Hello I am looking to find help with out making my mother hate me. She has just inherited my uncle stuff when he passed. Plus She has 5 houses so packed that she can't even walk threw the house. She won't even let me or my kids in the door. She also has storage sheds full. She has nice stuff and junk stuff she just won't part with anything. She will say I am going to have a auction and if she just had some help she could do it. When I offer to help its we move things from one spot to a new one. It's so bad that she thinks the neighbors are stealing her stuff outside and that they might steal stuff in the houses if she leaves to go to the store. She moves the stuff around all day and is killing her self with it all. She will not go and get help with this. It's so bad that she doesn't even have a bed that she can sleep on. She thinks that dust mites are in her clothes and changes clothes 5 or 6 times a day shakes them out .I am very lost with what to do. I am a single mother of 3 kids work full time and do not understand how to help her. She ask my kids to help her and she will pay them that's how they get to spend time with her. Not far to my kids not to even have a normal grandma. Please help!!