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diane
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Posted: 15 July 2014 - 03:49 PM
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Hello everyone. Tillie, I am with you, the heat is taking a tole on me too. I stayed outside longer today, feel like a mole in a hole with all the shades pulled etc, being outside even in the heat was good, until too hot. Watered, messed around with shades still not up outside. Several fires in surrounding areas, smoke. Thousands of lightening strikes, several fires started, fire fighters are stretched thin, must be so difficult to work in the heat, God Bless firefighters. I arranged several strips of fabric by color outside so had enough light to clearly see what goes together, fun in the shade, til too hot. Did wash all dishes. My goals today are slim to none. Already spent an hour in big bedroom insulating around window air conditioner, and organizing stuff. Light is good in there so really want to work some more in there until more floor is available, with window ac, and good lighting in there, plan to set up table in there and sew in there. Really want all craft stuff out of living room. I rarely read, except at night to fall asleep, would like to read some today for pleasure. 15 minutes on paperwork. How do you cook chicken breast in microwave?
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Tillie
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Posted: 15 July 2014 - 09:39 AM
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Good Morning Everybody :)
The weather is really taking a toll on me. Today is not supposed to be so hot. After a few days of 110 with high humidity, 100 doesn't seem all that bad. It was still 84 degrees last night at 11:00pm. Just doing simple chores around the house has worn me out. Fortunately, today all I need to do is make some more lemonade, do cat stuff, wash some dishes and take care of myself. Love reading your posts and hearing about all the things you are doing. Makes me jealous because I want to do all that kind of stuff too. :D The morning coolness is already starting to burn off. Time to close up the house and turn the fans & evaporative coolers back on. :(
Take care & stay hydrated. :)
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LR2014
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Posted: 15 July 2014 - 09:24 AM
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Good morning, everybody.
Following up on yesterday: I did my posted goals, except that I spent only half as much time working on that bedroom as I'd originally planned. I appreciate the help of those who were in the chat room yesterday while I was there.
Some of my minimum goals for today: I plan to go to the Laundromat to dry the clothes I washed yesterday. I also plan to add to my gratitude list, get a bill or two paid, work on that bedroom some more, and spend at least ten minutes looking for an old address list that has some contact information I wish to have. I will not spend too much time looking for it, because it may have been one of the items that got ruined when a plumbing problem occurred here a few months back.
Have a great day, everyone.
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LR2014
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Posted: 14 July 2014 - 05:07 PM
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Barb: I am glad things are progressing with your work estimates and that you are pleased with this plumber so far. (I hope you are also pleased with the estimate.) I relate to the comment about how things "migrate" when they're not contained. As for your overall plans, in case I didn't say it already, I think you're really going to enjoy all these repairs and updates when you're finished with them! I'm excited for you!
diane: I'm really glad you had fun at the festival. Good idea to take the camera with you for those clothing ideas. Yea for clean clothes, clean dishes, good self care, and . . . yea for fun skirts! I was really glad to hear you say you were able to see how much progress you had made when you were able to see it from up high. I hope you're having a blast today! Go, diane!
Tillie: I hope you have a fun "playdate" with your beads today! With all this talk about watering and gardening and all that, I was thinking that maybe fun could be thought of as "fertilizer for the soul." Ha. (I don't know . . . maybe "watering the soul" sounds better.)
bitsy: Even though you have messes, be sure you still have some fun.
Roxie: Thinking about you! Hugs!
Me: I did end up getting together with family for part of the day yesterday. That was nice. By now, I've forgotten what all I did get done at home. I know I did get some laundry put away and some cleaning done in one of the bathrooms (the one that had the leak last week).
I got out fairly early this morning and did some work in that rural area of which I often speak. Sprayed some invasive trees and cleaned out a small water tank that I didn't finish cleaning out last week. Cleared away some tall grass at the entrance to the property. Also did some weed-eating in an in-town yard. Wanted to get all that work done (especially the tree spraying) before rains hit later this week. (Yea for rain in July!)
Goals for later today: Wash a load of laundry. Spend twenty minutes sorting some items in one of my bedrooms. Get some bills ready to be paid. Add to my gratitude list.
Hugs to everybody!
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diane
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Posted: 14 July 2014 - 01:26 PM
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Congrats Barb on getting the hoard out of plumbers way, and actually having him come in and make a plan for repairs, I would love to do the same, good to see you hire help.
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diane
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Posted: 14 July 2014 - 01:21 PM
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I just wrote a long good morning note and my computer shut down to install some dumb thing for windows. Anyway, went out to garage and organized some more, found more cotton knits to cut up. Got the outdoor shades down from rafters, dusty critters. From up high I realized I really have made lots of progress, still lots to do. Looked at all the cabinets I painted, and most are still empty, have to decide what would be most convenient to put in cabinets and label them. Went in insulated room, did some organizing and put nuts in an empty cabinet. Moved lots of stuff off floor in both, vertical space use thanks to Karl. Did not put shades up, have to let go of guilt for that, but worked hours already, tired of it. NOW-------the fun begins. Brought table and cutting board in from garage, and all the knits I found out there, most were in rag bag cause have paint or tar on them, perfect for practice cutting sewing. Table up, ready to start cutting, may do it all day. Want to give myself permission to just mindlessly cut all the seams out, not worrying about how I will use them, just cut panels for now. Rare to give myself a day just to play, and today is the day, after reading about tillie playing with beads, and how that lifts her spirits. Happy I have all I need, to eat, create, drink, can just have fun this week in the heat. I plan to clean up my craft mess when I am done. Thanks all for chat last night, I feel much more positive today after saying my affirmations to start my day. Sunday chat is helpful, I learn so much about what others are dealing with, and get so much support.
