I feel so badly for you. My husband won't listen to me either. I enter the home and want to run away. When I tell him he says I am exaggerating.

Luckily our kids are grown and its my 2nd marriage and his 3rd!!! I shoulda known.

I wish I had good advice to give other than leave him, but I am struggling myself.

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Living with a hoarder is rough enough, but a narcissistic hoarder leaves me with no voice on anything. I have no identity as he destroys my home and my life. He has poisoned my children with his lies. I just don't know what to do.