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Posted: 09 September 2014 - 06:13 PM
Thank you so much Diane for your concern. It is genuinely appreciated. I am trying to understand and you are giving me insight.
Posted: 09 September 2014 - 12:09 PM
Grace my heart goes out to you.

A hoarder's thinking processes are different. Your husband is compelled to hold on to those things that you see as trash. Somehow those things feel safer than a relationship with a human being.

I'm not sure how to advise you in getting past the hurt. As a recovering hoarder I can't rationally explain the need for stuff at the expense of people's feelings.

Maybe come over to the Daily Chat and start a thread about feeling discarded. Some other posters may have some ideas.
Posted: 08 September 2014 - 07:30 PM
Why am I the only thing in my husband's discard pile? He can't discard a toilet paper tube or candy wrapper but he can easily discard me. I don't understand how he can save everything that is just material (not living) and discard a human being..(Me)It hurts!
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