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Barb
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Posted: 14 July 2014 - 01:09 PM
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The plumber came today to do the estimate. I was able to get areas clear for him to access. He was very courteous, asked lots of questions, and answered many of mine. I think they will do a good job. I will know how much it costs in a day or two. The next step is to finalize all the fixtures and get them ordered. He also suggested that I have the new flooring put in the bathroom before I put in the toilet. The cat went into the garage and the dogs went outside while he was here so they would not get in the way. After he left and the dogs were back inside, the sky opened up and it poured. Oh, Tillie, I wish I could send you some of this rain to help cool things off. I have two bins of projects to do. (1) the material, thread, etc. for the living room curtains (2) tile, mastic, grout, sealer, and applicators to do the kitchen backsplash. I want to have the living room completely decluttered before I sew the curtains and the new plumbing done in the kitchen before I start working on the backsplash. I will also need to have bins to contain the items from under all 3 sinks when the plumber comes. The bad thing about being a hoarder and clutter is that items tend to migrate and get lost in the mess. If they are in bins with lids on, everything at least stays together. Have a great day and take care of yourselves, friends.
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Tillie
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Posted: 14 July 2014 - 09:04 AM
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Good morning :)
I am up early watering. Really need to after yesterday's 110 degrees. Will do some dishes and shower & shampoo when the watering is all done. Then back to playing with my beads. :D Cats still can't go out, too many baby bunnies in the grass.
Have a GREAT day! Make time to do something fun. (((hugs)))
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bitsy
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Posted: 13 July 2014 - 09:26 PM
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diane your project sounds so fun! doing creative things is what used to keep me going. I haven't been able to do much of anything lately and I miss it. Maybe after I manage to take care of my messes I will be able to enjoy something like that again.
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diane
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Posted: 13 July 2014 - 05:35 PM
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Yesterday I had a great time at the Summer Street Festival. The two booths that had upcycled clothes were both there again this year. Both women were pleasant and talked at length about their process, and let me take pictures. They both live in a big city and go to Goodwill and get old t shirts by the pound, cut up and make skirts, tops, pants out of different combinations of t'shirts. Last few years I forgot how the things looked when I got home so took camera this year. I went to a thrift store that has clothes in a 25 cent bin. I found a few t-shirts 100%cotton, good quality, great colors. Washed today and hung out to dry. now will cut them up. Then make a pattern of skirt with several sections. Put different pieces of shirts in unique design. So last night and today, went through my closets and found plenty of tshirts and other knit things that can be cut up and used. Shirts that I couldn't part with, will now be used in a fun new way. Sure did not need to buy more at thrift store, thought I had given my old tshirts away, well there were still plenty. Hard to believe I really do have everything I need, sometimes, silly me. So now there are piles of tshirts by color in living room, need to pick the one color spectrum I will work on first and put all the others away. When this much stuff is out, am immobilized. Got the dishes done a few hours ago. Watered lots of things outside this morning. Ate vegetables and took my vitamins. Cut toenails, which haven"t been cut in ages. Still need to shower before chat. I am excited about my new project and willing to make a pattern, so I can perfect the fit. The trick for me is to do a craft project and not leave stuff all over the place. Did great keeping dishes done this week, clean clothes, more self care, and now found a way to have fun in the heat. mowed my tiny lawn, now will clean up my cotton supply and start working on making a pattern for my fun skirts.
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Barb
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Posted: 13 July 2014 - 04:49 PM
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Hi friends, I think that I will probably not join the chat group tonight. I still have more to do to get ready for the plumber to come and give an estimate tomorrow, so I would like to keep working tonight as long as I have the energy. Clay did not show up to mow on Wednesday and with all the rain we have had, the grass was getting really tall. Two boys from down the block and around the corner came over and asked to mow so I hired them. As this was there first time, I stayed outside and trimmed some bushes so I could supervise their work without breathing down their necks. Since I was outside most of the day, I got behind on the inside work. I hope that the plumber will be able to focus on the areas I am asking him to fix and not be bothered by the clutter in the areas I have not yet dealt with. I noticed that where the toilet leaked before I shut it off damaged the linoleum and baseboard in the bathroom. I was not going to redo the flooring in that room, but I think that I might as well get an estimate for that room as well. (It is a tiny room and the subfloor will need to be check anyway.) I may as well go ahead and have them put in same tile I am putting in the entrance. Now I am going to shower, dress and go get a sandwich. I need to get out of the house for a while and also don't want to mess up my clean kitchen by cooking. Have a good discussion, all, and I will check in again after the plumber is finished.
