im sorry your going through that..its hard forcing someone to get help when they dont want it..i know my fiancee gets frustrated at the clutter in my home but i make an effort to clean up what i can because i love him more than the clutter .. but thats only my opinion. no one should have to suffer for my problem.. you could always contact 1800 -hoarders and see what they can offer or suggestions on what you can do .. sorry im not much help but im here for you morally..good luck

I have lived with hoarders almost twenty years.Last few years are just unbearable. The city placed red tag on my property so I can't even sell my house. My insurance agent told me that my house was uninsurable. I beg my husband to seek help but he refuses. I have done everything I could. I am totally lost. You all saw tv episode, but my home is ten times worth than the show.