Casey, I just realized no one responded to your post, and I'm sorry about that. Check the "national resources" link above for help in your area.
I don't know about FMLA as an opportunity to take time off to deal with the hoard. As you've now realized, no amount of time is going to let you get on top of the situation by yourself.
Counseling with regard to hoarding is an excellent choice if you have access to anyone with expertise in that area. I think this is especially important if you are "shopper" type hoarder. The online support group here is one good idea. Then getting professionals in to assist in the cleanup is another if you can afford it. Around me it costs about $1000 per day and does not include deep cleaning. It may be different where you are.
After years of putting it off, I finally emailed someone in my area and got the work done. There is still a lot of follow up afterward, like deep cleaning, learning new behaviors, and holding myself accountable. Therapists and/or online support boards and groups can help sustain forward movement away from hoarding.
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