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Dianne
Posted: 25 July 2013 - 02:15 PM
Ali, isn't it lovely to have a daughter take care of you?

Karl BIG congrats on all the work you've done!
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Tillie
Posted: 25 July 2013 - 12:16 PM
Good morning :)
I'm still here.
Today I am going to try to clean the kitchen after I finish all the cat tasks.

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Janie
Posted: 25 July 2013 - 06:44 AM
Diane, Dianne & Roxie - Thanks for the encouragement!! Hoping to have this exam done by the second week of August.

Yesterday I didn't work and studied all day, taking breaks here and there to eat, scoop litter boxes and make a few phone calls. I was going to do some maintenance, but somehow never made that happen. Never made it into the shower either. Oops.

It seems that studying is making me more tired than cleaning. Tuesday night I fell asleep right after dinner. (We eat late, so this was about 9pm) Woke up to plates, glasses and leftover pizza sitting on the coffee table. Usually my DH would take this into the kitchen before he went upstairs to sleep, but apparently he was too tired also. At least there was no dinner clean-up other than the pizza pan. Same thing happened last night, but DH did get the plates and glasses to the kitchen counter. Now I'm sitting here looking at dried up orzo pasta, a covered dish with a little bit of veggies left in it, and a dirty pan that I used to bake fish in, all sitting on the stovetop. I had planned to clean up and study more after dinner, just couldn't keep my eyes open. Thought I would just close my eyes for 15 minutes... and woke up at 5am this morning. I'm still sitting at the kitchen table drinking coffee, but will make myself clean up the stovetop and load the dishwasher before I leave for work. I have to go into the office this morning, and then plan to get kitchen maintenance done before I start studying again. If I can get the kitchen back in shape I'll be happy for today.
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Kara
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 11:08 PM
Hi Roxie, everyone. Feeling exhausted after 2 days of filming course.

I came up with the idea of promoting a talking therapy used in Finland in the hope of helping UK public awareness of Open Dialogue. Filming, scripting and visuals still need to come together. It is like sorting kitchen, living room and bedroom ready for an inspection in 3 days!!! So much to organise !!! My head is spinning. Still got one day to go.

The rain has finally come to wash away the dryness and humidity of Wales. I am so relieved.

Benefit Assessment News:
The Department of Work and Pensions (DWP) has announced that it will be contracting new providers to carry out work capability assessments (WCAs) alongside Atos Healthcare, after a recent review found assessments to be "of unacceptably poor quality".

As I have filled in the questionnaire and awaiting assessment, when will I be assessed? in 6 months?
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MayMay
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 10:35 PM
Thanks diane,
I'm feeling a lot better. I took 2 ibuprofens a little over 2 hours ago; and they helped a lot. Thanks for making me smile. :)
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diane
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 09:58 PM
Hi MayMay, hope you are feeling better tonight. I can visualize you all curled up crying one day and prancing around in your swimsuit the next day!! Trying to get a smile out of you. Do hope you are feeling your fiesty self tomorrow
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MayMay
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 09:54 PM
Hi everyone. :)

Sorry I haven't been posting a lot lately. :(

I've just been super busy. And today I haven't been feeling very well. I've been having really bad stomach cramps all day. Earlier today the cramps were so bad; and all I did was lay in the fetal position on my bed and cry. :(
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Tillie
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 06:02 PM
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Karl
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 05:19 PM
Right, I never got around to posting that here. I passed the inspection, and the landlords didn't complain about little stuff -- they were happy with it being generally clean and clutter-free. I got this email from Mrs Landlord afterwards:


  • I hope that you are able to finish the clean up on the hood filter and the frame. Use hot water with a good degreaser, the oven-off will eat up the protective clear finish on the frame and therefore it can rust later on. Use a good old tooth brush on the filter surface to dis lodge any oily build up. If you need any assistance, let me know.
  • You did a great job in cleaning up your dining area and kitchen of the plastic clutter and every day dirt! I'm amazed!
  • Our next inspection date is on August 17, 2013. at 10 AM. I realize that its 3 weeks away, and thought that we should get back on track. If you need a full month, Please! let me know ASAP.
  • Your continue cleaning effort to have a more comfortable living space and home is most appreciated.