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LR2014
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Posted: 13 July 2014 - 09:28 AM
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Good morning, everyone!
bitsy: I relate a lot to what you wrote yesterday. It is sometimes hard to know when to go to the ER and when not.
diane: Looking forward to hearing how your day went yesterday. I hope you had fun!
vi: We're thinking about you as you get all this moving done! Looking forward to hearing updates when you finally get the opportunity to post. I hope you get the chance for some rest and relaxation soon.
Roxie: I'm hope you are feeling better today. I'm glad to know that if you do end up having to be back in the hospital, you will have the comfort of knowing that you have friends who would take care of Sloopy. I hope you were able to get someone to make a run to the grocery store for you. Many hugs!
Me: It took more time and effort than I expected yesterday, but I finally did get the toilet unclogged. Didn't end up doing any work in that other bathroom. Did spend a little time cooking, and I made a run to the grocery store. The best thing about yesterday is that I got to bed early last night and slept better than I did the previous two nights.
I got out fairly early this morning and worked on cleaning out my vehicle. (It's not clean, just better.) It's supposed to be very hot this afternoon, so I knew I'd better do that while I had the chance. The rest of my plans for today may vary some, depending on whether I have a family get-together midday or not. (Sometimes we do on Sundays, and sometimes we don't.) If I end up being at home midday, I will probably work on dishes, laundry, that bathroom that I didn't work on yesterday, and also on sorting some things I got out of my vehicle this morning.
Have a wonderful day, everyone. Hugs to all.
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bitsy
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Posted: 12 July 2014 - 08:23 PM
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Roxie, I hope your chest pains have subsided! It is hard sometimes to decide when to call 911 or go to ER. I have been having chest pains more often lately but have been chalking it up to anxiety attacks.it's kinda scary but if I be real still and take a pill for anxiety the pain goes away. my regular doctor said that I need to schedule another stress test. Anyway please post again soon and let everybody know how you are.
today I paid a couple bills and worked on the stuff in the car some. we have had to have the car jumped twice this weekend.I have to get it to mechanic Monday.
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Roxie
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Posted: 12 July 2014 - 04:33 PM
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Last night about 10:30 I started getting a chest pain. It continues. But it is only in one spot, not all over my chest area as when I had the heart attack. No other symptoms, so I'm convincing myself to ride it out. If the pain spreads, I'll call 911, so keep your fingers crossed for me. I'm really tired of starting to recover then back to the hospital with more problems. :(
I had no cable tv or internet when I got up to feed the cats early, so I went back to bed and slept. Sloopy stayed attached to me, though we played a bit too. I gave her an empty toilet paper roll and she loves to bat that around. She loves to rough play with my hand, but I do not encourage any biting, so I'm careful to stop when that comes up. Male or female, Sloopy is my little joy for the past few days. I hope she starts eating dry food, too, soon, so she can fatten back up. I know my cat rescue friends will come and deal with my pets, including Sloopy, if necessary. The other two are very old cats, but Sloopy deserves a long life with someone who'll be around for 16-22 years yet.
I need to go get groceries, but am not up to it. I may email my friend and see if she can grocery shop for me again now that she's back home. I hate how limited I am to doing almost nothing. Until now I've had enough groceries to get by and eat properly enough.
Tilie, I am so with you in spirit when you describe your day in nature.
Diane, slow down a tiny bit, dear. You do SO much! Did you go and enjoy yourself?
Hugs all around. I've visited several areas of the boards and enjoyed all your postings.
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LR2014
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Posted: 12 July 2014 - 04:13 PM
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diane: I hope you do have fun (and also manage not to melt).
Tillie: I definitely had an LOL moment about your story about the cats and the potato.
Me: I did get the dishwasher run and got some laundry dealt with yesterday. As far as housework today goes, so far the main thing I've done has been to dry some laundry. Some of my plans for the rest of the day include getting some cleaning done in one of my bathrooms and getting a newly-clogged toilet dealt with in the other bathroom. (Oh, what fun!)
I hope all of you have a great day!
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diane
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Posted: 12 July 2014 - 11:50 AM
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Already 80 degrees at 9:45 so trying to talk myself into staying home today, since by 11 when it opens it will be 90, then I read your post Tillie. Thanks so much, now will get my butt out the door and get there early, try to see everything before I melt.
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Tillie
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Posted: 12 July 2014 - 11:15 AM
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Good Morning :)
Hi LR :) Sounds like you had some fun yesterday. YEA! for visiting your friend and hope you had a wonderful time at the special event. :D
Hi Diane :) WOW! You did so much! :D Hope you are out today enjoying the festival. You deserve to have this time to get out & play. :D
Woke up this morning thinking about Sloopy as I laid in bed with Scooter snuggling up to me. :D It is still hot and humid here. Got a few drops of rain last evening. My naturally curly hair is all frizzy and out of control. :(
Once upon a time, long long ago... My mother's kitchen developed a really nasty smell. She spent hours looking for the source. Turns out it was a potato that had rolled way back into the corner of the cabinet and rotted. The smell was so bad that the cats had been going back there, tearing off paper towels from the roll and using them to try to bury this potato. She found this big heap of paper towels back there in the corner with that poopy smelling potato at the bottom.
