way.

This evening I did more with neatening up the dolls, and in the process I'm also moving other piled stuff - mostly books and papers - found a bank statement for March 2018 that I knew had to be somewhere, tossed some obsolete things, & other misc. It's giving me hope that this room, small though it is, can be reclaimed as useable space to live in rather than just wade though from door to bed and back. Yay!
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Tillie
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 06:45 PM
A nice dress that would/will come in handy at a time when you would have to go out and try & find a proper dress for the occasion is not clutter.
Think of it like snow shoes, you might need them some Winter if the snow is deep and you need to get to town.

Too bad the new red Mary Janes aren't perfect to wear with that dress.

Good luck channeling your stubbornness super powers!

Is there a quilting guild there that makes lap quilts for elderly folk?
Or someone who makes quilts for homeless puppies & kitties?
Knowing the fabric was going to a good cause is helpful when making decisions.
I give all my fabric items to the animal shelter, towels, sheets, table cloths, blankets, drapes, etc...
I am very generous when it comes to animals.
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Subclinical
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 05:33 PM
So sorry Tillie, they are eu 40, too big for you, just right for me.

I was sad when I went to put them away, because I had just the right number of shoes for my shelf.

I realized one pair only matched the dress I am not sure about, so I put the dress on. I forgot that it has hidden pockets. I love pockets. It is a very fancy dress and it is possible that dh could take me to a work thing where I would need such a fancy dress, and then I would have to buy one - probably with no pockets. So I hung the dress back in my closet and this story has a sad ending.

But I will keep an eye out for a pair of shoes to let go.

And dh plans to retire in six years. By which time i'm Sure the dress and shoes will be the last unnecessary things in my house.🤣

The dishes are stacked with the plaster molds in my studio. I am totally amped up to go out and use them tomorrow, but I am going to channel my stubbornness super power and sort fabric instead.

My children had a video game when they were kids where you built things using Tonka trucks. If you started the skyscraper and then tried to drive the excavator away to work on the sports center, the foreman said "finish one job before you start another." It was early generation electronics, so it had a funny cadence. To this day, my kids still mimic it to each other when they think someone is getting ahead of themselves. Not doing that is part of how I got into this mess. So I am listening to the little tonka foreman in my head. No casting plaster until I finish the basement.

And clean out more studio space to work....

CM, I think curating your collection is a great idea if you are ready. Especially if you can pass the ones that are more play worthy than display worthy on to some children.
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Tillie
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 04:35 PM
Good Afternoon Everyone

Hi Subclinical
OK, that happens...
Sometimes we just need to set something aside for a while then rethink.

Meantime try to use or wear or display the item to see how we truly feel about it.

I want those shoes!
My favorite color is red and my favorite shoes are Mary Janes!
What size are they? 7 1/2???
:D

Thrift shops around these parts would accept a wheelbarrow wheel.
I see a lot of horse tack and chicken feeders & such.

OK, so the dishes are for your arts & crafts and a future teaching aid.
Is there a space to keep them until needed?
Make sure they don't get buried and lost in the back of a cupboard.

Hi CriticalMass
When we start to make a collection of something we tend to pick up what we find.
Then over time we can see that our collection contains some very fine pieces and some ho-hum not so great pieces.
That's when it's good to fine tune our collection, keeping the best and releasing the ho-hum ones.
With collections "Less Is More", quality over quantity.


Just made & ate a grilled cheese sandwich.
Have done very little today because for some unknown reason my lower back really hurts, especially when standing.
Doing much better today not having sugar cravings.
Did not dream of cake last night either.
Maybe I'm over the hump?
Sky is covered with thick high clouds making it sorta muggy. :p
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CriticalMass
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 04:25 PM
Moving slower today than I expected and not real sure why. Perhaps yesterday was too exciting. Woke up just not organized, and with the remnants of kooky dreams not cleared from my head.

Worked some though with the Barbies in my room, trying the plastic sweater box instead of shoebox sized boxes. I think probably it will be more efficient, streamlined in appearance and less precariously stacked. It's an interim solution most likely.

