Glad you posted.
Tillie. I could not have said that any better.
Not trying to make a suggestion with my post.
But let you peek into my world for a glimpse of another hoarder.
I collect memories.
I had a TBI when I was young.
From then on I was disconnected from past.
Not amnesia, but I forget so much I can only sense my past except for the big traumatic things.
However when I pick up an old brush. I remember whom it belonged to. Someone I loved . I hold it and look at it and become flooded with the all the preciousness.
Even if the brush is dirty and unusable . It's like a portal to my past. How I wish this wasn't so.
A day or so later all that memories are out of sight out of mind until I touch it again.
I have only 1 object from my dad. I would be extremely defensive if someone tried to eliminate it from me. .
OK though . A whole house worth. I get it . It's a hoard. I have one. Myself, I followed Tillie's advice and I agree with what's she's saying to you're situation.