She doesn't seem to have noticed that the 17th actually is four weeks after, and three weeks would be the 10th. But I think I should be able to make an early deadline of the 10th, even. It'll be for bathroom, hallway, and closets.

I've already been doing work in the bathroom; the cupboards are half-organized, though I'll want to move a few items around yet. The hallway area is small, I can vacuum it when I do the living room; I'll just have to find better locations for the stuff that's currently stacked there. I think the closets are pretty close to being OK as-is, but I'll empty and repack each of them to make sure, and also vacuum the inside. The linen closet has blankets and stuff -- someone (Tillie?) suggested I can store unused blankets between the box spring and mattress of my bed; that sounds like an excellent space-saver.
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Roxie
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 02:56 PM
Ali, so good to see your posting again. Here's to a smooth and quick recovery!

Kara, good to see you posting again, too. You have been missed. Tell us more about the film-making?

Karl, for those of us who don't do chat, could you update on the inspection?

Janie, planning that school and work are right now your priorities is a good thing. You can keep maintenance in the picture maybe on a looser schedule. The purging and deep cleaning can wait until school is done. You might also ask for assistance from family? What a thought! :D Also, you could reward yourself for finishing a day's work and studying by allowing X minutes to meet up here?

Diane, we are kindred spirits in the solace that nature gives us. That is one of the things I like most about my move to Arkansas from Chicago in 2000. Just out my door is nature. In fact, this state is gorgeous and far underestimated. If you drive outside any city or town, you are deep in nature that is beautiful. It is called the Natural State for good reason. Mountains, lakes, trees, greens, wild animals, all I could want to spend my retirement years in...and not nearly as expensive as most other states (which is why I moved here).

MayMay, please check in?

Dianne, you are not lazy. I am a kindred spirit in the school of "drop it here, here it stays." It is an issue we need to deal with but it is part of the hoarding issue, not a matter of laziness. It pains me to see this sneaking back into my life, but we all know that recovery is a process not a straight shot. We WILL deal with these things, so don't beat yourself up, okay? Hugs.



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diane
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 12:47 PM
Janie, sounds like you are making a great decision to focus on work and studying. As long as you keep
the living area liveable, I think it is fine to do maintenance every couple of days, if you see it getting out of hand, you can put in the time to keep it as you now have it. You have given a lot of time and thought to responding to all of our posts and revealing lots of info about yourself, which I thank you for. I will really miss your posts, and am happy you are doing the right think to nurture yourself. Good you noticed you felt overwhelmed early enough that you could change routine before you had an accident or got sick, which we seem to do to slow us down! Looking forward to hearing how things are going. Maybe you could just post about your life so won't take much time. Thanks again for all you have given us. Hugs and congrats
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Dianne
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 12:14 PM
Janie, totally understandable. There are plenty of times things come up that demand time and energy that throws life out of balance. It won't last forever and you already have a great base with all the work you've done in the main rooms you use. The upstairs can wait with no real ill effects.

I hear you about the computer. It can be a nice break that slides into real time wasting. That happens to me a lot. I once tried to figure the approximate hours I spent on a game of Bookworm to get to my top score of over 82 million. It had taken about 6 months and literally weeks of hours. What a waste.

Congrats on the laundry and getting those pee stains out. That takes time and effort.

I'll miss your regular posts with insights, stories, encouragement and green font. I love color. :) So please don't wait too long between check-ins. I look forward to when you get back to posting almost every day!

Good luck on the exam!!

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Janie
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 09:26 AM
The 3 loads of laundry that I picked up from the kids bathroom floor have all been double-washed and put away. Towels in the linen closet, clothes in plastic totes to keep in the laundry room for now.

I'm finding that I'm having a difficult time with balance in my life right now. I just can't seem to handle work, maintenance, de-cluttering and studying all at the same time. Feel overwhelmed... like I had too much change at once with going back to work a few weeks ago and adding studying to the mix last week. I've set a higher priority on work (obviously can't ignore that) and studying for now. If I can do maintenance at least every few days I should be okay, but can't do it daily like I had been. I also find myself on the computer way too much, mostly using it as a procrastination tool to avoid studying. To get my life back in balance I've decided to put my de-cluttering project on hold and cut back on maintenance and computer time until I pass this exam. The studying is intense and I need to give it my full concentration. I do plan to check-in here, but if I don't post regularly it's not because I'm abandoning my vision, just need to lay low for a few weeks. I hope everyone keeps up the good work and I will join back in with progress as soon as I can.

