Hi Mary and welcome. I know the feeling. It is difficult and discouraging. I was able to develop a good support system here. If you go to the Daily Chat message board, then choose What are you doing today, you'll see that we have an active, supportive group and we would love to have you join in.
I also find it really helpful to read old posts from others, looking for inspiration and something to quell the isolation that comes from hoarding.