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WE CAN HELP-THE BILL CUNNINGHAM SHOW
Posted: 04 November 2011 - 02:07 PM
HI MY NAME IS NAZIA I AM AN ASSOCIATE PRODUCER WITH THE BILL CUNNINGHAM SHOW IN NYC AND I WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO YOU. WE ARE HAVING A SHOW ABOUT CHILDREN/FAMILY MEMBERS OF HOARDERS AND WE ARE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEIR HOARDING FAMILY MEMBER NEEDS HELP. IF YOU CAN PLEASE CALL ME MY NUMBER IS BELOW AS WELL AS MY EMAIL ADDRESS.

WE ARE LOOKING TO HELP AND WILL OFFER AFTER CARE. WE ALSO KNOW THAT BEING EMBARESSED IS SOMETHING THAT MOST PEOPLE FACE BEING A HOARDER IF YOU ARE WE CAN ALWAYS PROTECT YOUR APPEARANCE AND NAME.

WE PAY FOR TRAVEL, PLANE TICKETS, MEALS, HOTEL ROOMS, & HAVE A GREAT HAIR AND MAKEUP TEAM THAT WILL WORK WITH YOU.

CALL: 212 419 7447
EMAIL: NDEFRANK@BILLCUNNINGHAMSHOW.COM
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WE CAN HELP-THE BILL CUNNINGHAM SHOW
Posted: 04 November 2011 - 02:06 PM
HI MY NAME IS NAZIA I AM AN ASSOCIATE PRODUCER WITH THE BILL CUNNINGHAM SHOW IN NYC AND I WOULD LOVE TO TALK TO YOU. WE ARE HAVING A SHOW ABOUT CHILDREN/FAMILY MEMBERS OF HOARDERS AND WE ARE LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO KNOW THEIR HOARDING FAMILY MEMBER NEEDS HELP. IF YOU CAN PLEASE CALL ME MY NUMBER IS BELOW AS WELL AS MY EMAIL ADDRESS.

WE ARE LOOKING TO HELP AND WILL OFFER AFTER CARE. WE ALSO KNOW THAT BEING EMBARESSED IS SOMETHING THAT MOST PEOPLE FACE BEING A HOARDER IF YOU ARE WE CAN ALWAYS PROTECT YOUR APPEARANCE AND NAME.

WE PAY FOR TRAVEL, PLANE TICKETS, MEALS, HOTEL ROOMS, & HAVE A GREAT HAIR AND MAKEUP TEAM THAT WILL WORK WITH YOU.

CALL: 212 419 7447
EMAIL: NDEFRANK@BILLCUNNINGHAMSHOW.COM
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Linda S.
Posted: 25 May 2011 - 03:14 PM
I am also in this situation with my boyfriend. I have not found a way to approach the issue with him where we can just talk about it. I have tried to watch the TV programs about the disorder and he just becomes angry and defensive. I wish I knew how to open the discussion about the problem. Sometimes I feel as if he thinks I hate him and I can't seem to make him understand that I am having a problem with his behavior not him. I want to break up with his hoarding but that is too much of who and what he is at this point I guess.
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Cory Chalmers
Posted: 13 May 2011 - 07:29 AM
You need to understand a couple things. First, this is a true disorder that he needs to get therapy for. The hoarding disorder is complex and usually involves other underlying issues. He needs to discover what those issues are and work on them but it will take time. Second, he may never truly be ready to deal with this. You need to have a serious talk with him about it, expressing your concerns in a loving way and let him know you can't marry him and live this way for the rest of your life. This disorder will only get worse with time. You know him well enough to know how he responds to things, so pick the most appropriate way and discuss it. Let him know things like, if you are going to have children, they can't grow up in a house like this or you want to invite friends over and it is too embarassing. Ask him if he will help deal with this now, so you BOTH can be happy in your relationship and your home. Finally, join our Sunday evening online hoarding support group meetings and you can talk with us, including some hoarders, on how to best approach him. They sometimes have some great ideas. The meeting is Sunday night on this site, just click on the red tab on the right side of this page.
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L M M
Posted: 13 May 2011 - 07:14 AM
I want to begin to address my fiances hoarding in our new home.
How do I begin to introduce him to my disatisfaction with our home and awaken him from defensive denial to proper care and concern for his issues in a manner that is truly loving?
I'm exhausted trying to keep up with the mess so believe it is truly time to address the core issue. My concern is what if he isn't ready?
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