Feeling myself easing more into the idea that my doll collecting needs to cap soon, and I may even be willing to let go of a few, such as near duplicates, to a worthwhile charity. Maybe to one of the groups that gives them to poor children. I saw one in which the ladies make a few outfits to go with a doll. Kind of up my alley.

Will ponder that. I will need a couple more sweater boxes, but the shoeboxes will be going to storage. I can put loose items in them over there. Smaller boxes are good for dealing with as I get older and if (God willing) I ever get my own place, they'll be easier to move. If someday I'm even more streamlined in general, well, I can give the boxes themselves away.

Weelll... it's almost 4:30. How to best use this fragment of an afternoon...
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Subclinical
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 03:15 PM
Ok, that went somewhat badly.

When I was packing things up, I rescued a dress from the donate box (actually, I left it in the donate box - which lives in my basement, but I need to think about it some more.)

I went in to the thrift store to look at/for white belts, black dress pants, and immersible blenders. I bought a pair of red leather Mary Janes and two glass covered casserole dishes that I think will be excellent for making plaster slump pottery molds. My rationale being:
I don't make casseroles because they are hard
All the casseroles sell out at the fall sale
A slump mold would make making a casserole a lot easier
I'm teaching a unit on plaster slump molds next year and I have to demonstrate with something.

I really like the shoes. They are in near mint condition.

The thrift shop would not accept the wheelbarrow wheel. So I stopped at the farmer's market and gave it away. Then I bought myself a decadent chocolate brownie from the dessert lady. Which I already ate. Dh gets a blueberry scone.
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Tillie
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 11:23 AM
Good Morning Everyone
"Clink!"


Hi Subclinical
YEA! for waking up this morning to that big clear counter!
Nothing sitting there, nothing waiting to be gotten to.

Enjoy being outside today cleaning stalls and running errands.

You are so much better at making good keep/toss/donate decisions now.
I am confidant that once you get into those bins & boxes you will be able to meet your goals.
Some of those projects are so old you will no longer be interested in doing them.
Some of the materials won't look as appealing any more since you know where to find fresh new ones.
Since the last time you looked at this stuff you have seen new projects that you would like to do some day.

Let getting a new & improved sewing machine all set up be your inspiration. ;D

I used to sew all the time.
Clothes, quilts, toys, curtains, etc.
Now I don't want to sew as much.
Have enough quilts and clothes and all that.
But I did have a WONDERFUL time using up all my fabric stash making rag rugs and buying more yardage to make even more rag rugs.
But now I have enough rugs and gifted some too.
Someday I will think of another project that inspires me.
The thrift shop always has beautiful high quality cotton fabric and it's priced so cheaply.

It would be nice if I would step into the present time and get a phone/camera and learn how to take photos and how to post things on the internet.
I love looking at Tatoulia's photos.
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Subclinical
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 09:39 AM
Also, can I just say how much I appreciate having a place where I can SAY that I have 14 bins and two boxes of sewing related stuff without feeling like I am going to face the following:

So, you must sew a lot.
No, actually. I used to.
What's the last thing you made?
A decorative pillow for my daughter's bed. Well, actually she made it and I helped.
Oh, for her new apartment?
No, for her bed at home.
How old was she?
13.
And now she's 22?
Yes, but i'm Going to get back to it.
Look of incomprehension/judgement

I made dresses and vests and pants and costumes and curtains and quilts, and toys...

And now I just use my sewing machine to mend stuff. When I even bother to do that.

A bag of fabric at st. Vincent's is $5. Two bags would be too much for a bin. I need to write that on a sign I can see while I sort. Unless the fabric is sentimental (I have a piece left over from making my wedding dress that dd2 might want for a ring pillow or something for her wedding) or hard to replace (I have a box of antique feedbacks intended for fixing up my great grandmother's quilts) I should donate it and know I can get just as good back later.

Heck, dh would buy me a better sewing machine if I cleaned out space to keep it set up all the time and cleared out an entire rack of bins.

Ok, water break over.
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Subclinical
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 07:18 AM
Good morning!

Tatoulia, all that walking is terrific! And time spent grooming tigger a very important.

Tillie, I am dollhousing by proxy. Someday... I wish we could see pictures.