Tillie - Happy to read that you and Marty are doing better and on the road to recovery.

Diane - Being in the nature setting you described sounds like a sure pick-me-up. Despite all that is going on around you right now, you still managed to consolidate stuff and paint more of the floor. I admire your inner strength in handling all you have in front of you right now.

Dianne - Great job on widening the trails! Enjoy having Laura back home!

Waving at Roxie, MayMay, AnneW, Karl, Ali, and Kara.....
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diane
Posted: 24 July 2013 - 12:16 AM
Thanks Dianne. You are so funny about wanting to do laundry. I just finished a load of laundry, and put in dryer for several minutes to get wrinkles out then hung on line to finish drying. I am sweating, thought really dumb to do laundry when it is so hot, then I read your post and now I am glad I was able to do laundry, so thanks Dianne.
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Dianne
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 10:54 PM
Washer repair man came today. Of course he had to order a part and it will be over a week before it can be fixed. Funny how I can let laundry go for weeks (some of it for years) but when I can't do it that's all I want to do.

I've been clearing/widening goat trails. A lot of it is stuff that needed to be put away ~ shoes, books, bath supplies, dry foods like cereal and crackers. That kind of stuff bugs me because it shows I was just plain lazy. I drop things wherever and there it lays/stays.

I went thru one of the times that I wanted to get some things done not just maintenance. So tomorrow will be catching up on the clean areas again.

Laura got home this evening. Rested, tan and relaxed. Her furbabies went crazy. Good to have her home. :)
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Dianne
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 10:41 PM
Diane, so glad you had some rest and recharging in nature.

Keep taking good care of yourself. :)
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Karl
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 08:05 PM
Short on sleep again, but I hope to be able to catch up now that things are less hectic. I had supper early, now waiting for people to show up in the Tuesday chat.
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diane
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 02:47 PM
Ali, sounds like all went well with surgery, happy you are being well taken care of, thanks for letting us know you are ok.
Thanks for the hugs Dianne, Roxie, Janie, sure needed them and appreciate reading all you wrote and also helpful suggestions.
Yesterday a friend picked me up and took me to a lake, since I was a sobbing mess, she decided the best treatment would be nature, and she was so right. We climbed up towards a higher lake for an hour, then realized I was too out of shape to go another hour, very steep switchbacks, so we went back to lower lake. I did a happy dance in the water, my first happy dance in many months. So grateful she talked me into leaving my problems at home and just go with her. The heavy exercise would lift anyones spirits I think. Such a beautiful area, so many beautiful trees, clean cool water, so grateful. This morning I moved all the stuff I haven't gone through yet to one area, it was all over the place, thus I could not see progress. I feel better even though there is a huge bunch of bins, boxes and bags full, I can see how much is left to do. And I do not have to do it this week, just nice to consolidate. Cleaned and painted more of the floor this morning. Caught two more mice. 5 down, 600 to go, lets hope not.
Yesterday did some painting before she picked me up at 8am. Last night watered yard, did dishes.
Today would like to bag up a wool rug I don't want Molly to pee on, and will put in garage until she is gone. I have plastic, blankets, and towels for her on couch and daybed. Carry her out to yard, doesnt want to pee out there today, did last night, I am working on doggie underwear today. She is not real keen on it. Thanks again for all the support.
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Kara
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 01:13 PM
Started a 3 day film making course. I'm getting a voice.
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ali
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 12:25 PM
I am out if the hospital & recovering at my daughters home. Being spoiled with really good food and wide open spaces. I will probably return to my home Thurs or Fri. Hope you are all doing well. Must admit I thought about Karl every time they offered me ice cream in the hospital. (Smile)

Keep On, Keeping On.
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Tillie
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 11:34 AM
Good morning :)

Been a rough few days here but today things are starting to look up.
Marty (the cat) is doing better and so am I.
Temperatures are supposed to be better with a chance of thunder storms.

