Hello I agree with Tiklie. Try to find a patch to clean and clear. Don't get bogged down where to start. Pick a place and start. Bathroom sink and vanity maybe? Or maybe start by changing your sheets and making your bed? There's a lot to be said for having your bed made! And maybe then look at your sheet sets and get rid of all but two per bed? That might be a nice project. You will feel better--just try to do something. And keep us posted! We will cheer you on and help you through tough times!!!

thank you tillie.

Hello Mina :)

Two good books to help you are
"Buried In Treasures" and "Digging Out".

Also, if you do whatever you can do to improve even the smallest areas
seeing you accomplish this may inspire him to want to make some changes too.

Best of luck

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