It was very strange and a little disorienting to walk past the scullery this morning and see the big counter empty.

The next area I need to tackle is my fabric/sewing stash. Now that I know where everything is, I have 14 bins plus two big boxes, not counting specific projects that are sorted into another area called "unfinished projects".

I know that that is ridiculous, and I have a very conservative goal to get down to 12 bins on the first sort out. The 14 bins are racked, but the big boxes are not, so if I got down to 12 bins, I would have two empty bins available on the rack and two fewer boxes in the "what am I going to do with this?" pile.

But then I think, getting down to 12 bins means getting rid of 1/4 of the stuff, and I may not be able to do that when I open the bins and look at the stuff.

I kind of want to get started, but today must be stalls and packing up donations, and thrift store and ticket.
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Tillie
Posted: 27 June 2019 - 01:31 AM
Hello all you chatty Cathys

Hi CriticalMass
Lecithin supposedly helps with triglycerides.
Last time I had my blood tested was at a health fair and I was doing fine, but that was well over 20 years ago. HaHa


Hi Subclinical
Yes, fire is very cleansing and final.
That was a very good way to release those unrepairable things.

WAY TO GO! making paper progress and dinner and a better scullery too!


Hi Tatoulia
Very glad you have been able to get out for walks.
YEA! for the cleaners!
Sleep sound in your fresh clean bed.

That's so sweet of you and BF to work together to groom and comfort Tigger. (((HUG)))

Keep up the work you are doing straightening out and easing your mind, Spirit and body.


I think Steven is trying to hoard by proxy by wanting me to get that other box.
What I have all laid out covered half the coffee table.
I'm quite content with what I have.
I evaluated both boxes and bought the one with the most and best accessories of the proper size.

Red Flag warning, 1st one this fire season.
All that rain we had grew lots of weeds and wild grass and sage brush.
The winds are vigorous.
Burning anything is strictly forbidden along with driving off road, fireworks, smoking outdoors and target practice.

Steven worked a few minutes with the weed eater after I came home from the store.

Tomorrow I will make potato salad then clean the kitchen. :)
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Tatoulia
Posted: 26 June 2019 - 10:00 PM
I am so happy to read all of your posts. Everyone is doing so well and so much! I have not done a thing. But I'm sorting through my brain and taking care of my body.

I walked and walked and walked tonight. I also combed Tigger while BF held him. We are working on his matted fur. Some of it was shaved by the vet. I sang to him while I did it even though he's deaf now. Piano Man by Billy Joel.

I'm stopped at the grocery store and bought mom a few things and took them to her. It was nearly 10. I never even felt the time pass as I walked.

I will sort through everything.

Cleaners did a great job and I have clean sheets.

Going to bed now. Keep up the good work!
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Subclinical
Posted: 26 June 2019 - 07:41 PM
Tillie, your little box sounds lovely! I wish I could come see it all set up. And I am glad you did get a cake after all. ;)

I'm also glad Steven is trying to be nice to you. I know you can't count on it, but I am happy when it happens. Like when you get rain. (Preferably instead of me)

CM, you sound better! It's nice that you got to quilting. I hate that feeling when you are talking and you suddenly realize you are well out of the group's comfort zone. If it is a purely social situation, I usually double down. As well be hanged for a sheep as lamb....

Make your appointments!

I made progress on my papers. I also sorted out the box with the moth damaged things and then burned the box along with a few of the things in it that I didn't think I could clean/repair. It was hard and I was sad, but now it is done. I like that about fire - it is very clean and final and releases the components back to the world.

I made dinner and the scullery is better too.
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CriticalMass
Posted: 26 June 2019 - 06:32 PM
Ah yes, the triglycerides - had a friend who cut out sugar for that reason so definitely makes a lot of sense. She took niacin supplements and gave me some to try. Slo-Niacin. I take them at night (when I remember) and even though they say no flush, once I did get a bit of a flush, so I now just take a half of one when I do.

My levels are just at the borderline, but I'm one of those people who are like "But... but... when I was younger I had really GOOD lab readings!" and I want to think I have a young body for my chronological age. Hee hee.
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