The short answer, suzie, is that there is not much anybody can do until the other person decides they want to change.
Until then, you might ask whether there is anything you can do (which you have probably done already) and just offer that you would love to help whenever they like.
suzie
Posted: 29 February 2012 - 09:36 AM
My best friend [who i love very much] is a hoarder i want to help him and don't know how!Any advice?