My To-Dos for today are...
Cat stuff- water/food/scoop boxes. Remember Marty's meds.
Take it easy and rest.
Make and eat some real food. Maybe brown rice & veggies?

Wonderful to see everybody here! :D
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Janie
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 07:29 AM
DIANE - Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and sending some {{HUGS}} your way.
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Janie
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 07:25 AM
Roxie - First of all, big CONGRATS on maintaining your daily dental routine! So proud of you!! Give me an "S", give me an "M", give me an "I" "L" "E". What does it spell? SMILE!! :-)

About the laundry... The first load came out good after I ran them through a second time to get out more dirt. I got up early this morning to finish the load I had soaking overnight. Waiting for the second cycle to finish now so I can throw them in the dryer while I shower for work. I have one more load from the bathroom floor, so I'm going to let that load soak while I'm at work. After dinner I'll finish up that and then get busy putting the laundry away.

You can see why I planned to clean out the linen closet before I did this. Now I have a clean closet to put away all these towels!! The clothes will remain in the laundry room until the bedrooms are cleaned out. I have plastic totes to store the kids clean clothes in for now.

NOTE: I've been through this process before. When my DD moved back home last year she brought with her bags of cat smelly clothes. I don't think she ever hung up anything and the floor was her closet. Which meant her cat had all those clothes to cuddle up on (and sometimes pee on). Using the Odo-Ban cleaner really helps. It's a disinfectant and deodorizer and I think it's great. I used this in the washer, in addition to detergent, when I washed all her clothes back then and was pleased with the results. To keep the clothes fresh, I always put a small amount of Odo-Ban in the rinse cycle (as recommended) whenever I did her laundry after that. I was able to salvage most of her clothes, only throwing out those that remained stained.
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Roxie
Posted: 23 July 2013 - 05:02 AM
Oh, dear, I am all upside down and befuddled. Went to sleep around 11pm and awoke around 2am and here I am, reading long articles and postings and such, waiting for the sun to come up in another hour or more.

I did pick up meds yesterday (yesterday?...I think so?). I also rounded up the outdoor dishes (cats) in order to wash them later.

I've been having to fiddle with the computer crashing too often. Grump.

Diane, Janie, how you doing? Janie, I vote to toss those kitty icked things. IMHO the smell never fully comes out but maybe only the cats notice.

Hi all. Looking forward to your posts. I'll sign on again later. Already brushed my teeth for today's count. If I finish out July with a successful once a day routine, in August I'll shoot for 2x a day. yes.


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diane
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 11:18 PM
Roxie and Janie, thanks for sharing so much of your self, and congrats on all you accomplished!
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Janie
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 07:06 PM
You are a Rockin' Roxie today!! What a productive day and it's not even over. Woo-Hoo!!

The washer full of icky laundry just finished and the rinse water was still a gray-ish color. Going to run the clothes through another cycle, hoping to get clear rinse water this time. Then I will put in another load to soak overnight.
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Roxie
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 03:14 PM
Dang, I wrote this long post in the middle of the night, and it disappeared. :(

Yesterday: brushed teeth, bathed, shampooed, clean clothes, grocery shopping, grocery putting away, put clean dishes away, did another load of dishes, emptied two dresser drawers for clothing donatins, watered plants, brought big garbage bin back up to the house, took two bags of books to the car for donation.

Slept until just now. Have to go off to pick up meds and start my real day.