Today I would like to go to the grocery store and buy some more cherries. Don't need anything from the store but really want some more cherries. :D Guess I should get dressed now just in case I have a chance to get to town. :)
TTYL :)
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diane
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Posted: 11 July 2014 - 05:57 PM
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I have been a busy woman today. I have both air conditioners on full blast so worked in big bedroom for about an hour, then went out in little room on garage that is insulated, smelled like a really bad sweaty arm pit, the potatoes I put in there months ago had long sprouts, some were 2 feet long, also many potatoes were rotten and smelled terrible, good I got them in garbage cart before pickup this morning. At first I was going to try to save the towels and totes they were in, then said, toss it all, such freedom. Worked about 2 hours out there reorganizing, screws in cabinet doors, I took off when painting months ago, then labeled some, and put things away in them. the floor has been found again. Actually more like 4 hours. Then went into yard, finished taking off the filthy stuff off front by fence and steps. Put up a white metal panel to cover the area, much better. Staked up a huge shrub that was in the way, gives me more shade now as well as covers up area. Green plants are so healing. Took lots of dead stuff off it. Want to pound a t post in, just ran out of energy. I worked from 6am to 3:30pm with probably 5 breaks, 2 food breaks. It was only 90 degrees today normally I would whine about 90, but felt so much better than 97-100 which have had for past week or two and is predicted for next 10 days. I tell you, this is the weirdest weather, coldest winter now hottest summer. I still have to get out and water, put t post in attach ties. already did dishes, wiped counter, washed hung out towels from under dripping sink yesterday. Tomorrow is my favorite street art festival of the year in Bend. It is supposed to be 97 tomorrow. I will go when it opens at 11, but will heat up fast, will be good inspiration for my creative side. disappointed it will be so hot
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LR2014
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Posted: 11 July 2014 - 04:47 PM
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What am I doing today? Right now, I'm smiling about robins and cute, itty-bitty kittens.
I went out early this morning to check on things out in that rural area. Worked on cleaning out a water tank and on killing some small, invasive trees. While I was in that area, I visited a friend that I hadn't gone to see in a while. Enjoyed that. Didn't get back home until early afternoon. Have plans to attend a special event tonight.
I have about an hour or so before I need to start getting ready for an event tonight. I plan to spend some of that time on laundry and on dishes.
Happy Friday to all.
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Tillie
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Posted: 11 July 2014 - 01:14 PM
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Good morning :)
Reading your posts makes me happy. :D Been outside watering. Left all the cats inside. Had a Robin out there with me, following me around, even standing on the hose. Walking around in front of me as I moved around, taking her time, enjoying the company. :D She's been eating lots of ripe juicy berries off the mountain laurels & wild currant bushes. Did some pruning on the lilac hedge and some weed pulling and killed two nests of wasps. Will just be sorta hanging out around here the rest of the day, already did all the daily stuff.
T.G.I.F. hope you all have something fun planned. Lunch in the yard, run through the sprinkler, hang out with a wild bird, play with a baby cat, read a book, finger paint, make mud pies, splash in a puddle, etc. :D
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Roxie
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Posted: 11 July 2014 - 09:23 AM
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Mostly I just spent time on the computer and on the bed with Sloopy yesterday. Last night Sloopy made poopy for mommy. I was so proud. lol
Sloopy seems comfortable with me most of the time and seems to prefer to hand out by my lower half. She's eating at will. I just turned to look and her little ears are sticking out of the blanket. They ever so slightly curve inward like a Scottish Fold (I'm sure she's not). You can clearly see tabby markings although she's black. It's love, what can I say?
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LR2014
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Posted: 11 July 2014 - 12:01 AM
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Hi, everyone. My last two days have been rather busy (been away from home for a lot of that time). I've tried to read posts off and on as I had the chance, and I've been thinking about all of you!
Roxie: I'm so happy you were able to get the little kitten to eat. Thinking about the two of you together makes me smile.
diane: Your tossing out good stuff just for practice reminds me that our attitudes on these things can change. I remember how shocked I used to get when I would see things that seemed to be perfectly good items (furniture, in particular) tossed into the big garbage dumpsters here. Now I don't freak out so much when I see it. Being able to do that myself with a piece of furniture about a year ago (well, with the help and encouragement of someone else) was a big deal to me. The world did not come to an end. Yea for all the things you've gotten done the past few days. Sorry about the leak! (Bummer.)
Tillie: Later in the day, after having read your recent posts, I started thinking, "I'm glad I'm the hoarder and not the hoard-ee!" Many hugs.
Vi: I like trying to picture your new place. With so much of your clutter gone, it will look so nice! I may be in "vi withdrawal" until you get your computer hooked up at the new apartment.
Me: As for my goals for yesterday, I spent time on each area that I listed except the living room area. Got laundry put away. The maintenance men eventually did come yesterday and were able to find and fix the cause of the leak. (Yea.)
I didn't set any new goals for today because of some away-from-home activities that I had scheduled.
It's getting late, and I'm getting tired. I'll probably post more updates tomorrow. Hugs to all.