Hugs to all.
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Dianne
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 12:04 PM
Getting a slow start to the day. Took care of morning animal chores then went back to bed for a bit. Today I plan on widening some goat trails where stuff has sorted of creeped together leaving only inches for my feet.
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Janie
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 11:35 AM
This morning I picked up foul icky cat smelly towels and clothes from the kids bathroom floor. My DS was last home in March, my DD moved out in May. And who knows how long before that the towels and clothes were laying there. The first load is soaking in hot water, Tide, Oxi-Clean and Odo-Ban. I plan to let it soak until I get home from work later. Whatever still smells after laundering will be trashed.
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Janie
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 10:31 AM
Diane - As hard as it is, and as much as you will miss your friend, sometimes the best action is to let her go with the dignity she deserves. I'm crying while I type this, so you know I only mean this in the kindest way. {{HUGS}}
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Dianne
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 09:59 AM
{{{{Diane}}}}
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diane
Posted: 22 July 2013 - 01:15 AM
Thanks Dianne and Janie, really difficult day today with incontinence and her legs giving out at times, I know what is coming and it is so difficult to deal with the decline knowing I will have to live without her, she is the bright spot in every day. I will miss her so much. 14 years is the longest relationship I have had
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Tillie
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 10:45 PM
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Tillie
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 10:39 PM
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Dianne
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 09:39 PM
Diane, I have more advice, but of course you will know in your heart what is best.

When I worked at an emergency vet there were plenty of times that an animal needed to be humanely put down. People sobbed and didn't think they could handle the pain of saying good-bye while their beloved pet passed.

When they asked me what they should do I always recommended that if at all possible they should be with their pet as he/she died.

The animal knows the person she trusts and loves the most is right there with her. Even if you are crying your baby is reassured by your presence. Hold her and kiss her and tell her you'll be together again and that is ok to go.

Every single person who did that thanked me afterwards, sometimes sending notes, because as hard as it was they felt like they had provided their baby with the last bit of comfort. My sanctuary friends call it The Final Gift.

Only you know what you are able to do and everyone's choice must be honored. I sincerely hope my opinion is not too overbearing. I offer it in love and compassion for you and your dear baby's struggles.
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Janie
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 09:16 PM
Diane - From what I can remember our dog was becoming very lethargic and having a hard time getting up and walking. She also started having seizures. We would have to hold her tightly during the seizures until she recovered and then she would be disorientated and panicky for a while. We took her to the vet and was given two prescriptions. I think one was for pain and the other was anti-seizure. It seemed to help for a while, maybe a few weeks. And then she started drinking lots of water and having accidents. You could tell she was embarrassed when it happened. I tried to let her out as much as possible but she just didn't have the energy to go out much. She was basically just laying around, struggling to get up to drink water, hardly eating and her eyes looked so sad.

After a few days of recurring accidents we took her to the vet again. The vet was not very optimistic. He said he could run a battery of tests that may offer some hope of finding out exactly what was wrong, but it appeared to be organ failure. It was our decision on how to proceed but he said we also needed to take into consideration that she was a large breed dog (Bernese Mountain Dog) and was just a few days shy of her 13th birthday. She already had lived a full life.

We considered what her quality of life was and decided it was best to humanely put her down. One of the hardest thing I've ever done. Thankfully my husband was in the room with her. I don't think I would have been able to handle it.

A few days later I called the breeder to let her know what happened. This breeder is such a great person and likes to know what happens to her pups so that she can use the information to possibly improve her breeding program. Anyway, the breeder told me that my dog was the last of that litter to die. For some reason, I felt honored.

Diane, I don't envy the decision you have to make. But only you know what's best for your friend.
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Dianne
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 06:50 PM
Today has been productive but more importantly, balanced.

In addition to regular chores I cleaned 3 areas in the upper front hall. Got 1 bag of trash and 2 bags for donation (clothes).

I ate healthy and simple. Mentally I was kinder to myself and quieted the cycle of thoughts that drive me too hard.
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Kara
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 06:44 PM
OMG! I have just read up on Hoarders High. At least nothing come into the home apart from my vision.
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Dianne
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 06:44 PM
Kara, your vision of a meditation bedroom sounds lovely.

I'm so glad you've had a breakthrough from the darkness! Hold your vision!

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Dianne
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 06:38 PM
Roxie, your little raccoons sound so cute. The feral cats will probably tolerate the new creatures and even let them have first pick of food. How are the kittens? (cat kittens?)

Great work Janie! Don't you just love a clean, organized closet? :)

Diane, Top Paw brand at Petsmart has washable cover-ups (panties) for female dogs. You put disposable diapers inside. Or for less money you can fold up absorbent paper towels like Bounty and put inside. The website www.dog.com has Simple Solution Washable Diapers.