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diane
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 06:19 PM
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thanks tillie, good to hear from you again today, was worried about you Enough with this hot weather I am just watching opb, not sure I will get any more movement out of this body today. I did throw several things away that were good enough to donate, just wanted to practice tossing good things to see I will survive, and really want to get rid of stuff, so need the practice. Sure appreciate you ladies/women/youngens/friends, makes dealing with the heat a little easier checking in and seeing what you are thinking
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Tillie
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 05:44 PM
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Tillie
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 05:39 PM
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Thank you all :) (((hugs)))
Hi Roxie :) Now I have that old song "Hang On Sloopy" playing in my head. :D WAY TO GO! Great job weaning the little booger. Love the image of the two of you snuggling together in bed. (((hugs)))
Hi Diane :) WAY TO GO!!! :D You have done so much! Sorry about that leak but happy you found it. I have an idea... would it be possible for you to replace some of that copper pipe with that new fangled flex hose type stuff? That is what I have under my sinks, was easier to install and is working very well.
Hi Violet :) FANTASTIC!!!! job you both are doing!!! :D So happy for you moving into a fresh new home and making this fresh new begining. Keep up this GREAT! work and if later you remember something that was tossed, don't fret about it, you will be just fine. (((hugs)))
HI!!!! Everybody else :D
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diane
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 05:22 PM
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great you are both working your butts off Vio, so much to do, happy you have help today.
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Vi0l33t
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 03:51 PM
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I'm glad things are looking better Diane!
we're slowly filling our little moving room with things to take and at the same time emptying out the other rooms and chucking everything into the back yard for the dump or setting it aside for selling
found a couple of good things to keep in the garage but only a few, it seems i was correct in my assessment of 10% in there.
Mister has been working his hiney off all morning! He's been so good about saying no to things that I would have said yes to. I've only pulled a few things out of boxes and have been chucking the rest
I'll check in later with hopefully more done. :)
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diane
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 03:05 PM
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Thanks Vi. Ok, so paint dried, brought gate up on deck and cut some off bottom then painted that part, went into get a different paint brush, while in there, decided to check under sink in bathroom I do not use. It had a leak that I fixed a few months ago. Since LR and Tillie have bathroom problems, thought it was a good idea, when I found all the towels soaked, I was a bit frustrated. I was in such a good mood thinking gate would be on soon, then had to stick my head under a leaky sink. Well it is a very old iron sink that rusted out around faucets, allowing water to leak, so will have to be replaced. pipes are copper, only have worked with plastic, so not sure if I can do it by myself. That bathroom does not have a shut off valve, so dried pipes and floor and wrapped towels around, turned faucets off tight, they were dripping adding to problem. Too hot to go buy a new sink now, maybe tomorrow early. Good news---------no evidence of mice, last year there was plenty of gross evidence. Then went back out in the heat and put gate back on, it is much harder to balance that huge gate on my foot while lining up holes, all done now, I am very happy with the way it turned out, no more dust and spider webs, no more flakey gross paint. Life is full of ups and downs.
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Vi0l33t
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 01:33 PM
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Diane, you are amazing! I'm so very inspired by your resolve. Keep up the good work! LR, thanks for being around the chat on a daily basis. You RJ and Karl have helped keep me motivated even when all i want to do is sleep and forget.
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Vi0l33t
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 01:25 PM
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time to update those of you who aren't on the chat
We have a new apartment, but it's smaller than i thought it would be. it's okay. The Kitchen is built like a shoebox, but there is lots of room for all of our kitchen things and plenty of cupboard space for food, since there's no pantry there's a nice little dining room where we'll be putting our desks and a small living room with a brand new fireplace. there won't be room for much more than a loveseat and our fishtank. maybe a couple of chairs. the floors are all hardwood, except for the bedrooms which have a nice new shag carpet. all the light fixtures are nice too. the paint is an awful taupe color but I've been told we can paint. there's hardly any closet space but there are these neat wire shelves all over the closets with plenty of room for hanging clothes. I feel like freaking out but honestly this is for my own damn good. I've decided to stick with my plan of only taking the personal things I can fit in a box, one box only. That doesn't include my clothes and computer (and accessories.) speaking of clothes, I was going to take a few boxes, but I'll be paring those down to one box as well. I do get to take my washer and dryer with me though. Back to packing i guess. I'll be logged on the chat room all day today, because I feel like I might start panicking again at some point over getting rid of things. Thank you all for listening. I hope to see some of you throughout the day.
TIllie, you are a wonderful woman and I hope Steven gets his act together real soon. I think diane suggested a surprise party involving his friends, I totally agree with that. Hugs Tillie, there are people here who adore you even if he's too far gone to.
Roxie, good luck with your kitten. If you found it wandering around, it's likely lost it's mother. Even feral cats tend to be fairly good mothers. The fact that it lets you hold it is really good news though and if you get it to eat it will love you forever.
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diane
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 12:41 PM
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Roxie, I have a great picture of you and sloopy snuggling, warms my heart, knowing kitty is bringing you joy.