If she has long hair you should trim any area that gets wet. It's very soothing to soak her hindquarters and/or belly in warm water and pat dry.

wwwK9granolafactory.com has organic virgin coconut oil. It's excellent for protecting and moisturizing areas that are getting chapped. Bag Balm at www.bagbalm.com is excellent also. Originally made for cow udders it's a great all-purpose healer even for human baby skin.

Trash bags tucked around your couch covers and towels on top of that will help. You could also put potty pads around or slip a couple under her for the night.

I'm sure your tender care will be felt by her and much appreciated. {{{HUGS}}}
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Kara
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 06:22 PM
Sorry for not writing for a while. Been in mental darkness.

This morning however I started on a path of correctness. I awoke realising the vision of having a meditation bedroom. Calm, peaceful and made me feel whole again.

I drew drawing of my vision and then set about writing a list of what I wanted.

Then came the hard part. Disguishing the difference of now and my vision. What I needed to get rid of before I had my vision. It is all written down in list format.

I consider today to be a break through from the last 2 months or more of living in darkness.

I hope this encourages other.
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diane
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 05:20 PM
thanks for the update Janie, I was wondering how you are doing. I understand about the horror of a cleaning person seeing our mess. I am impressed that you are maintaining downstairs, congrats. Good girl for buckling down and studying.
Yes, my dog has been on Canine C/D prescription food for kidneys for several years, so I assume it is kidney shut down. What was the progression of your dogs decline, if you don't mind sharing. She has been drinking a lot of water for a few years, and urine is almost clear, as you described. She doesn't appear to know she is peeing, usually asleep when it slips out, she awakes with a start and looks around to see what woke her up, then tries to lick it up, poor girl. Thanks so much for sharing your dog story.
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Janie
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 04:59 PM
Yesterday I cleaned out the top shelves of the hall linen closet. Threw out anything that wasn't useful and then organized the remaining health and beauty products. Today I tackled the bottom shelves. Not much there because that's where the kids towels are stored and every single towel is dirty at the moment. I did throw out some ratty bed linens and organized what was still in good shape. Also restocked the closet with toilet paper, kleenex and soap. Oh, and I put a roll of paper towels and windex in there to have it readily available for cleaning later. Also made room on the floor for a jug of cat litter so it wasn't sitting in the hallway anymore. The closet isn't that big and although it took me two days, I am happy it's done.

My outside task for the week was to empty the ash container of the grill and clean the grill grate and utensils. Ick! But now the grill is ready to make some BBQ ribs! Yum!

*** Diane - Wish I could hire a cleaning service. Even if I had extra money, I would be horrified if they ventured upstairs or down to the basement. I'm just going to see how things go for now. If I can maintain the first floor and maybe do a little extra each day I hope it should be okay until I'm done with this exam.

Sounds like you have been getting a lot done. Woo-Hoo!! I applaud you for working through the mess and still taking care of your own needs. Only you know how much you can physically take on. As we get further and further into the de-cluttering process the decisions seem to get harder and harder. But it seems you are making good decisions. GREAT JOB on the garage!! I am doing a happy dance for you!!

With my aging dog, she would urinate while laying down and not even realize it. At first I thought it was water because the puddles didn't look yellow or smell like urine. Then I read up on the signs of kidney failure, which the vet confirmed. Your dog may not have something this drastic but it may be worth reading up on.

*** AnneW - Yes, we will get there eventually. It may take months, it may take years, but we are all making progress and receiving support here. I just love having this forum to "let it out" and know that those reading my posts truly understand my triumphs as well as my frustrations. You mentioned in your post about effective floor cleaning (I think it was directed at Roxie?) Last week my mom bought me a Hoover Floor-Mate and I love it!! It works like a carpet cleaner, but for floors. I may still have to scrub every few months, but this is perfect for weekly cleaning instead of mopping. It's so quick and easy to use, and doesn't require much physical effort.

*** Roxie - High fives to you on keeping up with daily brushing. You are doing awesome in this area!! Sounds like you have plans for a productive day. Hope you are able to accomplish what you need to.

*** Tillie - Hope you and Marty are feeling better and the weather gets cooler for you soon. I was thinking about you (and your hoarder) last night when I finally got my husband to disconnect a printer that broke down years ago. Sure, it's now sitting in the entryway, but that's one step closer to out the door! I felt a great accomplishment in getting him to do something about the mess without him getting mad at me.

*** Dianne - I meant to comment before about throwing trash in dumpsters. I try to be very careful about when and where I do it. In addition to a fine, I would be so embarrassed if my name got in the local newspaper. What a way to rat myself out!! There are three different apartment complexes around so I pick a different one each week and either toss during the day when most people are at work, or late late at night. I have been thinking about getting a trash tote instead of paying by the bag for trash disposal but the monthly cost of the tote is so much. I'm hoping that once I get done with my initial de-clutter and most of the trash is gone, I will be okay. That, and my children finally take their cats to live with them instead of leaving them with me to care for. :-)

My break is over. Now I need to get back to studying! Hope everyone has a good evening!!
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diane
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 02:44 PM
Karl, sounds like you are really ready for inspection, so great
Tillie, sorry to hear you are ill, happy to hear from you.
Roxie, sounds like such a nurturing day.
Ok, so I woke up and decided to clean out the final section of the garage, not that the rest is organized, but is painted. This area has not been seen in 20 years, great layer of dirt. Got it all cleaned and painted this morning, looks great, took two coats, bare wood. Now have to figure out what goes where, and not just stuff things. Will be so nice when things are where I can find them. Wastes so much time looking for things.
Now to mouse patrol. I broke down yesterday and set traps for mice. 3 greeted me this morning.
There might be hundreds for all I know, been so long since anything out there had been moved.
My dog continues to pee on couch, day bed, and outside lounger when she falls asleep. Checked her urine again, no infection, no sugar in urine, so don't know if it is just being 14 or needs vet. I did put plastic on daybed, now have lots of towels on couch. today was first pee on couch. Any ideas? Thanks
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Karl
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 12:37 PM
I'm glad I double-checked the calendar last night -- landlords are arriving at 11, not 10, so I got an extra hour of sleep. Living room and kitchen are both looking good, I think. Some last-minute touch-up to be done yet.
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Roxie
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 10:26 AM
It's Sunday, my favorite day to sit at the computer with a cup of coffee and "visit" with friends.

Although I got up earlier than usual today, I'm very slow to get going. Later. Much later. Need to go get lots of supplies. Need to order prescription refill. Scoop litter, brush teeth, go get the week's mail and the Sunday paper, do dishes. Later. Much later.

Last night two smaller racoons showed up for dinner, and I think they are babies nearly grown. One is quite feisty, growling and spreading his little arms across the plate so no one else dares approach. He also has a big wound on his forehead so I presume he's quite willing to fight about it!

My little feral colony of cats seems to tolerate the racoons and vice versa.

Hugs to all. Please update.
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Dianne
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 08:58 AM
Tillie, take good care in that heat.

I hope you and Marty kitty will be feeling much better very soon.

And I saw on July challenge that your hoarder got rid of 2 boxes of stuff!! How encouraging! :)
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Karl
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 02:55 AM
I expect I'll be short on sleep again when they get here for inspection. Stove is cleaned off, but I need to wash the floor, and that will take two sessions since I need to move the table from one side to the other. I'm not feeling very motivated at the moment, but I'll get out some ice cream...
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Tillie
Posted: 21 July 2013 - 12:34 AM
HI :)

So much has been happening here. No time to rest.
I have been sick but had to keep on keeping on.
Marty (the cat) is sick too and needs a lot of care.
The other cats need to be taken care of especially with the temperature at 112 degrees.

Wonderful to finally have a chance to sit still and read the message board. :D

Looks like Marty is improving and I am doing better.
I went grocery shopping this evening and only celery looked good to me, so I got some and some cherries.
I don't think that's enough to last me for two weeks. lol

Hoping things settle down around here now and that I can get some much needed sleep tonight. :)
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diane
Posted: 20 July 2013 - 06:51 PM
Where are you Tillie, keep hoping to see something from you, hope you are not under a pile somewhere. Also hoping Steven is being sweet to you, I miss seeing your posts, hope you are ok.
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