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diane
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 12:39 PM
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Tillie, thanks for filling us in how your life is going. Terrible situation getting worse. could you say you are calling repairman if bathroom and pipes are not fixed by the end of this weekend? As for the junk he is bringing home and dumping, so sorry you have to deal with this, summer is the worst time for addicted acquirers, so much available nothing I can do. I still think having a surprise party for him, inviting his friends over for bar b q or snacks, would make him see things differently. As for me, I have been super productive. Did wash floors in kitchen and dining room. There was a carpet remnant on dining room floor, I had just vacuumed it for over a year, when I removed it, there was like a sand dune under it, throwing rug away. swept up sand dune, then vacuumed then washed. did dishes this morning. The front steps look so great made me see how bad the gate was, so unscrewed it, took into yard, washed it last night. Got up at 5am today, got two coats of paint on gate. Cleaned and painted the posts that the gate attaches too. Once paint dries, will cut an inch off bottom. It is a huge gate, over 50 inches wide, i think 56 inches, so the weight of it makes it hang crooked, was going to move latches, but easier to just cut more off bottom for now, got saw out. Am taking some junk off area on outside of deck by gate post, have to get ladder to get out, behind tall bush. It is filthy, amazing how much better my dirt vision is today. sanitized sink in bathroom and kitchen and floor around toilet. Cleaned toilet inside and out. Yesterday called friend and had pleasant chat. I am doing better with taking breaks, work is more balanced, not so obsessive, but still not so sure of fun. Think today will do something creative with sewing. Yesterday in chat I finally put insulation around window airconditioner to help keep it cooler. Wanted to do it days ago, but without support some things are very difficult for me, had to cut things to size, you know the decision making dilemna. As I have been doing more cleaning inside, I am seeing things I don't like the way they look, same on deck. I am asking, what are priorities? Definitely getting air conditioning surrounds tight and sanitizing. Cooked several turkey burgers last night so have some protein ready to eat. Did not eat vegies yesterday so will eat 2 times today. Almost time for a shower but want to fix gate and reattach it. I feel too vulnerable with gate not in place, so priority to do now. And before it gets too hot. 97 yesterday, will be hotter next 10 days even in 100's, this is rare to have weeks of hot weather in a row like this year, so Tillie I can relate to your heat and depression. The difference is that I can do something about my filth and junk, where you have to live in another persons hoard. Thank goodness for taking care of your nieghbors critters. back to the gate
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Roxie
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 12:36 PM
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((((Tillie))) oh, I am so sorry you are feeling so stuck in this terrible situation. I have no ideas for you other than to consult Cory and the available books. I fear that any confrontation would endanger you or your animals. I think you know how far you can safely go. Just know I'm praying for you and hope the best for you and yours.
Tipping my coffee cup and enjoying the first of the day. Last night I brought the kitten into bed to watch tv with me. It finally settled in with me. I got some canned cat food, mixed a little with water, and put it in a low bowl. Then I put some on my finger and shoved it in the kitten's mouth. A couple of those experiences and the kitten went to town on the rest of the food Yeah! We safely slept all night together. S/he is so tiny and just the cutest thing in the world. I think I'll name it Sloopy.
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Tillie
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Posted: 10 July 2014 - 10:51 AM
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Good morning :)
The extreme heat has caused clouds to build up with scattered lightning storms. We haven't gotten any rain here, just humidity. Trying to stay positive and not let the depression win. My hoarder just will not do anything around here and the situation has gone from terrible to even worse. Some very important maintenance jobs have to be done but he refuses to take things seriously. A leak in the plumbing access in his closet is breeding black flies and gnats and now the pissants have come in through there too. And there is the condition of the bathroom. Last time it rained there was a leak in the bathroom ceiling. And the regular stuff has not been getting done. He has garbage scattered all over inside and out. No yard upkeep has been done. The clutter heaped up on the exterior walls has some creatures burrowing under the foundation plus the weight of the stuff leaning there is very bad for the walls. He keeps bringing home more and more crap from the thrift store and dumpster diving. Then he just abandons all this crap where ever he drops it. It is an obstacle course trying to get around out there. Every day I keep my "no clutter zones" tidy but the rest of the house is falling down around me. People have come by to visit with me and are mortified by what they see but have no suggestions as to how to get him to open his eyes to the situation and do something about it. He never invites any of his friends over. They have no idea what it's like here and he turns down any invitations to their homes because he would rather just sit all alone in all this squalor. When I try to talk with him about anything he gets mean & nasty and ends up blaming me for the condition of the house, like I did something to wreck it. Depressed? Yes, I am very depressed. It is good for me to get this said & out in the open. Thank you all for being here to hear and understand. Thank you Cory for giving me this one place in the world where I can safely and honestly tell my story.
(((HUGS)))
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Tillie
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Posted: 09 July 2014 - 10:28 PM
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Hi Roxie :)
I have had some orphan baby kittens about that age that since they were still used to nursing would not eat or drink for me. What I did was using my finger to scoop up some food and put it in their mouth. If using dry cat food pour some hot water over it till it softens up & becomes mushy. An eye dropper or medicine dropper works to get some water, milk or kitten formula into them. Another trick I do is to put wet food on their feet and let them suck it off. Good luck with your new baby and if all else fails a veterinarian can help you. (((hugs)))
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Roxie
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Posted: 09 July 2014 - 06:09 PM
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What our bodies could handle as kids seems to be different from what they can handle as mature adults, right? So much I could do when young and athletic!
I slept all day, and don't even remember if I got up this morning to begin with. I guess I needed the sleep.
There was a 4-5 week old black kitten under my car when I went to the doctor Tuesday. It took a while but I got it into the house and in a safe place. It still will not eat or drink but it has let me hold it. I suspect it belongs to one of the feral outside cats. I'll have to figure out what to do. It's at a healthy weight and appearance at the moment.
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diane
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Posted: 09 July 2014 - 12:21 PM
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Hello my friends. Put my one pair of jeans that fit since lost weight. Well they fit like a tight girdle, instantly became critical of myself, you fat slob, eating all that high fat food, you gained weight. Had to stop myself several times and focus on changes I have made this week, started eating vegetables again, bought lots of good food. Yesterday went shopping and bought lots of frozen food, freezer section of frig is stuffed, would like a small freezer so could have more stuff on hand so have to shop less. It was 96 when I got home, hot in here. Turned on ac, but did not notice it was on low, so did not cool down enough. Pretty miserable in heat, so was a lost day basically. Did not cool down much last night so turned ac on this morning. This morning did a few things outside, watered plants out in middle of driveway, outside fenced yard so forget about it but with all the heat thought I better, then was going to wash car, but did not. Vacuumed, emptied the canister, washed dishes and a few other things. No energy yesterday or today. Tillie, loved memories you wrote, with day after day of hot weather, not much fun, was thinking of being in heat as a kid and not being this miserable, then read your writing, fun. Driving home yesterday saw kids writing their bikes in 96 degree weather, and thought I should suck it up and get out and enjoy heat, well not happening. Two days ago washed bathroom floor and planned to kitchen floor, well today vacuumed big stuff and plan to wash floor. May have to join chat to get it done.
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Tillie
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Posted: 09 July 2014 - 11:38 AM
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Good morning :)
Been out watering my flowers this morning. Neighbors had to go out of town so I am watching their house & baby sitting their critters. Going to do some stuff in the kitchen, cook/clean. Lots of tiny green Finches enjoying my flowers today. :D They eat the tiny flower seeds.
Whatever happened to those endless summer days I always enjoyed when I was a kid? The days where you played & rode bikes & explored & went swimming & rode horses & read books for hours & hours and it seemed that time stopped. :)
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LR2014
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Posted: 09 July 2014 - 09:14 AM
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Good morning, everybody.
Karl, as I was going through a box this morning, I found an item that is likely to be helpful to me as I try to make better use of vertical space. Yea!
As minimum goals for today, I plan to spend fifteen minutes on cleaning/decluttering/organizing each of the following areas: my kitchen countertops, my dining area, a certain section of my living room, and my laundry area. I am expecting maintenance people to be in and out today, so my plans may shift depending on how that goes.
Hugs to everyone.
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LR2014
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 07:17 PM
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Quick evening update: I haven't seen the maintenance man yet, which probably either means there were other maintenance issues higher on the "severity" list than mine today or perhaps there has been miscommunication. Since it is now after office hours, it is unlikely that he will show up tonight (but it's still possible). If I don't show up at the scheduled chat tonight as originally planned, it's probably either because the maintenance guy showed up (very late) or else it's because I was tired and tried to hit the sack early (more than likely it's the latter). Have a good evening, everybody!
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Tillie
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 06:31 PM
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Hi LR2014 :)
Thank you. :) Sorry about the unplanned water related interruption. WAY TO GO! Getting stuff accomplished! :D
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Tillie
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 06:21 PM
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Hey Barb, I love the scent of orange too. :D Here is a suggestion.... use the vinegar to clean and then get the orange scent from a dab of essential oil on a cotton ball placed near the sink. Orange essential oil is good for lifting moods. essential oil
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LR2014
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 03:55 PM
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Barb: Looking forward to hearing updates on how your projects are going. I hope you end up being very pleased and happy with the results!
Tillie: I'm sorry that Sunday night didn't end up being restful for you! I hope your foot is better soon!
diane: I wish I could comment on your whole post. It sounds like you not only are making a lot of progress with your "stuff," but it also sounds like you really are moving toward balance. That's great!
Roxie: Hugs back to you!
To all those who have been on the chats lately, thank you so much for your help and support.
Me: My plans for today changed after discovering yet another water-related maintenance issue late yesterday afternoon. I am waiting as I write this for a maintenance guy to show up. A short while ago, I got on chat for a little while and did some cleaning rounds. Got some counters in the kitchen wiped down, some floor cleaned (including getting some things up off the floor and getting those items put in a better place), and a few other things. Got laundry dried this morning at the Laundromat; still need to put that away. Planning to do a few more clean-up tasks before tonight's chat.
Happy Tuesday, everyone.
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Barb
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 01:45 PM
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A followup note from Sunday night chat: I tried the Bar Keepers Friend spray cleaner today on my kitchen sink. It is not as effective as the cleanser in a can. The powder really works on stubborn stains better without scratching. And it seems less expensive. The one advantage to the spray is that the the bottle will work upside down so you can use it to reach under the toilet bowl rim. I do like to spray my kitchen sink with Orange Plus after the dishes are done to keep it clean and sparkling, but vinegar water will work just as well. I just like the smell of Orange Plus better. Happy cleaning, everyone!
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Tillie
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 11:00 AM
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Good Morning :)
Hi Roxie :) Have you gotten all your ducks in a row as to the doctor appointments & med refills? I noticed that here all the cats get together and send one cat to holler & pester me while the others sit by watching, staring at me. lol
Hi Diane :) WAY TO GO!!!! on everything you have done! :D Happy to hear about your fixing up your hair too. :) Hope you got out early today to the store & stocked up on yummy food. I hate paperwork. The only way I know to deal with it is to do any right away, as soon as I get it so I don't have to waste time fretting about having to do it.
Hi Barb :) Sounds like a whole lotta fun picking out the new fixtures. Keep the goal/vision fresh in your mind and I know you will get these things done so the visions can become reality! :) Happy you finally got some sleep. :D
Nothing that I have to do today other than the usual daily stuff. Been reading the interwebs & drinking tea. Nice to be able to just hang out here with the cats. :) Already did a check for ants this morning. So far so good. Maybe today I will sew? Maybe read some? Foot is still swollen & bruised so I will be keeping off it as much as possible. :D
Stay cool and stay positive. :D (((hugs)))
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Barb
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Posted: 08 July 2014 - 09:41 AM
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The pets and I slept well last night. No fireworks. Things have settled down. Yesterday I met with the office manager at the plumber's and outlined what I needed to have done. The plumber will be out next Monday to inspect things and give me an estimate for the work. I went to the plumbing supply house and picked out my fixtures. They have a really nice showroom with items plumbed in so you can try them out. I am getting them at the contractors price since they do business regularly with my plumber. I checked Home Depot and Lowe's prices and I am getting a good deal. I am very anxious knowing I have to push hard every day to get areas clean by Monday where the plumber will need access. But you all know what a procrastinator I am and I need this pressure to keep going. If I get stuck, I'll check in this afternoon to see if there is a work session. i won't be on the chat tonight. I'm helping with Bible school family night.
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Barb
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Posted: 07 July 2014 - 07:26 PM
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Hooray, Diane, on tackling the paperwork. I know how anxiety producing that is, especially when you uncover something that should have been dealt with before and wasn't. I tend to just throw mine in a shoebox to deal with later. Out of sight, out of mind. Big cyberhug. (((Hug)))
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diane
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Posted: 07 July 2014 - 04:58 PM
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paperwork------------since others have been doing theirs, thought I would give it a try. I worked on it about 10 minutes and became so anxious, had to get up and walk around, then set timer for 20 minutes and told myself, just do what you can. The anxiety was really strong, so took a look at it. Seems decision making was at the root of the anxiety. I tossed things I could. Addressed two envelopes of things I need to mail. After 20 minutes, I was ready for a break. Then tackled the pile of newspapers that I was going to read later, told myself to just toss all of them, later never comes. I only buy a paper once or twice a week, and don't read them, good I stopped having them delivered, that was really smart, since there were piles of papers. Found my car license renewal in papers, and another bill, could have stayed buried and over due. I am done with paperwork for today, 45 minutes was my maximum, only a little left but already burned out. Learning to stop and take a break.
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diane
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Posted: 07 July 2014 - 03:24 PM
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Good to hear about your toe , was wondering if you were able to sleep and how you were doing today tillie. Darn cats, I was wondering why you did laundry and hung out with foot problem, now I know. I got up early and immediately took coffee out to deck and folded up all that screening stuff, put things not using today in garden shed. Put indoor/outdoor carpeting down now that I can see deck again, still more to do there. Watered raspberries and a few things. SHOWERED, WASHED HAIR, TRIMMED HAIR, CURLED HAIR. Washed sheets and clothes and hung on line. Had a smoothie (last of smoothie supplies) and relaxed. Decided to go to store tomorrow since it is 1pm and getting hot already. Washed dishes, cleaned sinks, washed outside of refrig and microwave. I am relaxing, I see that I need to do maintenance then relax, not work to the point of exhaustion. Felt like I wasted yesterday doing all the screening on deck but today realize it is really helping keep it cooler in here. Still have not had to turn ac on, will soon though. Went to bedroom to tackle pile at the end of bed that sprouted up again. Now resting and realize I am still tired from all that I did already today. I did a mix of things to create more balance in my day today, after chat last night. Really feels good to be clean with clean clothes knowing I will sleep on clean sheets tonight, and that I can go to store early tomorrow with out having to shower etc first. After my break, will check out chat room and see if I can get a second wind and find some donations.
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Tillie
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Posted: 07 July 2014 - 02:30 PM
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HI :)
Little past noon here and I am resting with my foot up. Got the watering done, cat stuff done, two loads of laundry hung out to dry. Kept hurting my foot in my sleep, mainly because the cats kept stealing my pillow that I was using to keep it elevated. Got up at one time to use the bathroom and when I returned found that a cat had vomited right in the middle of the bed. Cleaned that up, put down a towel over the wet spot & went back to sleep. This is why I had two loads of laundry to do today. Noticed a long trail of piss ants running along the baseboard beside my washing machine in the bathroom. AAAAAARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!!!! I think I have won that battle but the war still rages on. After I have rested a bit I will shower & shampoo. Bound the toes this morning but being up on my feet got the swelling up again & I had to unbind them. Will keep working on this. Going to find something to eat now.
TTYL :D
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